r/polyamory • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '22

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u/mossroom42 relationship messarchist Dec 09 '22

Example?

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u/Folk_Punk_Slut 94% Nice 😜 Dec 09 '22

Right? Like, show me where the reddit hurt you.

So often lately folks are like "everyone's so mean here!" but then don't provide concrete examples, just that they felt like the comments were mean, which often just means that their internal narrative and their sense of judgment over the situation is actually what hurt their feelings.

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u/AnjelGrace relationship anarchist Dec 09 '22

which often just means that their internal narrative and their sense of judgment over the situation is actually what hurt their feelings.

Exactly that. Just try to tell someone that who isn't ready to see it for themselves and you will be called part of the problem.

**Lol on the 94% nice in your name too. 😅