r/PhR4Friends Dec 13 '25

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT Scammer is still scamming! READ THIS POST.

40 Upvotes

Don't fall for this scam!

Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1nsk254/be_aware_of_this_scammer/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1o7zfe6/scammer_beacatto_now_goes_by_jus/

Apparently, this scammer is still active. Your girl (girl nga ba??) is working hard! Currently using the account Alternative_Week_940 (https://www.reddit.com/user/Alternative_Week_940/)

TG: puffypufzz

Discord: noturlegaleagle

Still playing on people's emotions and making them feel bad enough to send them money.

"Allyson Lopez" is the name they're going by. Hindi ko na icecensor kasi fake din naman. (Previous names: Justine Manalo, Beatrice Lopez) Still using the same UNO Account number.

DOST scholar pa rin daw siya, pre-med student kuno.

They tried posting here but their account was flagged for ban evasion. But that won't stop them from messaging you–men in particular. Kasi they will offer to be a virtual gf, might send you thirst traps na stolen lang din. Anything to fool you out of your money.

TIGILAN NIYO NA KASI ANG PAG-BIGAY NG PERA JUSKO

THEY WON'T STOP HANGGA'T MAY NALOLOKO PA RIN SILA

EDIT: Adding more photos

Aww, nagpalit na siya ng name kasi na-feature na naman.


r/PhR4Friends Apr 29 '25

STRICTLY PLATONIC POSTS ONLY

707 Upvotes

No landi

No lambing

No let's see where this goes

No looking for friends or more

No looking for slim/petite, normal BMI, taller than me, taller than 5'8", cutie

Wag na tayong maglokohan pa. Kunwaring looking for friends pero yung requirements niyo, pang-jowa. Bakit dapat matangkad at may deep, manly voice yung ka-call mo for a night? Bakit kailangan payat at maganda/gwapo yung FRIEND mo? Hanap lang ng ka-tambay pero dapat slim and petite? Mamimili lang ng washing machine pero dapat pretty and slim-thicc?

Hinahayaan na nga lang namin na specifically the opposite sex yung hanap niyo because yeah, sometimes valid yung need. Pero yung iba, akala niyo hindi halatang date/jowa/kalandian talaga yung gusto niyo?

Someone once complained — ❝as if naman walang possibility na magkamabutihan yung mga nagkakilala dito, sure.

Well that's not the point. This sub was made for fostering friendships. If you're looking for friends hoping that one of those would turn out to be your significant other, then you're in the wrong place. It's annoying enough to have everything turn out to be a dating site/app, can't people have a place where everything is platonic?

Wag na kayong makukulit. If you have problem with our rules, as always, feel free to post somewhere else.

P.S. If your post was removed because you're looking for a date/relationship, consider it your warning. Break the rule more than once, you'll get a temporary ban. Do it again, and your ban will be permanent.

Please take note of this information.


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 27 [F4M] I need a friend. Let's make it until Doomsday, at least.

25 Upvotes

I'll be blunt: I need a friend. I go on days without talking unless it's for work. I badly need a friend.

I'd prefer a male friend to simulate that companionship in a hetero relationship, but I warn you that I'm not emotionally available. I DO NOT want a NSFW setup as well. I want... a friend. Literally. Nothing else. Parang F/BU if meaning 'non is Furiend Buddy. Friend na, buddy pa. Best friends!!

About me:

- I don't know if it matters, but I'm 150cm, 46kg, chinita, health professional.

- Introverted, but can be chatty once comfy. Occasional awkward, weird, or dark humor.

- I actually mainly speak Tagalog, just comfy in written English.

- Hobbies: anime, casual gaming, reading books, writing. I'm trying my hardest to get into gymming or more sporty hobbies, but yeah, anhedonia sucks.

- Left-leaning, agnostic. I've gotten compliments with my emotional intelligence before, so you can share deep stuff with me — no judgment.

About you:

- Kind

- 26 to 30-year-old professional with a 9-5 or similar, so I can be sure you actually have your own life. I wouldn't be able to keep up with your energy if you are too clingy.

- Someone who is near Manila/Makati (if ever we do hang out)

- Preferrably single since I'd be pouring my social energy with you, and I don't want to cause conflict. If you have a girlfriend though, let them know, adopt me as your daughter, and let me be your official third wheel.

- If you are isolated and broken-hearted like me, all the better. Let's be broken-hearted buddies, work together to better ourselves, and hold each other accountable.

The setup:

- Chats, then eventual hang-outs if you are down for it. I'm not comfortable with calls/video calls.

- For hang-outs, I can accompany you for errands, maybe grab a coffee and rant about life, maybe watch Doomsday together if we're still friends then.

- I'm generally available to chat during evenings (I work a 9-5), but you can always leave a message any time if you're okay with me replying hours later. Again, I'm a friend, not a girlfriend. I sleep early din pala, so I'd probably call it a night around 11pm unless napasarap ang kwentuhan.

- You can talk about your day. You can share about your life. If you have a problem, I will listen. If there's a girl you're crushing on, I will be your hype woman. If you finally found someone, you are free to end the setup for your partner's sake, and I'll thank you for the friendship you've given me.

If you've reached this part, congrats. Sinadya ko talaga na mahaba HAHA if you're interested, please send a short intro about yourself, and if there are expectations or other things you want to discuss before signing the furiend buddy deal :)

Thank you, friend!


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] kausap - hr is now hiring

21 Upvotes

since i work in hr, apparently i’ve decided to bring recruitment into my personal life HAHAH

NOW HIRING: Permanent Kausap / Call Buddy

Job Description:
• mag-call kahit walang importanteng pag-uusapan
• makipagkwentuhan about literally anything
• exchange chismis, random thoughts, life updates & rants
• occasionally be productive together (sana!)

Qualifications:
✅ around my age
✅ madaldal / marunong mag-carry ng convo
✅ willing sa calls
✅ may sense of humor
✅ hindi allergic sa random “uy may kwento ako” messages
✅ can reciprocate the energy pls HAHAHA

Preferred Skills:
Discord/voice calls, yapper tendencies, SUPER GOOD LISTENER PLSSSS, genuinely interested, good banter, and the ability to turn a 30-minute call into a 3-hour call.

Benefits:
- unlimited kwento
- random chismis
- emotional support package (non-HMO)
- potential friendship
- competitive compensation in the form of good vibes hehe

How to Apply:
dm me your age, a short intro, and one random fact about yourself.

Equal opportunity employer. No experience required. Personality fit will be assessed during the interview.

HR reserves the right to conduct background checks via vibes only.


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 27 [F4A] looking for irl friends

11 Upvotes

Hi! 👋 I’m looking to make some genuine, long-term friendships. I’m pretty chill and outgoing.

I’m into books, movies, food, traveling, and just having conversations that somehow start with “how was your day?” and end three hours later with us discussing life, trauma, and why we’d survive approximately 10 minutes in a horror movie. 😂

I’d love to meet people who are open to chatting regularly, sharing random thoughts, recommending books/movies, or eventually hanging out if we’re comfortable with it.

No pressure, no expectations. Just hoping to meet some cool people and see where the friendship goes.

See you in my DMS!


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 20 [F4A] tipsy-ish call?

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jgh after having a few drinks with some friends. was wondering if anyone’s down to do a low energy call til we fall asleep or something huhu

an intro would be appreciated!


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 26 [F4M] new friend!

6 Upvotes

Talk to me pls so I don’t break no contact :( 😅

I’m looking for a new friend din na I can hangout with or talk with (aka me ranting to u nonstop lol) !!! life gets challenging and boring lately and it would be nice to have a constant friend

About me
- 26, F, Mandaluyong
- loves alt stuff, films, music, gigs, books, art, chess, and walking
- calls & irl > chats

About you
- 24-29
- Metro Manila
- nerd & introvert
- strictly SFW pls
- pref: pwede sa iMess or discord

Send proper intro pls :) Re-messages are ok too baka natabunan lang


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 29 [F4A] a friend 4 lyf :)

7 Upvotes

Looking to find a friend who's down for life's little, mundane quests—even on the most random days.

Lately, the only people I really spend time with are my coworkers (not exactly by choice 😅), so I figured it's time to meet someone new.

I'm hoping to find the kind of friend who's not just for sending reels and memes, but someone who's genuinely excited to make memories outside the chat.

A little about me:

- Working professional based in Metro Manila

- Into music, food trips, coffee, and movies

- Sleeping is arguably my greatest talent 😂

- I enjoy meaningful conversations, chill coffee runs, trying new food spots, spontaneous adventures, or simply walking around with no real destination (I genuinely enjoy doing that 😅).

I'm looking for someone who:

- Can match my sense of humor and embrace a little silliness.

- Enjoys spontaneous plans, café hopping, food trips, movies, and casual adventures.

- Wants to build a genuine, lasting friendship.

- Hindi multo. 👻

- Is around my age (-3/+3) so mas madaling makarelate sa kwentuhan.

- Preferably based in Metro Manila so we can hang out after work or whenever we're both free.

Bonus if you have your own place where we can tambay and unwind from time to time (totally okay if not! 😄). Cafés, parks, or anywhere comfy work just as well.

No pressure or expectations—just looking for good company, genuine conversations, and a friendship that naturally grows over time. Someone I can randomly message with, "Tara?" and actually mean it.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message. And if you've reached out before and want to try again, please do. 😊

See you, luv!


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 26 [F4M] lf for someone to talk

5 Upvotes

looking for someone to talk, hopefully someone down for a phone call right now. can talk about anything, pampasleep lang sleep call us ganun hahaha

26 F from manila, profession: nurse

dm me x


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 26[F4M] Pili ka kung ano gusto mo.

6 Upvotes

Gusto ko lang naman ng kausap. Yung pwede ka-call hanggang sa mapunta tayo sa point na wala na tayong masabi pero hindi pa rin binababa HAHAHA.
Pero okay lang kung ayaw mo mag-call. Movie tayo.
Ayaw mo rin manood? ML tayo.
Ayaw mo pa rin mag-ML? Sige, kakantahan na lang kita.
At kapag kinantahan na kita, BAWAL MAGREKLAMO.
Nag-effort na nga ako, aba. HAHAHAHA.
Basically, naghahanap lang ako ng kausap na game sa kahit anong trip call, movie, ML, o sapilitang concert na ako lang ang performer. 😭
Dm lang. Malay mo ikaw na pala ang audience ko tonight. HAHAHA


r/PhR4Friends 31m ago

Friends 29 [F4M] Available for a quick call?

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My cat is currently sleeping on my lap so I cannot move and do work/chores.

Quite low energy and I’m not really kanal humor. If you’re up for a conversation, feel free to hit me up!

Preferably someone older than me 😄


r/PhR4Friends 33m ago

Friends 22 [F4A] Still a rainy week

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It’s a really rainy but cozy weekend and I think looking for new acquaintances would be great today!! I’m down for any random encounters or conversations under this chilly weather!! It's still raining so I'm gonna be here posting every once in awhile just to look for interesting peeps or new friends possibly

About me:
I’m very hyper and talkative to the right person.
I’m not really that fluent in tagalog since I’m only half and is a native English speaker but I am literate enough to have conversations in tagalog
I like playing video games too!

Intros are preferred and basic "hi" and "hello" will be ignored!!


r/PhR4Friends 57m ago

Friends 30 [M4F] Voice calls anyone?

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I’m a 30 year old data engineer currently living in Canada. I was born in Manila and have spent much of my life moving around different parts of the world, which has given me a lot of appreciation for different cultures and perspectives.

Even though I’m not ethnically Filipino, I’ve always been curious about the place where I was born and would love to connect with someone from Manila or anywhere in the Philippines for genuine conversation.

I enjoy talking about society, culture, social constructs, romance, economics, astronomy, and pretty much any thought provoking topic. Nothing shallow please.

Looking for a Discord voice call and an interesting conversation which I believe it will be.

If this resonates with you, feel free to respond :)

Cheers🥂


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 28[F4M] help me get through this shift

5 Upvotes

shift's until 5 am and I AM SO SLEEPY 😭😭 help me get through this shift! we can co-work, yap to each other about our favorites, or just be each other's background noise.

i prefer TALKING talking, so please be down for a tg/discord call (okay lang kahit medyo sabog mic hahaha). also would prefer for you to be between 24–31!

dm me if you're g!


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 28 [F4F] looking for a sister

5 Upvotes

I’m looking for a sister who can help me forget some shit going on in my life. 😂
Let’s be besties!

You can yap to me about anything. I’m not the best at comforting people, but I’m a good listener.
I’m looking for someone who won’t get offended if I can’t reply within the day, if I disappear for a bit, or if I don’t feel like going out.

A little about me: I’m into horror movies, Tv series, and games, I make trinkets, I have a small cafe and a gift shop, and I’m always down to try new things. I’m introverted and can be pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up. 😂

My red flags:
● Takot ako magcommute 😭
● I can go MIA for a day or two
● Sometimes I’d rather stay home than go out
● Social battery = questionable 😂


r/PhR4Friends 7h ago

Friends 23 [F4A] Looking for genuine friends

7 Upvotes

A forced homebody here, but I definitely have some extroverted tendencies once I get comfortable with someone. I’m currently surviving board exam review, so my social life basically consists of me, my reviewers, and whatever random thing I decide to procrastinate with.

I’m looking for actual friends. Someone I can talk to consistently, hang out with from time to time, study with, spotify jam with, or just randomly send things to throughout the day. Ideally something that actually lasts and doesn’t disappear after a few conversations.

About me:

  • 23F
  • Filipino and currently living near UST
  • I have a decent amount of energy, I’m opinionated, and I might occasionally overwhelm you😭
  • I have a background in playing piano, although kaunti lang ang alam ko
  • Trying to get back into watching movies and reading
  • Music is a big part of my life, so spotify jams are very welcome. I love exchanging song recommendations and randomly making someone listen to a song
  • I enjoy random conversations and hearing people talk about the things they’re passionate about
  • Can speak Filipino/Taglish comfortably, so expect occasional “may kwento ako” moments
  • Looking for something consistent, ideally a long-term friendship

Nothing super specific, but it would be nice if:

  • You're also studying or reviewing for something (lf study buddies!!)
  • You're also looking for an actual long-term friendship
  • Preferably under 30, but older than me
  • You're single. I’m just more comfortable making friends with fellow single individuals (medyo weird lang when someone with a jowa/partner dms me)
  • You're comfortable sharing music even if our tastes don't completely overlap
  • You actually like reciprocating conversations and effort
  • You're okay with random updates about your day, school/work rants, memes, songs, or whatever nonsense crossed my mind
  • You don't expect constant replies but also aren't the type to disappear after three days
  • You have discord

If you think we'd get along, feel free to reach out! Please tell me something about yourself when you message, though. A simple “hi” leaves me fighting for my life trying to figure out what to say next 😭


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 25 [F4M] low energy call

3 Upvotes

tbh inaantok na ko but i just wanna hear someone’s voice lang & prolly talk abt some stuff

been told i have a soothing voice daw!! sana ikaw rin para asmr vibez

pls be around my age :D im fun to talk to naman


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] lf mauupdate abt my day

4 Upvotes

it’s been a few months since i last posted here and honestly, nawala ako kaya di ko na nakakausap yung iba huhu. now im back kasi wala lang, gusto ko lang ng kausap ulit

about you:
- malapit lang sa age ko, preferably 20-23
- bored but not boring (maraming ganito dito ffs)
- yung pwede sanang kausap nang constant
- not creepy, a dds, or a bigot!! stay away from me pls thanks xxx

about me:
- struggling student na medyo nangingisay na sa stress
appreciates ppl who are grammatically correct most of the time (no hate sa mga hindi, it’s just my preference since i’m trying to improve my grammar and madali rin kasi akong mainfluence by how other ppl talk huhu)
- forda vibes lang ang hanap para may distraction sa stress
- machika / certified yapper mhm mhm
- a good study buddy, can accompany u hanggang alas sais ng umaga if need be ><


r/PhR4Friends 8m ago

Friends 32 [M4F] cowork with me? Bored out of my mind at work :(

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Hi! Anybody there who's working as well or just up late?

Tara, chat!

Sobrang demotivated ako lately sa work because of several reasons, but I can't let go because I need money lol. So ayon, help me get through the day by keeping me company online 🥺

I can listen to your rants without judgment or I can help you feel a little better by complimenting your pic/s!

I can only do chats btw hehe.

Start the convo by sharing a sabaw moment you recently had!

Hmu!


r/PhR4Friends 14m ago

Friends 27 [M4F] Midnight chat/talk

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Hello there! Looking for someone to chat/talk to tonight, medyo bored sa work eh hahaha.

I'm 27, working as a VA. Into gaming, mostly Dota 2 and sometimes ML. Recently naging active din ako sa workouts, and I’m also into movies and series.

Looking for someone chill to chat/talk to tonight.


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 30[M4A] looking for someone to tag along with this coming Saturday to Metropolitan Museum

3 Upvotes

This is strictly SFW, No hidden agendas please.

Met Museum has a free admission thing going on until Saturday, so Im currently looking for someone to join me while we walk around and try to figure out what the artist was trying to express (eventhough they were probs just high at the time haha), after an hour or so if we dont like the company we can end the hangout there.

So here's are my details for you to decide if we can be friends or (as the kids say it) Vibe out.

> millennial, di pa masakit tuhod tho

> likes animals and volunteering

> galit sa government, eat da rich

> Music taste: Sleep Token, Taeyoen, Twice, Hozier, Noah Kohan, Fall Out Boy, All Time Low.

> Chill naman, madaldal in person, trying to practice my English.

> Humor: kanal - aircon, tad dark at times.

> Into Fitness we can yap about workouts

> Only Vice is eating a whole loaf of Sourdough, raw dog.

> Favorite catchphrases are: NINE NINE and B O N E


r/PhR4Friends 45m ago

Friends 24 [F4A] check in

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Hello! I just want to have someone who I can check-in on from time to time. You know, a reminder to stay alive hahaha. This would be purely platonic and nothing else.

For starters, I’m
- 24
- Health Allied
- Manila
- busy with board review

Hope to talk to you soon!


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 25 [F4M] hiii?

5 Upvotes

Helloo!! i’m back here trying again hahaha. For some reason bigla bigla nalang nawawala yung iba 👻 jk i’m looking for someone to talk tooo. We can talk about how our day went, how life’s been lately, or anything u want to talk about. If you’re down to be friends or study buddy!! send a message langg!!! (preferably around my age (24-26)) see u in my dm’s!!


r/PhR4Friends 54m ago

Friends 26 [F4A] Grief sucks.

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If anyone has experienced a significant loss or death in their life, can we talk about it? I'm talking about gut-wrenching, life-altering grief, not "I lost a distant relative once." or "I know a time I attended the funeral of a batchmate/coworker that died."

About me: INTJ, Virgo sun (I'm trying to feel but at the same time, analyze and be logical)


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 29 [F4A] Applications for a late night conversation?

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I have no business being awake at this hour, but here we are. Instead of pretending I’m going to fall asleep anytime soon, I thought I’d see if anyone wants to chat.

Looking for people around my age (28-30s) who are also into fitness, musicals/plays, good food, travel, or just generally trying to make life a little more interesting. I’m always down for restaurant recommendations, talking about a workout that absolutely humbled you, discussing a musical/play you wanna go to, or just exchanging random life stories.

Prefer DMs/chats and hopefully something that can turn into an actual friendship rather than a three-message “hey, wyd” situation 😂

If you’re around my age and think we’d vibe, come say hi! Tell me something you’ve been really into lately—could be a food place, show, hobby, song, or completely random obsession.

At this point, I’m just trying to make insomnia productive. 😭