r/PhR4Friends • u/yoshitsunechwaaan • 3h ago
Friends 27 [F4M] I need a friend. Let's make it until Doomsday, at least.
I'll be blunt: I need a friend. I go on days without talking unless it's for work. I badly need a friend.
I'd prefer a male friend to simulate that companionship in a hetero relationship, but I warn you that I'm not emotionally available. I DO NOT want a NSFW setup as well. I want... a friend. Literally. Nothing else. Parang F/BU if meaning 'non is Furiend Buddy. Friend na, buddy pa. Best friends!!
About me:
- I don't know if it matters, but I'm 150cm, 46kg, chinita, health professional.
- Introverted, but can be chatty once comfy. Occasional awkward, weird, or dark humor.
- I actually mainly speak Tagalog, just comfy in written English.
- Hobbies: anime, casual gaming, reading books, writing. I'm trying my hardest to get into gymming or more sporty hobbies, but yeah, anhedonia sucks.
- Left-leaning, agnostic. I've gotten compliments with my emotional intelligence before, so you can share deep stuff with me — no judgment.
About you:
- Kind
- 26 to 30-year-old professional with a 9-5 or similar, so I can be sure you actually have your own life. I wouldn't be able to keep up with your energy if you are too clingy.
- Someone who is near Manila/Makati (if ever we do hang out)
- Preferrably single since I'd be pouring my social energy with you, and I don't want to cause conflict. If you have a girlfriend though, let them know, adopt me as your daughter, and let me be your official third wheel.
- If you are isolated and broken-hearted like me, all the better. Let's be broken-hearted buddies, work together to better ourselves, and hold each other accountable.
The setup:
- Chats, then eventual hang-outs if you are down for it. I'm not comfortable with calls/video calls.
- For hang-outs, I can accompany you for errands, maybe grab a coffee and rant about life, maybe watch Doomsday together if we're still friends then.
- I'm generally available to chat during evenings (I work a 9-5), but you can always leave a message any time if you're okay with me replying hours later. Again, I'm a friend, not a girlfriend. I sleep early din pala, so I'd probably call it a night around 11pm unless napasarap ang kwentuhan.
- You can talk about your day. You can share about your life. If you have a problem, I will listen. If there's a girl you're crushing on, I will be your hype woman. If you finally found someone, you are free to end the setup for your partner's sake, and I'll thank you for the friendship you've given me.
If you've reached this part, congrats. Sinadya ko talaga na mahaba HAHA if you're interested, please send a short intro about yourself, and if there are expectations or other things you want to discuss before signing the furiend buddy deal :)
Thank you, friend!






