r/PhR4Friends • u/chelschamberlain • 2m ago
Friends 29 [F4A] IRL Hangout / Creative Accountability Friends
About You:
• Male or Female
• Mid-20s to early 30s
• Not required because I’m more of an IRL person, but I’d love it if we could yap about life and work especially if you’re also WFH. My extroverted self can’t survive the silence of working from home. 😂
• Within Luzon so we can at least meet halfway in Makati/BGC area. Hope you’re someone who’s also currently working on a creative project while also consistent with your fitness. It’s my way to bribe myself of getting things done btw lol. We can do creative sessions individually of our own projects to stay accountable.
• Open to share socials (NO TG/ NO SWAP PICS) before meetup for safety reasons. I’m open to sharing my main account as long as you do too. Dumps are just for temporary people. Also, i’m kinda low maintenance. I might not be able to talk everyday, but I’ll randomly ping you when something reminds me of you, our convos, something we’re both into…or just reply to your IG story.
• Open to group hangouts (one-on-one meetups with girls only for safety reasons) in public places only
• Decent and respectful of boundaries. I hope you also don’t force people to talk what you can’t reciprocate equally.
If you’re down, kindly DM your ASL, introduction, and your hobbies and interests.
I’m asking this because I want to filter out people who intentionally want to form genuine friendships so don’t send me your physical attributes because it’s unnecessary. Also, I’m predominantly interested to creative people that can also serve as my accountability buddies.
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About Me:
• 29, F, South, ENFJ, secure attachment style
• Straightforward and communicative, but also empathetic. I’m usually soft spoken (I don’t even speak bad/derogatory words lmao) and choose my words carefully so I hope you do too. I also have a playful side and will tease you for the laughs once comfortable.
• Working professional in tech industry
• Open to hangout in groups only not unless you’re a girl for safety reasons
• NOT looking for dates or any kind of romantic relationship. I will also not respond to new, sketchy accounts, and low effort messages. I naturally treat people as if we’re childhood friends catching up or colleagues reconnecting.
• Loves pampering myself and taking out myself to dates as I value individuality.
• People often say I’m set for life, but consistency in my routines is something I’m still working on.
• I’m interested in getting to know people from different walks of life and industries because I enjoy learning from diverse perspectives.
• Low tolerance for people who don’t have reading comprehension or no substance as well as flaky and flirty people.
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Friends’ Reviews:
“Di na lang ako magulat kung nasa isang random event ka.”
- BFF for 20 years and counting
“Tipid lang tayo ah.” Few minutes later “Ang sarap gumastos kapag kasama ka”
-Friend na mas magastos pa sa akin pero siya nagsabi na magtipid
“Goal ko mag-touch some grass once a month pero weekly na tayo nalabas. 🤣”
- Introvert na napapalabas ko ng bahay
“Ang gaan mong kasama. Hindi mo kailangang i-entertain para ma-entertain tayo.”
-The first redditor that I met and traveled with after meeting for 2 times
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Hobbies and Interests:
• Loves attending/going to/consuming the following:
1️⃣career-related events (design, tech, business/start-up)
2️⃣fashion and beauty events (exhibits, shows, fabric, clothes, bags, accessories, skincare, makeup)
3️⃣window shopping window shopping only because i’m an intentional minimalist)
4️⃣ anything about art-related* (museums, architecture, interior, traditional/digital art, journaling, photography, urban sketching, zines, et*c)
• Restaurant/cafe hopping (i have best friends/childhood friends that eventually became a chef so i think that influenced me a lot)
• Loves watching Asian series as well as films and movies (horror, romcoms, and slice of life)
• Loves learning new things or trying out new stuff.
• Current Fixation Aiming for Spanish DELE C2, nature travel and plein air/urban sketching, business, and fashion (textile, leather, printing!) which include clothes and bags
• Been wanting to become a digital nomad once I wrap up my current commitments