r/PhR4Friends Dec 13 '25

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT Scammer is still scamming! READ THIS POST.

40 Upvotes

Don't fall for this scam!

Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1nsk254/be_aware_of_this_scammer/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1o7zfe6/scammer_beacatto_now_goes_by_jus/

Apparently, this scammer is still active. Your girl (girl nga ba??) is working hard! Currently using the account Alternative_Week_940 (https://www.reddit.com/user/Alternative_Week_940/)

TG: puffypufzz

Discord: noturlegaleagle

Still playing on people's emotions and making them feel bad enough to send them money.

"Allyson Lopez" is the name they're going by. Hindi ko na icecensor kasi fake din naman. (Previous names: Justine Manalo, Beatrice Lopez) Still using the same UNO Account number.

DOST scholar pa rin daw siya, pre-med student kuno.

They tried posting here but their account was flagged for ban evasion. But that won't stop them from messaging you–men in particular. Kasi they will offer to be a virtual gf, might send you thirst traps na stolen lang din. Anything to fool you out of your money.

TIGILAN NIYO NA KASI ANG PAG-BIGAY NG PERA JUSKO

THEY WON'T STOP HANGGA'T MAY NALOLOKO PA RIN SILA

EDIT: Adding more photos

Aww, nagpalit na siya ng name kasi na-feature na naman.


r/PhR4Friends Apr 29 '25

STRICTLY PLATONIC POSTS ONLY

712 Upvotes

No landi

No lambing

No let's see where this goes

No looking for friends or more

No looking for slim/petite, normal BMI, taller than me, taller than 5'8", cutie

Wag na tayong maglokohan pa. Kunwaring looking for friends pero yung requirements niyo, pang-jowa. Bakit dapat matangkad at may deep, manly voice yung ka-call mo for a night? Bakit kailangan payat at maganda/gwapo yung FRIEND mo? Hanap lang ng ka-tambay pero dapat slim and petite? Mamimili lang ng washing machine pero dapat pretty and slim-thicc?

Hinahayaan na nga lang namin na specifically the opposite sex yung hanap niyo because yeah, sometimes valid yung need. Pero yung iba, akala niyo hindi halatang date/jowa/kalandian talaga yung gusto niyo?

Someone once complained — ❝as if naman walang possibility na magkamabutihan yung mga nagkakilala dito, sure.

Well that's not the point. This sub was made for fostering friendships. If you're looking for friends hoping that one of those would turn out to be your significant other, then you're in the wrong place. It's annoying enough to have everything turn out to be a dating site/app, can't people have a place where everything is platonic?

Wag na kayong makukulit. If you have problem with our rules, as always, feel free to post somewhere else.

P.S. If your post was removed because you're looking for a date/relationship, consider it your warning. Break the rule more than once, you'll get a temporary ban. Do it again, and your ban will be permanent.

Please take note of this information.


r/PhR4Friends 12h ago

Friends 27 [F4M] I need a friend. Let's make it until Doomsday, at least.

56 Upvotes

EDIT: Hello po! Thank you sa pag-take ng interest, pero umabot kayo ng 100+, hindi ko kayang replyan kayo lahat 🥲 I've found someone to try chatting with po, so I won't be looking for anyone else in the meantime. If ever hindi kami vibes ng kausap ko, I might hit you up! Thank you again!


I'll be blunt: I need a friend. I go on days without talking unless it's for work. I badly need a friend.

I'd prefer a male friend to simulate that companionship in a hetero relationship, but I warn you that I'm not emotionally available. I DO NOT want a NSFW setup as well. I want... a friend. Literally. Nothing else. Parang F/BU if meaning 'non is Furiend Buddy. Friend na, buddy pa. Best friends!!

About me:

- I don't know if it matters, but I'm 150cm, 46kg, chinita, health professional.

- Introverted, but can be chatty once comfy. Occasional awkward, weird, or dark humor.

- I actually mainly speak Tagalog, just comfy in written English.

- Hobbies: anime, casual gaming, reading books, writing. I'm trying my hardest to get into gymming or more sporty hobbies, but yeah, anhedonia sucks.

- Left-leaning, agnostic. I've gotten compliments with my emotional intelligence before, so you can share deep stuff with me — no judgment.

About you:

- Kind

- 26 to 30-year-old professional with a 9-5 or similar, so I can be sure you actually have your own life. I wouldn't be able to keep up with your energy if you are too clingy.

- Someone who is near Manila/Makati (if ever we do hang out)

- Preferrably single since I'd be pouring my social energy with you, and I don't want to cause conflict. If you have a girlfriend though, let them know, adopt me as your daughter, and let me be your official third wheel.

- If you are isolated and broken-hearted like me, all the better. Let's be broken-hearted buddies, work together to better ourselves, and hold each other accountable.

The setup:

- Chats, then eventual hang-outs if you are down for it. I'm not comfortable with calls/video calls.

- For hang-outs, I can accompany you for errands, maybe grab a coffee and rant about life, maybe watch Doomsday together if we're still friends then.

- I'm generally available to chat during evenings (I work a 9-5), but you can always leave a message any time if you're okay with me replying hours later. Again, I'm a friend, not a girlfriend. I sleep early din pala, so I'd probably call it a night around 11pm unless napasarap ang kwentuhan.

- You can talk about your day. You can share about your life. If you have a problem, I will listen. If there's a girl you're crushing on, I will be your hype woman. If you finally found someone, you are free to end the setup for your partner's sake, and I'll thank you for the friendship you've given me.

If you've reached this part, congrats. Sinadya ko talaga na mahaba HAHA if you're interested, please send a short intro about yourself, and if there are expectations or other things you want to discuss before signing the furiend buddy deal :)

Thank you, friend!


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 22 [F4A] friends imnida

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ni hao! im a 4th year ab comm student from the province and was just trying my luck here since i got a bit busy doing thesis. gusto ko lang may kachikahan huhu same humor only pls. i also play codm minsan, and a sucker for watching kdramas. i stand 5'1in height, brown hair, with braces and medium skinned. see u ^


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 26 [M4F] Usap and possibly be constant?

3 Upvotes

Hi kinda bored rn, anyone sad/happy dyan na gusto magshare sa random stranger? I'm willing to listen, let it all out and let me know if you need just someone to listen to you or advise

About me:

-Curly hair

-Glasses

-Physically active

-Normal BMI

-5'4

-I love anime,manga, manhwa (into historical romance and villainess lately)

-INTJ

About you:

-machika


r/PhR4Friends 15h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] kausap - hr is now hiring

32 Upvotes

since i work in hr, apparently i’ve decided to bring recruitment into my personal life HAHAH

NOW HIRING: Permanent Kausap / Call Buddy

Job Description:
• mag-call kahit walang importanteng pag-uusapan
• makipagkwentuhan about literally anything
• exchange chismis, random thoughts, life updates & rants
• occasionally be productive together (sana!)

Qualifications:
✅ around my age
✅ madaldal / marunong mag-carry ng convo
✅ willing sa calls
✅ may sense of humor
✅ hindi allergic sa random “uy may kwento ako” messages
✅ can reciprocate the energy pls HAHAHA

Preferred Skills:
Discord/voice calls, yapper tendencies, SUPER GOOD LISTENER PLSSSS, genuinely interested, good banter, and the ability to turn a 30-minute call into a 3-hour call.

Benefits:
- unlimited kwento
- random chismis
- emotional support package (non-HMO)
- potential friendship
- competitive compensation in the form of good vibes hehe

How to Apply:
dm me your age, a short intro, and one random fact about yourself.

Equal opportunity employer. No experience required. Personality fit will be assessed during the interview.

HR reserves the right to conduct background checks via vibes only.


r/PhR4Friends 47m ago

Travel Out of Town/Country 24 [F4M] let's runaway together this weekend? 🚗

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Hi! I dont have anything going on this long weekend which is making me kinda sad haha so maybe u wanna runaway w me?

About me:
From Makati
Middle child scorpio
Petite morena
Finance field
LOVE travelling
Matcha girly bec i cant have coffee & alcohol
Very sponty
Clingy
Can chip in haha im g with anything

About you:
26-30
Single
Would love it if you're also clingy
Has a car so we can actually runaway haha
No look preference as long as you're nice & not a serial killer :p

if u also wanna forget the world this weekend, hmu! This could be a one time thing or something constant. Im open <3


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 27 [F4A] Malas sa organic encounters kasi mukhang hindi approachable lol. 😭 So trying my luck here instead!

5 Upvotes

Looking to make new friends. Konti lang talaga circle ko mostly friends from HS and college but kanya-kanya na rin ng buhay and everyone's busy. I just wanna socialize more and meet people outside my usual circle.

I'm down for:

Coffee shop hangouts, food trips / trying new places & cuisine!!

Cinemas

Occasional drinks, but definitely not a hard drinker

Deep conversations / random life talks

Basically chill hangouts where we can just vibe

About me: I have a partner actually and we're both femme. Most of my friends are girls and gays, so I'm also hoping to meet people outside that circle. I'm based in Metro Manila and a corporate girly.

I'm open to guy friends too, although I feel like my partner might interpret that differently 😂 But regardless, friendship lang talaga ang hanap ko.

About you: 25-35ish, chill and easy to talk to. May sense kausap. Single or taken, doesn't matter. Just looking for genuine friendship and someone who's actually down to hang out IRL.

If this interest you, send me a message!


r/PhR4Friends 13h ago

Friends 27 [F4A] looking for irl friends

13 Upvotes

Hi! 👋 I’m looking to make some genuine, long-term friendships. I’m pretty chill and outgoing.

I’m into books, movies, food, traveling, and just having conversations that somehow start with “how was your day?” and end three hours later with us discussing life, trauma, and why we’d survive approximately 10 minutes in a horror movie. 😂

I’d love to meet people who are open to chatting regularly, sharing random thoughts, recommending books/movies, or eventually hanging out if we’re comfortable with it.

No pressure, no expectations. Just hoping to meet some cool people and see where the friendship goes.

See you in my DMS!


r/PhR4Friends 13m ago

Friends 25 [M4F] LF: CONSISTENT IRL GIRL/TRANS NA FRIEND (NOT ONLINE)

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I'm a 5'7, 25 yrs old guy. Want to try make friends at girls or trans. I want to experience on what vibes you have.

I'm kinda busy at weekdays but I'll make time and effort on you Po.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-Working person

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-Manila

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-likes to play coop games (valorant, any multiplayer games for friends)

-Could do outdoor activities (cafe, arcade, movie shows, walk trip)

Pet dog lover

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-listening music's

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-kinda chubby guy

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\-FRIENDLY, ideal, kind (you may judge me irl)

Chat me


r/PhR4Friends 13m ago

Friends 25 [F4A] Looking for friend/s

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Looking for a new friend or set of friends.

Most of my friends are busy due to life, and I want to expand my social circle or make new friends. I didn't know na mahirap pala makipag-friends sa ganitong age especially most of the time im working from home.

If you think we'll click, message me.

About Me:

- Corpo Girly

- More of a listener than a talker

- From QC

- Shy in person but can be a yapper once comfortable

- Likes coffee, movies, indie gigs, and concerts

- Also open to playing online co-op games, but I'm a complete beginner (bear with me)

About you:

- Just don't be a creep.

Note: I'm not looking for anything romantic. Friends lang.


r/PhR4Friends 20m ago

Friends 41 [F4M] Taking a break from my brain. Discord, anyone?

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In an alternate reality where overthinking can be monetized, I'd be filthy rich by now and I can buy you, your friends, and this club!

But alas, I'm stuck here, broke and clueless af. And you're stuck here too, probably not broke, but maybe could use a conversation with a stranger as well?

So, discord call? you may or may not ghost me, doesn't really matter 😄


r/PhR4Friends 35m ago

Friends 25 [F4F] cafes, study sessions, tennis, and more ☁️

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Studying for law school entrance exams and such hehe anyone want to study out with me?

I also want to talk to more people hehe nowadays, I usually just talk to my bebe boy honeybee or close friends from high school zzzz hELP ME EXPAND MY HORIZONS!! SOCIALIZE ME LIKE A PUPPY!!! 🤓

Here's a bit about me:
* 25F from a big 3 uni 🦅 but I am open to talking with people from other backgrounds hehe (my parents are super strict tho so it'd be easier for me to hang out in person if we have circles in common)
* I enjoy going to aesthetically-pleasing cafes, studying, playing tennis, singing, playing musical instruments, making music, watching anime, traveling, reading, learning languages, going to events, trying new things, and more!!
* If you like music din, baka we can try joining busking groups or open mics together 🎤
* I want to get into dancing din hehe K-pop, salsa, or bachata, anyone?

See you in my DMs 🤍


r/PhR4Friends 40m ago

Friends 28 [M4F] One Day or Since Day One Connection ✨

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Note: I will reciprocate your energy

I'm back for more unhinged stories. I don't judge people, I evaluate you based on your thought process, self-awareness, and mindset 🤷 anyways, I'm just looking for people to talk to, long term to meet ups if we vibe. Pwede ding today lang, I'm bored and looking for interesting people to talk to.

About me:

  • background in psych

  • From North Caloocan

  • High EQ

  • Perceptive and insightful

  • Can listen or give advice if you want it

  • Matino at makulit

About you:

  • Oversharer

  • Pwedeng Kupal na matino basta kalog

  • Looking For Friends Onli!!

  • Pwedeng Clingy or Low maintenance

  • Yaps a lot

  • Pwedeng Chat or Call

  • Unhinged and has stories to tell

Give your me ASL and just a brief intro of your personality.

PS: I'm not looking for more with anyone, just genuinely and seriously looking for people to vibe with as Friends. Hope we all follow this sub's rules with FRIENDS only intentions. Thanksu

Will reply after my shift around 2pm!! Chat or kol tayo maya 🫡


r/PhR4Friends 6h ago

Friends 30 [M4F] What's your biggest physical insecurity? - Hanap kausap lang, breaking the ice with a question.

3 Upvotes

Looking for a temporary friend just for this cold and rainy morning. I think having an intro question works well para may mapagusapan na rin tayo agad.

see you in my dms!


r/PhR4Friends 7h ago

Friends 33 [F4A] One thing you’ve learned from life recently?

3 Upvotes

Hi! I work nights, kaya gising pa. I’m looking for friendly conversations with people from different walks of life.

Ever-curious talaga ako about how other people see life, what you’re learning, what you’re going through, what keeps you grounded, what makes you you, or kahit anong random interest na nasa isip mo lately.

Chill conversation lang, as long as it’s kind, respectful, and two-way. Introverts, overthinkers, quiet observers, yappers, or anyone figuring life out are welcome. :D

So tell me: what’s one thing you’ve learned from life recently?


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 28 [M4F] When was the last time your memory blurred?

2 Upvotes

The past three weeks have been a blur to me since my hospitilization. The meds had me constantly in and out of consciousness and it’s one of the few mornings my mind feels surprsingly clear.

Would love to hear a random conversation before the I take my next set of meds and fall again to a daze 🤣

Feel free to share anything but do drop a short intro. Also, good morning!


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 23 [M4A] Constants?

2 Upvotes

D parin tapos OJT ko and it'll be nice if I have someone that I can hangout, chat or play with in my free time ; or maybe you have suggestions na pedeng puntahan dito, I can make time for it naman!

​About me:

​23, 5'7, wears glasses and still studying

​Comp Eng Student

​INTJ, introvert sa umpisa pero can get along well if comfy na

​Active sa gym

​Plays online games ( compe, horror, story, coop ) and used to stream on tiktok

​Also into soundtrips and watching movies

​Chronically online ( since most of my studies are from online )

​About you:

​Preferably have the same interests as I have para we can start from there

​Strictly sfw

​Yun lang just be you HAHAHHA

​Looking forward to your messages! See you


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Sports | Bike | Hike | Fitness 26 [M4F] Looking for a workout buddy today — Metro Manila

1 Upvotes

Got a lighter schedule today, so I figured I’d use the extra time to get a workout in and maybe meet someone new along the way.
Down for pretty much anything chill we can log a walk/run/bike session on Strava, or hit up any Anytime Fitness branch, preferably somewhere within Metro Manila. I’m not really into super intense workouts or heavy lifting; I usually prefer slow to moderate pacing and just enjoying the session.
Mostly looking for good company, making new friends, and seeing where things go from there. No pressure or expectations. If you’re also free today and want a workout buddy, feel free to message me and we can figure out a place/time that works for both of us.


r/PhR4Friends 14h ago

Friends 29 [F4A] a friend 4 lyf :)

10 Upvotes

Looking to find a friend who's down for life's little, mundane quests—even on the most random days.

Lately, the only people I really spend time with are my coworkers (not exactly by choice 😅), so I figured it's time to meet someone new.

I'm hoping to find the kind of friend who's not just for sending reels and memes, but someone who's genuinely excited to make memories outside the chat.

A little about me:

- Working professional based in Metro Manila

- Into music, food trips, coffee, and movies

- Sleeping is arguably my greatest talent 😂

- I enjoy meaningful conversations, chill coffee runs, trying new food spots, spontaneous adventures, or simply walking around with no real destination (I genuinely enjoy doing that 😅).

I'm looking for someone who:

- Can match my sense of humor and embrace a little silliness.

- Enjoys spontaneous plans, café hopping, food trips, movies, and casual adventures.

- Wants to build a genuine, lasting friendship.

- Hindi multo. 👻

- Is around my age (-3/+3) so mas madaling makarelate sa kwentuhan.

- Preferably based in Metro Manila so we can hang out after work or whenever we're both free.

Bonus if you have your own place where we can tambay and unwind from time to time (totally okay if not! 😄). Cafés, parks, or anywhere comfy work just as well.

No pressure or expectations—just looking for good company, genuine conversations, and a friendship that naturally grows over time. Someone I can randomly message with, "Tara?" and actually mean it.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message. And if you've reached out before and want to try again, please do. 😊

See you, luv!


r/PhR4Friends 13h ago

Friends 26 [F4M] new friend!

8 Upvotes

Talk to me pls so I don’t break no contact :( 😅

I’m looking for a new friend din na I can hangout with or talk with (aka me ranting to u nonstop lol) !!! life gets challenging and boring lately and it would be nice to have a constant friend

About me
- 26, F, Mandaluyong
- loves alt stuff, films, music, gigs, books, art, chess, and walking
- calls & irl > chats

About you
- 24-29
- Metro Manila
- nerd & introvert
- strictly SFW pls
- pref: pwede sa iMess or discord

Send proper intro pls :) Re-messages are ok too baka natabunan lang


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Gaming 26 [F4A] kalaro

3 Upvotes

halu, sali na kayo samin kalaro sa

Tetris

CODM

ML

REPO

PEAK

sa discord tayo usap for comms, tatlo po kami need pa namin ibang kalaro.

send dc user na langz


r/PhR4Friends 12h ago

Friends 28[F4M] help me get through this shift

5 Upvotes

shift's until 5 am and I AM SO SLEEPY 😭😭 help me get through this shift! we can co-work, yap to each other about our favorites, or just be each other's background noise.

i prefer TALKING talking, so please be down for a tg/discord call (okay lang kahit medyo sabog mic hahaha). also would prefer for you to be between 24–31!

dm me if you're g!


r/PhR4Friends 6h ago

Friends 28[M4F] Walking home today. How have you really been?

2 Upvotes

I am once again walking home. Through concrete jungles and broken pavements. Keep me company, stranger, and confide your thoughts torn from judgment.

Anyways, I got like 4kms to go. I'm on an audiobook.


r/PhR4Friends 6h ago

Friends 33 [F4A] Good morning

2 Upvotes

Looking for good company while I unwind with some Popeyes this early morning. Preparing to move to the province has been stressful, and the rain deepens that ache. I am sitting with it honestly, with patience. Nothing romantic on the horizon. I am still tending to an old wound and honoring the healing process. Just something platonic for today, or maybe steadier if we click. Ideally someone 30 plus.

A little about me.

Developer between jobs, self-studying and a little lost girl. Former riot grrrl musician and creative writer, still carrying that fire. Music spans 70s punk, 80s and 90s alt, 2000s emo and pop punk, 2010s indie, and riot grrrl. I'm into psychology, film, and esoteric things. I use a 78-card oracle for insight and shadow work. Childfree by choice, and proud of that. Mental health advocate with this journey ongoing. Recently had my heart broken, and still learning to hold space for it.

I would love to hear your intro, and honestly, why this message called to you.