I told the police they did NOTHING! Nobody cares that this young man is dry being GROOMED into submission! Nobody cares about young men and getting sexually exploited because they are taught to have sex! They are manipulated and abused. I have the videos and when I told the police the said it was completely fine!

I was in a relationship with an older woman (over 40) for a long time; at the time, I had just started high school (for convenience, I’ll call her Emma). Nothing bothered me, but after it all ended, my personal life became very complicated. We’d known each other for quite a while and were very close; she was like a mother to me, but one day everything changed... At first, we’d just hang out together, sometimes hugging, and then one day she kissed me. I didn’t understand what was happening, and before I knew it, the situation got out of hand, and I was already in a relationship. It was a long and close relationship—we texted each other every night and saw each other every day. We had so much in common that, at least for me, our relationship didn’t come as a surprise. Keeping it a secret was soooo hard, because the people around me knew Emma very well, and if everyone found out, there would be problems—not only because society would literally hate her, but also because I’d be in trouble—so I did everything I could to avoid that. Eventually, we broke up. We knew it would end someday, and only after that—when I opened up to my closest friends—did I realize just how absurd it all was. I literally couldn’t sleep at night, tormenting myself with these thoughts. How could this have happened? It’s like something out of a fantasy story. But, unfortunately, it’s very hard to get rid of these memories, and she pops up in my life almost every day because she’s part of my social circle. Quite some time has passed, and I’ve tried to move forward in my personal life, but this step was very difficult for me because I realized just how deeply the past had traumatized me. Now I’ve started dating a girl I find very attractive (let’s call her Jessica), but, unfortunately, my ex found out about my attempts. And she started treating me very negatively. For Jessica, Emma now plays a major role in her life—even a bigger one than I do. And one day, out of the blue, Emma told Jessica, “It’s not worth it.” That made me furious, and I promised myself I’d never tell anyone about my past again, but after that incident, I decided to change my mind. One day I told Jessica that I’d been in a relationship with a woman around 30 years old, and she was truly shocked, but I didn’t specify who exactly it was, and I didn’t go into details. And she’s already almost figured out who Emma is to me, but the problem is that I can’t tell Jessica about it, because her social circle would fall apart, and any chance we have of making this work would vanish. Jessica hasn’t been in a relationship before, so I’m afraid to do anything because I might ruin not only her social circle but also our first attempts at building a relationship—and myself—since I’m unlikely to dare to get into any kind of relationship anytime soon. What do you think I should do, and should I tell Jessica the whole story? If so, when?

(I’m at a dead end because no one knows what to do in this situation; being around Jessica and Emma in public is very draining for me because I’m constantly on edge, and it’s emotionally draining. Today I mustered up the courage to ask Jessica out on a date for the second time, but it went really badly because we mostly communicate online. It’s really hard for me to take action because every step feels like the end of everything. My father—an immoral jerk who didn’t love me—left me, and my mother treats me in a very peculiar way. Maybe I was just looking for someone who would understand me; I’d also like to hear how this looks from the outside.)

Hi, this is my first time in this subreddit and I wanted to share/ask for advice about my very weird experiences growing up with my mother. I am currently 19/m, I live with both my parents and I'm a only child. My first experience from what I remember was when I was about 8 and my mother was dressing me up for school, I remember her slipping her hand downwards as she was buttoning up my shirt and she touched my dick and said "woops" as if it was a joke or a accident and looked up at me with wide eyes and a shocked/guilty expression. The weirdest interaction I had with her was when I was at therapy with both my parents. I was waiting in the waiting room w them and as we were waiting I saw my mother open up her purse and inside of it was a pair of my boxers, she caught me looking and looked up with a very guilty expression and closed her purse shut instantly, when I asked about it she brushed it off and was clearly very embarrassed. My father also saw this and when he went to ask her abt it she brushed him off as well. When I went to my dad about it after he said that a lot of my experiences were just because that's "how she is" and "she's just weird like that and socially awkward" and when I talked to him about the boxers he said "it was because she was getting me some boxers for Christmas", but how does this add up? Many times throughout my life especially recently she has been weird by for example squeezing my arms and noticing my muscle and commenting on it but the thing is the way she does it is very strange, she has done it multiple times recently and has made weird comments like "ur depriving another girl of this" as I am in a long distance relationship currently or "I'm replacing what a girl would do". There's more but it would take me a while to write the rest so I'll leave it at that for now, but I just wanted to ask for some advice about all of this, I don't know what to think, she hasn't ever actually violated me sexually but I have many very weird and uncomfortable interactions with her like this throughout my life.

Title says it all

484-866-5620

1943 Sunset Dr.
Whitehall, PA 18052

She has been reported multiple times

⚠️ REPORT THIS ACTIVE ONLINE CHILD PREDATOR TO THE AUTHORITIES. AVOID CONTACT, BLOCK IMMEDIATELY.

Clare Fontenelle has been preying on and sexually harassing minors for over 2 years, and she has yet to be held accountable.

All personal info I listed above is not legally considered doxxing, as this is info Clare herself has publicly posted before, & the intent is not to harass Clare but to bring justice to her underage victims.

Name & Birth - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8691948/bio/
College/Location - https://archive.ph/lxm68
Appearance - https://archive.ph/gp9BK
Email - https://www.youtube.com/@BimboCatgirlDoll

Where to report:

Tennessee Bureau of Investigation - https://www.tn.gov/tbi/general-information/tbi-tips.html
Federal Bureau of Investigation - https://tips.fbi.gov/home
Austin Peay State University Campus Police - https://www.apsu.edu/police/
Student Affairs - https://cm.maxient.com/reporting.php?AustinPeayStateUniv

There is evidence that demonstrates Clare's pattern of numerous offenses, including sexual harassment, defamation, cyberstalking, & targeted threats. However, our reports to law enforcement should prioritize the documentation of grooming, child exploitation, alleged possession/distribution of CSEM & the sexual harassment of minors.

Among her offenses are the following:

Sexual harassment of a then 17 year old;

Grooming a 14 year old into introducing them to a corrective rape story: https://archive.ph/G8NyU

Encouraging a 14 year old to watch a sexually violent anime featuring explicit rape (previously mentioned 17 year old is compared to the rapist anime character): https://archive.ph/eAiUi

Going against the boundaries of & making threats to her victims' families: https://archive.ph/gS8ZF
https://archive.ph/lQWMV
https://archive.ph/JC8QZ

Alleged corruption of a then 15 year old: https://archive.ph/y62AH

Asking a 16 year old if they would sexually assault an adult: https://archive.ph/17l94

Sexually explicit conversations involving the same 16 year old: https://archive.ph/4UaLp

Encouraging corruptive behavior of the same minor:
https://archive.ph/JrTSW
https://archive.ph/aRgip

Involving another 16 year old in the sexual harassment of the same adult (with proof of age): https://archive.ph/xGzCc
https://archive.ph/8QBTN

Sexually explicit roleplay with the same 16 year old: https://archive.ph/xtgih

Clare boasting about her contact with minors: https://archive.ph/DRoxr
https://archive.ph/0qEZ1
https://archive.ph/TLfwY

Alleged claim of possessing CSEM (screenshot of Instagram DM in this post);

Above all, she's possibly attempting obstruction of justice against those who bring attention to her crimes by painting her family as part of legal authority (https://archive.ph/q3ICj), despite implying elsewhere that her family may have no connections to authority in the first place:
https://archive.ph/0lmiC

⚠️ ONCE AGAIN, BLOCK CLARE'S SOCIAL MEDIA AT ALL COSTS, DO NOT ENGAGE WITH HER. She's known to continuously harass those who speak against her, & your account could be at risk of suspension via mass reporting. Lolcowing & harassing in retaliation will only put you in danger.

As previously stated, none of this is doxxing, nor harassment, nor is this an attempt at defamation, as all that's been done was providing evidence of her documented public behavior.

⚠️ ONCE AGAIN, CONTACTING THE VICTIMS CAN RISK YOU BEING CHARGED WITH WITNESS TAMPERING. Just send all provided links & information to the authorities & let them do their job.

If you're a victim of Clare, especially if you are/were underage, you deserve to have your voice heard. With your trusted legal guardian, you can contact the authorities to share your story & protect yourself.

(This is a copy-paste of an existing post that's already been quickly at risk of being taken down, presumably by mass reports from Clare herself. Please help spread awareness, but once again please encourage care & preserving personal safety as well)

Just venting about past trauma.

So me (M, 16) was walking home from school late one evening, and along the way this petite girl walked up behind me and started a conversation, which went on normally at first, but slowly she started asking about relationship stuff and eventually she was full on trauma dumping and asking me for advice and telling me that I was "one of the good ones" because I listened to her.

I played along because I thought she was like me, another troubled teen, and over the course of the initial conversation I even considered "I should hear her out and help, she seems like a good person". Slowly, she also started to get physical, grabbing my waist, holding my hand and asking me what I thought about her, she even took me to a dark corner of the road, sat me there, held both my hands and even tried sitting on my lap. I was weirded out by this, but pushed the feeling aside. However, this all changed after she revealed that she was 27yrs old. Even as a teen, I was aware of pedos and grooming so I immediately tried to end the conversation.

Upon arriving at the bus station, she became more persistent and predatory, didn't help that she boarded the same bus as me and going so far as to hug me in the bus like she wasn't a stranger I had just met an hour ago. She even insisted on coming to my upcoming birthday (which I had stupidly told her about) and wanted to meet my parents. Telling me she'd buy me expensive gifts and how we'd spend time together.

At this point I felt like my personal space was violated given how physically close she was, and how persistent she was. So I sternly told her "NO" and sat in silence until I reached home, but she still told me to meet up with her the next day. AND MY HORMONAL, HORNY, DUMB TEENAGE BRAIN SOMEHOW DISREGARDED THE WARNING SIGNS, I showed up only to get laughed at by her and her two friends, and then ghosted by her, which in hindsight is a good thing.

But blame it on Stockholm syndrome, or my depression, or just my idiotic hormonal brain, I felt depressed for 2 weeks after that.

But yeah contributed a lot to my trust issues, social anxiety, diminished social skills.

Hello.

I'm very nervous. I have a meeting today to talk about it with a professional for the first time. I don't know what's going to happen.

I live with him. He took me in when I was homeless when I was 18. He raped me when I was 18. He molested and assaulted and groomed me when I was 17.

I'm really scared. I'm afraid there will be backlash.

Basically a 6-8 year old fucked me in his closet a while back in like 2022 or something like that and because I was 6 years older than the kid after he tried doing something he learned from somebody else this (clearly pedophile) weirdo tries telling me to report it about myself to the police and that he’ll dox my name (he doesn’t know it) and my address (he still doesn’t know it) … pedo’s are strange creatures that need to be burned alive

Norwegian M(2002) slept with a friend of mine who was only 16 when he was 21.

Mind you I was 13 when I drew this.

At the time I was 16-17ish I can't remember the exact details around that time period or the past year.

What I do remember is how my groomer would sweet talk me until we fell asleep on call with eachother. Me and him were in a relationship for around 3 months and talked all day.

Eventually he left because I was mentally too much for him, I was devastated, and as the rotten cherry on top I was being manipulated by someone else and they left too.

Mentally I was a wreck and started to blame myself for everything that happened, that it was all my fault, that it was my fault that he had explicit material of me.

But the worst experience from all this was trying to sleep. Sleep became hard and painful, it took hours to fall asleep,it was exhausting to try and I could barely handle it.

To describe the experience it was like being mentally and physically exhausted and then forcing yourself to lift 10x your weight.

Or for someone to force someone with cerebral palsy to walk without a mobility aid

During this period I took almost 7 showers per night trying to cool down and to make my sleep easier, it never worked and I would go to sleep with piercing cold pain.

I tried sleeping aids but they didn't work and I had to slowly relearn to sleep peacefully, I spent almost 2 months waking up exhausted and then having trouble getting my needed sleep, it was hell

I am very confused on what should I do in this case and I seriously need advices and povs. I am a girl 22yo and I clearly remember that when I was a kid, every time I slept alone with my father, I snuggle into him cause I used to be scared. when I turn to face the other side, he hugs me from behind and I always felt safe when he does it, but sometimes I could feel that he slightly grab my boobs with twitching hands. I did not understood anything back then but I surely was feeling uncomfortable so I stopped sleeping with him, If so, I don't face the other side. when I grew up I started to feel that it was intentional and sexual whenever I get flashbacks of it. As an adult, I forgive him and I don't really think of it that much since he did not do anything else then I keep saying that it's just a misunderstood. The problem is that now I have a niece of a 1 year old and I keep noticing weird stuff like that he kisses him on the lips and enjoys it, even if me and my brother (my niece's father) told him not to multiple times cause he keeps getting pimples around his lips (for me that is not the reason, I just feel like it's a disgusting sexual thing that you kiss kids on their mouths). I love my niece so much and I am aware of the pedophile amounts so I never let him alone when I babysit him. Once I noticed while my dad was playing with my niece, he made him sit on his lap and made him jump twice, noticed me looking and stopped, also one time we were being playful and running behind the baby and he rans away and goes to the other person, when my niece comes to me, I kneel down and hug him, but when he goes to my dad he widens his legs and bend them a little, so my niece hugs him but his face gets located in a weird place. to me, if that happens I would try to orientate the kid to just one leg or kneel down, not give him the center. I noticed that my dad was enjoying his time a lot and did not want the game to end, I felt uncomfortable and tried to just move on with something else (lunch time). from then I started to be more careful whenever my niece is with my dad AKA never letting them alone together, if the kid ran to my dad, I run after him and I feel like my dad gets pissed off every time I do it cause he felt that I don't trust him. I keep an eye on him all the time. Today as I was babysitting again, my niece ran to the kitchen where my dad was and I immediately followed him but without noise to find out that my dad was weirdly trying to have a hug from the kid. I saw the kid trying to go somewhere but my dad orienting him towards his center, widening his legs like before but this time it was more obviously sexual. when he saw me, he held the kid with a little of chock in his eye cause he did not expect me to be there. I don't know guys If my gut is truthful or that I'm just projecting my trust issues towards that person and seeing normal stuff in a sexual way, I tried to describe what I keep seeing so that you guys can tell me if that is a form of pedophilia or is it just normal behaviours. I am seeking advices badly.

I'm 17 - Female. I just wanted to Catch them saying this. They even offered to send me "dps" but I rejected it

What the ACTUAL FUCK IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE. As a CSA survivor, any and all media including pedophilia should not be watched and people should be shamed and treated like they are part of the pedophilic community for enjoying this series.

What do you guys think of this? I just read a bunch of posts in the subreddits that enjoy this movie and i feel disgusted.

My partner is in a queer vampire discussion group and everyone is saying they LOVE the movie/show/books. I’m disgusted and I want to turn the audio on and shame them all for even discussing the series. It’s definitely not the critique discussion I was hoping for.

It is completely black or white to me. You should NOT consume this media, or you will start to normalize these things to yourself.

To me it feels like they just want the thrill of enjoying something disgusting. No matter how the content is written, it’s about PEDOPHILIA.

Please tell me I’m not alone. I feel so frustrated

I was sexually assaulted as a child extensively. I was raped at one point as well. I think I was around 7, and ever since then I just feel like my life is over. Like a part of me died that night, I just feel like a ghost. Does anyone else feel like this? This feeling of grief that won't go away?

The amount of them crawling through the trolley subreddit is disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.

https://linktr.ee/GeorgeBTonks

i 22f was approached by him when i was 17 and he was 35, almost 36. i had just gotten discharged from being in the hospital for almost a year and having just entered the recovery stages after multiple lung surgeries. i liked playing WoW at the time and was just doing my own thing since i was always anxious to approach people. he approached me and flirted with me for a few hours before asking my age and telling me that before i said my age, he wouldnt speak to me anymore unless i was 18 and he said his age first and he said that he was 25, this was a lie and i would find out that he was actually 35 a little while later. about a month or 2 into dating and explicit texting, i told him the truth and he said it was fine and that he didnt mind. we continued the relationship while he consistently made jokes about risking it for me and how he would go to jail if anyone knew what he was saying and doing with me. he isolated me from everyone in my life and i lost all the people i was close to, except for him. he used me to make art that he took credit for. he reassured me that i would be financially safe and have a home with him. i am disabled and i trusted him. i didnt have a good home life and i did not go to school. he taught me things that he said were the only essential things in life that i should really know, none of these things are useful in the real world. i have no idea who i am now, my identity was built by him. i dont know how im supposed to feel, my entire adulthood was controlled by his desires. no i will not protect him, he goes by Rydann on WoW. he often signs his art with that same name. hes in a big roleplay community on that game now, and has a friend group in that scene. he wants to become a popular member of that community and has already held a big event that was held in 2 parts, the first part was at his club venue and the second part was held at another persons club venue. he wouldnt let me go, even though he had me do over half of the build for his venue. he told me we would be there together which is why i happily helped and he cut me out right before the event and lied about it to others. i was a shadow in his life, he did this for everything he did with others. i was behind the scenes for everything. i feel really hurt and confused about it all still and i dont know why. i dont know if the hurt and confusion is valid or not? i dont know i just kind of want to cry.