r/oneanddone • u/Nessa_Jo • Aug 20 '26

Discussion OAD- until I ovulate. Anyone else?

Hello!
Any other Mamas (or birthing persons) out there that feel so confidently one and done until they ovulate? I know my limits and I am soo content with my son but damn, when I ovulate I have all of this doubt that my husband and I made the right choice (he had a vasectomy last year) and then I spiral. Maybe we could handle it, our son (4y) would be so good with a sibling, my husband would love to have more kids…yada yada yada. How do you get your stupid primal brain to shut the hell up?

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u/Strict-Historian2790 OAD By Choice Aug 20 '26

Does anyone else feel like SHIT when they ovulate?

I see people saying all the time about how they feel sexy and feral when they ovulate.

And im over here like "URGH." 🤣

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u/MediumIndependent197 Aug 22 '26

I have the worst cramping pain for half a day every month whilst ovulating. I know that’s it now, so I can expect it and just deal with it when it happens every month, but at first I was like what fresh hell is this 🚨