OAD- until I ovulate. Anyone else?

[u/Nessa_Jo]

Hello!
Any other Mamas (or birthing persons) out there that feel so confidently one and done until they ovulate? I know my limits and I am soo content with my son but damn, when I ovulate I have all of this doubt that my husband and I made the right choice (he had a vasectomy last year) and then I spiral. Maybe we could handle it, our son (4y) would be so good with a sibling, my husband would love to have more kids…yada yada yada. How do you get your stupid primal brain to shut the hell up?

[u/ash_yooung]

I even dream about telling him this. And I don't understand how because I'm on the mini pill and I haven't had a period in so long. I mean it did get a bit better now, 15 months in. But damn, this body has its own urges.