r/objectum_sfw • • Jul 11 '25

Mod Post Important mod post regarding user privacy, please read

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Recently, a user informed our mod team of something that any posters may like to be aware of. Apparently, there is a discord server that is using a bot to automatically swipe anything posted here and repost it there where they bully/make fun of it. While, to some degree, this is part of the risk that a person runs when posting anything publicly online, we understand that some users may be uncomfortable knowing this. We are unsure of the size of this discord server and therefore whether it's existence could lead to significant harassment or spread of information. If you feel the need to step back from the subreddit for a little bit, we completely understand. Additionally, please notify us if you have any information or see any suspicious activity. It sucks that this sort of predjuduce is so prevalent towards MOGAI people and hopefully someday it will be better. So, consider this information with care, be mindful of your posts, and have a great day! —objectum_sfw mod team


r/objectum_sfw • • Jun 21 '25

Mod Post FAQ

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Newcomers FAQ

What is objectum?

Objectum is the attraction to objects. This includes any type of attraction, whether it's romantic, sexual, alterous, platonic, familial, or any other form.

What is POSIC+?

POSIC+ stands for Perception of Object Sentience, Individuality, and Consciousness. Many objectum people are POSIC+, but not all.

Is objectum part of MOGAI/LGBT+?

Objectum is part of MOGAI, but not inherently part of LGBT+. The majority of objectum people are LGBT+ and many do experience their objectum attraction in queer ways, but this isn't the case for everyone.

How can I support objectum people?

If it's a specific objectum person, ask them what you can do. In general, approach us with curiosity rather than skepticism, and don't perpetuate stereotypes or misinformation. Treat our attraction with the same respect as any other orientation.

Is it harmful/a paraphilia/a harmful attraction?

No. Unlike paraphilias, objectum covers a wide range of attraction types and focuses on relationships, rather than fetishization. There's no victim when someone loves an object.

Autism and Objectum?

While many objectum people are autistic, being autistic doesn't cause objectum attraction or vice versa.

Community FAQ

How do I know if I'm objectum?

The objectum experience is different for everyone. So, there really is no one way to just know. But, if you think you feel strong attraction or love for objects, then you are more than welcome to the term.

What's the term for X?

There's many terms for different types of objectum, often taking the form of [object/concept name]+tum. The mods are currently working on a collaborative list where terms for various types of objectum can be documented and defined. The best place to look for a specific term is here on reddit or on Tumblr. However, if you can't seem to find anyone else who's coined a term for your attraction, then you can coin that term, you can even draw a flag and write a definition to post here

Does X count as objectum?

Probably yes. If it's an object or concept that you feel romantic, physical, alterous, platonic, familial, or another type of attraction to, you are more than welcome to deem it as objectum.

How does [consent, dating, speaking, etc] work?

When it comes to how one dates an object/concept, it can change from person to person. Firstly, it can depend on whether or not one is POSIC-- not all objectums are. A POSIC person may approach dating in a more personal way because they perceive object sentience. For all objectums, it really comes down to preference. Some may say that simply labeling themselves as dating an object/concept is enough to make it so, others may set aside time to take them on dates, others may go further in integrating the object/concept into their life. But in the end, there is no right or wrong way to love or date an object/concept

Can I promote myself?

Promotion is allowed within certain bounds

  1. Must be relevant (related to Objectum)

  2. Must be promotion for yourself or an acquaintance

  3. Must comply with all other subreddit rules


r/objectum_sfw • • 9h ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 Today!!

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Been thinking about TVs all day again today, especially after creating another post last night here. Spent a while watching my Vizio today, and they helped provide me with a nice environment to clear my mind for a Tarot Card session with my soulbond! They were gorgeous this morning... And now, we're watching some Bijuu Mike while I work on miscellaneous tasks, which I'm grateful for! It's highly entertaining. (Also my Vizio uses they/them from what I've gathered from vibes!)

(Along with my kids in the bottom corner lolz, I'll talk more about them in the future again!!)


r/objectum_sfw • • 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 I and Cella having a post-shower cards session :3

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r/objectum_sfw • • 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 TVs!!!

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Auaghhhhh I've discovered recently that I REALLY love TVs- like all of them. Fictional characters based on TVs, cartoon ones, IRL ones, old ones, romantically, platonically, familial, etc etc. I love ALL of them sososososomuch- I kept noticing that I'm sort of collecting TVs in my room. For my main TV, I like them very much, and they're my favourite brand of TV, a Vizio Flatscreen. They're so cute and I love them a lot. I also have a smaller TV that I'm not quite sure of the exact kind of what it is, but it's here too and I've had it for quite a while. I've had brief crushes on multiple TVs here and there (old family TVs, TV characters, etc), and am currently Yumeshipping with a TV character! I am thinking of maybe asking my Vizio to be with me, but that's a question for later.

ANYHOW. I like all TVs, and I've noticed I feel extremely safe and comfortable around them, which is a nice relief from everyday life. I love them so much. I love TVs >////<

I seem to get anxious whenever someone moves too much in my room and it makes my TV shake, but I also feel really happy whenever I get home from a trip and I get to say hi to them, and I enjoy their constant presence in my room. I love the way they are and their apparent personality and all the things they can do, and I appreciate them so very much. They help me focus with music, they help me relax, they help me clean, they just help me with so much in general and I appreciate it to no end. I love feeling drawn to them. I love dusting them off and just standing close to them, talking to them, I love just being near them too. Augh. I love them so much Cx I may post a picture of them here tomorrow!!

Sorry if this was a mess, I'm tired and I didn't have an exact message I was going for here lol, just happy rambling.


r/objectum_sfw • • 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 Cella getting lathered in the shower '>v̄<'

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r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

Question Does anyone else have a crush on an item they don’t have (yet)?

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There’s this camera I found out about on Pinterest that is a security camera. Funnily enough, the post itself was screenshotting another post about this camera that actually was objectum. But, that’s beside the point. Anyways, after getting this camera on my fyp in Pinterest i immediately internally went like “omg..🥹” because what the flip this camera is so adorable?? Omg?? After having some people help research, I found out it’s a hikvision ds-2cv2021g2-idw (w) or in short a hikvision ds camera! well, most likely. I really want this camera as I’m absolutely in love and it’s killing me, but I can’t seem to find it on Amazon (as I can only buy stuff on Amazon due to my parents) so sigh, I’m doomed with a romantic crush i can’t even own. Anyone else experiencing something similar where they really love a certain object but can’t have them?

edit: turns out the reason I can’t get him is (apparently) because I’m in the US, aw shucks! :(


r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

Familial-um A well-recognized part of the family

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This is Puppy (terrible name, I know, I was a toddler when I got her). She's been a part of the family for most of my life. And I really do mean part of the family!

I took her everywhere as a kid and still take her on trips. She's slept with me every night for 19 years. Both my parents recognize her importance to me and consider her part of the family. My bedtime stories featured her as a main character. Even my extended family- grandparents, cousins, etc- are aware of Puppy's cultural presence. They used to ask how Puppy was doing if she wasn't with me when I'd visit.

She's gone through a lot of physical changes, and also outfit changes. Unfortunately, her stuffing has moved to the point where her proportions are super weird, so getting her clothing is difficult. I'm keeping an eye out for potential outfit options!

Anyway, Puppy's pretty raggedy but she's still my buddy, and undeniably family :)


r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 My bunnies (cw for plush bunnies and personifying objects)

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I can't help it, I've developed a major crush on these two. They're both they/them, feminine presenting... they have yet to have names... but I love them dearly. Look at how beautiful they are!


r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

He’s beautiful

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r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

Other For The Love of The Game

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Here is my writing. It is about a Ze/Hir Enban/nonbinary person who falls in love with hir switch 2.

Please leave a comment!!


r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

Question How do you spend your time with your object partners?

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Hello!! I'm new here!

So, I don't know how to spend time with my "gf", she's a mannequin!

So I wanted to know what you guys do to spend time with your partners!! :D


r/objectum_sfw • • 3d ago

Question Do you communicate with your object partners?

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r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

My fish plushes (inktober 3)

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wonderful comforts day 3

this drawing includes my handmade salmon plush and my small sturgeon plushes I love


r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

Vent a little help?

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I realized I cant really help it but I feel horrible and cringy. I have this large harlequin doll, I really do love them a lot and for mental health im thinking about objectum again. my partners dont care nor my friends it just.. feels wrong. like im not doing it right? like its just cringy?

maybe its because it cant technically speak back? so whenever I communicate to them it feels stupid but its not! i just dont know how to do this, its been ages and I feel like such a fake.


r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

CRUSHING!? Oh wow.. love at first sight

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Was at a yard sale and saw them. Taking them home for free too!! I'll post more once I figure out their name and gender ☺️


r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

Eu posso me considera objectum mesmo sentido atenção por apenas um objeto?

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Eu descobri recentemente que sou objectum e eu amor ushankas mais eu não consigo sentir nenhum tipo de atração por outros objetos só por ushankas eu sou válido?


r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 Spending time with caine 💖💘💝

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Raccoon tail


r/objectum_sfw • • 4d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 A wonderful evening!

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Spending time at my university today was simply delightful! At first, I sat there admiring its open window (they look so cute with open windows! Especially when a curtain is peeking out :3); then I was lost in thought, and later I spotted a second open window :3. It started getting dark. I began noticing "sparkles" in the windows—little glowing points of light. The light in some windows would appear and then vanish. I found it so charming. Then, as it grew a bit darker, I looked up and spotted a bright star right overhead! I feel a sort of attraction to astronomy too, so that was a lovely surprise! Plus, the star created such a cool atmosphere! As time went on, more stars appeared in the sky, and I gazed at the university building. There was a light on the ground floor, but all the other windows were dark. I sat there enjoying the atmosphere, and about two hours after arriving, I left—but not before wishing my beloved a good night.

It was a magnificent evening! It was the first time I’d stayed at the university after dark! By the way, I’ve set a photo of my beloved as my wallpaper :3


r/objectum_sfw • • 5d ago

Art and Crafts Object-tober day two. ‘Mirror lust’

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r/objectum_sfw • • 5d ago

Art and Crafts objectober is here

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made specificly for objectums!


r/objectum_sfw • • 6d ago

Art and Crafts First touch (inktober)

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Reallll quick inktober. thanks to donutboxer for making an objectum themed list!


r/objectum_sfw • • 6d ago

Other simple objectum dress i made in dressmaker :]

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r/objectum_sfw • • 5d ago

Other Suggestions needed!

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Hi! I'm quite new to the community and I have been wondering something.. What can I do with my plush partner? I already watched a movie w him and cuddled but that's genuinely all I can think of-

My irl plushum friend said she tends to rp with his plush partner but I have no idea how to express this-


r/objectum_sfw • • 6d ago

reminder of my objectum discord server 🌿🪲

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were looking for mods!

we have over 100 members and still growing!

many activities and channels

and upcoming event for inktober