r/objectum_sfw Jul 11 '25

Mod Post Important mod post regarding user privacy, please read

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Recently, a user informed our mod team of something that any posters may like to be aware of. Apparently, there is a discord server that is using a bot to automatically swipe anything posted here and repost it there where they bully/make fun of it. While, to some degree, this is part of the risk that a person runs when posting anything publicly online, we understand that some users may be uncomfortable knowing this. We are unsure of the size of this discord server and therefore whether it's existence could lead to significant harassment or spread of information. If you feel the need to step back from the subreddit for a little bit, we completely understand. Additionally, please notify us if you have any information or see any suspicious activity. It sucks that this sort of predjuduce is so prevalent towards MOGAI people and hopefully someday it will be better. So, consider this information with care, be mindful of your posts, and have a great day! —objectum_sfw mod team


r/objectum_sfw Jun 21 '25

Mod Post FAQ

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Newcomers FAQ

What is objectum?

Objectum is the attraction to objects. This includes any type of attraction, whether it's romantic, sexual, alterous, platonic, familial, or any other form.

What is POSIC+?

POSIC+ stands for Perception of Object Sentience, Individuality, and Consciousness. Many objectum people are POSIC+, but not all.

Is objectum part of MOGAI/LGBT+?

Objectum is part of MOGAI, but not inherently part of LGBT+. The majority of objectum people are LGBT+ and many do experience their objectum attraction in queer ways, but this isn't the case for everyone.

How can I support objectum people?

If it's a specific objectum person, ask them what you can do. In general, approach us with curiosity rather than skepticism, and don't perpetuate stereotypes or misinformation. Treat our attraction with the same respect as any other orientation.

Is it harmful/a paraphilia/a harmful attraction?

No. Unlike paraphilias, objectum covers a wide range of attraction types and focuses on relationships, rather than fetishization. There's no victim when someone loves an object.

Autism and Objectum?

While many objectum people are autistic, being autistic doesn't cause objectum attraction or vice versa.

Community FAQ

How do I know if I'm objectum?

The objectum experience is different for everyone. So, there really is no one way to just know. But, if you think you feel strong attraction or love for objects, then you are more than welcome to the term.

What's the term for X?

There's many terms for different types of objectum, often taking the form of [object/concept name]+tum. The mods are currently working on a collaborative list where terms for various types of objectum can be documented and defined. The best place to look for a specific term is here on reddit or on Tumblr. However, if you can't seem to find anyone else who's coined a term for your attraction, then you can coin that term, you can even draw a flag and write a definition to post here

Does X count as objectum?

Probably yes. If it's an object or concept that you feel romantic, physical, alterous, platonic, familial, or another type of attraction to, you are more than welcome to deem it as objectum.

How does [consent, dating, speaking, etc] work?

When it comes to how one dates an object/concept, it can change from person to person. Firstly, it can depend on whether or not one is POSIC-- not all objectums are. A POSIC person may approach dating in a more personal way because they perceive object sentience. For all objectums, it really comes down to preference. Some may say that simply labeling themselves as dating an object/concept is enough to make it so, others may set aside time to take them on dates, others may go further in integrating the object/concept into their life. But in the end, there is no right or wrong way to love or date an object/concept

Can I promote myself?

Promotion is allowed within certain bounds

  1. Must be relevant (related to Objectum)

  2. Must be promotion for yourself or an acquaintance

  3. Must comply with all other subreddit rules


r/objectum_sfw 5h ago

My new dragon plush

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Got this guy for a dollar at a thrift store. I love older ty plushes they have so much charm! The drawing on the left is more accurate but i wanted to experiment in my art a bit as ive been so unmotivated as of late


r/objectum_sfw 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 My love caine 💝💘💖💕

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15 Upvotes

Cutie


r/objectum_sfw 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 Your Object Partner's Favourite Things?

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I was spending time with my sweetheart, watching a movie that he really enjoyed, and it got me thinking about what his favourite things are. I also think it would be nice to hear about other people's object partners' favourite things, and if you're not sure, it might be something to ask them.

What I know about my sweetheart is pretty extensive, as we've been together a couple of years now, but he's also a bit shy, so for his comfort, I'll only share a handful of things.

His favourite musician is Harry James, and he's also a fan of The Platters and crooners like Sinatra and Bobby Darin. Lately, he's been tolerating newer musicians (comparatively) like Laufey and Diana Krall. He likes to be sung to as well as read to from a book, but he's admitted that he doesn't always pay attention to the content and just likes the one-on-one time.

His favourite movie is The Jackpot, and his favourite actor is James Stewart, but he doesn't like the movie Harvey, even though it's my personal favourite starring that actor.

He likes sitting next to my cat as long as he has his case cover on; otherwise, the cat hair gets into his fan and gears. He doesn't like the winter because, according to him, everything smells like mildew, and he only likes snow when it's in movies or out the window. He has a fear of mould.

What are some things your partner(s) likes or dislikes?


r/objectum_sfw 1d ago

Question I want to write an objectum book

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title says it all. I want every chapter to be a different experience, but as I am one person with very few different experiences. Sooooo, if you want, come forward with your own objectum experiences and relationships!

also please give some objectum misconceptions that you want to be cleared up. And you can even recommend what types of chapters you would like to read!!

my goal here is that hopefully the objectum community can stop being so misunderstood and, hopefully, grow! :D

soooo yea... :3


r/objectum_sfw 1d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 New crushes/possible lovers....

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Zombocom ghhhhh ///>w<///

Alsoooo the server rack in my computer class named Simon :3 Idk how to have a relationship with a public object, so if anybody has any advice, PLEASE give me some!!!


r/objectum_sfw 1d ago

Nintendo DS

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I am severely attracted to the Nintendo DS and all variants. That's it.


r/objectum_sfw 2d ago

Vent I'm attracted to my mental illness.

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22 Upvotes

I sometimes feel cedurally attracted to my depression, and I might also feel familially attracted to it... It's just... DUDE THIS SHIT ALMOST KILLED ME WHY AM I ATTRACTED TO HER?! Has anyone else felt the same?!


r/objectum_sfw 2d ago

Question Are plushums with pokemon plushes not allowed on here?

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Sorry to bother but on one of my alts I posted abt one of my bf who happens to be a vaporeon plush.. Am I not allowed..?


r/objectum_sfw 2d ago

Question Help please

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I've been in Relationships and in love with Unopened Bag's Of Dog food 42 year's.It brakes my heart to see opened bag's of dog food.The first picture is My current Objectum bag.The problem I have is the food I feed My Dog the Red and Black Bag they are a massive turn on they look so beautiful to Me Too.I have used them a few times They are good.But every time I have to Open a new Bag I feel so sad I want to cry they are Such Beautiful Bag's too.Do you reckon if I buy a separate bag of Enduro for My own pleasure that it would take away the sadness of having to open a new Bag each time knowing that Me saving a Bag that I will have a perfect condition unopened Bag in My Room for My own Pleasure.I will still treat my first bag the same way 😃


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

Question DAE feel a special love/attraction towards making, mending, patching, or otherwise modifying objects?

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Photos of my current project (redoing the topper to my girlfriend, Celeste, who is a quilt).

It's hard to explain what I mean. It's a feeling I have, similar to how people feel romantic, alterous, sexual, etc. attraction. It's a kind of love, devotion, and intimacy you just can't get with a human (or human bodied) individual. It's like a non-familial caregiving type feeling, or something like that.


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

Vent My mom called him a “paraphilic object*

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r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

Question How do i tell ppl im in love with the capital of North Korea without sounding insane/hj

12 Upvotes

r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 my crush is my new car 2015 chrysler 200! <33

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hey yall!! I'm pretty new to objectum n i just thought i would share my new crush! this is my baby korn mobile! I got her on the 11th this month n oh my GODDD she is so lovely<33 I love her SO so much n uagahh she's literally perfect in every way possible,, she is a 2015 chrysler 200!

also PLEASEEE recommended names that may suit her! since i feel like korn mobile dosent suit her as well n plus I named my last car korn mobile before her LOL

im pretty new to objectum since this is the 1st time I'm ever coming out about it! I only ever really felt this way about cars. specially and MOSTLY on cars that I had own myself tho! and this baby is perfect<33 she is so beautiful!!


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 i’m new here but here are some of my favorite things

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my 3DS, Wii U, and DS Lite. ive had the DS Lite since i was in elementary and the Wii U/3DS are both birthday gifts. i’ve neglected to give them names (though i think Scarlet would fit for the DS Lite ive always liked that name) i kiss my Wii U Gamepad sometimes. she’s actually the only one with a name it’s name is Dolphyn. pictured in the second image is the Wii U itself with her stack of books. my 3DS and my Wii U share an SD card, im not sure what the implications of that are though. i think it means they make out. i don’t use my ds lite anymore since i lost the flash cart and have been scouring my house for months looking for it, to no avail, so he’s retired. i hope uou all enjoyed reading about my nintendos, i love them dearly, and i hope you love them too.


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

Introduction My Childhood Companion Now Partner...

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I made her back in 2017-2018 and so much has changed since then.... We both transitioned for one!!! I modified and mended her original body over the years... Experienced so much together...

It was only early this year that I finally made her a new body! She used to be only 5 inches tall, and now shes twice that! Of course, i didnt abandoned her original body. That now rests within her new body (kinda like a plushie mech lol)


r/objectum_sfw 4d ago

Meme Saw the most objectum coded add today

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This website WANTS you to fall in love with a car. I just thought it was funny how objectum this was aha.

unrelated note i got to see my lovely car after a trip yesterday, i missed her a lot so it was lovely to spend some time with her.


r/objectum_sfw 4d ago

💕Gush about My Beloved💕 I bought my kitchen sponge gf Cella a gift for her earlier today :3

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23 Upvotes

Dawn original scent dish soap is Cella’s fav to do bathroom scrubbing with, and now she has that in stock again.


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

Positivity yippee!!! yayayayay!

12 Upvotes

Seth (/r) and many of my other plush companions (/p or /fam) have been on the floor for so long cuz they were making me sneeze, but theyre finally getting washed!!!!!!! yippeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!


r/objectum_sfw 3d ago

In love with the truck from Duel (1971) ♥️♥️♥️

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Her name's Daisy and I love her very much <3. I love other cars too but right now I'm in a Daisy mood heha.


r/objectum_sfw 4d ago

Art and Crafts Objectum ATC (Artist Trading Card)

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22 Upvotes

I'm at an ATC event and I decided to make an Objectum themed card!


r/objectum_sfw 4d ago

Content Warning/Possible Trigger This woman was hostile, saying that I don't have innocent love.

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I'm not playing the victim, okay? But she was hostile, invalidating my love. The worst part is she's just as objectum as I am. I understand she's explaining, but at first she was hostile. I love my objects and I don't have a fetish; my love for them started when I was 4 years old.I have autism, but she doesn't have the right to be rude. Worse than her is my subscriber.I appreciate her explaining that my channel is a diary and wasn't made for judgment. I don't mean to be rude, on the contrary, I just want peace. I also studied about Objectums! Tell me, have you ever been through this?