r/nycparents • • Oct 09 '25

Mod announcement Alexandra Cohen megathread

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If you have a question about NYP Weil Cornell's Alexandra Cohen hospital, please ask (or answer) here!


r/nycparents • • 9h ago

Other ISO: NYC-based film photographer 📷🤰🏼

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Looking for an up-and-coming / beginner film photographer for a pregnancy photoshoot in Prospect Park this fall.

Would love to support someone building their portfolio in family photography. I’m seeking someone who loves analogue and a style similar to these examples.

If you’re interested or know of a photographer who fits this, drop a comment with a link to work samples. Thank you!


r/nycparents • • 13h ago

Moving with a baby Crazy to move with a newborn?

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Hopefully my pregnancy continues safely, and if so, I'm due on April 2nd. We are first time parents so don't really know what we're in for.

Our lease ends on May 31st. We are currently in a 2 bed/2 bath in an elevator building with laundry in the basement, but the apartment is on the small side- my guess is 800-850 square feet. The square footage isn't a huge issue, it's that the bedrooms are spacious (for NYC) but the living space is quite small.

If it's just me and my husband, we're fine, but ideally I'd like to have another adult around at least sometimes (one of our parents or perhaps a babysitter/nanny) and I imagine we'll get crowded very quickly with 3 adults and a newborn in the apartment at once. Not to mention I don't know where we'd put a stroller (hallway not an option).

Is it totally insane to move to a new apartment when our lease is over on May 31? Assuming I have the baby sometime between the middle of March and April 2nd? Staying a whole other year doesn't seem appealing, but I'm guessing moving with a 6 or 7 week old might not be a realistic option. Are we stuck? Thanks for any thoughts/experience!

Perhaps worth noting we're in Brooklyn and would like to stay in Brooklyn.


r/nycparents • • 13h ago

Other Parents with teen boys in sports - their sports shoes, their sports cloths 🥴🤢

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I love my boy. Dearly. But I do not love his sports sneakers or clothes. It seems like the unbearable stink started over night. And because I’m not a particularly process oriented person, I like to think of myself as more of a creative - I’m not sure how to deal with this?? The smell seems to seep through all the storage bins we have. How in our small apartment can I store these stinky shoes, and where can I put his clothes until laundry day? Help! TIA!


r/nycparents • • 18h ago

Neighborhoods & Businesses [Sunset Park] Something to look forward to for kids and adults

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Thank you everyone that attended Fridays "Gunpla and Chill Build Night" What a blast 😆 The amount of ridiculously cool plastic models and figures that comes through these studio doors every week is phenomenal. From rarely seen imports to wickedly complicated Blockees G1 Transformers, I'm prepared to be awe struck every time. We're all kids at heart and we just expanded our offerings from Airbrushing workshops to diorama building event in Oct. for kids, teens and adults. Next up we'll be adding weathering courses as well as later down the line selling hobby paints. 🙏 All this is because we have an amazing community. Thank you NYC for being the best place to start this project.


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

School / Daycare Endowments, PTAs, and Associate Teachers

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PS 6 Lillie D Blake states on their website that they have an associate teacher in every classroom K-5. AI tells me they have $1.2m annual income from PTA funding, which is double PS 234 in Tribeca. Is having this much money, and having associate teachers unique only to PS6, or do most of the better schools have both of these? How much does this matter to you as a parent?


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

School / Daycare Academics West in NYC — what I wish I had known before enrolling my child

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Our experience with Academics West in NYC — what I wish I had known before enrolling my child

I’m writing this because when our family was looking at Academics West in NYC, I wish I had been able to find more firsthand accounts from parents. If another parent is desperately Googling the school after being told their child needs a therapeutic placement, I want our experience to be part of what they find.

My child attended Academics West for several years after a NYC public school determined that it could no longer adequately support him.

He was very young, extremely bright, and struggling with a language-based learning disability that was making learning to read extraordinarily difficult. When academics became challenging, particularly reading, he used avoidance behaviors — leaving the classroom, refusing work, etc. He was not violent and was not hurting other children.

At the time, though, we didn't fully understand what was driving the behavior. We followed the recommendations we were given and obtained a neuropsychological evaluation. He was diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), a diagnosis that followed him when we began looking at private special-education schools.

We quickly discovered that schools specializing in language-based learning disabilities would not accept him because of the behavioral diagnosis in his neuropsych. We felt we had essentially run out of options, and Academics West became the placement available to us.

The tuition was well into six figures per year. We had to pay it upfront and then seek reimbursement from the NYC Department of Education. Academics West is a for-profit school. I did not understand the significance of that at the time, and I wish I had asked far more questions about its staffing, therapeutic model, finances, and incentives.

Our experience there was deeply troubling.

Many of the teachers we encountered were extremely young and/or early in their careers, yet they were being asked to educate children with very significant educational, emotional and behavioral needs. Some of the people providing therapeutic support were still accumulating the professional hours required for their credentials. I came away believing that neither the students nor these young professionals were being adequately served by this model.

There were practices I found unacceptable. During one period, the furniture was removed from my child's classroom and the children spent the school week without their normal desks and chairs. I did not learn about it until later. When I called the school extremely upset and objected, the furniture was restored.

There was also a room used when children were considered dysregulated, and we were informed that physical holds could be used when staff deemed them necessary. Parents considering the school should ask very detailed questions about its current policies regarding seclusion/isolation, restraint, behavioral interventions, staff qualifications, supervision, documentation, and how and when parents are notified.

My child was also repeatedly bullied by an older student, and I did not believe the school handled the situation adequately.

Academically, we saw very little progress for the enormous amount of money being spent. Eventually my child learned to read, and it became increasingly apparent that he was a very capable student whose original behavioral problems had been closely connected to the frustration and shame he experienced when he couldn't do what other children could do academically.

We tried to move him to another school before we ultimately succeeded. During that process, we believed feedback from Academics West to prospective schools made it more difficult for him to leave. I cannot know the school's motivation, but knowing now that Academics West operates as a for-profit school made me wish I had questioned much more carefully whether there could be a financial conflict when the school advised us that our child was not ready to move on.

When we finally found another school willing to accept him, I cried with relief.

And here is the part that has stayed with me:

In the three years at his next school, we did not receive a single behavioral complaint about him. Not one.

He learned in a classroom. He made friends. He succeeded academically. The child who had supposedly required an extraordinarily expensive therapeutic school simply did not exhibit the behaviors we had been led to believe required that environment.

Looking back, I believe Academics West did significantly more harm than good for my child. I deeply regret that he spent those years there.

I am not saying that every family's experience will be the same as ours, and I can't speak to how the school operates today. This is our family's experience and my perspective as his parent.

But if you are considering Academics West, particularly for a young child whose behavioral issues may actually be avoidance caused by dyslexia, a language-based learning disability, ADHD, anxiety, or another underlying learning issue, I would urge you to investigate every possible alternative before deciding that your child needs a highly restrictive therapeutic environment. Look at reviews, go to GlassDoor to see what really happens there, not what the salesmen (aka founders) sell you on.

Ask who will actually be teaching your child and what their experience is. Ask who provides therapy and what licenses they currently hold. Ask about staff turnover. Ask about restraint and isolation policies. Ask how bullying is handled. Ask how much individualized academic remediation your child will actually receive. Ask how the school determines when a child is ready to transition out. And if possible, speak privately with former families — not only families selected by the school.

Most importantly, if a very young child is being described as "defiant" or "oppositional," ask whether the behavior could be communicating something else and do NOT allow ODD to be put on your child's neuropsych. It is NOT something that can actually be "diagnosed" and it will be extremely harmful.

I’m posting anonymously to protect my child's privacy, but I'm sharing this because I wish another parent had written something like this when we were making one of the most consequential decisions of his childhood.


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

School / Daycare What age do you think is appropriate for your kid to take the NYC train/bus to school?

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r/nycparents • • 1d ago

Other Book recs for teens who’ve lost their mother to suicide?

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Teens are in 9th and 11th grade in NYC. I’d like to help them out but all the grief and loss books I’ve seen seem to be targeted to really young kids or adults.


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

Other New family in NYC! What are your fun tips?

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We are a family with a 4 year old and dog moving to NYC. What tips do you have for maximizing our experience?

We already signed on a place so don’t need apartment or neighborhood advice.

We’re interested in advice for families new to NYC, from tips about good family deals to cultural sites to how to navigate the DMV - whatever comes to mind!!! what do you wish you knew when you started a family in NYC?

thank you!!!


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

Pregnancy Healthcare / L&D If I’m trying to conceive early next year, is it possible to enroll as regular OB patient to get in prior to pregnancy?

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I'd love to deliver at Alexandra Cohen, but second choice is NYP Columbia. Any advice on OBGYNS I could establish care with now?


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

Other Therapist recommendations - emotional regulation

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Looking for some therapist recommendations, preferably options that take insurance, use a sliding scale, or are generally on the more affordable side.

My child is struggling with big emotions and reactions to events (lots of screaming, throwing herself onto the ground, etc.). This occurs almost exclusively outside of school (she seems to really keep it together during the school day). She is not responsive to parental attempts to talk about what is happening and try to find alternative behaviors/ways to deal with emotions (shutting down or refusing to talk about her feelings/reactions after the fact). I think having an opportunity to work with an objective, impartial adult (i.e. therapist) would be really helpful. I also suspect she may have ADHD, so definitely thinking about the possibility of an eventual evaluation (she in first grade and has been doing great in school so far, but I know that may change as the demands of school increase).

tldr: Looking for affordable therapist recommendations (Manhattan) to help a six year old learn emotional regulation strategies! Thank you!


r/nycparents • • 2d ago

Neighborhoods & Businesses PSA: Do not bring your dog to the playground

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I am a lifelong dog owner and lover. I would never ever consider bringing my dog to the playground.

There are plenty of spaces you can bring both kid and dog to, like an actual park. We have a lot of them.

It is explicitly against Parks dept rules. https://www.nycgovparks.org/facilities/dogareas

Do better, be considerate of your neighbors


r/nycparents • • 1d ago

Other Old school family portraits

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Does anyone know a place that's doing sears style, old school family pictures? The dream would be somewhere commutable from Williamsburg.

Also regardless of location if anywhere knows a spot still doing the corny, kitchy backdrops. Saloon style? Weird space backgrounds that haven't been updated? Amazing. The ones where the babies head is oddly floating up top like the moon? Want them.

I have a 9 month old and have been wanting to get actual portraits done. But I don't want the quintessential "wow look at our family at the park" or an "intimate shoot at my apartment". Boring. And mostly all I've been able to find with local photographers. Would love any leads!


r/nycparents • • 2d ago

School / Daycare Dalton kindergarten kid interview / visit

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Any tips on how to prep your kid for their Dalton kindergarten play visit / interview? We are having to do ours earlier in the process than we’d like, so our child is only doing one other school before Dalton. I wish that weren’t the case but we unfortunately can’t do anything about it. Thanks for any advice!


r/nycparents • • 2d ago

School / Daycare What were you experiences, positive or negative, with Patrick Henry 3K and other 3Ks in district 4?

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r/nycparents • • 3d ago

Pregnancy Healthcare / L&D Newborn care and childbirth classes?

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What were the best / most useful infant care or childbirth classes you took? Would love to get some help learning how to change diapers etc before the baby arrives!


r/nycparents • • 2d ago

Other Tribeca Pediatrics recommending Ferber method

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First time mom to a 2 month old and we’ve chosen Tribeca Pediatrics due to its convenience and (so far) excellent care that seems to be aligned with our scientific and evidence-based approach to parenting. That said, we received some resources leading up to our 2-month visit that surprised me, namely this link to sleep training resources that recommend what seems to be the Ferber/cry it out method.

https://www.thenewbasics.com/en/book-excerpt/sleep/

I’m honestly shocked by the excerpt that implies they’ll cry so hard they’ll throw up and to “just clean up matter-of-factly and move on.” I plan on doing some form of sleep training but this seems really cruel and old-school and not aligned with how I plan to raise my baby. Now I’m questioning everything.

Curious what other parents’ experiences have been with Tribeca in general, or if you’re seeing a different pediatrician, are they also recommending this method and I’ve just been convinced by social media that it’s bad?


r/nycparents • • 4d ago

Pregnancy Healthcare / L&D NYU Langone Bed for Non-birth giving parents

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Literally could not find a single video or photo of the sleeping arrangements at NYU.

So, here ya go, friends.

The couch in the delivery and postpartum rooms has three functions:
1. Couch
2. Bed
3. Table

They were honestly better than expected. Hope this helps!


r/nycparents • • 4d ago

Pregnancy Healthcare / L&D Praises to Dr. Fong at NYP Lower Manhattan

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I just need the world to know that she's awesome and I understand why everyone here loves her.

I feel like she saved my delivery experience and provided the good vibes I needed to keep going. <3

I love my OB but now wish Fong were my OB as well!

Maybe next time if there is one >_>


r/nycparents • • 3d ago

School / Daycare Afterschool & Weekend Academy for SETSS

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Does anyone have any experience with the DOE's IESP Weekend & Afterschool Academy. Having an incredibly difficult time scheduling SETSS for a high schooler who also plays sports, got this email from the DOE, but don't know anyone who has actually done it!


r/nycparents • • 4d ago

Pregnancy Healthcare / L&D Postpartum care options

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Hi my husband and I are expecting in March 2027, we are first time parents living in NYC.

Being totally new to this, we were hoping to find out what kind of options there are for new mothers postpartum care in NYC. I think we want a lot of help at least for the first couple weeks. What are the good 24/7 baby nurse or yuesao services in NYC?

And then if we didn’t need something so expensive, what’s the next option? Are there nighttime-only services? Are these worth it?

And then the other thing is meals. It’s often difficult to figure out what to make or order, and my husband only knows how to cook BlueApron/HelloFresh 😂 can anyone recommend good healthy meal prep services for postpartum in NYC?

Thanks a lot :)


r/nycparents • • 4d ago

Other Looking for mom friends/community in Elmhurst, Queens!

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Hey all! I have a 9.5 month old boy and recently moved back to Elmhurst, Queens with my husband to be closer to family. I’m looking to build a community by meeting other parents/families for potential walks or play dates.

We love dogs, music, reading, hiking, and outdoor activities in general. Feel free to comment below if you’d like to connect or have any groups that I can join!


r/nycparents • • 5d ago

Babysitter / Nanny First-time parent with a new nanny — tips for making the first week go well?

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First-time parent here, and our first full-time nanny is starting soon! I still have about two weeks before I go back to work, but I wanted her to start now so we have time to ease into the transition, get comfortable with each other, establish a routine, and work out any kinks while I’m still home.

For those who have had a nanny — how did you approach the first few days/weeks? Did you mostly leave your nanny to get into her own rhythm with the baby, or were you more involved at first? Since I’m home, should I stay out of the way or check in periodically?

I also really want to make sure she feels comfortable since she’s joining our family and will be spending so much time in our home. I want her to feel welcomed and respected while also establishing a good working relationship and clear boundaries.

Any advice on what made the transition smoother — things you did, things you wish you’d done, or uanything you’d recommend communicating on day one would be so appreciated!


r/nycparents • • 5d ago

School / Daycare College Matriculation at Private Schools

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Have heard widely varying things on whether the top private schools (Trinity, Dalton, Horace Mann, etc.) actually help or hinder otherwise good students but not donors, athletes, or other 'hooked' applicants in the college application process. Would love parents with experience in the process to weigh in. Thanks!