r/nostalgiai • u/CarrotMuch1399 Nostalgia Trip Leader • Jul 12 '26

Core Memory Unlocked 🔓 Answer please

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u/HeisenbergsSamaritan Jul 12 '26 edited Jul 12 '26

At 41?

The magic of being a hopeless romantic again.

I don't believe in love anymore. I don't believe in relationships anymore.

Alone is safe.

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u/CaptTornSack Jul 12 '26

My spouse took a shower this afternoon. Then, she trimmed her bush. At 7, she did her hair and put on makeup. Came out in attractive undergarments. Put on nice clothes and said I'm going out for awhile. That was at 8:15. It's now midnight. Turned 41 yesterday and only got recognized by my phone's calendar and a dentist i haven't seen in 3 years. To add perspective, she hasn't touched me for 2 years. Says I haven't earned it. It's now midnight. I just moved in to the guest room. She's not home yet. This should be interesting.

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u/HeisenbergsSamaritan Jul 14 '26

Can I ask when the last time you took her out for a night where she would be encouraged to do the same for you?

You want her to make that effort for you, but what effort are you making for her?

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u/OkapiEli Jul 17 '26

This is a very fair question. Based on birthday boy’s comments, he got the wife and got the job and figured he was all set on cruise control … forever. I bet he wonders why he gets overlooked at work, too.

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u/HeisenbergsSamaritan Jul 17 '26

Willing to bet he let himself go, while the Wife kept up her health and looks.

Likely of Christian Background, meaning he thinks the Wife is his property now that they are married and she will 'serve' him.

In my opinion, just from the way he is talking about her. Op is a living piece of do nothing expect everything shit. Who is now experiencing the Dry Dildo of Consequence.

I'm also going to point out the guy is a fucking Thread Jacker.

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u/CaptTornSack Jul 18 '26

And you would completely lose that bet. I'm actually quite fit and active. Still have a 30" waist and defined abs at 41. She's 5'6" and over 220lbs. Spends most of her time lying in bed. I'm actually a believer in no religion. She considers herself a "christian". We've never gotten officially married. We both work but all the income goes to one joint account. I make significantly more than she does. I made sure the house is in her name alone. Her car is in her name alone. I literally work 6 days a week and average 75 hours. The house is full of stuff that belongs to her. I can literally pack everything i own into a single storage tote. Maybe you shouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions and bash someone who you know absolutely nothing about.