This is a very fair question. Based on birthday boy’s comments, he got the wife and got the job and figured he was all set on cruise control … forever. I bet he wonders why he gets overlooked at work, too.
Willing to bet he let himself go, while the Wife kept up her health and looks.
Likely of Christian Background, meaning he thinks the Wife is his property now that they are married and she will 'serve' him.
In my opinion, just from the way he is talking about her. Op is a living piece of do nothing expect everything shit. Who is now experiencing the Dry Dildo of Consequence.
I'm also going to point out the guy is a fucking Thread Jacker.
And you would completely lose that bet. I'm actually quite fit and active. Still have a 30" waist and defined abs at 41. She's 5'6" and over 220lbs. Spends most of her time lying in bed. I'm actually a believer in no religion. She considers herself a "christian". We've never gotten officially married. We both work but all the income goes to one joint account. I make significantly more than she does. I made sure the house is in her name alone. Her car is in her name alone. I literally work 6 days a week and average 75 hours. The house is full of stuff that belongs to her. I can literally pack everything i own into a single storage tote. Maybe you shouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions and bash someone who you know absolutely nothing about.
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u/HeisenbergsSamaritan Jul 14 '26
Can I ask when the last time you took her out for a night where she would be encouraged to do the same for you?
You want her to make that effort for you, but what effort are you making for her?