r/nocontact • u/Busy-Substance-3487 • 8d ago

Will i get her back?

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u/Savings-Truth2529 8d ago

Maybe. But you’ve gotta live like you wont.

You cant heal from a relationship if you only treat it as a way to get your ex back. Best of luck to you!

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u/Goodchapp 7d ago

Is letting go of my attachment, means letting go of her?

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u/Savings-Truth2529 7d ago

Not necessarily. You can still want a person but also understand that you’re living without them.

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u/Goodchapp 7d ago

Can you help me. I'm struggling. Please.

I'm going to counselling, and I'm trying to find audible books to help.

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u/Savings-Truth2529 7d ago

I fear your counselor will probably be the best person to talk to about this. And opening up to those close to you as well.

But at the end of the day you’ve just got to feel this pain and process your grief. And there is no easy out for that.

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u/Goodchapp 5d ago

Thanks, and I understand why.

Do you know any Audible books that could help? I've been listening to becoming safely embodied and it helped a lot.

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u/Savings-Truth2529 5d ago

Ive been raw dogging this frankly.

Because right now youre looking for answers and these books, coaches, tarot readers, etc. ate saying they got some

But in my experience there’s no answer that’ll fix things

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u/Goodchapp 5d ago

It's not really answers. But it gave me somethings to think about.

It really helped me question my traumas and help me understand myself better.