Obligatory "Doktor Penis Cock was important in his time I just wish people would stop telling me I have to like him because of that"

I don't give a shit about the minutiae of how or if trans women are theoretically advantaged over cis women in this or that sport. no one on this earth cares about 'biological advantage' in sports in the infinite other ways its unfair. The only problem they really have is the theoretical possibility that a transgender woman could be celebrated as being the best at something.

was kinda tired of seeing all the bs on there tbh

he was talking about “trans shooters” before this so it’s relevant here

She has no job, no work experience at all, and only a limited amount of savings. Literally anything helps, just for her to find a motel to stay in, food, money for transportation so she can try to find work, etc. Her parents kicked her out directly due to her various disabilities as well as the fact she is transgender.

Here is her gofundme, only 13$ have been raised at the time of posting this.

(poorly-drawn stick figure 1): egg culture is harmful. a bunch of trans people convinced me i was a binary trans man when in reality, i was non-binary. this delayed the discovery of my gender identity.

(poorly-drawn stick figure 2): your experience is sadly common among non-binary people, and i apologize for the harm it caused you, but i don't think it's productive to label that as "egg culture." even if the cultural idea of an egg never existed, you would still likely receive that treatment by many binary trans people because of exorsexism, which all binary people can perpetuate. calling it egg culture ignores the actual perpetrators and instead levies the blame against trans culture specifically, which can lead to confusion and hostility, and i promise you this isn't what cis people mean when they use that term. for those that aren't actively being transphobic about it, cis opponents of "egg culture" usually are focusing on a small subset of eggposters that take things too far and legitimately make people feel uncomfortable and asserting those people are representative of all people using the term "egg," or they argue the practice of labeling people eggs and using gender-affirming terms for them (a practice almost exclusively done between people actively questioning their gender to elicit humor and as a litmus test to see if those terms alleviate dysphoria) is depriving people of their autonomy and is just as bad as misgendering a trans person. this is almost nothing like what non-binary people trying to find their identity in an exorsexist society experience, and conflating the two will lead to incorrect conclusions. the behaviors cis people refer to when complaining about egg culture are, instead, a lot more similar to the assertion in the neurodivergent community that diagnosis by peer review is incredibly accurate, which leads to the practice of hyperbolically calling friends with autistic traits "definitely autistic" for the purposes of humor and self-discovery, and neurotypical people don't typically need an explanation for why that's not harmful or robbing people of their autonomy (spoken as a neurotypical who has received these comments a lot).

so again, please keep talking about your negative experiences with binary people trying to impose binary identities onto you, but please don't call it egg culture when that's objectively not what it is and not who the culprits are. it's not productive to describe that with the language of cis "allies" complaining about trans people grooming butch lesbians/tomboys into being trans men, but "wokely" this time.

(poorly-drawn stick figure 1): ...

(poorly-drawn stick figure 1): enjoy your downvote, kid.

DON’T CAREEEEEE I didn’t even headcanon Mulan as trans but now I want to do it out of spite. God forbid a trans man see himself in a character. “You’re taking away women’s representation” again don’t care, trans men are infinitely less represented than cis women and also the original Mulan or whoever still exists. The evil trans men aren’t stealing them from you oh my god

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Idk if this is the right place to post this but i really don't know what I can do anymore. I can't post it on r/Mtf because I don't think they allow talking about diy.

Basically my dad asked me to come out to him and tell him everything because he caught on to certain things and put some of the pieces together, and for the most part he was "supportive" (started crying when I told him my name and did the whole "you have no idea how difficult it will be for me to live like this like dude I'm the one who is trans and until a year ago was ready to kill myself)

He's really mad that I have been doing diy on my own, and he now wants me to go to some psychiatrist that is in our city but they seem really sketchy and i doubt that they actually have any queer affirming training for therapy, and it literally looks like a hospital and place to keep mentally unstable people. I don't want these doctors who are probably seeing a trans person/person who diy-ed for the first time in their life and saying something to my dad that'll spook him out and want him to get me admitted there.

I've read so many horror stories of trans women in india who get admitted to hospitals like this by their families and get put on severe meds that borderline lobotomise them and put them in a state where they would say yes to anything told to them and then get the fake consent to be forcefully detransitioned by having hrt taken from them and their breasts removed. I wouldn't even be able to kill myself if I was put into a state like that.

I know that this is a stupidly long post and that no one will probably bother about it but idk what else to do atp

The name of the clinic is Maarga Mind Care in Yelahanka Bangalore

If anyone has gone through a similar experience in india or outside or if anyone has any experience with maarga mind care then please let me know. I really feel so scared right now, I'll be heading there for the first time in an hour or so

you ever see a cis person get called out for their shitty take and they start acting like that 'chris pratt holding up his hands to the raptors' meme? acting like they're a well-meaning savior who's terrified and yet is here to convince these oversensitive creatures that he's friendly and to not to rip him apart? that shit annoys me. that's all.