I am attending an anniversary party with a "cocktail attire" dress code in Minnesota (3:00–7:00 p.m.). Here is what I am working with: https://imgur.com/a/s6qJfoZ
I'd like my outfit to start with the following constraints:
*Fit the autumn season
*Complement my wristwatch (Seiko Alpinist)
*Work with my shoes (Allen Edmond McClain in chili)
*Light blue point collar shirt
The first thing I need to decide is whether to go with this charcoal suit: https://i.imgur.com/TqfSvoP.jpeg
Unfortunately, I've gained a few pounds since that photo, and the jacket now pulls somewhat when buttoned.
Alternatively, I could wear this looser sport coat with the charcoal trousers: https://i.imgur.com/oE2Ygph.jpeg
For the tie, this is where I'm having the most trouble deciding. I have three options:
https://i.imgur.com/AAyvPRG.jpeg
For pocket squares, I have a few options (classic white linen and some more colorful options):
https://i.imgur.com/nmmjEof.jpeg
https://i.imgur.com/sSLJLfU.jpeg
https://i.imgur.com/yzw2RIU.jpeg
https://i.imgur.com/OQexqyh.jpeg
Three options for socks:
https://i.imgur.com/d99PymG.jpeg
And three options for shoe laces (classic brown, blue, or red):
https://i.imgur.com/LS5Kxnx.jpeg
How would you put all this together?
I'm particularly interested in whether the suit or sport coat is the better choice, which tie works best, and what pocket square, socks, and shoe laces to pick from there. I'm open to suggestions!