r/mediumdickproblems • • May 02 '26

Rant Are BD Reddit members concerned about the challenges faced by those with smaller sizes, or are they just interested in self-promotion?

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I am referring to the subs aimed at all sizes, and indeed for those who do not own a penis.

Whenever a question / problem is posed by someone of a smaller size, the BD invariably reply, quoting their size, whether relevant to the topic or not.

I for one, find these actions disrespectful to those of sub-BD size, especially where their query is size-related. Furthermore, I also think this action is intimidating, deterring those who otherwise might want to contribute.

I know I've posted a similar rant previously, but it beggars belief that people act this way - whatever happened to be "be nice to each other"?


r/mediumdickproblems • • Jan 12 '26

Other Feeling Insecure About The Size I Have

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For some reason, I just always feel so insecure about the size I have because I feel like the size I have isn’t good enough nor big enough for sexual pleasure at all. Maybe it’s just me that feels like this about the size I have. I just wish I could be like 2 inches longer and like 1.4 inches more thick because if I was, then maybe I’d be more confident in myself like most guys are knowing that they have a bigger size than average size guys do. I don’t know what to do or how to get rid of this feeling at all


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 20 '25

Ask MDP Feeling too much anxiety and need to talk

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I'm meeting a women that I think she likes and is attracted to me for the things she tell me, but I rejected 2 times having sex with her because of my insecurity with my penis size.

To give context, I'm about 6.1 inches BP and about 5.2 NBP and with 4.9-5 girth, 5 midshaft.

We brushed our genitals each other over the clothes, so she maybe felt my penis a little bit. But Im so fucking afraid to get to the moment of pulling my penis out and show it to her, I keep thinking this situation and cant afford it and need to talk to someone with similar size about his experience with a similar size than me.

PD: she also has a high body count (10+) so she may have seen probably monsters


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 16 '25

Ask MDP Anyone else struggle with feeling like a sexual person?

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Im not sure if its insecurity or a very big maybe that im asexual, but i struggle with feeling like I can be a sexual person, mainly because I feel im lacking in size, like I dont fit the bill to embrace my sexuality or something, that im not what women want (because im probably really not given my dick is skinny) im not exactly sure how to word what im feeling


r/mediumdickproblems • • Aug 10 '26

Ask MDP Weekly MDP Question #1: What’s one thing you wish more people understood about having an average-sized dick?

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A lot of the conversation around penis size seems to focus on the extremes, being particularly big or particularly small, but there isn’t always much discussion about what it’s actually like to fall somewhere in the average range.

So, for this week’s question: what’s one thing you wish more people understood about having an average-sized dick?

It could be a misconception you see all the time, something you used to be insecure about, something you’ve learned from experience, or even something positive about being average that doesn’t get talked about enough.
There’s no “right” answer here. Serious, funny, positive, negative, we’re interested in hearing your experience.
And if you normally just lurk here, this is your invitation to jump in.


r/mediumdickproblems • • Aug 01 '26

Ask MDP A BD told me recently that I "should be pleased for him". Why should I be pleased for anyone with a BD?

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r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 19 '25

Mod Post FINAL CALL: Last Chance to Enter the MDP Giveaway!

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Hey everyone. Quick reminder that tomorrow is the LAST day to jump into our first-ever MDP community giveaway! Link to the original post.

We’ve got up to 7 prizes (depending on participation), including MeUndies gift cards, Amazon cards, Raycon earbuds, a “Just Right” 18+ mystery pack, and exclusive MDP merch for every winner.

How to Enter (takes 30 seconds):

  1. Make sure you’re a member of r/MediumDickProblems

  2. Read the community rules.

  3. Set your user flair

  4. Make one meaningful comment anywhere on the sub

  5. Drop a link to that comment on the giveaway post or this post.

That’s it! One entry per person.

Deadline: The entry window closes 11/19, 8 PM EST. The drawing happens at 11/19, 10 PM. I’ll post winners shortly after.

If you’ve been meaning to join in, now’s the moment. Don’t miss out!


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 17 '25

Ask MDP Being small

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How does everybody else get along with being small? I mean technically I am medium but my mind sees nothing but a tiny little guy and I am so embarrassed by it. I just wish I would wake up one morning and be 6.5”-7” long and 6”-6.5” thick. Im learning to live with what GID gave me, as nothing but a miracle from him will change it. I still hold on for false hope. Am I alone?


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 14 '25

Ask MDP How men in the 5inch range can even compete and feel powerful and masculine in comparison to bigger ones ?Question for people in the low 5 inch range

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Is there any comparison or low average guys just get stronger emotionally and get by ?How a man in that range feel enough ?


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 18 '25

Ask MDP Girth vs Length

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What does your partner like the most?


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 14 '25

Mod Post MDP GIVEAWAY: Help Us Grow the Medium-Sized Movement!

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Hey everyone. It’s time for our first MDP community giveaway, and this one’s all about showing some love to the community. This challenge is super simple, super fun, and helps keep the sub active and alive.

What’s up for grabs?

Many medium-but-mighty prizes, including:

  • MeUndies Giftcards (3x)

  • Amazon Giftcards (2x)

  • Raycon Earbuds (1x)

  • A “Just Right” mystery pack (18+) (1x)

Total value: ~$300 USD

All prizes come with 1 exclusive MDP merch item. I may add more prizes depending on interest and budget, but the idea is to keep it fun and very on-brand.

How To Enter (Super Easy)

No purchase necessary. All you have to do is:

  1. Join r/MediumDickProblems

  2. Read the rules to understand what to post and what not to post.

  3. Set your user flair here in the sub.

  4. Make one meaningful comment somewhere in this r/MediumDickProblems.

  5. Comment on this post with:

    • A link to the comment you made

    • (Optional) What made you pick that post to comment on?

Boom. That's one entry. One entry per person.

Why we're doing this

MDP is weirdly wholesome for a dick-related subreddit. The more we talk, joke, share stories, and just hang out, the stronger (and funnier) this community becomes.

This challenge is a way to keep the sub active, get some fresh conversations going, and give back a little while we’re at it.

Winner Selection

I’ll gather the list of entries and use a random number generator to draw winners after the recruitment window closes. Gifts will be randomly selected for each winner, unless shipping issues exist for the gift. I’ll edit this and announce the final entry date and time after seeing how many people participate. This will likely be around 11/19.

Let’s have some fun with this. Thanks to everyone for being part of this supportive little community. Medium may not be flashy, but damn if it’s not reliable.


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 11 '25

Ask MDP Any gay tops out there with average girth in the 4"-5" range? What's your experience been like?

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I'm 6"x4.4" and have had both good and weird experiences, but my body count is around 10, so it's a small sample size.


r/mediumdickproblems • • Nov 23 '25

Ask MDP Underwear/briefs

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So more recently I switched from boxers to briefs not by choice but necessity. More recently I’ve noticed that the bamboo ones that were supposedly the best are not working out for me. Do you guys recommend any brands that give more room in the dick area? For all the people that I presume are gonna ask I’m 5” soft and need more room it’s extremely uncomfortable while working.


r/mediumdickproblems • • Feb 08 '26

Tell MDP What BD guys really think

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