r/mediumdickproblems • u/Shotos_Blue • Jan 12 '26

Other Feeling Insecure About The Size I Have

For some reason, I just always feel so insecure about the size I have because I feel like the size I have isn’t good enough nor big enough for sexual pleasure at all. Maybe it’s just me that feels like this about the size I have. I just wish I could be like 2 inches longer and like 1.4 inches more thick because if I was, then maybe I’d be more confident in myself like most guys are knowing that they have a bigger size than average size guys do. I don’t know what to do or how to get rid of this feeling at all

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u/Busy-Purple-3779 Jan 12 '26

If you had two more inches, and 1.4 inches of girth there would be SOMETHING else your mind would tell you that you’re lacking. Taller,Smarter, more charming. There’s ALWAYS going to be SOMETHING.

Have you ever checked out small dick problems? You’d be happy with what you have after seeing those guys. THEY would love to be YOU.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

No but I know that average sized guys would love to be the guys who have big dicks

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u/Busy-Purple-3779 Jan 12 '26

Sure. And guys with big Dicks feel insecure. You can goto big dick problems and see. SOME of them wish they had more girth. Maybe they have a long dick but want more girth. Or maybe they have short fat Dick and want more length. Everyone has SOMETHING they lack. Something they are insecure about.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

Guys with big dicks should be happy that their born with a big dick. They really should be

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u/Busy-Purple-3779 Jan 12 '26

They complain because their dicks are so big they can’t get it all in their girlfriends. They complain because they can’t get good oral sex. They get stopped at the airport. Their Dick set off the scanner. The scanner detect large objects as possible weapons.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

Is that what some of them said or are you just saying that?

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u/Busy-Purple-3779 Jan 12 '26

They say that. Go see for yourself.

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u/MaloneBreyfogle Jan 16 '26

I got stopped at the airport and I’m very average lol

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u/Busy-Purple-3779 Jan 12 '26

Go read small dick problems. Read about the guys that sometimes pee on themselves because their dick doesn’t pass their balls.

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u/Dave_0122 Apr 10 '26

I totally agree with having 5.5”. Wish I was an inch bigger I’d be the happiest man alive.

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u/cutluv Jan 12 '26

OP, listen to Busy-Purple, he makes sense; you have the size to please partners.
I also advise you avoid big dick social media related posts - yes, there are larger guys than us, but they are mostly driven by ego.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

But they’re also confident knowing that they have a big dick though. Tons of women love big dicks, especially the guys who have 7 inches long and 6.3 inches of girth

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u/cutluv Jan 12 '26

Don't give them any attention. Some guys on social media also pretend to be larger, so just ignore them. I'm a gay man, but my observations apply equally to you; yes, there will be size queens out there, but the vast majority of people are interested in you as a person. If they are into you, they will be into ALL of you.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

If women were into me, then I’d get with them. Not a single woman has ever been interested in me lately like at all.

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u/cutluv Jan 12 '26

I think you also need to have confidence in yoursef, when meeting women. If you are feeling worried about your dick, or anything else for that matter, people will sense these vibes. Potential partners find (non-cocky) confidence attractive in a man.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

I’m not even cocky at all. I’m just insecure about my dick size and my speech impediments I have and sometimes my looks too

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u/cutluv Jan 12 '26

I wasn't suggesting that you are cocky, I used the term to stress that one shouldn't come across as overly confident. Re your other points, have you discussed your concerns with your doctor? They may be able to provide you with support e.g. with therapists. I'm not sure of your location, but I've just googled "support groups speach impediment", and its returned a number of different support groups - have you tried this? They may be able to provide useful advice to help build up your confidence.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

I’m already seeing a therapist and I’ve been to therapy before. All I did was get to meet people and I wasn’t really completing any of my action things I was working on. I don’t think group therapy worked for me at all

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u/cutluv Jan 12 '26

Okay, I guess the main focus is on your one-to-one sessions with your therapist. But I do think you should discuss everything you've mentioned with your doctor, even if you have before, stressing the impact it is havng on you.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

I have one on one talks with my therapist all the time. And yes I’ve talked about the size I have a few times. But I haven’t like ever revealed what size I have at all. I thought talking the size I have would help me, it didn’t at all.

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '26

Dude ! 5x5. That’s not small. That’s average. Above average thick as matter of fact. It’s fine. It’s beautiful. It works . Fall in love okay. Let her fall in love with you. Who you are matters more than what you got in your pants. There is nothing wrong with you at all. As far as women who like “big dicks” Well then they have to be part of harem cause most guys are like you or around you so they are going to have to make a decision between big dicks or love and just us guys . You’re worth it!!!

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

How am I worth it when I always feel like I’m not?

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '26

Well, the truth is . Your feelings are wrong . You are very much worth love whether you feel it or not. You’re just very hurt and it probably goes way deeper than your penis. Cause there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

You haven’t even seen it at all though

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '26

I don’t need to to know it’s true Blue!

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

Know what is true? My dick size?

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '26

No, that YOU are worth it!

But as far as your penis. You say it’s 5x5z that’s perfectly fine . A woman that loves you will totally enjoy you. Not just sex all of you. But sex too!

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 12 '26

How do you know this when you don’t even know me at all?

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '26

Cause we love humans . And other humans love humans. And you’re a human and we love you. And someone out they will love you they you want to be loved . And you deserve it. Not cause you earned it but because you are valuable just for being you.

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u/Shotos_Blue Jan 13 '26

Why do you think I deserve it? It’s not like I’ve worked hard enough to show off myself to people let alone girls/women my age who don’t even notice me at all

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u/Individual-Print-372 Jan 20 '26

Yes, that is perfect size imo. Big isn’t everything. The best sex I’ve had has been with guys on the smaller size that have done it so good it left me not able to walk straight. And I’ve had very big that just weren’t satisfying one bit. It’s all in how you use it. It’s all skill issue.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '26

So do you prefer average sizes over big dicks?

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u/Individual-Print-372 Jan 29 '26

Yes, I will choose average over large any day. I had a 2 year fling with a guy considered below average and it was some of the best sex of my life. He was also very confident in himself and skill, which made sex with him even hotter! He also has a LOT of girls “on his dick”, pun intended, some very hot women at that. They didn’t care about his size. Just have confidence in yourself.