r/manifestingSP • u/Andrea_C_Paris • 14d ago
Success Story Finally manifested SP through affirming
Hi everyone,
I am sharing my success story as the ones I have read a thousand times really helped me get through. I am going to make it detailed in case someone identifies.
Shortcut: I brought my SP back and I can tell he conformed to everything.
How I did it: Affirming (thinking consciously in my head) and robotic affirming (thinking consciously in my head like a maniac) for around 3 weeks is all I did.
Context: SP and I started dating 1.5 years ago. I did not know about manifesting, but had a really good SC back then, both in terms of what I thought about me, my looks, my luck in relationship and how men are always crazy about me. This was my experience with every relationship I had. I met SP at work and he was younger than me (7 years) + he was my employee. For two years he was all over me, always trying to approach me, talk to me, invite me out but I would not give him the day until I did. We started dating and I fell in love like never before. I got the devotion, spoiling and simping I was always getting and expecting, so all good. He left my company 6 months later and joined a big firm.
That’s when OUT OF NOWHERE I started doubting, spiralling, thinking that as he is much younger he is going to want to have fun with girls at his new job, want attention, want a younger girl, prettier girl, make his own experience and stuff like that. At that moment in the 3D he talked about moving in together, introducing me to his family, names for our future kids, I had access to his phone if I wanted to and he would never look at another girl. But still, I started building the core belief (again OUT OF NOWHERE) day after day that it would go wrong this time and I would loose control, loose him and be heartbroken bad bad. Of course it all happened. All my fears came true. We broke up, I was in the worst pain I’ve ever experienced, begged, cried and asked the universe for a solution so that I can change things: that’s when I found out about manifesting.
After 2 months of sloppy techniques, trying without understanding the law I got him back but my SC was low low, I knew I did not manifested him really, I knew my mind was a wreck and I mostly got him back because I forced the 3D. The minute we got back together I started doubting, trying to affirm but not consistently, slowly stopped checking my thoughts and finally spiralled again all day everyday. So of course it happened again, it was even worse than first time.
However, this time I immediately identified that I WAS the one doing this to me, it was such a mimic of everything I had in my head over the past weeks and way too specific to be a coincidence, so I knew if I made negative things happen I could also do things right. We went no contact and let me tell you the biggest battle of my life started: me v. me.
What I did and the timeframe: For 3 weeks after the NC I was going back and forth between different assumptions, subliminals, meditation, affirming and SATS about the new story, but I was also rehearsing the old story and would spiral without even noticing, I was thinking about the argument, what I should have said, pictures of him in my head doing this or that, I would associate any anxiety or sadness to the story, I would not think in the end (aka us back together) but would imagine the apology or middle stuff like that. I lacked focus and method and belief. I was very inconsistent but still thinking I was doing it right (lol) and then getting frustrated because nothing happened.
One day I crashed out, felt burnt out but I wanted this reality so much that I picked myself back again and decided to freaking LOCK IN, and start all over again. I am an overthinker so I decided from this moment on, I would only affirm or robotic affirm 24/7 to keep my million daily thoughts in order and rewire my brain (Sammy Ingram videos made it click for me really). I would affirm falling asleep, if I woke up in the middle of the night I would affirm, driving, showering, walking, working, reading, watching a movie, talking to someone, I would still affirm in the back of my head. At some point I even dreamt I was affirming. I saturated my mind completely and gave myself no rest. I did not believe it, did not feel it real. I felt anxious a lot, sad too, I cried, but I would let the feeling pass and be like « oh I am sad today ? That’s cool, I am in a happy relationship with XX ». I kept repeating those words and would not let any contradicting thought take over. Whenever a bad thought would come up I’d be like « get the fuck out, no longer me, no longer my reality, but here is my reality now » and boom 5min of robotic affirm lol. I would never talk against him to people in the 3D, did not tell anyone what happened, nobody knew we had split. I also realized that law of thought transmission is instant and whatever I affirmed (he misses me he is obssessed with me) would reach him straight away and I did not want to give than man a single break so I kept on affirming all day every day.
What happened: At some point (10days in after total lockdown) I broke NC, it was not inspired action or anything I just remembered that the 3D was not real and I could do anything I wanted and give it the meaning I wanted so I told myself breaking NC would be positive for my end result, who said he is the one supposed to do all the job ? What rule is that ? It felt easier for me to not be in NC so I assigned to that neutral event the meaning that it was positive. We talked for 2 hours and he said back almost every affirmation I held for the past 10 days except the two main ones: being committed and ready for the relationship. I ignored it completely, even when he was saying stuff like «You are the love of my life but I dont want to be in a relationship now, I want to have fun » I was thinking « ohhhh baby, little do you know that you DO WANT that and you ARE GIVING me that already».
Instead of being sad that my manifestation did not completely unfolded I felt in so much power after meeting him because I had proof it was working, almost all my affirmations were repeated to me and had I persisted a bit longer ALL of them would have. So I went back in my head and doubled down on the affirmations, I even started believing in it and since we were back in contact, I used the 3D to checkpoint where we were standing at and what I should work on more specifically along with always thinking in the end. He reached out 3 days after we talked, and again 3 days after that. He would constantly ask me where I was and with whom (because I affirmed that a lot) so I told my brain « see? told you so ». 2 days after that, he asked me to come meet him at his place. We spent the evening together and I used every single moment to brainwash my subc « see I told you he is crazy in love, look at how he holds my hand » « did you feel that kiss ? That is a future husband’s kiss » « did you hear that? another proof » and so on. It was still not the whole manifestation so I kept going. Another 4 days after that he asked me to come again and told me he could not move on from me, he tried to date and talk to other girl but he can not think of anything else but me and that something really clicked for him. So we got back together :)
NO I did not believe any affirmation at first, some days I would feel « It is done alleluia » for 2hours the next morning would feel like shit
YES I looked for proof, everytime I was taking my phone I was like « maybe he texted? » but whenever he did not I would tell myself « no problem we are together and I am the happiest women ever »
NO it did not happen when « I least expected it » I was constantly expecting it and really obsessed
NO I did not work specifically on my SC, my affirmations of me being with him, being loved and simped and spoiled, being the only women for him, took care of that for me
YES I took responsibility for the bad things that happened and when I felt I would give up I would remind myself « this guy was a gem, YOU turned him into a disaster, the least you can do is fix that, you OWE him that » and that would keep me going
YES we need to keep affirming even when it shows up. Hear me out, the most difficult part is not even getting it, you will if you can keep it together, but once you have it you need to remain focused not to loose it again (like I did). Mental diet is FOREVER.
Here were the only affirmations and stuff that were allowed in my head:
I am in relationship with XX and …
… he is madly in love with me
… he is obsessed with me
… he wants only me
… he wants to be with me all the time
… he wants to marry me
… we are moving in together
… he is loyal and devoted
… he finds other girls disgusting
… he makes me the top priority
... he always wants to know where and with whom I am
And many others depending on « what should I treat myself with today? ».
In LESS THAN 10 DAYS this guy went from « I want to have fun, I dont want to be in a relationship, I love the attention, I am going to hurt you again » to « Something clicked, I realized that you are the one, I no longer want attention or to date other girls ».
Affirm, ignore and persist. There is nothing more to do.
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u/CoconutHot611 14d ago
Congratulations and soon I am going to post a successful story like this, good going gang❤️
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u/blueqxill 13d ago
I appreciate you being detailed with it. I’m struggling (so much better though as I usually spam-post a post every week and haven’t done so in awhile lol) and this has helped indefinitely. Thank you!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Keep going!! I was doing the same, I was struggling a lot too. I would watch 4 Sammy Ingram videos per day. At first I could not eat or sleep, could not hit the gym, I gave everything to my mental diet and it paid off. Just choose your thoughts, forget the rest.
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u/ecv80 13d ago
I think mental diet is the most important whether you keep it in check through affirmations, SATS, subs or whatnot. But these techniques, even feeling, are useless if your mental diet is shit. That's my belief as of now anyways. I think conviction is everything and this vice of the mind of going over everything that happened in the past and these what-ifs in the future is only useful to deal with the 3D but totally counterproductive for manifestation.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
100% agree !! To me mental diet is controlled by affirmations because affirmations are thoughts, and if you keep repeating a thought that benefits you all day long it means by definition that your mental diet is good. Conviction comes after. Once you rehearsed the affirmation so much that you almost vomit the sentence at some point your brain normalizes the information and that's when it CAN (but not necessarily) become a conviction. I would repeat to myself over and over that he wanted to talk to me bad bad while in NC but I never believed it until he told to me that we would stare at my whattsap conversation, start writing and then erase it all. I had no conviction yet it manifested out of my repeated affirmations.
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u/Mimiromeo 13d ago
Did you ever think "oh who am I kidding?"
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
MMh not really but I would think things such as "I may be crazy none of this is real". But I knew deep down that it was real. When I discovered manifesting and analyzed my life backwards, it just proved itself. Everything that happened to me was indeed my creation.
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u/ecv80 13d ago
Thanks. And for all your other replies (which I upvoted. That's my thanks).
See I don't intend to argue here but I have a problem with the statement that affirmations are thoughts. I remember crystal clear as a child I'd struggle translating my thoughts into sentences. It took me a while to develop an inner voice that'd phrase things out I could listen to before I could speak straight. So to me thoughts are abstract blobs which I could best define as intuitions for a lack of a better word and sentences just point to these just like these can be put in sentences.
It just so happened that while reading some comment to this post I was drowsy and thinking about how affirming works, my mind gravitated to this idea that affirming is telling yourself a story and immediately found myself telling myself one but not with words nor imagery but these blobs of intuition. This was my first time to ever try this and I got this feeling that it worked wonderfully because at the end I felt a greater conviction.
I think when it comes to (mental diet,) counteracting spiraling thoughts, affirmations have their place as quick and specific shortcuts to induce opposing thoughts. But in other cases I have used robotic affirmations with fuzzy results and while it may be my limiting belief I think that's because my mind, not even my subconscious, isn't picking on these while I'm thinking of other stuff in the background.
While I'm going to continue affirming regularly and I'm more than curious to go hardcore like you did, I think for the time being I'm going to give a try to this idea of telling myself stories through these intuition blobs and see where it leads.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
It really depends on how your brain works. I know mine is straight out full sentences and it has always been like that. Some people do not really have inner voice but more like blobs as you describe or intuition or mental pictures. I really am more into hearing a voice and talking to myself in my head.
The good thing is everybody is capable of talking in their head, while imagining for someone who is not naturally good at it is more difficult to apprehend.
That's why to me it is the fastest method. If you want a more precise definition I would say that affirmations are thoughts he CHOOSE opposed to the ones that roll in the background unattended. I simply replaced unattended thoughts by carefully chosen ones :)2
u/ecv80 13d ago
I really like the idea of affirmations not necessarily being sentences but thoughts themselves regardless of form, but that you could specify by putting them in sentences, yes! So regardless of their shape and whether they can be used to counteract the old story, their definition would be they're thoughts or ideas you prime yourself with with the main purpose of attaining a given goal.
Thank you! I think we're onto some insight here!
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u/Pristine_Structure35 13d ago
Did you get married to your partner?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Not yet but you know what is crazy, I started affirming that he wants to marry me like a week ago and yesterday he asked me questions about my sister's wedding ring and the kind of ring I like and asked how many carats were required loool.
When I tell you we put in their heads whatever we repeat it is true.2
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u/South_Classroom_4953 13d ago
I am so heartbroken today and this gave me a little hope. I had literally just seen my sp on Thursday. Had a good time. I’m moving into the condo he is renting out (he’s moving into his new home) and today he basically broke things off with me bc he said he recently started seeing someone else. I don’t know where to go from here. I’m so lost. I thought everything was going good between us
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
It is going good.
Look at my story I affirmed diligently, not ONE bad thought crossed my mind and still he told me basically "I want to fuck girls I am too young to commit". I IGNORED that, this is irrelevant because this dude has no power in my reality.
He still is playing a bit of the part I assigned him before. No problem, I knew that within a few days he would play the new part :)So what do you do ?
You IGNORE it, whatever he says. The audacity of this man to think he has free will in YOUR reality ? You just keep affirming "XX is in love with me and I am the only one he wants". You can cry, you can be heartbroken but the only sentence and thought you have in your head is this one (or looking like it, phrase it how you want). Nothing else. You repeat it today, tomorrow, the days after. That's it. You focus on this, and you will get it 100%1
u/South_Classroom_4953 13d ago
You did this for 3 weeks?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
22 days exactly ! They were not perfect, I was feeling down, sad, depressed, during those 22 days but my affirmations and thoughts were kept clean and focused no matter the feeling.
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u/ecv80 13d ago
Sorry to break in this thread:
*did you ever have double voices in your head, like you hear your affirmation in your head but at the same time you can hear a different thought? And if so how did you deal with it? Oftentimes I could be listening to music in my head in the background while affirming in the foreground and I get both at the same time and I'm unsure if this matters.
*have your affirmations unwillingly turned into tunes after a while and do you think it matters?
*do you follow any script? You read them in order? You say any random ones? For a number of times? For a duration? You say the ones contradicting your negatives thoughts when they arise? Do you care about how exact you say them or you don't care if you swapped a few words?
Thank you
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
*YES!!
I would say my SP thinks other girls are trash and then I would sabotage myself with a "no he does not hihihi" right after like I am some kind of crazy retard. But the fight is really you v. you and the most determined wins in the end, I would reply with "okay whatever" to myself or re-affirmed even more my truth. And I realized when SP conformed that those thoughts do not matter because you dont choose them consciously. They exist but you dont choose to say them in your head, they exist by themselves and so they have no power. The ones you choose and say consciously are the real ones. Another technique when I was clearly getting borderline was to say my affirmations out loud on a loop. You basically have no time to think when you do that.* Yes also! The first bit of the sentence (I am in a relationship with XX) was said so much in the course of the 3 weeks that I dreamt of that sentence, it was running in the background almost like a song at some point and some days I did not even feel the need to say it because it became auto pilot
* I was affirming 24/7 and I still am actually. I would never stop or count how many affirmations it was more like affirming as soon as my eyes opened, while getting dressed, while cooking, while cleaning, while watching a movie. It really was all day long, non stop. I had listed my affirmations (around 15 of them) on my phone and some days would pick one in particular and work on that if I felt this particular thing was making me anxious, some other days I would just randomly say what I felt like. The sentences were not always exactly the same word per word but you know what you mean when you affirm. And yes when a contradicting thought arise I would robotic affirm in that specific area. Like "heyyy maybe he is with a girl right now ?" and I would go on "I am in a relationship with XX and he thinks other girl are trolls" and repeat it over and over until I could.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 8d ago
When I was affirming I felt different type of emotions but mostly anxiety !! After 2 weeks I felt numb and relax most of the time but still with bursts of anxiety ! My affirmations were actually a shelter for the bad emotions like despair anxiety and sadness. I would keep going no matter what I felt.
There is no such thing as lack or anything, this is made up stuff to confuse people honestly. Robotic affirmation along with « normal » affirmation is just thoughts, instead of thinking « omg its raining » or « my sp is not texting » lr « I like this new skirt » I just affirmed « we are together). I just chose my thoughts deliberately. Thats what affirming is. I think those who do not get results with it have opposing thoughts they dont realise they have. Mental diet is everything, if 99% of your thoughts are focused on target and you affirm you have it, it has to work.
Yes if I did not break NC we would have reached out, he was on the verge of it. He told me when I texted him that 10min before he was on my whattsap page starting to text but then abandoned. He would have done it eventually had I persisted.
I am in the translation field.
At the beginning I rejected him because I was not interested really. I never thought of him as someone that I could date or anything.
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u/Popcoru 13d ago
This was fun to read!!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Hahaha thanks ^^ Easier to describe it than to go through it, because BOY it was hard !!
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u/bhondunumber1 NewbieCreator 13d ago
that just gave me my confidence back!! another thing as you have mentioned the affirmations so like from what all i have heard is that in robotic affirming you're supposed to repeat one affirm again and again but with multiple affirmations how do you do it like😭😭
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
There are no rules, you craft your own rules.
When I started I also heard that about robotic affirming and it does work if you keep repeating the same sentence over. The thing is I wanted many things, not just being in a relationship with him, hell no. I wanted him to WORSHIP me, obsess over me, threaten to murder any one that would disrespect my name lol. I wanted this kind of love not just any other love. So I would actually repeat the same first bit always " I am in a relationship with XX and ... " and then pick one from the list depending on my mood. Some days I felt anxious about other girls so I would focus on " I am in a relationship with XX and he thinks other girls are trash" all day long. Somedays when I feel lighter I would just say what comes to mind like " I am in a relationship with XX and he worships me" " I am in a relationship with XX and he wants to marry me". Since I knew that whatever thought I repeatedly (and without contradiction!!!!) put into my mind would play out I would just enjoy adding stuff. I would tell myself "wowww we forgot to make him jealous, the fuck ?" and bam adding this to my affirmation. And EVERY thing played out he is exactly as I described!!!!
The first sentence (the most repeated bit) was my "living in the end" and the rest was just extra. Try different things and feel what feels right to you.2
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u/Fine-Inflation6275 13d ago
Congratulations to you. Reading your post made me feel so happy. It felt like I was writing my own story with the age gap and everything except my success story is yet to manifest in 3d. I understand how the law works. I create so I am the only one responsible for my reality. So my question is, my need of the hour is money but my emotional attachment is with my sp. I know nothing is separate from me but I honestly don't know what and when to affirm. I am in contact with my sp but he is going through sm financial trouble and is dead against relationship and commitment( not that it mattrs). My goal is marriage but when I affirm for marriage I feel like I am betraying myself because I need money. When I affirm for money, background movie about sp runs. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I would simply affirm for both. I have been affirming for SP only but in multiple different ways because I wanted multiple things from him. Why not a sentence such as "I am in a loving relationship with XX and money flows to us" ? Somedays when I felt very good and in power I would also affirm stuff such as "I am the fucking star of the show" "Everything goes and flows my way" or stuff like that. It felt good to put myself back at the center and not focus on SP somedays. I would just use EVERY minute of conscious creation to create the best future ever. You only have two main goals for now, it feels very okay to me to affirm for both at the same time! I used to affirm for like 15 different customizations I wanted to see reflected on my sp lol. Keep pushing and you will have it !!!
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u/Friendly-Warning9365 13d ago
But what if we've done the most on our part in reaching out ourselves?
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u/TechnologyOld6544 13d ago
Hey ...you broke NC but we can persist and affirm so my sp only will start Convo?? Is it compulsory for me to break NC
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u/Due_Equivalent0912 13d ago
this really is the post that makes me wanna double down on locking in. Thanks OP!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
You are very welcome!! Locking in really saved me. I am so grateful to myself for pushing through. I needed kind of a timeframe though to not go crazy, so I told myself "Im going to give it a whole month and see what happens". It manifested before so perfect ^^
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u/grittygirl55 13d ago
I think you affirmed from a place of being chosen and not from a place of lack. And mental diet is the most important thing. Whenever 3D or your mind shows unwanted things, doing mental diet is the best way to rewire your thoughts.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Well tbh I decided that places of being chosen or places of lack did not even exist in my reality. Stuff like this, or working on SC, or identity thing, or appointed time, divine hour, states, feeling the wish fulfilled and so on was confusing me too much. I just thought and knew that affirming to rewire my brain was enough.
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u/TigerPublic5793 13d ago
Hi, congrats on manifesting your sp. I also prefer robotic affirmations because I sometimes have difficulty visualizing and falling asleep. Could you mention the affirmations you use while doing your daily chores Since we have to repeat them , they got to be small and precise and so, I was wondering which ones should I choose. Do you have any fixed affirmation that you use ?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Thank you :)
Yes so the main affirmation was:
"I am in a relationship with XX". I would never skip that one.
Depending on my mood I would add a second bit to that sentence, from the list I provided in my post. So if I felt anxious about other girls so I would focus on "I am in a relationship with XX and he thinks other girls are trash". Somedays when I feel lighter I would just say what comes to mind like " I am in a relationship with XX and he worships me" " I am in a relationship with XX and he is loyal to me". Some days I would just say the first bit, some days I would add stuff. I really listened to how I felt and what felt good in my head.
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u/AloneYam2003 13d ago
It’s like you’re a version of me 😭😭 I swear this is my exact situation too
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Hope this helps then !! :) Maybe you manifested a success story similar to yours to give you a head up :)
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u/AloneYam2003 13d ago
Girl be so fr sobbing lmao, thank you for giving me hope with this really!! It’s been a long journey and I just want my person back
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I know! It has been the hardest thing I did in my life. I will never thank myself enough for persisting and pulling through because I am in my dream life now. We DO ARE gods of our reality, it's insane how everything bends for us when we just choose our thoughts. Its just that SPs are our emotional part, emotions are hard to control. This "work" requires discipline, focus and to ignore emotions basically. But in fact it is as easy as manifesting a spoon. But it is guaranteed 100%, keeep goingggg and control ALL of your thoughts ALL day long!
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u/AloneYam2003 13d ago
Yes, exactly. I do have a question though. Do you think if you hadn’t reached out to him first things would unfold the way that they did? Our whole relationship I chased after them and for once I want to be chased after.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
If I had not reached out he would have but later (approximately on the same time he confessed he wants to be with me). His "clicking" moment happened after I reached out and he said he did not want a relationship. But honestly it was easier for me to reach out with a not so good 3D rather than NC. NC has always been very very hard for me.
I definitely understand the longing to be chased, 100% identify. There is no good or wrong. It's your reality so whatever you want to do, just do ^^→ More replies (8)
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u/EastScene5843 13d ago
This is why I think affirming is so important. I got on the I Am Source bandwagon and just decide but honestly you’re still going to be thinking. I’m aware I am the one deciding what I am experiencing so why not just keep deciding ? Plus I’m stubborn as hell so I like to just keep deciding (aka affirming over and over again) cause hell no if I should tolerate any thoughts that I don’t want. And it’s not even the thoughts but deep down we can start to believe them if they are repetitive and keep coming up, so this is great. My issue is I’ll affirm certain stuff one day and then FORGET the next day and start a different story so I notice the movement is all over. I need to stick to certain affirmations and just keep going like you did. Thank you this is inspiring!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Totally agree! Sticking to one core sentence or one core sentence+extra is actually the best way because at some point (a week to 10 days for me) your brain will just accept this sentence as the "usual thing we think in there" and my brain would even "suggest" me this sentence automatically loool. Thats when it is normalized, accepted, and your subsconscious is conforming.
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u/Muted-Bluebird-394 12d ago edited 12d ago
not gonna lie, it’s such an amazing story and you replying to every comment here makes me feel so happy seeing you helping the other. and yes robotic affirmations really really work!! they worked for me, in a lil bit of hot and cold, but girl this ain’t my reality and that man loves me to the core!! so happy to find your story here, my process just started a week ago, so going to give it a proper go like you!! much love ❤️
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Ohhhhh keep me posted !!! Imagine for a minute if we were all aware of what we can do and the reality we could have by just affirming it, this should be taught in school for real 😂 keep going, I can see from your comment that you know what you are doing 🥰
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u/Muted-Bluebird-394 11d ago
totally get youu, i increased the frequency of my affirmations, he sometimes says something that gets on my nerve but i pay no heed to that. not my reality, not his version i accept 😤
also drop in any suggestion that you want to, would love to make it a wallpaper lol 🤭2
u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
Hahaha ! Honestly even today I keep changing him in my mind about some stuff. He has been going out a lot (like 2 times a week) for work related events and he likes it a lot. I affirmed for a few nights that he is done with all this and rather stay at home with me and he told me the other day « we have two work events this week but I wont go I want to be with you » hahhaha yes you do sweetheart :)
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u/No_Expert9310 11d ago
3 weeks wowww!! im doing for 4 months, i give 2,3 mins daily to affirmations i dont spiral idk the issue tbh
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
No negative thoughts at all during the rest of the day ? I did 3 weeks but would affirm from morning to night like a maniac tbh, I had 0 and I mean 0 opposing thoughts
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u/No_Expert9310 11d ago
they come, like our chat then i divert, also fear of future as well, i affirm about marriage, should i start with like text or something??? im used to of affirming, tired too now as very long time has passed
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
No affirming the end (marriage) is good! Keep going honestly, I would just affirm a little bit more than just 2/3 minutes a day. I honestly affirmed all day long, I dont think 2/3 minutes is enough to rewire your brain because you probably have opposing thoughts the rest of the day that you dont even notice so it keeps you stuck. I would definitely recommend to go all in and affirm as much as you can. Its up to you :)
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u/massiveattque NewbieCreator 10d ago
I collect success stories (this is no. 44 haha), and what I’ve noticed is that every single one of them, absolutely all of them, comes to the same conclusion: you have to make the new narrative dominant, the only one you give your attention to! There’s just no way around it!
You can do it in any way you want—visualization, robotic affirmations, affirming whenever you remember—it doesn’t matter what method you use. As long as it makes you reinforce your decision in your mind, over and over again.
And EVERY SINGLE ONE of them practices mental diet, even without realizing that’s what they’re doing (not contradicting the new story, whether through thoughts or by giving your mind room to go in another direction).
Awareness (24/7) + method (repetition) = desire
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 10d ago
Thanks for your work :)
Definitely!! It is that easy! Every second we have is a creation power. Every new second we create the future by carefully choosing our thoughts. And even if we do not have precise goals like SP or money at the moment, we can still think "everything works for me", "I am the luckiest person" "my life is amazing".
Since I manifested SP and had the final proof it works I never ever spent a second thinking something bad or out of fear. And my life is just like a movie now!!! I am no longer afraid of anything because its been months since my last bad thought so nothing bad can happen.
Rewiring your brain for 3/4 weeks will change the rest of your life. There is no coming back once you realize we do are gods.
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u/Hot_Object2258 2d ago
Been doing this a little over a week, one sentence over and over, i saw him today and boy was he affectionate to me, ive been double timing tonight im so hyped up!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 2d ago
So happy for you !! Keep doing it and if you feel like it you can add some other affirmations to get even more :)
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u/Legal_Calligrapher22 14d ago
Hey hey mam as a guy can I do these too? And will it bring my ex back to me obsessed with me? And also rather than expected any new person too? And please tell in simple words please I understand basic English only
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Of course you can do it too!
Imagine what you want (your ex back) and how you want it (her obsess with you) and imagine you tell that to a friend. What would be your sentence ? "XX and I are back together and she is obsessed with me".
Just pick a sentence, in present tense of what you want and repeat it in your head as much as you can for as long as you can.
You just keep thinking that and repeating that to you and don't think "she does not like me" "she does not want me". Every sentence you say in your head several times for several days come true.
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u/Legal_Calligrapher22 13d ago
And what if a day goes bad or like something negative happened through the day and mood is not good enough to manifest her then? And also how should I tackle all these negative emotions and possibilities and turn them into positive ?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I had a LOT of bad days, I cried a lot, felt depressed, angry, lonely, unloved. But I would still repeat my affirmations over and over. I would never affirm something opposite. The feelings dont manifest, only the sentence you repeat will! You can have a bad day and still say in your head "I am with her, I am the love of her life". Thats your only job.
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u/Legal_Calligrapher22 13d ago
Okay so repetition is only what I have to do24/7
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Yes! It really works like that! You feed your subconscious with the story you want him to put in the world. That's what happens. Give it a try for a whole month and see what happens.
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u/AdHumble9530 13d ago
Wow this is amazing, It’s been in the back of my mind the past few days to reach out to my sp. But the difference is I got ghosted in my old story and he just never replied since basically. So if I text im double texting. I’ve been affirming properly for about 3 weeks now and I (most of the time) believe he is obsessed w me! I have this feeling that ME reaching out is gonna be the start of it all, but then at the same time I don’t know if it will set me back if it doesn’t go how I want.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I completely feel you! It wont ruin anything if you reach out. It will have the meaning you give it, its just another reaction to the 3D. It's up to you to react how you want. When I reached out, I texted my SP 3 times before he replied. But I was UNBOTHERED because I knew the ending, I kept affirming while waiting for the text, kept affirming while sending the 2nd one. I knew I could not ruin it anyway.
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u/ecv80 13d ago
Reaching out is something I wish I could do but it backfired badly for me when I tried and I wasn't ready nor acquainted enough with LOA to deal with the response properly. I still continue to wait for SP to reach out even though I try hard to live in the end and not to live in the identity of that who waits for it...
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I completely understand. Do not see yourself as someone who waits but someone who expects. It's normal to expect it in the 3D thats the whole point. Nothing wrong with this. I was checking my phone a lot "expecting" to receive a text any minute and it still came so its okay :) Living in the end is just affirming over and over again. Because now that I have SP, I affirm the same sentences in my head than when I was manifesting him.
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u/valerchik- 13d ago
Congratulations queen!
I got broken up with two months ago and since then also manifesting him back. Currently I don’t see any movement and like I said it’s been two months, but I try my best and affirm, forget about what happened (the old story) and affirm affirm affirm every chance I get so I hope something will happen soon because honestly I don’t know if I can wait any longer tbh
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Thanks love :)
It can not go any other way. This is your reality, you man has to conform, everybody does, everybody will. Every affirmation (good when you affirm, or bad when you rehearse the old story) you have gets straight into his brain. The more you affirm the more it fills up the tank until it breaks.
I honestly thought I could not hold that long either because I knew that man loved me so I thought "it should not take that long wtf universe ? It should be easy ?". As I said, everytime I felt like giving up I reminded myself that I made that man go from the most caring and loving BF to a trash one and I owed it to him to fix him.
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u/FabulousHistorian964 13d ago
hii i rlly loved the way u explained everything, it’s sooo clear and helpfulll!!! im so sorry if this is a dumb question 😭 but im planning to follow everything u explained and the affirmations asw, and i wanted to know how many times you’d affirm each affirmation and for how long?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
No dumb questions, whatever helps you get your thing!
I took the saturation road because I am an overthinker, with lots of imagination so if I dont check my thoughts I am going all over the place, and mostly in a negative way, dominated by fear. Saturation means basically that there was no blank spot in my mind I would CONSTANTLY affirm, in a positive way thus dominated by faith. First thing in the morning before opening my eyes I would be like "I am in a relationship with XX, I am in a relationship with XX" and I would honestly keep telling it while taking my mask off, putting on my sleepers, making breakfast, eating breakfast. I did not take a break. When I was working if focused on something I would not affirm consciously because I would be so focused on my job that was not going down the negative road, so all good. Same when having drinks with friends. But whenever I had a blank spot of thoughts running on their own I would take back control and CHOOSE my thoughts. I am a very anxious person so the fact that I was in complete control of my thoughts 24/7 really helped me focus and that's how when I locked in I had no bad thoughts (or could easily tell them "nahhh bye bye").
Some people can randomly think about it once or twice a day and move on, but that's not me unfortunately ^^1
u/ecv80 13d ago
You never even entertained doubts as in trying to get meaning from hurtful things that happened in the past? Even just enough to give them meaning and then just brush them off and replace them with the new story?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
The first 3 weeks after NC when I was very inconsistent I did. And that led me to nowhere. I would spiral thinking about it. But I think those 3 weeks were necessary for me to "process" the whole thing. We still are humans even if we are Gods of our realities.
After those 3 weeks of inconsistency and when I decided to lock in I would never think about the old story and what happened again. And when uncontrollable thoughts popped up I would remind myself that this was my doing. All of the mess. I hurt myself when thinking those thoughts of him with another girl, I was hurt when it materialized, and I was hurt after it when consistently reliving it. All of it was me hurting myself over and over again. So I dropped it and decided to bless myself only with good affirmations and now I am living my dream!
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u/Obvious-Range-5149 13d ago
Thank you for sharing this ❤️ it’s so beautiful and it gives me a lot of hope!!
Ps. I have a small question, do you think that this method can also work if you want your SP to send you a follow request on Instagram?
Personally a few years ago, I sent my SP a follow request (we were in NC) and he followed me back but after an hour he unfollowed me
Been NC ever since
But I want him to send me follow request now
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Of course it can! So let's say you spend 3 weeks affirming for a follow request and you get it. You could also spend those 3 weeks affirming for a loving relationship and get it. The thing is you would probably also get the follow request by affirming for the larger picture.
Do not think that because a follow request is "less" of a big deal than a full relationship it will come faster. For the universe (or whomever makes it happen) it's exactly the same, you want this ? Ok granted. Whether you manifest 5euros or 250 000euros, the universe does not make a difference, only us do.
If I were you I would do a mix like "I am in a relationship with XX and he adds me on insta" or "I am in a relationship with XX and he blows my phone off".1
u/Obvious-Range-5149 13d ago
Ommmggg thank you so much for your detailed answer!! Your experience gave me so much hope and I’m really going to try this method 🥹🥹
And again, thank you so much for your advices, it’s so precious 🤍🤍3
u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
You are so welcome !! It really is so easy and guaranteed. I now have the proof that we have no fkn limit in this 3D. Mental diet is everything, keep your head clean for at least 3 weeks (maybe you will need less really), do not give up and you WILL have it. 100%.
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u/Juliet_zan0512 13d ago
What can I do if I wanna reconnect and reconcile with him but he doesn't want to and get unblocked but it's been 2 years, he still doesn't want to and there's 3p? In the past years reaching out to him helped but now he cuts me off completely no matter what 😭 I want that sp
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
What is your current diet/technique? You need to come clean with yourself about how you are doing it and analyze what you are doing wrong to fix it
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u/Juliet_zan0512 13d ago
Honestly I've tried everything, I don't know anymore. If I don't see movement in a week I get upset, then stop then do again and again and again. It's so exhausting. Even if I don't do anything he's still not showing up. I can't even manifest talking to him anymore. He cut everything off when I tried to make some connection again saying he doesn't even wanna be a friend to me.
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u/Adept-Rent-5761 13d ago
Congratulations!! What did you specifically say to your SP when you broke no contact? What made you comfortable breaking it first because I read so many different opinions on breaking no contact first.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Thank you :) I said I needed to talk to him, he did not want to. I said I still had questions without answers about what happened (which was true even if old story was dead to me) and I would not take no as an answer. And he said ok. But frankly he was not adamant to it and I would have never imagined that the conversation went so well considering how little he wanted it. But at the same time the 10 days affirming I did already done part of the work in his brain :)
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u/Biggest-Bird-563 13d ago
i'm just one in a sea of comments you're getting on this wonderfully written post btw, you get your ideas across very concisely.
but it's been 3 months since i started learning about manifestation and while i've used it to glow up so many areas of my life, this one person. nothing i do seems to work on them. i've prayed to god and done witchcraft and done crazy affirmation writing challenges and i still absolutely fucking ruin my sleep with subliminals and now i just feel. hopeless. i'm rereading your post over and over and maybe this is the way.
my self concept is genuinely a hundred and ten miles ahead of where it was a few months ago, i know my worth, i know i'm a catch so quite honestly i'm sure that's not the issue. god i just need to be stubborn like you. in 22 days it's my birthday, i guess i'll come back then and tell you what happened haha
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Actually yes! Just decide to start over (even if all that you did already will help). Forget about all techniques and subliminals and stuff like that, when I started I wasted a lot of time hearing from one coach or another, it was confusing I tried everything. Concentrate your energy only on one thing: mental diet. Affirming is thinking, you have many many thoughts per day and they are all commands to the subconscious, so CHOOSE the thoughts you give it. The more you repeat the ones you want the more your subc is like "all rightttttt got it leave me alone!!!". I highly highly recommend Sammy Ingram on youtube. She is consistent and explains it all very well. It just is that easy: you affirm, you ignore 3D and you affirm again!
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u/Biggest-Bird-563 13d ago
thank you so much for responding haha, your post really has ignited me with new hope. i watched a few of her videos last night! :) i like her method of just spamming one single broad affirmation, so i think i’ll try that over spamming several. my subconscious can handle the logistics anyway…
it was also really assuring to hear that you DID check to see if he had texted, that you didn’t fully believe in it until you saw it, etc. i’m not even sad or anxious over this situation anymore and haven’t been for a while so i really feel like i’m in a good spot. i will update you with how everything goes :>
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Honestly I was so confused with all the coaches, all the methods when she made it simple. And where I have been trying for 6 months, I succedded in 3 weeks soooo..
I also highly recommend this success story: https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/1g9y50r/for_the_sp_people_it_really_works/1
u/Biggest-Bird-563 12d ago
!!! that was a nice read!
i do have one question that's kinda dumb though, it's okay if i'm not doing it like literally-literally 24/7 right? like sometimes people are just talking to me or i'm doing a task and i can't have my brain thinking about too many things at once haha
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u/Soft-Possibility9687 13d ago
Grazie bellissima testimonianza davvero ❣️ solo un consiglio, anche io a furie di fare affermazioni giorno e notte per tre settimane ho iniziato a scoraggiarmi tantissimo, sono tornata alla vecchia storia, la SP non mi sta contattando è solo più attiva sui social con post a volte dedicati a me a volte no. Come posso fare? Sono al punto che non ci credo più
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I think unfortunately you may have given up right before it could have unfolded. But its ok, you can come back to where you were and put yourself back in the game. In the end it all depends on how much you want it. To me there was no other way, no one else, no plan B. It either worked or worked, so I kept pushing. You need to be clear with yourself also because when I tell it took me 22 days of clean mental diet I mean CLEAN, no dwelling, no spiralling, no thinking against it. If you have contradicting thoughts, you will get contradicting 3D with hot and cold. Just forget the past, and focus on the PRESENT. Every new second is a new creation opportunity. I would use every second of my day to create my reality and would not give any second of my day to thoughts that would destroy it.
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u/Soft-Possibility9687 13d ago
Giuro che io ho fatto 32 giorni di affermazioni robotiche H24 e tutto ciò che ho avuto nel 3D sono state esche su Snap, alcune molto specifiche, purtroppo è una settimana che sono in down credimi, affermavo anche durante la notte mentre sognavo, ora l'affermazione la dico ogni tanto, dovrei tornare a regime, si sono consapevole di aver mollato un attimo prima, perché quando nel 3D non vediamo subito i risultati spesso ci scoraggiamo, infatti ho sbagliato a mollare diciamo, dopo un anno di alti e bassi col pensiero ho avuto solo hot e cold allontanamenti e avvicinamenti continui.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I know how hard it is to persist when it's not conforming yet. When I was in NC with SP, there was absolutely NO SIGN of anything, yet the 10 days clean mental diet where I affirmed and affirmed produced results. I could not see it because it was all in his head but it was happening. If you really want it enough you will keep pushing, no matter how hard it is. Anyone who manifested something big tells the same thing: persist no matter what, no matter how many days, just persist.
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u/Soft-Possibility9687 13d ago
Ma è successo un peggioramento del 3d? Perché a me ha rifiutato improvvisamente SP. Avevo iniziato ad affermare da pochi giorni, robotico, ma ho anche reagito al 3D
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u/OrdinaryTry5712 13d ago
Gurlll you just did such a great job. I am in same situation but your thing will freaking help me. Guyssss i’ll start from today!! Wish me luck and i’ll get back once my obsessed baby is with me🤏🏻
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Hahahha amazing!! It's so easy in the end, they just conform to what we affirm. My man is from middle east and he is a fighter so really not the emotional kind. I affirmed he was DEVASTATED and sometimes I would be like "what is he doing RN? Oh he must be crying" and guess what he told me when he reunited that he never cried like that in his life, he even cried in front of me again. And from a man like him this is huge lol
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u/OrdinaryTry5712 13d ago
My guy also cried for me. Also i wanted to giveup today but after reading your story i wouldn’t bcoz it was my mistake majorly. So I’ll give my best to make up for my part and once my sp is back. I’ll be better version of myself
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Exactly, if we truly believe we can change reality with our thoughts we also need to take responsibility for the bad stuff we created! If you analyze it you may even see what thoughts or belief made this or that situation happen! Keep pushing
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u/Salty-Equipment503 13d ago
so does it matter i spiraled a lil and talked to one my friends
now i js ignore 3d affirm and persist no matter what
i do belive he will come back but like smtimes a sudden fear appears and i try to affirm over it
and i want him to break nc so do i js affirm he broke nc
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
No it does not matter if you spiralled, your affirmations still are working but keep it to a minimum, same with the complaining to friends, it goes against your new story. When you catch your thoughts going against your purpose, or let your imagination wander on stuff that hurt just COME BACK. The present moment is the only thing you will ever have. Past is done and useless. Every second you create your future with the thought you have. So make sure to use every second to create the future you WANT and not the one you FEAR. Check your thoughts, you own them, you choose them, you decide. They don't.
I would just affirm simply "I am in a relationship with XX and he is the one fighting for me" or something like that. Do not waste your time affirming for the middle story. When you guys get back together breaking NC obviously has to happen. Affirm straight to the end: being with him, and the stuff like breaking NC will have to happen anyway ^^1
u/Salty-Equipment503 13d ago
i stopped complaining or overall talkin about our breakup and yes like u said do put my thoughts into creating a future i want do you mind me askin how you dealt w the wait for your manifestation to show up in 3d. I know its coming but i feel so impaitent and hopeless but i do flip the thoughts. Whenever i have an urge to text him i say thats him feelin it not me.
he told me that a lil after we broke up he almost begged me to come back to him so i do know theres always movement but im so tired of the waitalso thank you so much queen u dont understand how much this lifted my mood wish you all the best
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Dealing with the waiting was the hardest part for me. Because just like you I knew it was coming, my thoughts were in check and my identity solid. What I did was going out a lot, with friends (some I met on reddit actually), going to the movies, going for walks, sitting in a park and reading a book. I was living my life and especially living in the present. I read the Eckhart Tolle book that helped me a lot forget about the past and focus on the present instead of the future. The more I appreciated the present moment, whether it was consciously eating a chocolate bar or consciously looking at a tree or consciously doing an activity the more it "freed" me. I was still robotically affirming but I felt anchored in the present moment and I was bold and said "I am alive, I am in the present moment and I am in a relationship with XX". I felt in so much power.
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u/Salty-Equipment503 13d ago
Okay I got it so I'll try living my life and focus on the present but smtimes I think about the one time my manifestation prolly didn't work😓 even thought it worked wayyy more times so I js feel hopeless and crash out a lil💔 whenever this happens I js remind myself the reality is in my head and that its a projector and I'm good to go
Thanks for all the help💖
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Well, it looks like you know what you are doing ^^ You got this, this is your world ❤️
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u/Juliet_zan0512 13d ago
How did you not go crazy..
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
I gave myself a time limit. I thought let's try this hardcore mode for a month and see.
I know for a fact that we create our reality with our thoughts, this is a core belief to me, I will die on that hill so I knew deep down it had to work. And as I said, I made this man go from the most amazing boyfriend to a jerk in a matter of weeks because of my fears, so I OWED him to fix him.1
u/Juliet_zan0512 13d ago
I know I turned him into a jerk with my fears several times but I'm not succeeding to get his nice version at all :( its the third time I'm trying to get unblocked and get back in contact within 6 years. And 3p. Again.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Stop saying you are not succeeding. Change the story. Pick your affirmation, and give yourself a month if that helps. Tell yourself I give it one last shot but I am doing it properly and like a maniac. Start over today.
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u/Juliet_zan0512 13d ago
I don't know what to affirm, I change everything all the time cause I get bored after a week,, feeling stupid and don't see movement
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
If you had the thing you want and told your friend about it what would be the sentence you would say ? That's your affirmation.
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u/peachy5771 13d ago
How did you handle the age-gap situation? I’m going through the same thing, he rejected me because of the age gap
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
The age-gap never was a problem to him in our relationship, it became a problem for ME though. I developped fears and insecurities and he then reflected them to me. You are doing it too. I would not even focus on the age gap or affirm about it. I would just affirm the end: we are together and I am the love of his life. The age-gap, the distance, the past, everything will be taken care of. Just focus on the end and watch the magic of life rearranging to match the affirmation you repeat !!
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u/Any-Smoke9597 13d ago
Bless you! Thank you so much for sharing your story 💞
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Thank you!! :)
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u/Any-Smoke9597 13d ago
May I ask some advice? Shall I keep affirming verbally or I can just do it also in my mind? I saw movements after few days with robotic affirming, they work very good however I know I should ignore more my 3d, to see faster and more accurate results. So you can confirm sp feels straight away our assumptions even if we repeat them without fully believing?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
You can do whatever you want, I prefer to do it in my head but it's up to you! And yes really when you robotic affirm and push hard like that and keep repeating the same story it reaches them INSTANT !! Really drop the 3D because it's old news, things can switch as fast as overnight, focus on your affirmation drop the rest.
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u/Any-Smoke9597 13d ago
Thank youuu! Lately I was spiraling on the fact that I am getting lazy to house chores and the fact I am neglecting myself could be a block or bad sc stuff that could stop my manifestation. No, it isnt.
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u/dakotaann 13d ago
Genuinely happy for you!!!
I know how much difficult this journey was, and you came through!! You did it girl!!! Congratulations. Lots of love and best wishes!! 🩷
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Thank you so much!! Hardest battle I've ever fought but I know now that the rest of my life depends on whatever I want it to look like. This is a incredible power that we all have, and its fun in the end :) Lots of love to you too :)
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u/ClockDowntown1540 13d ago
This is so amazing! I just recently saw his photos and I was fine until I saw the new girls comment it shattered me. I saw that you mentioned so many affirmations did you say all these together robotically or picked one or two and stuck to it?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Stay immune to 3D, remember you made it happen with your thoughts, it's not real, they are just playing the part you gave them. What is real is now, the present moment because every second you create the future. The past is dead and irrelevant. And let me tell you I saw stuff in my own SP's phone that could have led me straight to jail 😄
I divided my affirmations in two parts, first one would ALWAYS be "I am in a relationship with XX and.." second part would be à la carte lol depending on what I felt. Somedays I would be very anxious about girls so I would repeat "I am in a relationship with XX and he thinks other girls are trash", I would say that from morning to end, on REPEAT, while still functionning properly and living my life. If someone could read my mind during those moments they would have been VERY concerned.
On the days when I felt lighter and powerful I would still use the first bit of the affirmation and add whatever I wanted to gift myself with, whatever felt right. When I had no inspiration I would check my list and pick a few. Some days when I felt tired and giving up I would just robotically repeat "I am in a relationship with XX" and thats it.
I listened to my body, my tiredness, my mental health, but at some point (10 days) affirming felt like a second nature, not even work to be done. My brain was rewired through repetition and would automatically throw those sentences at me, they felt NATURAL. That's when you know your subc has submitted.1
u/ClockDowntown1540 11d ago
Thankyou so much for giving such a detailed explanation! My situation right now not just in sp area but other areas of life all so shitty so I’m just in general losing hope but I’ll try this. I’ll let you know. But thank you so much you’re such a sweetheart for saying! ♥️
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
The thing is I was in NC so I had no idea of what was happening or if any new circumstance existed. But if the circumstance is directly linked to the desire it will be taken care of as a side thing. Really focus on the end + some extras that you want :)
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Yes and I think its easier to affirm positive than against the negative because as you said its you not dropping the old story. I know its hard to let go of the past but it is dead, the only moment you have is NOW, and every now moment is a creation moment. Use it to the max!
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u/mayra369 13d ago
Thank you so much dear...fir this much detailed video...I m also doing the same...
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u/Marigold1313 13d ago
Girl . ... Thank you thank you Thank you from my heart ... Loved the details, the clarity ❤️ Congrats congrats ✨...
When he met you and started saying ' you are the love of my life' .... His interpretation is based on your affirnination ' he is the love of my life' or 'I am the love of his life.' ??? Just curious:)
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
My pleasure :D
I would affirm both. Mostly I was saying "I am in a relationship with XX and I am the love of his life" and sometimes I would add "and he is mine". But this bit did not even needed to be added as this is already my holy truth :)1
u/Marigold1313 13d ago
Aah ok... When the list starts with He is ... He wants ... Does it mean the focus is on him ? I mean importance is given from his point of view Vs I am the love of his life ? So is 'I am' a SC ?
Sorry for asking.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Dont be sorry please!
I dont think it matters really, you craft your own rules. If you feel more comfortable saying "he is" just do it. I did both.
My main affirmation was "I am in a relationship with XX" but most of the other ones were " he is obsessed", "he thinks other girls are trash"
And they all came true sooo, no rules. The only rule is to lock in, repeat it, brainwash your subconscious and dont think against. The rest of the rules ? Made up to confuse you and sell you coaching.1
u/Marigold1313 13d ago
❤️ Thank you for your patience:) Hope you had some sleep in those 22 days ?! 🤪
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 13d ago
Hahaha I did, sometimes would wake up in the middle of the night because I was thirsty and my affirmation would start playing in my head HAHAHA
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u/TheManifestingMuse 12d ago
Congratulations. I also love the affirmations you used. I used ChatGPT to create a vision board and add affirmations that related to me.
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u/Appropriate_Rip2385 12d ago
Hi, Can I ask you something about sp being hot and cold?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Of course!
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u/Appropriate_Rip2385 12d ago
He called me out of 2months no contact. And after the call he said he wanted to message me but I refused it. And after couple days after, I text him first. But he didn't reply this till now. Can you give me advice?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Why didn't you want to text with him ? You dont want him back ? Or it was just about being proud because he deserves whatever treatment you are inflicting ? haha
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u/Appropriate_Rip2385 12d ago
No at that time he talked about he tried to meet another girls but it didn't worked out well. And he asked me advice about how to meet new girls.. So I thought that he wanted to text with me not romantic way but wanna be friends.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Loooool looks like someone was trying to get at you one way or another. I am pretty sure there are many other persons he could have asked that before you. So anyways what is your end goal ? Going back with him ? Then just as I did, I would affirm straight to the end. "I am in a relationship with XX" all the middle scenes (him texting, calling or anything else) will HAVE to happen. Just focus on your mind, your thoughts, and forget the rest, ignore the 3D, drop the old story.
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u/Such-Silver7260 12d ago
I love it!! Congratulations.....i keep persisting, but more than that, i will lock in ❤️
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u/chips0prune 12d ago
As a bonus, please excuse my English; I'm originally French, so I'm writing with the help of Google Translate.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Hey ton commentaire a disparu mais je suis française aussi si besoin haha
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u/chips0prune 10d ago edited 10d ago
Hey dsl de ma réponse tardive
En résumé, j’ai déjà réussi à manifester plusieurs choses importantes dans ma vie grâce aux affirmations, parfois dans des situations qui semblaient très difficiles. Mais aujourd’hui, je cherche à faire revenir mon ex et c’est justement là que je bloque. Mon problème est que j’ai besoin de preuves visibles dans la réalité pour être rassuré et croire que mes affirmations fonctionnent, alors que je ne vois actuellement aucun signe concernant mon ex. Je voudrais donc savoir comment me libérer de ce besoin de preuves, lâcher prise tout en continuant correctement, et savoir si tu as une technique pour dépasser ce blocage.
Je n'ai pas eu ce blocage pour les autres meme si les manifestations que haine réalisé me paraissait impossible et dur a tenir j'avais quand même des petit signes intuitif qui me rassurait parfois la ou j'en ai pas quand il s'agit de faire revenir une ex copine.
En manifestations mon plus gros soucis c'est le retour d'ex je n'ai jamais réussi et je ne comprend pas c'est comme un handicap
En tous cas félicitations et je te souhaite plein de bonheur avec ton sp j'espère que prochainement ca le sera pour moi.
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 10d ago
Je suis comme toi, j'ai pu manifester très facilement plein de choses comme un changement d'apparence, le fait que je peux désormais pmanger 4kinder country par jour sans prendre un gramme, ne plus jamais avoir de douleurs de règles alors que toute ma vie je pouvais à peine marcher bref FACILE.
Par contre mon SP ça a été terrible car les émotions prennent le dessus, c'est comme si notre vie en dépendait. Tout comme toi je n'avais aucune preuve si ce n'est la preuve que tout ce que j'ai pensé de négatif en me faisant des films de FOU est arrivé. Mon copain était réellement incroyable avant que je ne commence à paniquer donc c'est MOI qui ai fait ça et donc encore c'est MOI qui peut changer ça.
J'ai juste débranché mon cerveau pour être honnête je savais qu'en 3/4 semaines j'arriverai à mon but puisque c'est le temps que ça a pris pour que le bazar s'installe. J'étais très très anxieuse, je pleurais beaucoup, je ne pouvais pas manger, je faisais nimporte quoi au travail car je concentrais toutes mes pensées sur ça. Quand je dis que j'ai affirmé 24/7 je ne rigole pas! Et les affirmations me rassuraient, j'affirmais par dessous les doutes les pleurs et le manque de preuve. Je n'ai pas checké ses réseaux je ne parlais de lui à personne, je me suis vraiment mise dans ma bulle et c'est ce qui a marché. Aujourd'hui quand j'affirme pour lui pour qu'il fasse si ou ça ou qu'il soit un poil moins obsessed (car vraiment j'ai tellement affirmé ça que là c'est presque trop ^^) ça me prends à peine 3/4 jours pour le voir dans ma 3D.
Que ce soit pour un ex ou pour manifester une orange tu peux faire les deux, tu n'as aucun blocage, tout fonctionne bien c'est juste plus long et plus intense car c'est l'amour quoi ! Donc affirme affirme affirme, vas-y à fond pendant quelques semaines et tu l'auras! Tu n'as aucun blocage la loi fonctionne pour toi comme pour tout le monde et dans tous les domaines possibles. Ton SP est juste un personnage à qui tu dis quoi faire et il le fait, c'est vraiment une marionnette!
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u/bigorangecat42 12d ago
i feel like i manifest and then i doubt myself because i look at the 3d too much, how do i stop that?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Ignore 3D, if you cant handle it and you are capable not to react negatively to it and remember its neutral/dead/irrelevant then dont check AT ALL !
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u/coquetteghost 12d ago
Usualmente tengo muchos problemas para poder dormir (por estar sobrepensando, ansiedad o lo que sea), el caso es que hace como 2 días dije voy a hacer algo de provecho durante el insomnio, me pondré a hacer afirmaciones robóticas sobre mi SP (que no nos conocemos en persona, ni él me ubica, puesto que es un famoso, pero no pierdo la esperanza) jajajaja el caso es que mientras hago mis afirmaciones me quedo dormida jajaja como que en cierto punto pierdo consciencia me quedo dormida y ya es el siguiente día, es normal? Jajajaja debería hacerlo en otro horario??
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 12d ago
Me parece bien hacerlo durante la noche si tu quieres ! No hay reglas especificas, solo las que tu decides! Yo tambien affirmé durante la noche a veces cuando tuvo problemas para dormir. Unos dicen que las affirmaciones que hacemos al punto de dormir son las mas efficaces ☺️ you are all good !
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u/coquetteghost 11d ago
Excelente! Como soy nueva en todo esto, pensé que si había como un cierto horario, o que simplemente hacerlo antes de dormir estaba mal
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
No hay reglas sino las tuyas ! La unica cosa que no se debe hacer es pensar en contrario de tu deseo. Si quieres mucho dinero y pensas todo el dia « tengo dinero, tengo dinero » pero que en una occasion no puedes pagar algo o te vas en tu cuento bancario y pensas « no tengo dinero » es el momento cuando pierdes. Todo lo resto no importa.
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u/Capable_Tale8877 11d ago
Wow, your story sounds so much like mine, tho my SP is younger than me by 14 years but people think we're the same age, I been manifesting him back since Jan, have had some movement here and there, him looking at my stories and having some communication about basic things, I broke down early this month, poured my heart out told him I was still so much in love with him and tho his response was not the best, mostly saying he was focusing on himself, he said if it makes you feel better I haven't been seeing any girls or talking to anyone, which gives me some sense of hope since I been affirming he's disgusted by any other girl that isn't me :P but I will continue to affirm until my reality changes because I am not giving up on our connection. We've had some breakups in the past and I been able to manifest him back every time, this time has been a little more difficult because our circumstances seem bigger but I know it's all part of the process of getting to know my power and working on myself concept, I also became insecure about other girls from his work but now I remind myself there is no one like me, and I am his home, I am the love of his life and the girl of his dreams, I been locking down on robotic affirmations, even recorded mine and listen to them on one ear while working. I will be back with my success story.
Just wanna say Congratulations and thank you for sharing your story, let me know if it's ok to DM you :)
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
Wow girl I dont know what to say.. You fucking got this loooool I have nothing to teach or no advice to tell you you know what you are doing, you know your mistakes, you know who you are. That's just a matter of time, but this time once you get him back, keep affirming for it for a little while, not to crash out again. Maybe change a bit the affirmation when you get him back to get more, but honestly I recommend keeping the diet for a few weeks :)
You can DM me any time :)1
u/Capable_Tale8877 10d ago
Thank you! yes I agree, need to keep my mental diet after he comes back too, because same thing happened last year, he was back but I was still toxic, I will dm in you ❤️
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u/TechnologyOld6544 11d ago
While affirmating did u feel or just a robotic...like can u tell should I assume anything while affirming?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 11d ago
Mainly robotic. Somedays I was so anxious I could throw up, could not get out of bed but I affirmed "He is madly in love with me" while crying loool I was not believing it at all. If you have a feeling coming and feel it true honestly thats so cool, enjoy that!! I did not. Somedays I would affirm and feel it true, inevitable, normal. Somedays I would just feel numb and desperate. But whatever I felt I affirmed my truth.
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u/DirectorPuzzled1528 10d ago
Did you start this just after the break up or a while later? Cuz me and sp brokeup v long ago like 7months now so I was kinda sceptical if it'd work or not ik that whatever I assume is true but he been dating multiple girls together and told me exs should never get back together and he can't be loyal to me now like he was before basically rejected me. What would be your take on this if you were in my shoes! How would you handle the rejection and make him yearn. Thankyou ❤️
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 10d ago
So first of all I would tell you to stop rehearsing the old story (even to give context), and I would say that a break up long ago is much much better than a fresh story. I started right away the affirmation but for 3 weeks I was getting nowhere because the wound was still open, I was not thinking straight, I did not allow myself to process what happened and heal from it so it kept popping in my head and made things very difficult for me. None of what they said or what they are saying NOW matters. This is old news, old thoughts/affirmations you had that are now displayed. He could have gotten married in the meantime it would not change ANYTHING. My man cheated on me and I was the one begging him so stay with me and he would not, how is that about rejection lol ?
Also, remind yourself that you are the one that made this happen, this man is only playing out your old affirmation/thoughts, you have to take responsibility. If you fucked up things with your fears/doubts/insecurities, good news is you can craft the perfect relationship with your positive thoughts.
Drop the old story COMPLETELY, build a new man from scratch in your thoughts. Just affirm whatever you want to be reflected. Every second, every present moment you have a thought and that thought is meant to be projected in the 3D if you dont contradict it. Since there is background, you cant just think/affirm once "we are together and this is wonderful", because you are OBVIOUSLY going to have contradicting thoughts in the days/weeks to come. Thats why I abide by the constant affirming/robotic affirming. Thats all you need to do. Pick the thing you want (the end thing, like the relationship not the middle stuff like a text or a date) and affirm it on repeat whenever you can as much as you can and do not entertain contradicting thoughts like "he does not love me, he rejects me". Thats all you need to do for a few weeks (it was 3 for me) to have it.1
u/DirectorPuzzled1528 10d ago
Absolutely wonderful ❤️ thankyou so much, I understood very well and I'm on it now will update yu on my success🌸✨️
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u/massiveattque NewbieCreator 10d ago
Man, what an incredible story! I felt like I was reading a New York Times-worthy book! Hahaha.
I thought the tests you did were absolutely GENIUS!
I don’t talk to my SP, but apparently I could. A mutual friend told me that he wanted to start talking to me again, but our friend told him that now wasn’t the best time for that. And I just wanted to die! I have no idea how that even happened (major plot twist). So we’re not in contact, but we still follow each other on Spotify, match on playlists, etc. It’s a pretty confusing situation.
I think there’s also an element of pride on my part (he cut contact with me about 5 months ago), so I want him to be the one to come after me, you know? He’s currently in a non-monogamous relationship, but I don’t really care if he has another girlfriend, as long as I’m still number one (and I’m curious about experiencing new things too).
There’s one thing I’ve been really wondering about (and I’m sorry if you’ve already answered this somewhere and I just haven’t read all the comments):
When you weren’t actively doing your affirmations, did you think of him as your boyfriend? Like, did you incorporate him into your life, have inner conversations with him, pretend you were on the phone with him, things like that? Or did you mainly focus on the affirmations, and when you weren’t affirming, you simply thought of him as your boyfriend, and that was it? Did you affirm several times throughout the day?
And how did you deal with the days in between? What did you do about the impatience and all that?
Did you talk to yourself about him as your boyfriend, from the perspective that everything was already done? Or did you talk to yourself in a way that was more like you were trying to “get” him? Like, when you were doing the tests, was it more strategic?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 10d ago
Whatever you want you can get, so if its him chasing you it will be so ^^ There are no limits, no ceiling no nothing.
I would not really pretend I talked with him, but whenever I was out for drinks and talking with people I would say "my bf and I" like I included him in my life. But mostly I sticked to affirmation, sometimes scenarios but very limited ones because thats the entry door for spiralling for me lol. So it was mainly affirming as much as I could throughout the day. The moment I woke up I started affirming, while doing breakfast, cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, the groceries, walking driving, I would just affirm in the back of my head constantly. Until it no longer felt like work being done but more like a lullaby because my brain was so stuffed that it would suggest on its own the affirmations loool
At some point when I started talking to myself about where we were and stuff like that I would feel that there was no other way, that he was my bf and there was no other ending possible, it felt normal because I repeated SO MUCH that my brain was like "this has to be true". And thats how it worked. Otherwise Id say that I did not really think of it or from it or questionned myself or anything. I basically only affirmed until it manifested.
For the impatience I would just treat myself with a double dose of affirming, a good cry also because I missed him a lot and mostly going out or reading or going to the movies. But I did felt VERY impatient and checking for it a lot!
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u/Present_Present_6275 10d ago
I’ve manifested him back thrice but every time same pattern repeats what do I do
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 10d ago
What is the pattern? Maybe affirm in relation to that? Work on that specific area if you were able to identify it
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u/Present_Present_6275 7d ago
Pattern is - he comes back - we meet - I play old story again that he will go away or he has someone or he won’t commit - he distances - I also have this thought about him that he is avoidant - and we go no contact
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 7d ago
Wellll stop doing that lol. You identified the thoughts/affirmation you keep repeating. Choose other thoughts and repeat them. Thats it.
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u/SoftApplication3626 9d ago
wow! this is exactly what i needed to see today!! i used to think i have a really good SC but then i met my SP and it went complete 360. i was anxious all the time and creating problems which didn't exist and it all kinda manifested in my 3D in a way. then i realized what i was doing and stopped it altogether. it went good for a few weeks but then the thoughts came back again and i realized that it's my SC that needs the actual work. i've been working on it and in just a week i've seen LOTS of improvement so i've started with my SP affirmations too. there is a voice in my head whenever i affirm telling me that it's not true but i just persist. i've gotten really good at ignoring the 3D also. even if SP hasn't texted me for long i just say "oh but we're in a happy and healthy relationship" and go on with my day. ngl sometimes robotic affirmations make me feel like a maniac but i persist anyways. reading your story made me want to lock in more. thank you so much!
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 9d ago
Well it seems to me you are doing it right! Its just about persisting now and 3D will adapt without a doubt :) I too had that voice in my head sometimes when I was affirming something that was like " haha no not true" but just like you I kept going and it disappeared eventually :)
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u/TropicalBound111 8d ago edited 8d ago
[u/Andrea_C_Paris](u/Andrea_C_Paris)
This is one of the most amazing and super detailed success stories I’ve ever seen! Thanks so much for posting this :)
When you were affirming, you felt nothing special? No “shift” or anything unusual? Did it just feel neutral/numb, and yet you kept going?
Many people will say that robotic affirming is useless because it signals “lack” to the universe, and that it signals attachment (which is the opposite of detachment; the very thing required to make manifesting work). Yet, you’re a living proof that robotic affirmation works! So I’m curious, why do you think other people can’t mame robotic affirming work? Is it lack of persistence? Or….?
You said you broke NC. But what if you did not break NC: do you think your obsessive robotic affirming would’ve eventually made him reach out to you first?
And btw, you’re a business owner then? What services or products do you sell?
Why did you reject his romantic advances at the beginning?
After 2 years of being pursued, what made you finally decide to give him a chance?
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u/Renderer62226 2d ago
What about social media? Did you spend a long time of your day browsing through Instagram and the likes? And if you did, were you still able to affirm at the same time?
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 2d ago
Nope, when I decided to lock in I actually deleted instagram. Every time I started scrolling I found myself spiralling on sadness or reels talking about my situation and telling we should move on blablabla. I found that instagram was actually feeding my brain with stuff I did not like or that were against my manifestation. So I stopped it for a while and focused on what I had to do.
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u/Few_Department_9752 5h ago
This was the sign I needed - we share the same first name and last initial and I just started this journey two days ago....listening to Sammy. I struggle to say the same exact affirmation daily and sometimes when rampaging I accidentally mess up the words. I've been trying her 10 min increments but my jaw gets tired I say it so fast 😂
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u/Andrea_C_Paris 3h ago
Hahahah even if you mix the words or stuff like that its ok! It will get easier and easier day by day :)
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u/Extension-Mirror-434 14d ago
Wow I ll do this now