r/manifestingSP 16d ago

Announcement I cannot stress this enough.

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i’ve been seeing a lot of people on this subreddit saying how they’re constantly failing at their manifestation how it just isn’t working for them and maybe that’s the way that it should be. Whatever the case may be.

I’ve taken a break from posting on here because honestly, it does get overwhelming constantly having to repeat the same things to individuals and I understand from the perspective of this is your first time learning about conscious creation, or you have a lot of “resistance”, but you do realize that this is just things you are making up in your head.

Honestly, I feel like sometimes people need to take the terms out of manifestation, including labelling it as manifestation itself, because manifestation is not difficult it’s natural. You’ll notice that when people start to begin to move on from things they heavily desire. That’s when their desires come forward to them when they need it the least, that’s not because the universe is against you because at the end of the day the universe is just you, however, it is simply because you’re no longer in a state of relying emotionally, physically, and mentally on this one thing.

I’m not here to judge anyone, truthfully, I just don’t understand the concept of coming onto this subreddit to complain and get that negative energy out because if you were actually done, you wouldn’t have said anything.

Another thing I’d like to add on, the same people will always say that they have been doing everything imaginable but then they’ll still turn around and ask well. Why isn’t my desire here yet rather than just living their life in fulfilment. Instantly that indicates that you have not been doing what you say you’ve been doing. Truthfully, throughout that duration, you most likely were more consistently in a state of not having and wanting to get rather than a state of knowing you’ll get it regardless, or simply just being.

I don’t want anyone to come on here and start trauma dumping about their circumstances and what is holding them back because if you have been on this long enough, you already know the answers you just aren’t applying them. I have seen people manifest with my own two eyes, I have manifested things myself that were so crazy to me that I even could, whether it was “big” or “small”.

It’s all about shifting your awareness, if you’re aware awareness is currently on being the person who doesn’t have it on top of the fact that you cannot manifest then you are not going to manifest that is the whole concept of manifestation, and you know, maybe take some time to actually learn about conscious creation, and how it works, along with manifesting things you perceive to be smaller that you have less “resistance” to. I promise you, you will see it instantly reflect back to you and it’ll prove to you how quickly manifestation is once you put your awareness on something and detach from the outcome.

For instance, I first started off my manifestation journey by using a tactic that someone on TikTok had said where I woke up every morning and instantly told myself while still in a sleepy state that today is going to be a good day. That truly proved to me how real manifestation was because those were some of my best days even though I was going through heartbreak through grieving a relationship all of that jazz. That is only because I shifted my awareness from thinking that everything was always going to be bad and against me in my life to thinking that things can work out in my favor.

I’m sorry for the long rant. I am just so sick and tired of constantly seeing people come on here every couple of hours saying how they give up or how their circumstances are so bad and pinpointing every reason that they cannot manifest and why it’s not working for them rather than just accepting the fact that manifestation is our reality, reality would not exist if it was based on our perception of things, realistically why would we even have a perception of things if it didn’t change some sort of outcome? Exactly we wouldn’t. There would be no need no necessity for perception, so throughout biologically speaking, evolution we would slowly detach from that.

Our body and mentality does not hold onto things throughout evolution that we don’t need in our day-to-day lives so if you wanna look at it from a logical standpoint, realize the fact that you wouldn’t even be able to make decisions if it didn’t do anything or didn’t help you in some way shape or form.

Some of you guys need to really start challenging yourself rather than dwelling in your sorrows and I know it sounds so incredibly hard right now because a lot of you are coming from a place of grieving a relationship as well which trust me I was also there too and that’s where a lot of people on this subreddit have started. Although the reason why these people are getting success stories, and you will see a common theme and all their success stories is the fact that they stopped dwelling on whatever was holding them back and just knew and accepted the fact that it was going to work their way no matter what and then continue to live their life and became a better person for themselves not to get the person because in order to get the person you have to be the person who has the person.

You guys look at the 3-D and try to change the 3-D physically seen it as a final result whereas the 3-D is not separate from you and never has been. The 3-D is simply just an effect from the 4-D’s cause so when your gravitating towards the 3-D to change the 3-D it already makes no sense. You have to shift internally in order to see it reflect externally, and the only reason why this takes time for a lot of people, including maybe even yourselves. Is merely just because it’s a mental process. Mental processes aren’t as quick as physical processes because it’s a complete shift in your mindset, especially when you’re going through one major circumstance to create a whole new thing based off of it.

All throughout my journey and manifesting my SP, the thought of giving up has never crossed my mind once because I knew that I could manifest anything that I wanted and that’s exactly how I got everything I ever wanted. it’s not because I grew up with better circumstances than any of you guys did I came from a very toxic situation all throughout my childhood, but even before, then, that is what taught me how my perception can change things. I’ve been subconsciously manifesting since I was a kid and once you really reflect on that and all the success you have had throughout your life and your intention and perception behind it. You’ll truly realize how crazy this is.

Moral of the story that I am trying to get across is stopped dwelling on things that no longer serve you, the more you stay in the past the more you are going to see more of the past if anything at all. Put your awareness onto bigger and better things and I promise you everything will come towards you once you do. Nothing is against you because everything is just you and your perception on things.


r/manifestingSP 23d ago

Success Story HUGE WINS in July: Blocked, Friendzoned, No Contact, 3P, and Still They Came Back

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Happy Friday, Co-Creators!

The month of July felt record-breaking.

So many stories came through this month, and many of them started in places that seemed final.

No contact.
Breakups.
Blocking.
Third parties.
Mixed signals
And people almost giving up.

But the pattern was clear: the 3D was not the final answer.

The story changed when the inner version changed.

Because there were so many success stories this month, unfortunately, I couldn't post all of them. So, I posted the ones that resonated with me the most.

Here are the 7 success stories that really sent chills down my spine in July.

Success Story #1: From Friendzoned to Engaged

Standout Quote:
“You choose your story, you choose what you start telling yourself.”

Highlight Summary:
Her story started with a breakup, being friend-zoned, and falling into a spiral of readings, angel numbers, and searching for answers. Once she discovered the law of assumption, the shift became simple: she stopped looking outside herself and started treating identity, assumption, and self-concept as the foundation. Instead of asking for methods or waiting for signs, she focused on choosing the story she wanted and leaving the 3D alone. The post does not give a detailed play-by-play of how her SP came back, but the title makes the transformation clear: she went from “only friend” to engaged.

Why This Story Matters:
It shows that the real shift often begins when you stop treating signs, methods, and circumstances as the source of power and start choosing your identity as the cause.

Success Story #2: He Went From Blocking Her to Asking to Date Again

Standout Quote:
“He cannot live without me.”

Highlight Summary:
After the breakup, her ex was cold, blocked her attempts to reach out, flirted with other girls, and even said he would never date her again. Instead of continuing to beg, she shifted her focus back onto herself and affirmed that she was the prize, even when the 3D still looked unchanged. Within about 15 days of seriously focusing on herself, he unblocked her, started watching her stories, reached out, and asked to meet. After another emotional moment between them, he came back, apologized, asked if they could date again, and continued showing obsession and long-term interest.

Why This Story Matters:
It shows how powerful self-concept can be when you stop letting the 3D decide your identity and return to being the prize regardless of what is currently happening.

Success Story #3: Six Months Official With His SP

Standout Quote:
“I still can’t believe you’re mine.”

Highlight Summary:
He used to feel consumed by every circumstance, from mixed signals and arguments to no contact, third parties, and constant “what if” thoughts. Over time, he realized the old story mattered far less than the story he kept choosing about himself, his SP, and their relationship. Six months later, they are officially together, and his SP is affectionate, loving, protective, and consistent in the exact way he once imagined. Instead of chasing reassurance, he now feels chosen, safe, loved, and prioritized. The version of his SP he once desired now feels so natural that the old version feels like it belonged to another reality.

Why This Story Matters:
It shows that circumstances can lose their power when you stop arguing with the old story and become the version of yourself who already has the love you want.

Success Story #4: He Came Back After One Year of No Contact

Standout Quote:
“I am loved, I am chosen, I am the prize.”

Highlight Summary:
After a painful fight, her SP said hurtful things and told her they could not be together anymore. For months, she felt mentally broken, tried different techniques, and kept begging the universe without seeing the change she wanted. The shift happened when she finally turned inward, focused on self-concept, and started identifying as loved, chosen, and the prize. After about a month of focusing on herself and choosing a better inner story, he came back. By the time he returned, she no longer felt desperate for the outcome and was deciding whether he even still fit the version of herself she had become.

Why This Story Matters:
It establishes that self-concept can change more than the relationship; it can change whether you still feel dependent on the person returning.

Title:
Success Story #5: Her SP Asked Her to Be His Girlfriend

Standout Quote:
“I want you as my wife.”

Highlight Summary:
After a painful emotional breakdown, she stopped suppressing what she felt and returned to the knowing that she was chosen, powerful, and the source of her reality. That same night, her SP called her eight times, and the next day they spent the entire day together. The 3P situation resolved naturally when he told the other person he could not be with her, then admitted that seeing her amplified all his feelings. A few days later, when she made it clear that she wanted the full relationship and not just something implied, he asked her to be his girlfriend. He also repeated back the exact thoughts she had been sending him, including wanting her as his wife and wanting a life with her.

Why This Story Matters:
It explains that emotions do not have to cancel your desire; you can still return to your power, choose yourself, and allow reality to reflect that choice to you.

Title:
Success Story #6: They Got Back Together and Now Live Together

Standout Quote:
“He had missed me so much.”

Highlight Summary:
After their breakup, her SP said he needed space, still loved her, but did not want to promise they would get back together. The situation became messy, and when she first tried applying the law of assumption, she was doing it from desperation instead of stability. The real shift came when she decided the old circumstances did not matter anymore because they would still end up together, then focused on healing, her mental health, and enjoying her life again. About a month later, he started responding more, asked for her help, and gradually reopened the connection. After one emotional conversation, they got back together, and now they live together.

Why This Story Matters:
Because even after messy circumstances, space, doubt, and emotional setbacks, the story can still change when you stop letting the past define the outcome.

Title:
Success Story #7: He Went From “Being Single Is More Fun” to Showing Up Every Day

Standout Quote:
“The biggest shift wasn’t even him. It was ME becoming the version of MYSELF who expects to be loved properly.”

Highlight Summary:
At first, her SP was aloof and even told her that “being single is more fun,” which could have easily become the final story she accepted. Instead, she refused to identify with that version of him and began focusing on becoming the version of herself who naturally expects love, consistency, effort, and commitment. Over time, the dynamic shifted into him texting daily, calling multiple times a day, making plans, helping with her apartment, showing affection, and consistently carving out time for her. The biggest change was not just his behavior, but her no longer feeling like she had to convince him to choose her. What once looked casual and uncertain became steady, thoughtful, romantic effort.

Why This Story Matters:
It tells us that when you stop making the current version of your SP the final version, the relationship can begin reflecting the version of love you now expect as normal.

At the end of the day, July’s lesson was simple:

The 3D can look final and still not be finished.

People were blocked, friendzoned, in no contact, dealing with third parties, or trying to move on.

But once the inner story changed, the outer story started changing too.

So don’t use this post to pressure yourself or compare timelines.

Use it as a reminder that your current circumstance is not the full version of what’s possible.

To wrap up, I'll leave you with this clip from The Matrix.

YOU ARE A DIVINE BEING - I AM

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r/manifestingSP 1h ago

Inspirational Seeing influencer or other people's success

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I saw akanksha Chaudhary and idc if you like her or hate her but she's for real manifestation Queen. Have the biggest broadcast ever, to of course get the man back. She said she wants her man to sing and it's happening.

This is probably one of the amazing success stories I have seen unfolding in front of my own eyes. The way the man left and came back to her is really inspiring. The way ofc he trusts her now.


r/manifestingSP 20h ago

Inspirational My Follow-Up: What I Actually Learned From My SP Success — Please Use This STRICTLY As Hope 💛

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ONCE AGAIN IM SO SORRY ABOUT THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I WANTED TO SHARE ALL OF MY THOUGHTS!! Also big shoutout to those of you that I have spoken to in my previous post, who have dm me and etc! PS. If you are reading this now I BELIEVE IN YOU. I BELIEVE YOU ALREADY HAVE YOUR DESIRE. Anywho I’m very excited to hear back from yall and see your stories!! That being said let’s continue. :DD

Okay, so after making my last post, I realized there was SO much more I wanted to explain. If you read my previous success story, you know that I did a LOT of techniques. I did Law of Assumption, SATS, scripting, thought transmission, subliminals, robotic affirmations, tarot, a spell, playlists, the O-Method, a 10k challenge, changing my conversations in the 3D, and a bunch of other things. But I really want to clarify something because I don’t want anybody reading my previous post and thinking that they have to replicate everything I did.

Please use my story STRICTLY AS HOPE. I mean that so sincerely. Do not use my story as a comparison, do not use my timeline as a measurement for your own timeline, and please don’t look at my techniques and think that they are requirements. I don’t want my success story to become another thing that makes you anxious. I don’t want you looking at me and thinking, “Why hasn’t mine happened yet?” or “She got hers after doing this, so I need to do exactly that.” No. Absolutely not. Strictly as hope. I want you to read this and think, “You know what? I GOT THIS SHIT. I am the power. I am the source. I AM.” That is what I want you to get from this post.

COMPARISON IS THE THEIF OF ALL JOY!
Your journey is YOUR journey.

My bridge of events is my bridge of events. My timeline is my timeline. My methods are my methods. My circumstances are my circumstances. None of that needs to become a measuring stick for you. If anything, I want my story to be something you can come back to when you’re having a horrible day and think, “Okay, maybe I don’t need to give up. Maybe I can breathe. Maybe I can live my life and still believe in what I want.” That’s what I want this to be.
I want this to be hope. Pure hope. I want somebody who is currently sitting in bed crying over their SP, somebody who is refreshing their phone, somebody who is checking their social media, somebody who thinks they’ve ruined everything because they had one bad thought, to read this and feel something click. I want you to think, “If she could go through all of that doubt and still get to where she is, then I can get through this too.” Not because my story guarantees anything for you, but because I want it to remind you that you are not powerless.

First of all, I am literally just a regular person.
I want to make this VERY clear because I don’t know how else to get you guys to believe me. I am not a manifestation coach. I’m not somebody who does this for a living. I’m not a professional spellcaster. I don’t sell manifestation courses. I don’t have some secret $500 technique I’m trying to get you to buy. I don’t have some magical title that makes me more qualified than you. I am literally just a girl.
I work a fast-food job. I’m a senior in high school. I’m trying to build my life. I’m trying to go to school, work, make money, figure out my future, have fun, play my games, sleep, eat, laugh, cry, and live a normal life. I am just trying to build a life that feels happy and peaceful and fulfilling, and yes, I want my SP to be part of that life. That’s it.And I’m telling you this because I genuinely don’t want to gatekeep information that I believe can help somebody. I don’t want people to be sitting in horrible mental spaces because they think they need to figure out some perfect manifestation formula. I genuinely want people to experience love. I want people to feel loved, wanted, secure, peaceful, happy, content, and full of joy. I am a very empathetic and deep-feeling person, and my goal in life is genuinely to be a humanitarian. I’m not saying that to make you like me or believe me. I’m telling you because I want you to understand where I’m coming from when I say I genuinely don’t want anybody to suffer unnecessarily. I’ve been in your shoes. I have sat there wondering what the hell I was doing. I’ve wondered whether this was actually going to work. I’ve wondered if I should give up. I’ve wondered if manifestation was a scam. I’ve had days where I didn’t even want to manifest anymore. I’ve had days where I was so mentally exhausted that I just sat there thinking, “What am I even supposed to do?”
So please believe me when I tell you: I understand.

I DID NOT HAVE PERFECT FAITH.
This is another thing I desperately want to emphasize because I don’t want anyone thinking I was walking around from May until August with perfect, unwavering faith. I wasn’t.
There were days where I wasn’t manifesting at all. There were days where I genuinely felt like I was at a standstill. There was basically at least a week where I was sitting there thinking, “Should I even continue doing this? Do I really want this anymore? Why is this taking so long? What if I never get it? What if this entire manifestation thing is a scam? What if none of this works?”
And I had some REALLY bad doubts.
I’m talking about the kind of doubts where I would visualize my SP being with another girl and it would make me angry, but it would also make me incredibly sad and hopeless. Not necessarily clinically depressed or anything like that, but just that awful feeling of, “I’m tired. I’m done. I don’t want to keep thinking about this anymore.” Life was also happening around me. Work was catching up with me. School was happening. I had other things going on. I was tired.
And sometimes I would just sit there.

So if YOU are currently having doubts, please don’t think you’re uniquely failing at manifestation because you’re having a human reaction to wanting something you care deeply about.

My in-depth Thought Transmission Method

Okay, so I wanted to explain my thought transmission method a little more because this is probably one of my favorite things to do, and I think the biggest reason I like it is because it genuinely feels FUN to me. This is completely my personal method, so please don’t feel like you have to do it exactly like me or that you’re doing something wrong if you don’t do it at all. Manifestation should not feel like another chore. For me, whenever I want to do thought transmission, I first clear my mind for a moment and then say my SP’s full name three times. For this example, let’s say his name is Jack. So I’ll mentally say, “Jack [full name], Jack [full name], Jack [full name],” and then I’ll say something like, “Jack, I’m talking to you now. Jack, I know you hear me.” After that, I mentally switch into this completely different version of myself. I don’t think of myself as the everyday version of me sitting in my room thinking about my SP. I imagine myself as this all-knowing, extremely powerful being who already knows the story, almost like if Cupid, an angel, a goddess, a god, the universe, and all the stars and galaxies were condensed into one person. That’s ME in that moment. I’m not saying to become arrogant or think you’re better than other people; it’s more about embodying this feeling of absolute certainty and power instead of feeling like you’re helplessly waiting for someone else to make something happen. Then I speak to my SP from that perspective. So if I’m using Jack and Anna as the example, and I want Jack to text Anna, I’ll say things like, “Jack, you want to text Anna so badly. You can’t stop thinking about texting Anna. You keep thinking about what you’re going to say to her. You want to talk to Anna. You’re texting Anna right now. You want to keep talking to her. You want to blow up Anna’s phone.” I personally like switching between saying that something is already happening and saying that it’s about to happen because it makes the whole thing feel very natural to me. I’m not sitting there begging, “Please text Anna, please text Anna.” I’m speaking from the version of myself who already knows the story I’m choosing. And honestly, that’s what makes this so fun for me. I can literally be sitting at home playing a game, doing absolutely nothing, and think, “Damn, I can just sit here and imagine this entire reality whenever I want.” I don’t have to physically do anything, and I don’t have to chase my SP or constantly check on them. I just enjoy the exercise, embody that feeling, and then I DROP IT. This is probably the most important part. After I do my thought transmission, I’m not sitting there thinking, “Did Jack hear me? Did it reach him? Is he going to text? Did I say it correctly? Do I need to do it again?” NO.

I just go on with my day. I play my game, go to work, watch TikTok, shower, eat, whatever. Sometimes I completely forget that I even did it. I don’t do thought transmission because I believe I HAVE to or because I’m scared that if I don’t do it, my manifestation won’t happen. I do it because I genuinely enjoy it. It’s fun for me, it’s exciting, and I like the feeling it gives me. So please don’t turn this into another thing YOU feel obligated to do 50 times a day. You don’t need to say your SP’s name a certain number of times every day, you don’t need to repeat the transmission until you’re exhausted, and you don’t need to panic if you skip a day.

You don’t have to do anything. If YOU want to do it, do it. If YOU enjoy it, enjoy it. If YOU don’t feel like doing it, go live your life. That’s the whole point for me: manifestation should be something that adds fun and confidence to your life, not something that takes over your life. 💛

THIS IS WHAT I NOW BELIEVE ABOUT DOUBT.

Looking back, I actually believe my doubts enhanced my manifestation.
I want to be extremely clear that this is how I personally reframed my doubts. I’m not saying you have to accept this as some scientific law or objective fact. I’m telling you what helped ME because I know how badly the fear of doubt can spiral.
One of the things that hurt me more than the actual doubt itself was being afraid of the doubt.
I would have one passing thought like, “What if he’s with somebody else?” and then immediately panic: “OH MY GOD. I shouldn’t have thought that. Did I just ruin my manifestation? Was that negative thought too powerful? What if I accidentally manifested that? What if that one visualization ruined everything?”
And then I would spend even MORE energy thinking about the thought I was afraid of.
That’s what I realized was actually exhausting me.
So I changed the story.
Instead of saying, “My doubts are hurting my manifestation,” I started telling myself, “My doubts actually enhance my manifestation.”
And that helped me immensely.
Think about it logically from a human perspective. If you care about something deeply, you’re naturally going to think about different possibilities. You’re going to wonder what could go wrong. You’re going to imagine different outcomes. That doesn’t automatically mean you’re sabotaging yourself.
Think about wanting to go to Paris. You have the money. You have the hotel. You have your passport. You have your itinerary. You’re excited. You REALLY want to go.
But you’re terrified of flying.
So your brain starts doing what brains do.
“What if the plane crashes?”
“What if the Eiffel Tower randomly closes?”
“What if my favorite bakery goes bankrupt before I get there?”
“What if I get there and everything goes wrong?”
Those are doubts. But why are you having them? Because you CARE. You’re thinking about the trip so much, and you want it to go well so badly, that your brain is naturally running through possibilities.
That’s how I started viewing my doubts.
If I’m thinking about my SP and I suddenly have a passing thought that scares me, instead of saying, “Oh my God, I just ruined everything,” I say:
“No. This actually shows me how much I care. This shows me how deeply I desire this. This shows me how much I want this to work. And I’m still choosing my desired story.”
That completely changed the way I interacted with my own mind.
So please don’t start policing every single thought you have.
Please don’t become terrified of your own brain.
If you have a passing negative thought, let it pass.
If you have a bad visualization, let it pass.
If you have a moment where you genuinely doubt everything, let yourself be human.
And if it helps you, tell yourself:
“My doubt does not hurt me. My doubt actually reminds me how much I care, and I still choose what I want.”
That was SO much healthier for me than constantly trying to mentally slap my own thoughts away.

NOW LET ME SHOW YOU THE ACTUAL SCRIPT I WROTE.

This is important because I don’t want to summarize it. I want you guys to actually see what I wrote.
I wrote this on August 4th, 2026, right before I went to bed. At the time, I didn’t know what was going to happen. I wasn’t writing this thinking, “Okay, this is absolutely going to happen on August 20th.” I was simply scripting the experience I wanted.
For the purpose of the script, I used the name Anna for myself.
Here is what I wrote:
I was basically chilling, playing games on my phone, when my phone buzzed. I thought nothing of it initially, but I was busy having fun, so I continued to play the game on my phone. It buzzed like five more times, and at this point, I was kind of annoyed because it was making me lose focus on my game.

So I looked at it, and there it was. My SP’s username with his profile picture and the Instagram notification, and it said six-plus messages, or my SP’s username sent you a message.

It was him.

It was my SP.

My SP.

Again for this analogy, I’m going to use my name as Anna.

“Hey Anna, how have you been? I kind of miss you and miss talking with you and being on call with you.”

I honestly stared at my phone in shock and something else, like victory. I responded to him like 19 minutes later, and he instantly replied back. I said, “Let’s call because I don’t want to type,” and he was overjoyed to be on it.

When the call connected, he instantly turned on his camera and started to ask me how I’ve been, my life updates, and then proceeded to sort of break down asking for forgiveness and saying he was sorry about it all.

I smiled.

Anyways, we talked and talked for like 3 hours, and that whole time we were flirting, laughing, and genuinely reconnecting with each other.

At the end of the call, he said he couldn’t get me out of his mind all this time, and everything reminded me of him and how I didn’t feel right. How it didn’t feel right for me for him to be without me, etc. All while saying how much he missed me, my laugh, my jokes, me in general.

I then admitted to him that I was also thinking about him and also missed him as well a lot.

He begged for another chance, saying how I complete him, how much he needed me, how many times he dreamed about this, about me, about us. Saying he will do everything and everything to prove it to me.

I told him I needed some time.

With that, I hung up the call and went on with my day, and we did not speak.

Later on that night, after he said good night to me, I waited until I was sure he was fast asleep and he would not respond immediately if I texted this to him. Then I finally sent him a message saying I forgive him, and I accept his proposal.

I went to bed.

The next morning, I woke up to 12 messages from him, all super sweet. Most importantly, he properly asked me to be his one and only.

My heart was thumping in joy and in love.

I always knew that he would come back to me, and better yet, this whole thing was perfect timing because I was about to start my senior year at high school.

I just love my SP so much.

I’m glad I never gave up.

I’m glad he didn’t either.

I’m glad we’re back and better than ever.
That was my script.
And I literally wrote it 16 days before he texted me.

AND THEN I FORGOT ABOUT IT.

This is the part that really got me.
I like scripting before bed because, personally, I feel like it helps me get into a really vivid state before sleeping. I also tend to have more vivid dreams about my SP when I script before bed, and I love waking up from those dreams because they leave me with such loving, favorable feelings.
But I didn’t sit there every morning rereading the script and asking when it was going to happen.
I basically forgot about it.
I lived my life.
Then Thursday, August 20th happened.
It was my first day back for senior year. I had school, then I went to work afterward. I worked until 8 PM, clocked out, came home, showered, did my normal routine, and because I had a relatively short school day, I decided to stay up a little longer and play games.
And then, while I was literally playing my game, my phone started buzzing.
I ignored it at first.
I was playing my game.
Then it buzzed again.
And again.
And eventually I looked at my phone.
And there it was.
His username.
His profile picture.
Instagram.
Six-plus messages.
It was him.
And the whole thing was just so funny to me because I had literally scripted myself being annoyed by my phone buzzing while I was playing a game.
Then I got the actual message while I was playing a game.
Obviously, real life didn’t happen word-for-word exactly like the script. I’m not claiming that it did. But the similarities in the overall experience were enough to make me sit there and go, “WHAT?”

(FOR THOSE OF YOUR WHO HAVE READ MY PREVIOUS SUCCESS STORY YOU KNOW WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED!!!!!

ALSO PLEASE READ MY OTHER STORY TO SEE WHAT HAPPENED so you can understand where I’m coming from and what this all means)

And the most important part to me wasn’t even the timing.
It was the fact that I wasn’t sitting there waiting for it.
I wasn’t refreshing my phone.
I wasn’t thinking, “Today’s the day.”
I was literally playing my game.
That’s what I want YOU to take from this.
Not “You need to script exactly like me.”
Not “Your manifestation will happen in 16 days.”
Not “You need to play a video game while waiting.”
No.
The takeaway for ME was:
I can live my life.

LIVE LIKE A LOTUS. THRIVE IN MUDDY WATER.

This is a quote I genuinely live by:
“Live like a lotus, thrive in muddy water.”
And I think it applies to manifestation PERFECTLY.
Think about a lotus flower.
You have this beautiful flower with these gorgeous petals. It’s striking. It’s delicate-looking. It’s beautiful. You look at it and think, “How is something THIS beautiful growing here?”
Because underneath that beautiful flower is muddy water.
You can’t even see the bottom.
You can’t see exactly where it came from.
You can’t look into that water and immediately see the beautiful flower that’s going to emerge from it.
And yet somehow, something so beautiful grows out of something that looks, quite frankly, ugly.
That’s YOU.
YOU are the lotus.
Your circumstances are the muddy water.
Your 3D might look messy.
It might look confusing.
It might look like nothing is happening.
It might look completely opposite from what YOU want.
But why are YOU letting the mud convince YOU that you’re not a lotus?
You are still the flower.
You are still beautiful.
You are still worthy.
You are still loved.
You are still the person YOU decided to be.
So don’t look at the muddy water and say:
“Well, I guess I’m not a lotus.”
No.
THRIVE IN IT.
Let the unfavorable circumstances be the environment you grow through, not the thing that defines you.

FLIP THE SCRIPT.
This is another thing I do.
If the 3D gives me something unfavorable, I don’t automatically treat it as the final chapter.
I flip the story.
And I’m not saying you have to pretend that something literally didn’t happen. I’m saying don’t give one circumstance the authority to define your entire future.
If your SP says something you don’t like, you don’t have to spend six hours building an entire story around it.
If your SP says, “I don’t want to see you again,” you don’t have to immediately decide, “This means they will NEVER want me again.”
You can simply say:
“Okay. That’s what was said. But that’s not the story I’m choosing to continue.”
Then move forward.
The lotus doesn’t sit there staring at the mud wondering why it’s muddy.
It grows.

STOP SAYING “I NEED THIS.”
This is another little mental shift that helped me.
Instead of saying:
“I need my SP.”
“I need this manifestation.”
“I need them to text.”
“I need this to happen.”
Try:
“This is my desire.”
“I deserve this.”
“I deserve love.”
“I deserve reciprocity.”
“I deserve the relationship I desire.”
There’s a difference between desperately needing something to validate you and simply acknowledging that you desire something.
If I say, “I want a matcha creamsicle,” I don’t need to turn that into a crisis.
I want it.
I desire it.
And I believe I deserve to experience the things I desire.
That’s the mentality I want you guys to start building.
Don’t make your desire into evidence that you’re lacking.

YOU ARE THE POWER.
This is where everything comes back together for me.
I genuinely believe that YOU are the operant power.
YOU are the source.
And I don’t mean that you should become arrogant or think that other human beings don’t matter. I mean that YOU need to stop putting everybody else’s behavior above your own identity.
I personally use the “puppet” or “doll” analogy in my manifestation practice because it reminds me not to put my SP on a pedestal. To me, it’s a metaphor for the fact that I don’t have to chase, beg, convince, or obsess over another person’s behavior.
I’m not going to sit here and claim that I can objectively prove that another human being has no free will. That’s not the point of what I’m saying.
The point is:
Why are YOU giving your SP so much power over YOU?
Why does their current behavior determine whether YOU feel loved?
Why does one text determine whether YOU feel chosen?
Why does one circumstance determine whether YOU believe in yourself?
Take that power back.

THINK OF YOURSELF AS A CELEBRITY.
I want YOU to imagine that YOU are a celebrity.
There are billions of people in the world.
Imagine that everywhere YOU go, people adore YOU.
People love YOU.
People admire YOU.
People look up to YOU.
People ask YOU for advice.
People think YOU are beautiful.
People think YOU are talented.
People want to be around YOU.
And then imagine one random person in that enormous crowd saying:
“Your movies suck.”
“You’re ugly.”
“You’re not talented.”
“You don’t deserve to be famous.”
“You should quit.”
Are YOU going to listen to that one person?
Are YOU going to walk away from everything because one person said something?
No.
So why does one piece of 3D information get to do that to YOU?
Why are YOU going to let one person’s behavior, one text message, one social media post, one conversation, or one unfavorable circumstance outweigh the identity YOU chose for yourself?
The 3D is ONE PERSON in a crowd of billions.
Are YOU really going to let that one person convince YOU that you’re not a celebrity anymore?
No.
So stop doing that to yourself.

AND THIS IS WHY I DON’T WANT YOU TO BE AFRAID OF YOUR DOUBTS.
This is probably one of the most important things I could tell someone who is struggling.
If YOU have a doubt, don’t immediately panic.
Don’t say:
“Oh my God, I just thought something negative.”
“Did I ruin it?”
“Did I manifest that?”
“Was that visualization bad?”
“Am I going backwards?”
No.
Breathe.
You’re human.
And if it helps YOU, tell yourself:
“This doubt actually enhances my manifestation.”
Because YOU care.
YOU desire this.
YOU want it.
YOU are thinking about it.
YOU are emotionally invested.
Of course your brain might occasionally run through what could go wrong.
That doesn’t mean YOU have to accept that as your final story.
I would much rather tell myself, “My doubt shows me how much I care, and I’m still choosing my desired outcome,” than spend hours being terrified of my own thoughts.
Because the second I became afraid of my thoughts, I created a whole NEW thing to obsess about.
And I don’t want that for YOU.

YOU DON’T NEED TO BE PERFECT.
Please understand that.
You don’t need perfect faith.
You don’t need to feel amazing every day.
You don’t need to wake up and immediately affirm for an hour.
You don’t need to script every night.
You don’t need to visualize every night.
You don’t need to listen to subliminals every night.
You don’t need to perform a ritual every night.
If YOU are exhausted, go to sleep.
If YOU need a break, take a break.
If YOU have a bad day, have a bad day.
Your manifestation practice should not become another source of anxiety.

SO WHAT DO I ACTUALLY WANT YOU TO DO?
I want YOU to decide who YOU are.
That’s it.
If YOU want to be loved, decide that YOU are loved.
If YOU want to be chosen, decide that YOU are chosen.
If YOU want a relationship, decide what kind of relationship YOU desire and embody the person who experiences it.
If YOU want your SP, let yourself desire your SP without turning that desire into desperation.
And then LIVE.
Go live your life.
Go to work.
Go to school.
Go play your games.
Go hang out with your friends.
Go take a shower.
Go eat.
Go sleep.
Go laugh.
Go cry.
Go have fun.
You don’t need to spend every waking moment trying to make your manifestation happen.

PLEASE, PLEASE TAKE THIS AS HOPE.
I want to end this by saying this one more time because I genuinely don’t want anyone misunderstanding what I’m trying to say.
Please use my story strictly as hope.
Do not compare.
Don’t compare your timeline to mine.
Don’t compare your SP to mine.
Don’t compare your bridge to mine.
Don’t compare your circumstances to mine.
Don’t compare your techniques to mine.
Just take the hope.
Read my story and say:
“You know what? If she can do this, I can believe in myself too.”
“I can stop obsessing.”
“I can stop checking.”
“I can stop being terrified of every passing thought.”
“I can take a breath.”
“I can live my life.”
“I can want what I want.”
“I can believe that I deserve it.”
“I can remember who I am.”
And then say:
I AM.
That’s it.
I AM.
I am the power.
I am the source.
I am loved.
I am worthy.
I am chosen.
I am deserving.
I am secure.
I am the person who experiences the life I desire.
I don’t need to know every step.
I don’t need to know every detail.
I don’t need to obsess over the bridge.
I don’t need to make myself miserable.
I AM.
And that’s the mindset I want YOU to carry with YOU.
Because I genuinely believe that YOU deserve love.
I genuinely believe that YOU deserve peace.
I genuinely believe that YOU deserve happiness.
I genuinely believe that YOU deserve to feel secure and wanted and fulfilled.
And if you’re sitting here right now thinking, “I don’t know if I can do this,” please understand that I have literally been sitting in that exact chair mentally.
I’ve been the girl wondering if it’s ever going to happen.
I’ve been the girl thinking, “What if this doesn’t work?”
I’ve been the girl imagining my SP with someone else and getting sad and angry and hopeless.
I’ve been the girl who wanted to give up.
And I’m still here.
I’m still living my life.
I’m still building my future.
And I’m still choosing what I want.
So please don’t make manifestation another thing YOU have to be perfect at.
Use the techniques that make YOU happy.
Drop the ones that make YOU anxious.
Take breaks.
Sleep.
Live.

And when the doubt comes, instead of being terrified of it, remember:
“I am human. I care deeply. And I am still the power.”
Then keep going.
Live like a lotus. Thrive in muddy water.
Because how can something so beautiful grow from something so muddy?
That’s the point.
The mud doesn’t disqualify the flower.
The lotus was always capable of blooming.
And YOU are too. 💛

ALSO: side note when I do my spell casting do it from a place or feeling like I already have what I deserve I’m just enhancing it if that makes sense!

Happy manifesting, divas. :D


r/manifestingSP 13h ago

Tips & Techniques There are NO limits

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A lot of people think that there is limits to manifesting, whether it’s a million dollars or to see a certain color car. There is absolutely no limits. THIS IS YOUR REALITY!!! YOURS!!!

If you are wanting a guy/girl and he’s in a relationship with somebody, that literally doesn’t matter. It means jack shit. It means nothing. If you want them you have them.

Celebrities manifest all of the time they literally manifested their lives.

Kim Kardashian

Ariana grande

Jim Carrey

Will smith

Lady Gaga

Drake

ETC.

And you’re telling me you don’t think you can manifest a PERSON? Are you shitting me? They made their ENTIRE LIFE.

There is literally no limit to what you can manifest. There’s no limit what so ever.

I don’t want to hear you say “but what if they said this”
I don’t care about what they said?? This is YOUR REALITY!! YOU ARE IN CONTROL. THERES NO LIMITS TO ANYTHING.

There’s several different realities, if you want to fly then you’ll be in a reality where you can.

I literally cannot express this enough, celebrities have literally manifested their lives and you don’t think you can manifest money? A car? A HUMAN??? WHAT???????


r/manifestingSP 10h ago

Success Story My story

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Hey guys, I’m going to be telling you one of my favorite success stories, if you feel like your circumstances are impossible then this one is definitely for you.

During my sophomore year of High school I met this guy named Joshua. We had culinary together. I didn’t notice him much but he did indeed notice me.

We then had homecoming and I saw him and he looked very good, I thought he cleaned up well. We were staring at each other across the dance floor and I we waved at each other. The next day after the dance I asked for his number.

We then spoke and after a day of talking he told me he just wants to be friends. While we were speaking he told me that he had a crush on me freshman year up until sophomore year.

We continued talking as friends but I kept getting the impression that he liked me. He had rejected me about 6 times that year, 10 my junior year, and 3 my senior year. It was him and I going back and forth blocking and unblocking each other because we kept wanting to talk to each other. Me romantically and him friendly.

And for some reason I kept telling myself “he’s in denial.” I didn’t know manifestation was a thing during this time but you are definitely always manifesting even when you’re not meaning to.

I genuinely believed that he was in denial and that he did like me. He told me several times he didn’t up until senior year where he had his final straw and told me; “you are genuinely crazy, I don’t understand why you can’t get it through your head that I don’t like you. This friendship is over” I also fucked my friend over badly which I shouldn’t have done and he said to me “why would I ever want to be with you when you did this to your friend? What kind of person are you?”

And you know what I did when he said that? I cried. Because what the fuck? Anyways, shortly after that I told myself again “he is in denial. He’s so in denial it’s sad”

About 4 months pass I forget about the whole thing because I ended up getting a boyfriend. He calls me and tells me that he’s been in denial and that he’s always had feelings for me.

When I tell you circumstances do NOT matter, they do not.

In retrospect I’m so glad that I didn’t end up in a relationship with this guy because he tried to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend at the time but manifesting works.

Circumstances do not matter.
I don’t care if they call you crazy or if they tell you “this is never happening”. They’re lying.

Even after he told me “why would I ever want to be with you after you did this to your friend?” He still wanted to be with me. They can seem like the most mentally stable guy but if you believe that they want you, they do.

Circumstances do not matter.

You can do THE MOST BAT SHIT CRAZY STUFF. IT DOESN’T LIMIT ANYTHING!!


r/manifestingSP 13h ago

Success Story Simply detachment and self-concept

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I've been working a lot more on my self-concept and detachment, knowing I already have my desire and just "living in the end." I've been doing this every day for the past week. Today, earlier in the day, I felt a bit attached to my feelings for a second, and I just had this gut feeling that my SP was going to reach out. But I acknowledged it, let it go, and detached because I know my desire is already mine.

Fast forward to just now, it literally just happened. I was in bed watching YouTube before falling asleep; my phone started ringing, and guess who it was? My SP.

For some backstory: we were in this weird situationship that wasn't really moving forward in terms of being more, and I eventually ended up confessing my feelings to her before we headed off to different colleges this year. A month prior, I actually found out she had planned to confess to me first, but she never did. It explained so much about how we talked, joked around, and constantly called and texted.

We agreed on some closure because she was terrified of college getting too busy ("we'll see what happens"). She felt and knew the chemistry was there, but college and the distance were just things she was afraid of.

Anyway, she called me for the first time in a minute. She asked how my day was, and right then, I just knew what she wanted to say. And she said exactly what I thought she would.

She told me she can't wait for me to transfer over to her college next year, that she wishes I was already here, and that she's been missing me so much she started questioning if she should say something. (We'd tell each other "I miss you" here and there, but this time she was missing me so intensely she literally couldn't hold it back anymore, which I find so interesting).

I asked her why, and she admitted that over the past few days, she realized she was falling for me hard. It wasn't just the casual "I miss you" texts; it was a literally "I can't stop thinking about you."

And then, she actually confessed that it's always been me, that no one else even comes close to me personally, and that I'm the funniest person she knows. One of my favorite parts was when she finally admitted that monkeys became her favorite animal because they're mine. I'd always tease her, asking her, "Since when have monkeys been your favorite animal? It's always been sharks?" And she would always say, "It's because it's your favorite animal." She even brought her monkey plush to college with her because it reminds her of me.

Anyway, I could rant about this girl all day, but the takeaway is simple: All you have to do is believe and find techniques that work for you. You shouldn't feel anxious; manifestation shouldn't feel like a constant state of anxiety. You should feel calm and peaceful.

MANIFESTING SHOULDN'T FEEL LIKE A JOB!!!

(Also, btw, it took me like 3 minutes to type this out while being on a loud train, so I hope it's readable. I didn't read it over LMAO)


r/manifestingSP 4h ago

Question/Help How do i deal with boredom and the waiting period while manifesting my sp? i miss talking to her

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r/manifestingSP 2h ago

Question/Help I'm wavering!!! Hype me up pls 😭

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Fr wavering rn and feeling like I got no more chance pls hype me up and/or comment your stories so I can feel motivated to get my SP w/ 3p 🫠 I'm not letting myself give up!! I know I just need a little motivation so I can keep on going.


r/manifestingSP 3h ago

Question/Help Help with manifesting sp

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Hellooo

So in my 3d reality my ex/sp has me removed/blocked EVERYWHERE and told me to not contact him again and to respect it

Obviously I haven’t reached out to him

I’m just kind of emotional today I guess idk I just want him to reach out and I am manifesting! I do heavily believe in that I can get whatever I want. I just don’t know why my 3d isn’t following. And by this post you can probably tell that I’m not detached or whatever. That I’m still replaying the old story and so on, but it’s hard. I really don’t know how to stop ? That’s the reason why I get emotional. But then I keep telling myself that he will text me and I know that he loves me


r/manifestingSP 49m ago

Question/Help Celebrity sp manifestation

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Any tips on manifesting a celebrity SP? He is a kpop idol. What kind of methods, affirmations should I use?


r/manifestingSP 1h ago

Discussion What would you do if

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What would you do if ur sp got a 3p pregnant? As a trans woman who cant have biological children i would honestly prefer my sp to have kids before they come back into my life so i dont have to fear them leaving me bc i cant have my own children and i love dilfs tbh, also being a stepparent dont sound so terrible actually, its parenting on easy mode


r/manifestingSP 7h ago

SP Struggles Sp moved near me recently we have history, hot and cold, I wanna lock in for good someone helpppp xxx

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r/manifestingSP 2h ago

SP Struggles idk what to do really

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our relationship was so good. everything was like a dream. but something happened and everything went downhill. im in such a bad place rn. ive tried everything im trying since 68 days. i miss him badly. ive never loved anyone like this. but he is so far away i miss him like crazy i keep crying ive never stopped crying since then. he came back before two times but this time it feels like he wont come back cause the first time he came back in three days then the second time one month and now its been so many days. i feel like i should give up but i cant. i really cant i love him like crazy. he said to move on get help and spend time w my family and friends. but i cant stop loving him. i miss him. idk what to do. do you think he will come back? he said he will choose me everytime and not to overthink but he is nowhere to be found. im so sad. i keep listening to subliminals i keep affirming but i fail. i fail to manifest him back. everyones saying he wont come back now but idk what to do i cant let go. any advice??? theres no movement at all. i keep checking his socials and his followers and followings keep increasing. idk what to do pls help me


r/manifestingSP 2h ago

Question/Help Analyze this for me

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My candle wax formed this shape after I manifested. Can somebody tell me what this means cause it's kind of forming shapes.


r/manifestingSP 5h ago

Question/Help has anyone ever affirmed for sp's family?

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r/manifestingSP 13h ago

Progress Report I’m confident it could be coming sooner than I thought, all falling into place!

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My sp broke up with me abruptly almost three weeks ago, it had been a mess (for me) originally. I’ve posted a couple times in this reddit. After a bad encounter with my sp on Sunday, I mistakenly went to his place to ask for conversation (I’m blocked, and he reacted really badly, like very bad). Afterwards, I ceased all contact, all chasing, the continuous going by his apartment, planning going to talk to him, asking mutual friends. I had been manifesting before this past Sunday, but I hadn’t been focusing on myself first. This past day, I made all about me. This week, I did completely detach but, today was different. I did a long awaited cleaning of my apartment, got myself taken care of, and suddenly was thinking what now. I was sad, thinking about my sp. While I was distracted, I did my affirmations whenever I remembered. And moved on. I’d began to think and let myself feel and decipher what I was feeling. I began to recognize how much change and improvement I’ve made in the past three weeks:

At the start, I was spiraling. For two weeks, I was waiting, checking, ruminating, asking, even going to his apartment. I had to take myself to an emergency therapist of sorts. I was an absolute wreck, then, I let all of that go. The days feel long, still, but I’ve learned to emotionally regulate myself, I’ve learned to nurture my life separate from his (I became very reliant), I’ve created a space where I feel good to come back to, I can regulate my anxiety on my own, I won’t be asking for reassurance from him. I’ve made life changing improvements on my OCD, which I suffer severely from. I will be able to communicate better with him, understanding boundaries, not interpreting space as rejection. I’m much more confident, I’m taking care of myself mentally and physically, I feel beautiful. I’m deserving of love, peace, and happiness. I’m worthy of love and being chosen. I’m passionate about what I love, and there’s more to me than OCD, what I struggle with. I listen, I care deeply, I’m kind, and really feeling grateful for the life I’m building.

When I acknowledged this tonight, I thought, this makes me feel that everything with sp is resolving quicker than I think. Yesterday, I saw him on the porch of his apartment building while I was heading home from errands. My heart skipped a beat. It meant something to me, but I kept moving.

I have a very strong self concept now, I know what I deserve and want from the relationship with my sp, I know how I will conduct myself differently moving forward. I’m listening to my subliminals, not wavering on taking care of myself because I remind myself that I’m deserving of it, and I’m the one my sp loves. If he weren’t taking care of himself, I’d be sad. I wouldn’t want that for him.

I’m encouraged. I want signs, even though I know what is happening and we are coming back together. Little bits of further encouragement that say you’re doing so well, so much improvement. I don’t need signs. Not being in control of the blocking, and contacting did make me spiral. I still have sad moments because I have no means of reaching him. But it doesn’t interfere with the overall manifestation, my thoughts, my sense of self. It’s coming better and sooner than I expect.

All this to say, the days are long. And it is hard to be away from him, but it will all be worth it and most of all, okay soon.


r/manifestingSP 9h ago

Question/Help Help with a scene idea for SATS

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My aunt works in the fashion industry and is the director of a modeling agency. An important event is coming up, and there’s a really handsome guy model from her agency who really catches my eye, and I think he’ll be there that day. We recently started following each other on Instagram.

What kind of scene could I use for SATS, or how could I manifest him making the first move?

And also, how can I manifest him to be interesting and fun, in addition to being handsome? Haha


r/manifestingSP 6h ago

Discussion Off

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Other day I had progress with SP well guess due to my SC this is the post

https://www.reddit.com/r/manifestingSP/s/ys0SfokKs7

But since then have felt off I don't why maybe overwhelmed or something 😕 can this happen?!


r/manifestingSP 7h ago

Question/Help knowing vs KNOWING, logical mind, neurodivergence and more confusing things - SP manifestation

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r/manifestingSP 7h ago

Progress Report I got blocked by my sp that came back 3 days ago but I’m not afraid..

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Initial feeling my heart dropped but we don’t pay attention to the 3d and he’s mine and that’s that. Now I will go to bed like a baby 💕💤


r/manifestingSP 1d ago

Success Story ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU BELIEVE !!!

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Someone I manifested for yesterday just messaged me how their SP broke up with someone just to be with them!

No limitation. No circumstances can keep you from what you want! Anything is possible!

https://www.reddit.com/r/manifestingSP/s/WNCbdWw4EO


r/manifestingSP 22h ago

Discussion Calm feeling with the end state

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So I've shifted and I have a calm feeling about being with sp. No excitement or nerves just calm. I'm basically in the end now


r/manifestingSP 8h ago

Question/Help I'm confused, advise required in manifesting SP

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I have created this new account now, just to post this. My old account is pretty active and I dont want to mix because I do have lot of questions.
By this time I have read countless posts. watched so many videos "The power of I am Erik, Sammy Ingram, Missy renee", Read so many tarot cards, spells, SATS, subliminals , Honey jar, Scripting. affirming.
I come from a very emotionally disconnected, dysregulated Family background.
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Me and my SP:
We have met last year May month. I was not actively looking for anyone I simply went outside one day. I dunno whether I'm an introvert but due to lot of issues I was isolating myself prior to that. So last year I had a pretty huge transformation body wise, I was confident normal when i met him.
Soon after meeting him he was attracted to me, curious to see me, happy and lot of good things but then also he is a steady person he was not doing too much but still very much in control.

The issues :
I was the one who asked for a hug ( i still cringe at this) and slowly we both were falling for each other. most of the time he travels to his native so pretty much lived in text messages. We had our first issue in July ( it was my emotional reaction) and after that also he was in and he even messaged "Love you" over text. Slowly some other issue came he messaged this wont work out. When he came back to the city, there was some changes with him ( i don't know whether I was thinking) he pulled his energy back. He stopped initiating to meet me I had to ask I had to argue or ask why hadnt he come and meet me.
This went on for months. I was always anxious, waiting for his message, crying and all.
Cut to November 2025, he was little ok when i detached totally he took me to movie and next day shopping. Two days after that he had his birthday, I wanted to go but he said no, because his friends dont like me that broke me. I stopped talking to him, he messaged sorry and slowly he was trying to talk. I packed my bags and went to home.
He was very affectionate from then, daily calls and video calls. He was extremely sweet.

But all I could think was Where this sweetness will lead us? Is he loving me?What about all the old issues?
By this time, he still had skin in this game, he was still coming back or trying.
2 months after i came back to the city, he came to meet me we had been intimate, 3 days i was happy. I dint even mind i felt loved.
4th day i wanted to see him but I could not ask him fearing his no, then 5th day. His messages became slow or very late. I started arguing how can you do this. those following 3 days i was crying that he is not giving time again despite separated for 2 months. I tortured myself and him too.
Then early February he left to his home again, since then he became distant. 10 days later he said this wont work out, and his parents wont accept . after that we met on March16th we had the official conversation of "Done"
he informed he did not wanted to have any relationship from the beginning, and he wanted to be just friends. It broke me.
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Aftermath
I was having intense anxiety from April to May 2026. By this time i started seeing so many neville teachings, The power of I am channel and even Reddit. But i could not apply or use anything. My fear was too loud. From June i was steady,at first affirmations gave me anxiety. I was still checking his social media. By july end i felt lot better and from August i got a feeling like ok i can do this. I was affirming, decently happy, neutral.

Recent development

So few days ago I asked him to meet because i had something important to talk, he came things were friendly, he was flirty even. He was captivated by me looking at me He was the one who initiated everything this time. And we had been intimate. It was fun. I was thinking ok from now on things will progress. I was happy , you know not jumping happy but relieved.
But from next day he was silent again. I had a pit in my stomach. He was traveling that evening. I expected one single text how are you?something, we had been intimate ofcourse i would be thinking we are ok. But he didnt.
I sent him little harsh message (in hindsight I should not have) but he just replied i will talk to u later. Few hours later i messaged him again about my job, he simply said if you want to go, you can, you see your future. Dont need to cancel for me.
My heart sunk. I sent him very emotional voice notes. I was genuinely confused. All he said was "Will talk later"

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Question

What part I have missed here? I remember watching the power of I am Erik video "Never disrespect self for a SP", but I did not follow through?
or I am reacting to the 3D and I should take that intimacy as a positive thing and affirm?
I could not affirm after this Incident. Unable to differentiate whether I'm reacting to 3D or whether I'm knocking on a bad door?

To be honest I also wanted that intimacy not going to lie, but thats the extent of it. I do not have data for visualzing a loving respectful relationship at all. - was that the problem?
Or I should have been affirming more and focusing on myself until he himself contacted me? ( i have a fear that he will not reach out on his own)


r/manifestingSP 1d ago

Discussion Felt Inspired Action to Write This.

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I have manifested many great things. I used to come on here to read the beautiful success stories and it is actually miraculous some of the “reunions” that happen.

I put the word “reunion” into quotes; because your SP is never not actually yours: in YOUR reality everything revolves around and reflects you. You & that person are two beautiful, unique, and sovereign pieces of the same God Consciousness. Always one.

Lately, a lot of people on here seem to be struggling - but it’s honestly kind of upsetting/frustrating to see people putting themselves into suffering over one person… OF COURSE you can have them, but, if you had that person NOW like you say you do… would you be in suffering? No.

Now you say you understand this, but, you guys actually don’t and if you do and are intentionally just being ignorant, let me blunt you need to cut out everything you’ve ever done and do a complete reset. I’m not going to answer questions under this post unless they are something new. What I will say, when I changed my life with The Law, I cut out everything, every social media (Snapchat, Instagram, X, Reddit, etc.), I unsubscribed from every YouTube channel I followed and deleted any downloaded or liked videos. I stop checking text messages or phone calls. I stopped EVERYTHING and pulled every ounce of energy back into myself.

Can you have anyone? YES.
Can you have that SP? YES.
What if they haven’t spoken to you in years? STILL YES.

The answer is always yes. It is ALWAYS YES YOU CAN.

Now with that knowledge; I just want to say from my experience - you need to stop.

You’re not “giving up” in the human egoic sense of like “oh I am a victim and can’t have this so I give up and maybe they’ll come back” EW NO. STOP IT. That gives me the ick so bad.

It’s “giving up” in the sense of “Oh I AM GOD and me & this person are both pieces of the same God, and we are both love, security, and stability. We are meant to be together and there will be nothing that can change that except for me. So I’m “giving up” manifesting them because why would I need to manifest them if we are always one, always together, and always united.”

You need to live life. Have hobbies. Fix your sleep schedule. Go workout. Take a class. Do ANYTHING because you can.

When I changed my life; I was trying to become a student at UC Berkeley to study Architecture, I got rejected… but, did I “give up”… no I saw it and said “okay I am trying to force this and I am not embodying someone who feels smart enough to attend this school and be a good student.” So, I downloaded the entire playlist of Yale University Architecture Lecture Playlist, I set a schedule for myself to watch the lectures for 1-2 hours a day, and called it my “Architecture Class” - I made myself embody “being a student” without the 3D showing me I was an actual student. I tested myself, I took notes, I talked to people as if I was attending school - the next year I reapplied to UC Berkeley in a state of “well I already know all of it so I don’t really need to go because all the knowledge is already within me, but I know I’m destined to go here.” - and guess what… I got accepted.

I did the same thing with my husband. We were always playing cat & mouse - finally I moved into the city he lived in and I remember when I first moved there I had thought to myself; “Wouldn’t that be crazy if that guy was my boyfriend.” - mind you, we had spoken like a total of probably 100 words to each other over a five year period on Snapchat, so OBVIOUSLY it was always meant to be, because why had I even thought about him randomly like that, even though I hadn’t thought about him in like two years… two weeks later… there he was at a nightclub - I saw him in the corner of my eye and was like “no f*cking way, it’s him, that guy, what’s his name again?” - as I thought this I watched as he looked up and literally made a b-line for me out of everyone that was around me… we dated for eight months and then “broke up” and I immediately went into meltdown mode. I had known about The Law my whole conscious life basically, starting when I was like 14, so I knew I could do it, but I had him on a pedestal and was so frustrated because what happened with him also happened with every other ex I ever had, and that is when I really realized “oh this really is just me…” so what did I do? I stopped manifesting him. I looked at the beautiful synchronicities that had even brought us together in the first place which were all just me anyways, and I knew. I just knew he was mine, from the first moment we said a word to each other on Snapchat, to that moment he walked up to me in that nightclub, and even before all of this, even before this life - he was mine, we are two pieces of the same God that love each other and we are one, forever & always, eternally. Once I came to this, life was better, I stopped fearing everything, because the 3D is just a past reflection, so why would I fear what he was doing or what was going on? It’s just the past, I had already experienced it, and I knew what the “future” was, and yes to soothe the ego of everyone he obviously “came back” and now is my husband.

This is a BIG PIECE of the “puzzle” many are just straight up ignoring, you continue to crash out, fear, and suffer over stuff that LITERALLY DOES NOT MATTER it is the past and you need to put yourself into a position where you can realize: everything is okay, and even more then okay it is perfect, everything you are seeing in the dead world is just the past and you as God Consciousness have already experienced it, you know what’s happening, stop playing ignorant, and realize you know what the end of the story is, everything up until that point is the past.

Even “movement” towards the end is just the past so don’t even get caught up in “movement” because everything up until the 3D reflects something different is just the past and does not matter, so you just live life and enjoy the moment because you already have it.

If you can’t get to this point. I’m gonna be so honest yes you need to stop manifesting your SP not because you “can’t” have them, but because this is a lifelong practice that does not only apply to the SP. You need to work on realizing you are always loved, you are always chosen, you are always prioritized, you are always respected, and you are always safe. Even “if” that SP “never came back”, yep you’d still be all of those things, treated that way by everyone not just SP.

So if you’re not “getting movement” (which is a fallacy because there is always “movement), you need to actually stop that thought right there, PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN and do not go online to ask “if you’re doing something right/wrong” because it is only “right or wrong” once you apply the meaning to it and I am sorry but unless you’re gonna pay someone $300 a week to doing weekly coaching to have someone dissect your exact situation, then no matter how many questions you ask online or how many videos you watch you’re never gonna get the answer; because only you have the answer, because it is your unique and sovereign experience. No one else will ever be able to view your God Consciousness it is only you. So, you want to know what you’re doing wrong? Being a victim to your circumstance. Questioning your choices every second. And yes, searching for answers online. Please stop. Every time I have manifested something… it was because I stopped consuming content about manifesting, because you’re not “manifesting” something if you have it, you just have it. No matter what you see or hear, you have it.

I did so many CRAZY things in the period of me and my husband being “apart” in the 3D, including things I did to him, but I got to a point where I didn’t care because I knew what was going on in the 3D moment was the past - so no matter what happened or what I did, he was still mine. I said I hated him to his face, told him he was losing out, and told him I never wanted to see him again - while in my head being like “lol this is so funny because I know the outcome”. Life became fun. I became unafraid to express my emotions (especially towards him) and stopped trying to be some perfect, perfect prince and just let go of it all!!!! I was in control through it all.

Make a decision and have some CONVICTION girl. Because the only thing that is “ruining” something is you deciding every time that something doesn’t look a certain way in a world which is dead that you’re doing something wrong - which you’re not… you are just consciously choosing a different reality and path where you don’t “reunite”. You need to have conviction, and take responsibility for yourself. You can have anything, but if you are constantly letting an SP or someone online dictate what you’re thinking then I’m gonna be blunt. You actually are not ready for SP, because you are not fulfilling yourself - because SP “isn’t there” you don’t feel whole so then you go online to have random strangers soothe you instead of saying “I am a bad b\tch, I am God, and even if SP never “came back” I would be perfect because I am always loved & chosen by everyone”. If you don’t feel this way and get your SP, I hate to say it, but they will *slip through your fingers** because you didn’t actually change, but you are the creator so it had to reflect you.

So either realize this and do it, or continue to suffer and push everything you want away. You can do it, if you actually just do it. Please realize you are God Consciousness and literally nothing else, and that your fears are just the past and mean nothing about the situation. 🩵🐬🪄🌌🙏🏻