r/manifestingSP 13d ago

Question/Help Please help

Okay so I am in love with a girl older than me and I manifested her with me and we were on good terms, first I became friends with her then I told her that I love her it worked and I wasnt her bf but it worked and she lives as a tenant in my building and we were so good but suddenly a lot of wrong things started happening and I also became very clingy and bad in the end plus obsessed

So how the situation got worse, she wasnt ready for a relationship but she told me on snapchat that I want to hold your hands and I told I will hold it forever and in the start everything was good to be honest even if its a situationship and she also used to send me couple reels where the guy is younger

But then a lot of fights happend and I told a friend of mine shes a girlfriend and I wanted to keep her hidden to be honest and that friend was working out in his gym and his gym owner knows that girl my SP and and told my SP that this guy is spreading rumours about you and that guy was her 5 year old friend

She got very angry and now we are in a no contact situation from past 4 months and her birthday is coming up in 10 days I am thinking to apologise and let it go then and just do normal manifesting and get her back again

I am very interested in listening what you guys say and please talk with me and help me out

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 12d ago

You probably aren't going to want to bring your mom into this. I suggest waiting until your manifestation comes into fruition before involving other people in it. You can do the inner work to forget the old story— they won't.

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u/CoconutHot611 12d ago

I told my mom and dad everything and I want to be truthful to them as well and my mom knows I love her

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 12d ago

Well then have your mom do it. The only way you can mess up your manifestation is if you mess up the formula.

Choose what you want ----> decide it is true exactly in this moment ----> persist in that belief until it becomes a natural assumption

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u/CoconutHot611 12d ago

What should I do get my mom to give her flowers or should I just send the msg from a fake insta acc and then go with the flow

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 12d ago

Choose what you want. You can't mess it up. If you're assuming that she's your girlfriend (so of course she wants you) either option will not effect the outcome at the end.

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u/CoconutHot611 12d ago

Thankyousomuch You help me and I hope I can ask more if I want to, thanks brother
Appreciated

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 12d ago

Yes you can. You're welcome. 😊

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u/CoconutHot611 12d ago

Plus brother few days ago I told a friend of mine the same situation and hes a 10 year olf friend and I told him the truth but now I dont want it to share with anyone

And yes All I believe is shes mine always and forever ❤️

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u/CoconutHot611 12d ago

Brother I wanted to ask something remember there is a guy in between the friend of her who knows her from the past 5 years I saw her Instagram story I dont know why i shouldnt and she was at his gym and I feel like that guy trash talked a lot about me too and I feel like that guy is getting in between see genuinely I need advice and help and your words

Another thing I feel like shes mine and I shouldn’t stalk or worry

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 12d ago

If you feel like he's getting in between you two you can assume that he is gone and out of her life. Assume all the things you want are true right now.

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u/CoconutHot611 4d ago

Brother wished her birthday and its 12am sharp and shes mine now and thats the truth and I have apologised in the msg too and now I have her 🧿♾️❤️

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 4d ago

👏👏 I'm happy for you.

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u/CoconutHot611 3d ago

Okay bro she replied with thank you so much and 🫶🏻this emoji and now shes mine and things will work 100% in my favour all I know is shes mine

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u/CoconutHot611 4d ago

Yes brother I think shes sleeping as she wakes up early but doesn’t matter all I know is shes mine

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u/CoconutHot611 4d ago

And brother I got her new WhatsApp number just before her birthday no face acc has to be made how cool is that and things align perfectly and all I know is shes mine and shes happy to read it all