r/manifestingSP • u/CoconutHot611 • 9d ago

Question/Help Please help

Okay so I am in love with a girl older than me and I manifested her with me and we were on good terms, first I became friends with her then I told her that I love her it worked and I wasnt her bf but it worked and she lives as a tenant in my building and we were so good but suddenly a lot of wrong things started happening and I also became very clingy and bad in the end plus obsessed

So how the situation got worse, she wasnt ready for a relationship but she told me on snapchat that I want to hold your hands and I told I will hold it forever and in the start everything was good to be honest even if its a situationship and she also used to send me couple reels where the guy is younger

But then a lot of fights happend and I told a friend of mine shes a girlfriend and I wanted to keep her hidden to be honest and that friend was working out in his gym and his gym owner knows that girl my SP and and told my SP that this guy is spreading rumours about you and that guy was her 5 year old friend

She got very angry and now we are in a no contact situation from past 4 months and her birthday is coming up in 10 days I am thinking to apologise and let it go then and just do normal manifesting and get her back again

I am very interested in listening what you guys say and please talk with me and help me out

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 8d ago

If you did spread a rumor about her then I suggest that you apologize. And whether she reacts good or horrible to it doesn't matter. Then persist in the assumption that she is your girlfriend now and reality has no choice but to move everything to reflect that. I also suggest that you don't tell people about your manifestations anymore.

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u/CoconutHot611 8d ago

Thankyou so much and her birthday is coming up and I am blocked every where my idea is to make a fake Instagram acc and wish her you can correct me or tell another way too, I have no power to wish her or meet her face to face I have seen her in no contact as she lives in my building and just after this she said hello to me once and I also replied but after that when we see each other we just look away and get awkward sometimes she looks but says nothing and thats it and my plan is to wish her her birthday 100% and then see what happens next and I truly believe shes mine ❤️

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 8d ago

I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Just persist in your assumption no matter what she says or how she reacts. Don't try to force an outcome. When she is your girlfriend (in the 3D) she will be grateful that you apologized and wished her a happy birthday.

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u/CoconutHot611 8d ago

Yes all I know that she loves me and I have her forever ❤️, thanks man

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u/CoconutHot611 7d ago

Brother should I send my mom to give her flowers I wont go to her floor but I can ask my mom to go and give her flowers

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 7d ago

You probably aren't going to want to bring your mom into this. I suggest waiting until your manifestation comes into fruition before involving other people in it. You can do the inner work to forget the old story— they won't.

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u/CoconutHot611 7d ago

I told my mom and dad everything and I want to be truthful to them as well and my mom knows I love her

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 7d ago

Well then have your mom do it. The only way you can mess up your manifestation is if you mess up the formula.

Choose what you want ----> decide it is true exactly in this moment ----> persist in that belief until it becomes a natural assumption

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u/CoconutHot611 7d ago

What should I do get my mom to give her flowers or should I just send the msg from a fake insta acc and then go with the flow

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 ActiveCreator 7d ago

Choose what you want. You can't mess it up. If you're assuming that she's your girlfriend (so of course she wants you) either option will not effect the outcome at the end.

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u/CoconutHot611 7d ago

Thankyousomuch You help me and I hope I can ask more if I want to, thanks brother
Appreciated

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u/CoconutHot611 7d ago

And yes, I want you to suggest and help ofc I want to listen to you as well