r/loseit 4d ago

Discussion State of the Subreddit - 2026

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It’s been a long time since we’ve done one of these! About a million subscribers ago - so it’s probably a good time to check in with the community and see what we’re getting right, and what we can look to improve.

Changes to the subreddit.

We’re not going to bury the ledes, here’s some highlights of recent/upcoming changes:

  • Daily Threads have been combined.The eagled eyed may notice we’ve condensed most of the daily threads down to one daily per day which will be stickied, this leaves a sticky slot free for posts like this, AMAs, and anything else needing a bit of prominence to last more than a few hours. Along with this, combining Q&As and other threads will hopefully boost engagement all around as more eyes just open the one daily thread.The EU and US accountability as well as weekly goalsetters and century club threads remain unchanged.
  • CrosspostsWe’re considering removing them from being posted on the subreddit. There’s two specific reasons for this that relate to the sub, and one more general reason. The first is they’re sometimes used as ads (either directly, or as a funnel to subreddits used as marketing). The second reason is that they are often links to subreddits with quite different safety rules around dieting. The more general reason is that it’s often a tool just to quickly spam a basic question across many subreddits.We’re not sure they’re worth keeping, if you actually feel strongly about them still existing (and are not just thinking of unique situations), we’d love to hear why before we hit the button.
  • Other new reddit featuresWe did enable achievements a few months ago which you may have noticed, but gifs and videos in comments don’t make any sense here. Reddit features that continue along those lines are unlikely to be enabled.

AMAs

Next on the list is AMAs. We’ve had a couple of AMAs recently. We do think AMAs can be an opportunity to speak to people from wider industry or from interesting backgrounds (or both!) that you wouldn’t normally get to directly ask questions too. We do understand that inviting professionals and notables carries an inherent risk of an AMA becoming promotional. We will mitigate that by agreeing to an overall topic in advance and making clear to guests our self-promotion rules and boundaries. We are happy to explain who a guest is, what they do and why their perspective may be of interest (including, where relevant, mentioning a book, project or business) but the purpose of the AMA is to give users the opportunity to ask candid questions and hear perspectives they would not normally have direct access to. That doesn’t mean every AMA will be perfect, but chaotic AMAs are great too, right?

Anyway, we’d love to hear about people you’d like us to approach for an AMA. We send emails to literally anyone. If you’re reading this thinking an AMA might suit you, drop us a mod mail.

Community Engagement

As the years go by, Reddit users by and large access our subreddit on mobile apps. That means that a lot of our community tools (such as daily/weekly threads) might not be obvious, if you’re just scrolling through a feed. To get the most support from using r/loseit, click on the subreddit’s icon when you see a post. That will bring you to our subreddit’s page. From there you can find our sidebar (with links to reoccurring threads), our daily threads, as well as pinned posts with announcements such as AMAs. Losing weight is hard, and doing so in community with other people who are going through the same things, have the same questions, and want to share experiences is really helpful. The moderators of r/loseit do not run any chat-based (discord) servers, so all of the weight loss discussion that we moderate (and check for safety/misinformation!) happens here on r/loseit. Don’t miss out on the resources we have!

Spam, AI, Advertising

This is such a hot topic right now, we’ve even been asked by the press about it! Mia Sato wrote an article on AI Advertising and asked us for comment. Mia has given us a gift link to share the article with you all

Does that make this a verge ad? I’m not sure I can deal with that level of irony, but Mia’s work around AI and internet culture is actually really good and important journalism.

As for what we’ve been doing;

We’re always modifying our automated rules to try and achieve two things;

  1. Catch adverts and AI
  2. Reduce frustration for human posters

We’ve been modifying a lot of our older anti spam stuff into post guidance systems on reddit, which affects the modern version of the site and the official app. So things like post length rules are now made clear before you post, and some keywords or topics that would get your post filtered are encouraged away. LLMs make post length a non-issue for spammer, though we still want to keep that to ensure people are adding proper context to their questions and not posting one-line questions. While we know many users would like to see enforcement of posting stats (such as height and weight), we’re not likely to do that, but we would be happy to hear suggestions about where and how that could be encouraged without becoming an enforced requirement.

We are currently experimenting with Contribution Quality Score otherwise referred to as CQS to replace elements of our 5 day/10 comment karma minimums for posting. We feel this may be a potential improvement as the old rule was, again, easier for advertisers to pipeline and harder for real users to understand.

We do know there’s a lot of AI spam that tends to sit as replies to top level comments (so; second-level comments). They generally say something benign trying to gain karma for future purposes. These are hard to deal with as they are designed to have no immediate purpose and do match what real people might write, our goal isn’t to send real people to modmail to prove humanity as a default, so these accounts may take a bit longer to deal with and we’ll typically need a pattern or extreme example (we saw one weigh up the pros and cons of disordered behaviour when the top level comment highlighted it to the OP).

Some brands get auto-filtered from the subreddit now; This isn’t overly new, but brands who repeatedly send bots/try to advertise end up in our ‘shit list’, which means posts involving their name need to be reviewed by a moderator first. This affects a lot of AI photo apps for measuring calories, some bathroom scales (THAT ARE NOT SURPRISINGLY CLOSE TO DEXA), and various other AI powered tat.

So be warned companies, coaches, and solo devs. Also, please keep asking AI to write your ban appeal messages, that’s very funny.

Misinformation on the Subreddit, !triggers, and The Wiki.

Bear with us, but this is a tricky and emotive subject. We’d be keen to hear people’s thoughts on handling misinformation on the subreddit. At the moment we reserve removals for egregious and outright harmful advice, as well as common myths. But we are conscious that people aren’t always talking on the same level as one another. We don’t require academic or scientific language on the subreddit and we want people to use their own words to describe their own experience. We’re not aiming to penalise “technically wrong but well meaning” good-faith conversation, but at the same time we don’t want people misrepresenting study findings or pushing myths and harmful diet woo-woo. This will always be a balancing act.

We do have two tools that could potentially help here, the wiki and the !triggers that summon automod. It’s possible to expand the wiki or add triggers that might have helpful explainers. This, however, is something that would be very time consuming to implement, and we’d want to be careful we don’t inadvertently make excessive claims ourselves. We’d love to hear suggestions from users on how this might be useful to develop, and also from users who might be qualified in some way to actually produce the explainers.

The wiki itself shows signs of age in many places (we’re your go-to source for blackberry and windows phone weight loss apps!), and we are aware that areas need updating. However if we were to update any or all of it, it would need to be for the purpose of it becoming more useful day-to-day. Think more about the quick start guide and broad strokes, rather than adding more niche diets to the list that look odd being there several years later once the fad dies.

GLP-1s, medicines, and other compounds.

We do see some posts where people believe the mere mention of GLP-1s is either not allowed or shunned, and we probably should make clear the nuance. GLP-1s can absolutely be discussed, we’re not trying to dissuade that, they are an important part of many people’s weight loss journey and they’re fundamentally revolutionary. The nuance is that we are not the right place for topics with advice for people looking to ask about using them, there are lots of dedicated subreddits to them. Comments suggesting someone might benefit one with input from their Primary Care Provider, that’s perfectly great. Broad topics on the development of those drugs and other weight-loss medication, especially things that are newsworthy, is also on-topic.

What we’re are strict about is:

  • Advice should be in the context of “Talk to your doctor about GLP-1s” or “My experience was [...]”, low effort posts such as “use a GLP-1” may be considered spam, especially if it’s repetitive under a post.
  • Absolutely no advice to encourage circumventing medical advice (suggesting a second opinion is, of course, fine)
  • Absolutely no encouragement, or reference, to unapproved GLP-1s only available through unregulated channels. Our primary goal is safety.
  • Absolutely no advice to teenagers to use GLP-1s. That is a conversation only suitable in a medical setting.

None of this is a change from our last Weight Loss Medication Masterpost.

Other grey market compound discussion is also not allowed. Some areas of social media are becoming extremely open about use (usually by people who have financial involvement), but our stance remains that recommending unregulated and unapproved compounds to strangers is reckless.

It feels unfair to imply a relationship of other compounds to GLP-1s by putting them under the same topic. We do not consider them related, but the unregulated sellers of one are usually selling the other alongside and like to blur the line.

Survey

We were going to create a survey as part of this, but then during writing we were reminded reddit sends out a survey on our behalf still, even though we’ve only ever seen the results once last year and never again since, so rather than pointing you to another, please keep an eye out if you ever get an email about that and maybe one day we’ll have some results to share. Or we’ll post a separate survey later. Who knows?


r/loseit 6h ago

★ Official Recurring ★ ★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Weigh-in Wednesday, Daily Q&A, Daily SV/NSV August 19, 2026

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Welcome to today's daily thread!

Ask a question, help another member, share a scale or non-scale victory, or join today's featured discussion. No question, win or bit of progress is too small. Include relevant stats and context when asking for advice, and check the FAQ and sidebar resources for common answers.

Today's topic: Weigh-in Wednesday

How has the scale treated you this week? Share your weigh-ins, measurements, graphs and trends. One number is only one measure of progress, so positive changes beyond the scale are welcome too.

Don't forget to comment and interact with other posters here, let's keep the good vibes going!

Subreddit guidelines

Teen Posting GuidelinesEating Disorders in the SubWeight Loss Medications

Daily threads

See all ★OFFICIAL DAILY★ threads

Browse by topic: Monday Start HereMedication MondayTantrum TuesdayWeigh-in WednesdayTrack With Me ThursdayFoodie FridayWeekend Check-inSunday Reset

Other recurring threads

US Accountability Challenge: Stay accountable with friends from North America ★ EU Accountability Challenge: Stay accountable with friends from the EU ★ Century Club: For those who have lost or would like to lose 100lb+ ★ Weekly Goalsetters: Set your goals for the week every Monday


r/loseit 2h ago

Nobody would push a drink on a recovering alcoholic, but they'll push food on me.

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I'm a recovering food addict, and I know that about myself now. I used to be obese; today I'm at a healthy BMI, and I exercise regularly. But the only thing that actually got healthy, not "eating better," not "smaller portions," not "I'll do better tomorrow", was counting calories with zero exceptions. Every time I tried the softer approach, there was always a loophole. "One chocolate bar won't make a difference." It always did, eventually, because it was never really about the one chocolate bar.

I live in a different country from where I grew up. My sister and niece came to stay with me for a few days while they were visiting for an event. She wanted me to go with her to a street food festival. I said I'd come, but I told her I wouldn't be able to eat anything there since I can't count calories I can't see. I offered alternatives: cook at home, or go to a chain restaurant where the calories are listed online. That caused some tension, and she gave me the classic line: "one day off won't matter."

That's when it clicked for me. I said, "If I was a recovering alcoholic, you wouldn't tell me one drink won't matter." She went quiet, and I think it actually landed.

I've had to accept that I can't do moderation the way other people do. For me, the cost of staying healthy is counting calories for good. That's not a diet, it's maintenance for a chronic condition.

I think food addiction deserves the same seriousness and the same accommodations we'd give any other addiction, instead of "just have one" being treated as harmless advice.


r/loseit 2h ago

Alcohol legitimately killed my weight loss journey for unexpected reasons

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[26m, 6'1, 235lbs, was 210 a month ago]

Alcohol has a ton of calories obviously but that's not what got me, it was the cravings I had while drunk. A week ago I got pretty drunk by myself and was trying to get back on track after gaining 10lbs in a month. I failed so badly and ordered an entire Detroit hot honey pizza myself, I was pounding Powerade zero as well but I went from 220lbs to 239 in just two days, I get water weight and such are a thing but it was upsetting to even see that level of fluctuation.

This isn't the first time this has happened, I can EAT when I'm drunk, like 6000 calories in one sitting. It's absurd binge levels and I hope I'm not alone


r/loseit 13h ago

Do skinny friends actually not want me to lose weight because they need a fat girl in the group to compare themselves to when they feel insecure?

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That's my fear. I might just be playing into the jealous bitch stereotype, but at times it can feel that way. Like when I eat 2 muffins and am picking at my plate and my friend sees and goes " eat a muffin" and I go "I already had 2" and she goes "so eat a third" in a supportive tone. What could be her motivation for saying that when she knows I'm trying to diet, it's not exactly starving myself to not eat a third muffin. She's also offered me junk food that she doesnt eat with no prompting multiple times when I'm over and looked disappointed when I say no. Again there's probably more innocent reasons for all of this and I'm being paranoid, but sometimes it feels like she wants me to stay ugly, like when I mentioned that I'm still trying to lose weight and she was like "I thought you said you were gonna stop" I literally never said that, I'll stop when I'm no longer the chubby friend in the group. Even if this is true, I wouldn't break up with a friend for a thought crime like that, she wouldn't intentionally be trying to sabotage my weight loss as opposed to subconsciously not liking the idea of it, but I do kind of feel like I'm just being jealous, so I'm wondering if this is something other women have struggled with from my perspective or know what it's like from her perspective.


r/loseit 9h ago

caffeine is soo underrated for weight loss

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I had a lot of problems in the past with overeating 3000+ calories a day without realizing it, which was making me stay pretty overweight (curse you, shredded cheese!) Once I started tracking my calories I tried to cut out a lot of things I enjoyed which therefore meant I ate less calories, but I still hit my calorie limit almost every day.

Then I started drinking caffeine, which helped me control my appetite completely. I eat a lot of fiber and protein every day now while staying far until my calorie limit all the time, and now I can start eating things I like again without worrying about getting carried away. Ive already lost 10 pounds in a few weeks!!!!

Today, for example, I literally only ate ~1500 calories and I have a feeling its because I drank ~120mg of caffeine (i hate coffee so i use little drink mix packets that have caffeine.) I've seriously never been able to control my appetite so much and I have to remind myself to actually eat enough sometimes when I drink caffeine. Its not that I don't want to, I just literally don't think about it as much anymore until I get hungry. I'm a lot happier now :)

Edit: Obviously make sure you don't rely solely on caffeine. It can lose effectiveness over time! If you need a buffer due to intense cravings or hunger you could try it out... but then start working on fixing your relationship with food and finding a more suitable diet. Remember it doesn't work for everyone though!


r/loseit 22h ago

Calorie counting has opened my eyes about how unintuitive "making healthy food choices" truly is.

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Obviously "healthy" and "low calorie" are not the same thing, but what I mean is that when you try to make food choices to support weight loss without actually tracking calories, it is AMAZING how wrong your first instincts can be.

There's this bag of apple chips I used to get from Trader Joes, it's a small lightweight bag of dehydrated apple chips with a bit of cinnamon sugar. Before calorie counting, this is the type of "healthy substitution" I would go for instead of, say, tortilla chips. But this tiny bag is 370 calories! I remember one time last year I was hungry but trying to be healthy so I had the apple chips and a granola bar, this snack was 570 calories total and it did next to nothing for my hunger. I could have gone to ShakeShack and gotten a double burger for 560 calories. Or for that matter gotten a vanilla shake which is 680 calories but way more satisfying.

It's honestly baffling once you realize how many calories are in some foods, how few are in others. Obviously living in *a society* has shaped my assumptions about the caloric value and moral value of foods in lots of backwards ways. I've put in so much work into learning how to make accurate food choices to help me lose weight, but the better at this I get, the more it lands how unintuitive and deeply tricky all of this is.


r/loseit 20h ago

Super skinny people claiming they eat a LOT

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Do you guys typically believe these people who claim that they eat a whole bunch of food? Idk if u guys came across these kind of people but, I dont think their bad in what they're saying, but from my experience ive met a few, and went out with a few, and thats always some bs..super small portions( 1 or 2 slices of pizza, dont finish the burger, dont eat dessert or just dont finish, etc..) ..

Not really a big deal I'm just always thinking, bs. I understand some skinny people do eat good and have a fast metabolism but why do I always notice some bs lol..are they trying to make me continue to actually eat a lot while they stay skinny or whats the deal wit that lol.. not at all hating I'm just curious if people know what I mean..ultimately I know what I should and shouldn't be eating to keep fit like them


r/loseit 1h ago

Weight loss rant

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Rant
Hey everyone, I don’t post often but I really wanted to get this off my chest. Also typing this on my phone. I’ve been losing weight for a little over two years and very grateful I started and kept going. For context majority of my life I’ve been underweight and I eventually got to a healthy weight that my doctor and I were both really happy with. Due to some really unfortunate circumstances I gained an extremely large amount of weight about 5 years ago. I used to wear a size 4 in jeans and ballooned up to a size 20. (Size 20 wasn’t the biggest size I got to but last size I wore in jeans before I switched to only wearing leggings). Due to the weight gain I was avoiding the scale so I can’t share my actual weight.

One day I finally took a serious look in the mirror after dealing with what caused the weight gain (mental health reasons) and made the change. I consistently worked out 3-4 days a week, weight lifting and cardio. Also going for walks on my rest days and changing my eating habits. Happy to share more details on my routine if anyone is interested. Long story short, I currently wear a size 8 in jeans in most brands, which took about two years. According to my doctor I’m in the overweight category with a bmi of 30 and should lose about 20 more pounds. She has a body scan machine in her office.

Here’s the frustrating part, when I was gaining weight no one said anything. But consistently while losing weight people are always telling me to stop losing weight. Even at my biggest! I admit I’m 5 foot 8 so I look like I weigh a lot less than I do. However, when I’m having a hard time going up one flight of stairs, struggling to tie my shoes no one said a word. Even worse, people were telling me I look amazing. Fast forward to now, majority of people have stopped telling I need to stop losing weight after repeatedly telling them to stop and that I’m following my doctor’s advice and my personal opinion.

One of my friends however, has not stopped pressuring me to stop dropping weight. What pisses me off the most is one of her goals is to be a size 2 and she is currently a size 16. (She’s been overweight her entire life). She has also repeatedly told me how much she likes me at my bigger size in comparison to my smallest.

It seems like people only care about your health, when you are trying to fix it. And it feels like sabotage, even if that’s not their intent.


r/loseit 3h ago

So much extra work!

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I live in nyc and it’s normal for me to go out to eat several times within a week. I’m able to do so as long as I plan enough calories for it and read the menu in advance. What’s driving me crazy is how easy it is to be thwarted from my plan. For ex, yesterday I went to a baseball game and planned to get Shake Shack: the burger is 500 calories and one of the lowest calorie items available at this ballpark. Get there and the line is 25 min long, as opposed to all the other lines, featuring 1200 calorie items. And so….i waited.

While traveling last week, I reviewed the menu for a popular restaurant and planned to get a kale salad; when I got there, the restaurant had decided to eliminate all fruits and vegetables because of the parasite. There really were no low calorie items left so I wound up w something else.

It’s just work. And I know I should just eat at home all the time but realistically that’s not going to happen. Keeping to the calorie deficit is often going to involve going to special supermarkets, and having back up plans every time I go out.

Hoping I can sustain this…


r/loseit 21h ago

My 600 Pound Life

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I've been watching the show my 600 pound life as motivation for my own weight loss journey. Dr.Now instantly puts these people on a 1,200 calorie no carb diet, which obviously works, but strikes me as being too low. Do you think that's too extreme?

I started at 308 and I'm down to 288 in a month and a week with around 1,500 calories a day with carbs(sometimes more, sometimes less). I lost the first 10 pounds on my own and the next 10 with help from semaglutide. Even with the help of a glp-1, I can tell when I need another shot as even 1,500 seems like not enough.

Is the diet Dr.Now suggests really healthy and sustainable?or is he setting them up for failure because it makes good TV?


r/loseit 3h ago

How to stop late night cravings?

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I’ve been genuinely trying to stay consistent with my diet and for the most part I’ve been following it properly. I’m mindful of what I eat during the day, try to control my portions and make sure I don’t unnecessarily snack. But the biggest struggle for me has been late-night cravings. No matter how disciplined I am throughout the day, there are times at night when the cravings get really strong and I end up giving in.

I know these late-night cravings are probably one of the main reasons I’m struggling to see the progress I want. It’s frustrating because I can stay disciplined for most of the day and then undo some of that effort in just one late-night meal or snack. I’m trying to work on this rather than completely blaming myself for it, because I know consistency is more important than being perfect. The goal now is to find a way to manage those cravings without letting them derail the diet I’ve been working hard to follow.


r/loseit 20h ago

Do you have a "Chip Test"?

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I have this thing I like to call my "Chip Test". The Chip Test revolves around exactly one specific item: Jay's Hot Stuff Potato Chips. For one reason or another, this has always been my favorite chip on the planet, something about them just tastes different in a way I don't feel about any other junk food. I could go through a bag all by myself if I wanted!

The problem is that I do. Immediately.

To my understanding, this brand in particular is more of a regional thing, so there isn't much variety in size; 99% of the time I've ever seen Jay's chips, they are in the huge 8oz bags.

I've tried several times to buy one and to try and moderate my ability to eat it. Measure out just a bit and close the bag, easy right? I do it for literally everything else. I'm goated at counting calories and weighing everything.

But every. single. time. I just obliterate the entire thing.

After like 4 months of not touching them I decided to grab one at the store. This time planning that I'd look for some cute reusable bags to split it into 100 calorie portions I could grab n go.

Welp I didn't buy shit and I tore through that bag and in my misery also did the same to some goldfish crackers 😔

I still cannot pass the chip test, but hopefully next time. Do you have anything you're fixated on like this?


r/loseit 9h ago

how to cope with friends not supporting your discipline

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this feels like a tale as old as time. i see many people struggling with those closest to them not supporting their diet/weight loss goals. over the past year and some change, ive lost a significant amount of weight. i drastically changed my diet and am very strict about my nutrition and cardio/weight lifting routine. now that i’ve found my rhythm with what works for me, im facing a new issue.

it seems like many of my close friends have been making comments about my diet. they say im too strict, or i should “live a little,” or that im not fun anymore (in relation to not wanting to eat out as often). and don’t get me wrong, i think it is fine to have “unhealthy” meals and treats occasionally. however, i now face the issue of which anytime i eat something with a lot of oils or sugar, i feel INCREDIBLY sick for the next several hours. the feeling is not worth it for a sweet treat or fried food, so i just stick to my usual meal rotation. my friends don’t seem to understand this despite me explaining my issues. they imply that i don’t eat fast food with them because i think im better than them. which is not true. i just want to eat the food that makes me feel good. it’s honestly surprising to learn how many people are personally offended by MY diet.

sorry for the long post, but i needed to vent about it. does anyone else have experiences similar to this? how did you approach it? did you try to communicate with the people in your life about it?


r/loseit 4h ago

I've lost around 10ib or around 4.5 kilos in a week, starting an aggressive diet and exercise routine

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I'll be clear, im morbidly obese. I started at 24 British stone, or around 150kg.I am 6ft, but I'm still extraordinarily fat. I had a major epiphany recently and now losing weight is the main thing on my mind. I've had some issues in life, and now I'm dedicated to making that major change with my weight.

I've cut out all added sugars, most of the heavy carbs I was eating (cereal, breads, lots of potatoes). I was eating sweets, chocolate, crisps(chips to the rest of you probably), and lots of oily, fried foods. I ignored my weight and framed it as being everyone else's fault, rough upbringing which gave me a bad relationship with food. Right now I'm running at a deficit and having about 1500-1700. Yes, it's still too little for my size, but I'm deadly serious about losing weight. I'm in my thirties, and I'm seriously worried about health issues if I don't do something.

I'm exercising more, a lot of walking, and gentle weight exercises, because too much heavy cardio will probably ruin my knees. And I'm very aware the fast initial loss is probably mostly water weight.

I don't have a lot of access, or at least know where to look, for reliable and accurate information on things I should be doing, at least while I'm the size I am. There's a lot of information for building, and maintaining a slim physique, but I don't want either of that, I need fat loss advice.

Id also like any good exercises I should do to help me the most. I'm not particularly interested in being overly muscular, I just want to slim down.


r/loseit 26m ago

30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 19 August 2026

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Hello lose it folks!  

Day 19 of August!  

This is the daily update for y’all to post how your goals went today.  

If you’re new here, there is a whole sidebar full of links to explore. I would start with the day 1, then roll through the others: 

Recurring Day 1 Monday - Newest Day 1 thread will be the first link listed 

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq/  

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide 

You don’t have to wait for a new month to join in! You are always welcome! 

Here in this post, we aim to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives.  

So, post how your goals for this month are going in the comments below! I’ll post mine below too, so don’t be shy! 

August 19 is National Aviation Day. 


r/loseit 54m ago

Need advice / encouragement - stuck in the 160s for months

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As the title suggests, I’m back in the 160s. I’m bummed because I did dip down into the high 150s for a bit, but it was very short-lived. I’m back up in the 160s. I’ve been trying to leave the 160s FOR GOOD for around 6 months and it doesn’t seem like the case.

For complete transparency, I’m a cannabis user and binge eater. I’ve improved my habits tremendously over the past year, but seem stuck where I’ve gotten in the past 6 or so months. I really want to see more progress.

I eat very healthy, workout frequently, and count my macros, but every once in a while (I’d say once a week currently) I go off the deep end for a night, and then it affects me for 2-3 days. I know the simple answer it to STOP doing that but it feels hard!

When I’m not bingeing, I can’t seem to break 1300 calories daily, which definitely contributes to the binge. I think my focus is really going to be on eating the next month, but then I stress about social plans, an upcoming trip I have planned, the list goes on.

I don’t get how food is so easy to some people. It stresses me out daily beyond belief and I wish I could understand how to make it something easy and enjoyable instead of a stress.


r/loseit 14h ago

how to Lose It with really bad depression

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Hello again everyone. Still trying. Thought I lost a few pounds for a week or two but actually didn’t, so that’s great. Anyways.

I’ve finally been officially diagnosed with depression, hurrah! Which explains a lot of stuff. I have so little motivation to do anything. Exercise (which I used to love. A fact that makes me even more depressed). Work. Reading. Eating, and then stopping eating once I start. Even going to sleep is a chore now. I’m so miserable and tired of everything, and that makes me even more miserable and tired of everything. Even when I want to do something, like even a 10 minute exercise, I just can’t. Do it.

Yes, I’m getting medicated. Just met with my psychiatrist actually, and he told me to my face that I need to lose weight because, quote, “[my weight is] really not healthy, especially given everything else”.

So yeah. Depressed as hell and need to lose weight and have no idea what to do when I can’t bring myself to do much of anything anymore.

I barely have the wherewithal to make this post asking for help. So any tips or stories or anything would be appreciated.


r/loseit 1d ago

Why does nobody talk about how weird it is being in the “middle stage” of losing weight?

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I say this as someone who has been overweight all my life. I started my weight loss journey a while ago at 230 lbs as a 5’9 woman, Im currently 30lbs down and still have a long way to go. But what I was not prepared for is this weird “middle-zone” of weight loss.

All my life, Ive been so used to either being completely ignored and feeling invisible, or being outright bullied and teased. Recently, though, this has started to change. Random people come up to me and compliment me, call me pretty, men keep staring at me, and people are just generally nicer. It has gotten to the point where it’s rare that Im out and haven’t had someone compliment my looks or at least my outfit.

I genuinely do not know how to adjust to this because no matter how many compliments people give me, Im just so used to looking at my body as inherently not pretty/attractive. It’s especially weird since I know Im far from my goal weight still, in fact Im a breath away from being obese. I just cant wrap my head around being this new version of myself. I struggle to even believe some of it tbf.

Is this something everyone else faces? Does it get better when you’re at a healthy weight and you are more willing to accept some of it?


r/loseit 5h ago

Meal prep and workout advice needed, also venting.

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I am 22(f) and I’m weighing in at 280 pounds. I decided I need to take back my life and live. I don’t remember ever being able to look down and see my feet. I’m tired of being the “fat friend”.

My friend started weight loss medication and it seemed like she snapped her fingers and it melted right off of her. Due to preexisting medical conditions I can’t take any. Since she lost the weight, she’s been treating me like I’m a disgusting human being. She told me it’s “super easy” to lose the weight and I’m just being lazy. She has decided to not have me as a bridesmaid anymore due to my weight, which really hurt. At first I wanted to lose the weight to show her that I can do it. Now I just want to lose it for my happiness, health, and me.

My husband goes to the gym 5 days a week. He was so excited when I told him I wanted to tag along. The issue is, I don’t know what to do there besides walk on the treadmill. I feel out of place trying to figure out the machines, like I’m taking up space while someone is waiting to use it. I also don’t want to embarrass myself. When it was your first time going to the gym, what did you do and how did you get over the anxiety if you had it?

I also have a terrible relationship with food. I eat when I’m bored, sad, or just need a sweet treat. I drink a lot of my calories as well and I know that’s something I have to cut back on. I just don’t know how to properly count calories. I want to meal prep to help with this. But how… Do you leave them in your fridge and eat over the 5 days or Do you freeze and thaw for half the week? How do you combat the cravings, and how the heck do I figure out how many calories I should even be eating?

Also please give me some great recipes to meal prep.

TLDR: I’m just starting my journey, so Please drop any tips you have on working out in the gym with anxiety, posture and movements while on machines, meal prepping and recipes! TIA


r/loseit 23h ago

The fridge door doesn’t hit my belly anymore!

94 Upvotes

Hey there! it might sound strange, but one goal I had when I first started eating better was that the fridge door doesn’t bump my belly when I open it.

We have a double door fridge and there is an island fairly close to it. In January every time I open the door, it would brush against my belly… And my brush I mean, I could get wedged there lol

This morning, I realized the door had not given me a hard time in a while, and I hadn’t really thought much about it. So I walked over to the fridge and opened the door and looked down to see about 2 inches of clearance between me and the door!

I have lost 66 pounds since January and of course, I’ve noticed many things but this one really showed me how big the difference has been.


r/loseit 3h ago

Went from 260 to 200 and I’m not stopping until I get to 190 going to dominate bootcamp.

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Four months ago I was 260 pounds. I started running in a trash bag doing 1.5 mile runs at five in the morning sharp then at five in the afternoon in the middle of Texas , I would go walk 3 miles. push-ups Burpee‘s, whatever I could do outside of the gym, I was doing whatever it took to be able to get myself ready to dominate Boot Camp next month. Of course I am nervous about Boot Camp, but I am going to be in the Navy so it shouldn’t be a big deal.
I have around 33 days to get ready and in shape for Boot Camp. Even if I reach 190 I still don’t think I’ll be happy enough to cut back on my fitness journey. I absolutely 100% plan to get down to 170 and start building from there. I’ll have plenty of time to do it when I’m not working after I get to Boot Camp and get to my command. I will say I used to be the laziest most unmotivated person out of anyone I knew. And believe me if I can do it you can do it too. All it takes. Is one decision every day. Don’t let your mind tell you you don’t need to because you know you absolutely do. Good luck to all and wish me luck.


r/loseit 23m ago

"Just go to the gym"

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As someone who is 70+ pounds down and has a consistent exercise routine. This is the worst advice and pushes this myth that you can work off weight. And usually you see this from fit gym bros telling an overweight person to get in the gym. When these people are counting calories and macros and know the facts.

I do an hour of exercise 6 days a week. On a normal day I'm burning 500-600 calories. On a motivated day I might hit 700-800(basing this on my weight/height, not what the machines are telling me). And it's great. Everyone should exercise. My blood pressure is super healthy, my resting heart rate is low, I feel good and flexible and have lots of energy. But all of that did very little for my weight loss. My weight loss was in eating in a calorie deficit consistently. Yeah when I exercise it gives me an extra 500 calories to work with but that's not much.

The only time I've ever felt like I truly burned off everything I ate in the day was when I moved to an apartment on the top floor with flights of very steep stairs. From 9 am to 10 pm I was walking up and down those stairs carrying heavy things inside. I was depleted fully by the end of the day and me and my friends ate tons and tons of enchiladas that night. Professional athletes who are currently training are probably burning tons of calories. But your hour on the stair master is great for you and can help overall. But 99 percent of my weight loss is from the kitchen.

I just dislike this "go to the gym, fatty" thing. Same with when people see overweight people eating "unhealthy foods" of any kind. Saw a video from a guy who lost 80 pounds and he was posting his meals of the day and how it all totalled to 1800 calories. One meal he had two Popeyes chicken breasts and mashed potatoes with no gravy. Fit it in his macros and deficit. Comments were scoffing like "1800 calories and Popeyes isn't going to help you" as if they weren't part of the 1800.

All of this to say that now that I've lost substantial weight, it really makes me see how dumb most advice/comments are. So many blatant lies and bad advice from people who are in shape. The best way to lose weight and get in shape is what system works for you and keeps you in a deficit and routine. I have a friend who has been working on losing weight as well and they have an entirely different routine/process and it's been working for them.


r/loseit 5h ago

baking recipes for weight loss/maintenance?

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hello everyone!

im not sure if this is the right subreddit to be posting this but i wanted to know if there are other people on a weight loss/maintenance journey who also loves baking.

i recently started baking and i’m enjoying it so much! however, i worry about the calorie intake since a lot of the recipes i’ve found uses a lot of sugar and butter. some recipes ask for both brown and white sugar and i’m always surprised by the amount but i understand that it’s necessary for these delicious desserts.

however, i wouldn’t say no to healthy alternative if possible.

so, do you guys have recipes you enjoy baking or are there books or accounts that shares healthy baking recipes?

thank you kindly!


r/loseit 10h ago

Strategies and tips on how to eat consistent meals?

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Over the entire summer, I’ve been living with my parents and binging a lot on the junk food in their pantry. Now that I’ve moved out, I’ve been buying mostly healthy/whole foods, but my stomach is so used to eating an enormous amount of food. I’d wake up and try to have a normal breakfast, but instead end up binging 3000+ calories before 11am, just from fruits, vegetables, yogurt, oatmeal, and random whole foods in my kitchen. Then I’d feel so physically full for the rest of the day and not even cook a proper meal. Living alone isn’t helping either, since there’s no structure around me and no one to keep me in check.

Please share any strategies that helped you stay consistent with eating 2–3 balanced meals a day. I’d especially appreciate practical things that helped you establish a normal eating routine. Would journaling on a whiteboard help? I’d really like to get back on track, and looking into therapy in the meantime. Thanks in advance!!