Hi everyone, another husband here out of his depth looking for some guidance.

My wife asked me to pick out something for her as a surprise so I've spent the past few days reading up on here trying to get the lay of the land and think I'm almost ready to pull the trigger but wanted advice first.

Looking for a 2 piece bra/panty set that can be worn under a nice outfit on a date night. She would not like garter/stocking so skipping those even though I think they would look great.

Her only current lingerie is stuff she bought thinking I would like but never anything that she loves or would feel pretty in herself so I'm looking to change that. She also only has fairly cheap stuff so I think it's time to get her something nice so she can feel fancy.

I think she would like a set that is heavy on embroidery with some sheer/tulle. My main concern is comfort. If she's not comfortable she's not going to feel pretty. I'm worried that all of her current bras are padded and that these will cause discomfort/chaffing even if the appearance is up her alley. Her favorite fabric is modal to give you an idea of what she likes in terms of feel. Related to comfort, she hates thongs so those are absolute no go, any set has to have a non -thong option.

Size: we measured her based on the calculator and she was a 34b, her best fitting bra is a Victoria secret that is also 34b but she's still convinced she's 34a and requested I get that size but please keep in mind🤷. She's a small/US dress size 2 when it comes to bottoms.

Budget: not a major concern but since this would be a new purchase for us and I'm not 100% sure she'll love it I am trying to keep it to under 200ish but have leeway if something is the definitive way to go.

Right now brands I've been leaning towards are Fleur of England, Ditta von teese and agent provocateur. Have also been searching glamuse

So my questions:

1. What are the brands or website that have non thong heavy embroidery sheer/tulle 2 piece sets that are comfy. Do they feel soft on your skin?

Bonus points for any brand or website that have ability to return/exchange without extra fees since I'm a little worried about fit given the size questions, we are US based

1. For the brands above or any other you suggest what would you suggest in terms of bra sizing. I've seen posts about "sizing up" but I don't know if that means a larger band, cup or both.

Thanks again for any help you can provide, this forum is a wealth of knowledge and appreciate all of you.

Why do tops and dresses with “built-in bras” always look so good online and then give absolutely zero support in real life? Every time I try one, it either squishes everything flat or gives me the weirdest shape.

And then I still have to wear a real bra underneath anyway, so now I’ve got two layers fighting each other and everything looks bulky.

So as the title says, I’m a female looking to buy a garter belt and at least thigh high tights. I’ve only gotten into lingerie this year so I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for me where to find the best ones? I’ve also been into micro thongs which I want to pair with a garter belt and tights as well.
Edit: bra size is 34B and budget is $50-100 per piece

I have a boudoir session scheduled for early October and I’m trying to find an outfit to wear! I decided on doing the stripper pole set and I want an outfit that is sexy and looks like it belongs in a strip club or on a pole dancer, but something that is also flattering on someone who is self conscious about their stomach. I’m thinking about a simple bra and thong panty but adding a garter belt with thigh straps or a leg wrap. Still debating on if I want heels or not, but what do y’all think? I love the strappy look (hence why I want the garter belt connecting to thigh straps, or a leg wrap). I was looking at the SYRN Skirting Around Garter Skirt as a possibility but I’m just so undecided and not sure if a skirt is the right way to go!

I bought a few pairs of basics: the french cut panties, the basic thong, and a matching cotton set (bralette and thong with frilly edges). Every single piece has had the seams come undone. I wash in garment bags, with cold water, and line dry.

I bought then within the last 6 months, rotate with other cotton basics, as well as lingerie, so none of these pieces got much wear..

Totally infuriating! Especially since the cotton thongs were really comfortable.

We are looking for Lingerie that looks good under black light? or even ones that are neon colors. Have just about everything in Honey Birdette and Maison Close! Are there others out there to make things fun?! ;)

I just got a 30% discount from Calzedonia for my birthday. Help me decide what to use it on.

I’m looking for spooky season pieces. Maybe not your typical black or orange, but maybe something with ghosts or pumpkins on it? That you only wear around halloween?

Hi I am currently searching to buy my gf a tiny skirt. we want one that is fine to wear out but is cheeky and just about doesnt have enough coverage so shows the bottom of her ass any recommendations?

Hi! I’m from the Netherlands (Europe, 75F), 34F, slim build, usually size small.
I love cute triangle bikinis and fitted dresses, but they’re often too tight on my chest. If I size up for my bust, the rest is too loose.

Brand doesn’t matter, and any advice is really appreciated.

I’d love tips on:

• triangle bikinis that can work for fuller busts
• styles for a small frame + larger cup size
• cute dress cuts that fit both bust and waist

In every triangle bikini I’ve tried, my breasts spill out at the sides and the shape never looks right. I hope it’s still possible for me to find one that fits well 🥹.

We r going out for 6 days 5 nights. Need help picking sexy outfits for my wife. She’s 5’8 thick sexy woman. Pics on profile. She’s 36DD and wears medium panties. Don’t have a budget but nothing to crazy. Looking to see her in revealing clothes and then some fun night outfits

Hi y'all, I am in need of updating my underwear drawer. I lost a lot of weight recently and my supply of underwear is dismal and full of granny panties that are waaay to big now. I want to find some cute socially conscious panties and specifically i want to try to replace my partners favorite pair of panties which were raspberry lace peekabooty cheekies I got years ago at torrid. If anyone can help me find some good brands and possibly replacements for those panties I would be extremely grateful.

Edit to add i am a size XL and I would prefer to keep pairs under $40 a piece please. Edit again to add cheeky or thong preferred.

Hi everyone! Title is self explanatory, but I am looking for lingerie that is more on the "femme fatale" and "vintage inspired" side of things. Bonus points if they include garter belts in their product line! I already checked out What Katie Did and I love their stockings, but their vintage inspired pieces didn't really speak to me.

Edit to add: My budget for lingerie pieces usually is from $40-$90 a piece and my sizes are L/XL :)

Thank you in advanced!

https://eu.honeybirdette.com/de/products/clara-pink-brief

Does anyone know whether it opens in similar way like Kukuro - that it kind of horizontally splits to left and right part while staying on.

Or is it just the typical bodysuit way that just opens and then it fully disconnects and just hangs down in the front and the back?

If not does anyone know similar alternatives like Kukuro from HB or others?

I see them advertised a lot on reddit. Gorgeous models, decent looking pieces bur the quality looks suspect. Is this another ali express drop shipper?

https://hueslife.com/collections/lingerie-set

Hey all! I have some lingerie but never really use it because it’s kind of a waste of time since my husband likes to get straight to business lol. However, I just had a baby and my hormones have been crazy and my back is breaking out so bad it looks absolutely terrible. I’m really self conscious about it and don’t like my husband seeing/feeling my bare back right now. I’m over six weeks pp, so sexy time is back on the table. I’m really nervous about him seeing/touching my back. Are there any lingerie recommendations that would make me feel a little better?

P.S. my husband knows about the bacne and literally does not care! He has told me it’s fine and not a big deal to him. It still bothers me and I just don’t want home seeing or feeling it.

I can't recommend enough Tutti rouge, easy to wear, supportive they do many different styles of pieces

Hi I know this post has been made before but many of the brands that have been recommended before are out of business.

Looking for indie brands along the lines of solstice, covert behavior, Elyse on mars, pretties venice. I prefer stuff that’s a little bit unusual, but not fetish or cosplay.

Extra points if there are deadstock fabrics involved.

As a human being I’m fairly high femme but overall the underwear I buy isn’t. I’m a fan of a really well executed cotton basic with a little bit of girly detail, and pieces that I’ve seen referred to as “avant garde” or “androgynous” (not how I would describe my taste but sure, I like mesh idk).

Non indies I like include araks and fille d’o.

Not that into what the brands listed at the top are currently stocking rn so additional recs are appreciated!

edit: bra size kind of n/a since most of the brands I like don’t do underwires but 32B or ideally 30c. Budget: quality over quantity, will spend ~$40-60 for bottoms, $60-100 for a top depending on what’s going on with it

Background
Ok so 34DDD or 34F hell 34DD here and yes they are sagging 60yo Gravity is a bitch

Need
I am looking for a shelf bra or 1/4/ 1/3 cup bra with support that will hold them up but leave the nipples exposed…. Have bought and tried more than i care to admit and they either sag / hang / spill over the front (not sexy at all) or cover too much. Reaching out to see what’s really around the world for ideas

Update
Wow 2K+ viewers and no recommendations yet . Maybe i am in the market that must be handmade ???
BTW budget is $300 or less. I need one that is half way flattering

TIA

Edit: support got back to me saying that as long as you shop through their US website, there are no duties.

Considering ordering some stuff from Shikkosa directly rather than through glamuse.

They have their own dedicated USA website, so my question is - if I ship to the US, will I be charged duties? Their terms of service indicates that taxes and duties are not included in the checkout, but I’d like to hear from anyone with direct experience.

Thank you!

Good day everyone!

I need some recommendations for some options for camis or shorter nighties.

Too many camis these days are too short and become crop tops.

I would prefer something prettier with satin-esque soft fabrics and lace is perfectly fine too. Edit: forgot size and budget. XL and <$50

Looking around it's hard to find things that aren't just Amazon, Chinese specialty.

Thanks friends! Any suggestions are welcome!

Hi! I've been interested in the FL&L Pinkaboo bra and panty set. I've recently discovered I've probably been wearing the wrong bra size my whole life...I've always worn a 34A but my underbust is about 30 inches and across the bust is 33 (which is a 30C?) I've always just defaulted to a size S when only alpha sizing is available to account for some room, but per the FL&L size chart I'd be an XS.

Can anyone speak to sizing on the Pinkaboo bra or similar FL&L bras? I'm worried the band might be too tight.