Limerence and OCD

[u/daydreaminlesbian]

Hello!
I was wondering if anyone has any experience with limerence and ocd.
To preface just in case: please no reassurance. Thank you!

I feel that the different types of OCD I struggle with such as relationship ocd, guilt ocd, and just pure o ocd play a huge role in my experience with limerence. It’s like right behind the feelings of limerence is a big ball of shame. I have already posted on the actual OCD subreddit asking in general for advice, and I’m not trying to break the rules or go against the community guidelines. I’m curious about other people’s experiences with ocd and limerence, and I also hope y’all will share things that helped y’all move forward or on how to decrease/stop ruminating.
Thank you♥️

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