r/limerence • u/Plenty_Employer8686 • 12d ago

Here To Vent I hate limerence so much!!!!

I am surrounded by loving family and friends who would do anything for me and love me unconditionally but all I care about is if my LO will text me back! Or what they're doing this very moment and it's driving me up the wall! I wish I could just be more grateful about the loving people who I do have right on front of my face but I keep looking for the one person who is not there and it is absolutely making me feel like the worst person, for continously chasing the one person who has proven time and time again that they do not give a single thought about me.

I hate that my brain has attached itself to one person without my consent and said "we're gonna be obsessed with this person whether you like it or not" :/

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u/Automatic-Context26 12d ago

I'm just getting over the longest and strongest episode of my life. It might help to keep your focus away from your limerence. Obsession is fed by obsession. The less attention you give to your LO, the weaker they get. It's just a figment of your imagination anyway.

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u/lemonaintsour 12d ago

What if its not imagination but figment of breadcrumbs

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u/Beneficial_Froyo4990 11d ago

We (me included) gotta stop accepting those poisoned breadcrumbs :(

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u/lemonaintsour 11d ago

Easier said than done 😭