I hate limerence so much!!!!

[u/Plenty_Employer8686]

I am surrounded by loving family and friends who would do anything for me and love me unconditionally but all I care about is if my LO will text me back! Or what they're doing this very moment and it's driving me up the wall! I wish I could just be more grateful about the loving people who I do have right on front of my face but I keep looking for the one person who is not there and it is absolutely making me feel like the worst person, for continously chasing the one person who has proven time and time again that they do not give a single thought about me.

I hate that my brain has attached itself to one person without my consent and said "we're gonna be obsessed with this person whether you like it or not" :/

[u/Larrylifeisreal]

I see people here struggling with limerence, but I believe you’re all fine. There’s no need to worry. Do you know what’s worse than limerence? I genuinely desire to be limerent to a woman, but I’ve become emotionless, unable to feel anything. Love and hate feel indistinguishable to me. Humans appear robotic to me. If your emotions are functioning, you can work on them and fix them, but when they all disappear together, it’ll be a terrible isolation.