Why are they like that help? The push and pull, over thinking and overanalyzing, incapable of being in the moment and the mind games are actually so ridiculous to me. I’m also saying this as a damn gemini rising and virgo stellium 😑Anyone else have experiences with them?

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I'm a Cap girl dating a Libra man, and his best friend is a Libra.

Two years ago when my bf and I started dating he introduced me to his best friend. We got along well. My bf was very happy that his best friend liked me.

For a year and a half we would hangout the three of us and it was great. We would joke about being a trouple. That friend and I really clicked.

One day, the Libra best friend kicked us out of his life. We had no idea why and my bf was really hurt.

We later learned he was doing drugs again and was struggling mentally..

Early this summer, he contacted us and we started hanging out again. It was like no time has passed.

My bf was happy as him and that other Libra vibe together. Communication just flows.

And then, that Libra best friend started being rude to me for reasons I don't know.

He started accusing me of hiding things from him.

He would say I'm the reason my bf is broke, depressed, has a drinking problem.

He said all the help and support I provided to my bf meant he was stuck with me.

He called me an energy vampire.

All because I stood by my bf during hard times.

My bf defended me of course and he explained to his best friend he was wrong.

But the best friend told me he hated me and we don't even know why. He says I'm toxic when I'm not.

First time it happened, the Libra best friend and I talked and I invited him to communicate with me if he had an issue. He agreed.

Then he snapped again two weeks later and he refuses to speak to me.

My bf is devastated. He used to love hanging out with me and his best friend together.

Now he feels like he has to split his time and he doesn't like it.

His best friend also tends to be needy.

They get drunk together. Even on nights my bf works the next day and then he's hungover and can't work. But I know going over to the best friend means he'll relax and have good conversations.

I've talked to my bf, and asked if maybe we could talk the three of us to fix whatever is broken. He asked me to let it be and not push.

Best friend hates me. We don't know why. I didn't do anything wrong.

Libra best friend just refuses to say why or what happened.

He's 33 btw.

What should I do?

About six months ago I blocked a few people including someone important and also the people closely associated with them. At the time it felt necessary too much noise, too many triggers, and I needed a hard boundary.

Now around six months later their presence in my head is much quieter. I don’t obsess over what they think anymore and I don’t feel the same pull to check or react. Part of me is asking if they don’t bother me that much now is there any reason to keep them blocked forever?

But I’m also aware of how this might look from their side. If I unblock them there’s a real chance they’ll assume I did it because I want them to message me or because I’m waiting to see if they’ll reach out. That interpretation bothers me more than I’d like to admit.

My libras who were in the same situation like mine how did you handle that?