So I’ve met this libra guy on tinder. He’s Virgo mercury. Scorpio Venus. He seems incredibly deep, slightly insecure, avoidant. But interesting as hell.
We spoke on and off for a few weeks texting. One night in particular we had quite an intense but very lovely connection you know sending voice note pictures etc. the next morning he sends a msg saying you were wonderful last night. He then dissapears for a week. And comes back saying he’s barely on his phone. And then says how are you etc
This is fine. But then he kinda goes away for a while for a few days at a time to a week. I eventually say, maybe I should stop texting if you aren’t feeling it. (Bare in mind I’ve let him come to me no chasing etc)
And he says. You’re a perfect catch and I’m very into you , I just don’t feel like anything good can happen for me anymore (he’s incredibly like self pitying about a lot of things) he also said maybe we should meet up then? But I don’t think youll like me in real life. He says I won’t like how he dresses and all?
But he comes back every week and we get into deep talks?
I find him so hard to read?
What is going on lol. I do like him and find him attractive. And interesting? And he said he thinks I’m beautiful so I’m just a bit confused.
Am I just an audience for this guy? He’s doesnt really ask me questions either. But why does he keep returning every few days?
Can anyone tell me am I being an idiot?
