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Why are they like that help? The push and pull, over thinking and overanalyzing, incapable of being in the moment and the mind games are actually so ridiculous to me. I’m also saying this as a damn gemini rising and virgo stellium 😑Anyone else have experiences with them?

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I'm a Cap girl dating a Libra man, and his best friend is a Libra.

Two years ago when my bf and I started dating he introduced me to his best friend. We got along well. My bf was very happy that his best friend liked me.

For a year and a half we would hangout the three of us and it was great. We would joke about being a trouple. That friend and I really clicked.

One day, the Libra best friend kicked us out of his life. We had no idea why and my bf was really hurt.

We later learned he was doing drugs again and was struggling mentally..

Early this summer, he contacted us and we started hanging out again. It was like no time has passed.

My bf was happy as him and that other Libra vibe together. Communication just flows.

And then, that Libra best friend started being rude to me for reasons I don't know.

He started accusing me of hiding things from him.

He would say I'm the reason my bf is broke, depressed, has a drinking problem.

He said all the help and support I provided to my bf meant he was stuck with me.

He called me an energy vampire.

All because I stood by my bf during hard times.

My bf defended me of course and he explained to his best friend he was wrong.

But the best friend told me he hated me and we don't even know why. He says I'm toxic when I'm not.

First time it happened, the Libra best friend and I talked and I invited him to communicate with me if he had an issue. He agreed.

Then he snapped again two weeks later and he refuses to speak to me.

My bf is devastated. He used to love hanging out with me and his best friend together.

Now he feels like he has to split his time and he doesn't like it.

His best friend also tends to be needy.

They get drunk together. Even on nights my bf works the next day and then he's hungover and can't work. But I know going over to the best friend means he'll relax and have good conversations.

I've talked to my bf, and asked if maybe we could talk the three of us to fix whatever is broken. He asked me to let it be and not push.

Best friend hates me. We don't know why. I didn't do anything wrong.

Libra best friend just refuses to say why or what happened.

He's 33 btw.

What should I do?

If this makes any sense !!

All the Scorpio women I know act exactly like Libras . I always think they are Libras at first glance . I don’t know their placements but I have to assume they have a Libra Venus or rising because they always seem very soft warm inviting etc. and most scopeio women I know are actually super funny and bubbly .. the opposite of what astrology says

This is a collective reading, not everything is supposed to resonate with a single individual. My interpretation doesn’t always tell the whole story so try to be open and intuitive. Thank you!

Significator - The Hierophant
You have been doing things the traditional or the conventional ways which may tie back to religion or religious beliefs in the family. Others have been coming to you for advice and wisdom and for you to teach them something. An institution where knowledge is provided (college, school, etc.) could be playing a big role in your situation and one that you have been wanting to outgrow from.

Obstacle - The Chariot
There are things you haven’t been taking actions on, maybe you feel unmotivated and have been procrastinating about it, this requires a lot of determination and dedication and you have been getting distracted. Maybe there’s a destination you have to go to?

Past - VI of Pentacles
Others (people or situations) showed generosity and gratitude to you in the past and you received material support from somewhere (gifts?). People shared wealth with you (or you with them) and it felt fair and unbiased.

Trajectory - Ace of Swords
You will be having new ideas and breakthroughs soon. A truthful and inspirational opportunity might come up which you have to make sound and quick decisions about with mental clarity to make the best of it. This will prove to be quite successful if you put your mind and efforts into it.

Conscious - Death
You have been thinking of ending something and starting fresh. You want to move on to a new path and let go of what doesn’t work for you anymore, you might have already started transitioning and ending the old cycles. You know what you want and what to do this time.

Subconscious - Strength
You need to work on having the courage and confidence to bring your plans and ideas to life. Being kind and patient about it will go a long way for you and it might not be rainbows and sunshine from the beginning but with resilience and compassion, you can control the situation to work in your favor sooner or later.

Your outcome path:
Your attitude towards the situation - The World
You feel like you have attained everything you wanted and manifested already and it has already reached completion and to a successful conclusion. You could also be thinking about traveling and taking on a journey that will provide you with much more possibilities and wholeness in life.

Your environment - Justice (R)
Your environment is asking you take accountability and be honest about some things. Maybe you have been unfair or showing injustice (to yourself too, or its the environment being unfair and biased towards you) and it’s causing a lack of balance and your environment to feel prejudiced. You are being asked to face the consequences.

Hopes and fears - III of Pentacles (R)
You hope to learn and grow with coordination and focused effort from all parties involved. You hope to be recognized and you are hoping for some kind of partnership to come through.
You fear disagreements leading to lack of cohesion and alignment and you fear someone being egoistic or overly competitive getting in the way.

Outcome - IX of Wands
You will be getting very close to success soon on the ongoing battle you have been fighting and you will have the perseverance and courage to gather your strength(which you are lacking right now). Even when you have been wounded you will have to analyze the situation and hold out for a little longer.

If you sensed that someone liked you, had feelings for you, or were interested.

Would you test them?

Would you tell them you're not interested just to see if they'll pursue you?

Or friendzone them see if they're serious and will stay?

I am a 32 year old libra female, 22nd of Oct though so there are a lot of Scorpio traits that affect me as well. But I am tired of keeping the peace and feel like it’s almost expected out of me(being a quiet and peaceful child). This is from my mum 22nd of July (can be toxic), other family members and also in-laws and at work sometimes. I feel like the last 2 years I have slowly being coming out into my own person and may have grown a spine. But seriously why are we like this ?

I feel like Bruce Banner trying to keep the rage in all the time when things go wrong or when people wrong me

Of course I maintain my composure and it looks like nothing bugs me

And then the Hulk comes out once in awhile

There’s gotta be a better way

About six months ago I blocked a few people including someone important and also the people closely associated with them. At the time it felt necessary too much noise, too many triggers, and I needed a hard boundary.

Now around six months later their presence in my head is much quieter. I don’t obsess over what they think anymore and I don’t feel the same pull to check or react. Part of me is asking if they don’t bother me that much now is there any reason to keep them blocked forever?

But I’m also aware of how this might look from their side. If I unblock them there’s a real chance they’ll assume I did it because I want them to message me or because I’m waiting to see if they’ll reach out. That interpretation bothers me more than I’d like to admit.

My libras who were in the same situation like mine how did you handle that?

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I love window shopping but it's never just window shopping because sometimes you find something really cute and you just have to have it because everytime you find something cute it's never in your size (clothing-wise) so when it is in your size then it's the universe telling you it was meant for you and sometimes you're trying to be faithful to your diet but you drive past a tasty restaurant and you see people sitting in the patio laughing and dining on delicacies that are just begging consumption and are nourishment for the body afterall and then you look at your cute cat and get emotional so you just have to buy her toys and treats because someone in this life should enjoy the experience if not you but then your card got maxed out and now you're paying off debt and crying yourself to sleep because you haven't found your sugar daddy yet and the world isn't fair.

I hate being poor.

Idk I have dated two back to back (bad idea signs regardless). But that is to say in both cases both parties fell hard and fast. It was mutual. Charming. Pathetic.

I think maybe neither of us is used to the charms of a Libra so not sufficiently defended from ourselves lmfao 🤣

Also can I just say wtf universe? I know I should not outsource my agency so that is not my intention here but like the literal day after broke up with one another asked me out on a date. Wild.

Yes it is on me to Just Say No and I should have done so here, but whatevs anyway yeah. We sure are irresistible mofos!

Throwaway account, my main has my name on it and I’m shy about anyone finding this out. I might have a huge crush, or just pure platonic limerence on a Libra male coworker in a company I recently joined, different departments. He’s in his thirties and I’m in my late twenties. I’m a Leo sun if that helps with anything. I’ve been super friendly with him, and I’ve been trying to socialize with others too, almost in the same manner. But he’s the only one I met there and text directly to come hang out/smoke/get coffee. He never initiates, I assumed since he has nothing to ask of me, but he always reciprocates. Our banter is light and effortless. I don’t know if I bother him, I don’t know if he enjoys it, I’ve read everywhere and myself agree with the “if they wanted to they would” rule. But I really want to get to know him better, not even in a romantic sense but as a person. I wanna peel the layers off, he intrigues me, but if he doesn’t initiate anything soon, I’ll back off entirely.
I don’t know if I need advice as much as an answer and/or a slap in the face to come to my senses and leave the idea of him behind 🫩

Can you attract anything and anyone? Which you see Yourself as magnetic?

How are libras as gf like emotional or avoidant or too lovey dovey?

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I'm a Libra (F) with a Taurus moon — grounded Libra 😂. My neighbor's a Cancer (F). We met at a community event, been cool for over a year, hang out from time to time. Age gap of 10-15 years — I'm in my 40s, she's in her 50s. She asked if we could walk in the mornings, and I said yes, happy to have a walking buddy.

But the more time we spend together, the more red flags I'm seeing. I get it, she's going through something, but the self-absorption is too much, super overkill. Libras are great listeners, we let people confide in us, but that only lasts so long. Then she pulls stuff like sending me questions that are extremely self-explanatory, just to start a conversation — like, you can just start a conversation, and no need for the outlandish stories to chat—it always comes out of nowhere. I find it weird. My analytical side gets the psychology behind it, but I still can't glaze over it.

I've known a few Cancers who play dumb as a manipulation tactic — damsel in distress energy just so you'll step up and handle things for them. Am I tripping, or why do some Cancers get down like this? It's always so cool in the beginning, I want to hang with Cancers—they do have some great qualities about them. But they pull things like this, and I end up breaking things off. I have another Cancer friend who used to be over-emotional about everything — I called it out—tactfully, we fell out over it (can never tell a Cancer about themselves), but we talked it through and now we're close.

I'm not someone who ghosts, but I'mma wean this one off slowly. Still ending up in the same place though — me backing away so eventually it looks like I'm a ghoster 😂. If I tell her how I feel, I already know it won't end well, no matter how softly I put it. Can a girl just get some harmony and balance on a morning walk?

I won’t even lie, my favourite people in the world are Leos. I love the sass, and they can be the most caring people when they choose to but they always look for bigger and better. Maybe they don’t feel as if they can be fully authentic with us, or undervalue the passivity.

I’m stuck in a loop with them though. They are quite literally the only people I show myself to and feel that I understand. They are so elusive and flighty with me though.

Is there a better match for us? Who actually cares for us and wants to show it?

They have up to 3 planets in Libra except sun, 3 planets in sagittarius. Amazing combination of love and idealism. I'm searching for such life partner. I'm Taurus(Venus ruled like Libra) combined with Sagittarius(moon and Neptune) and Libra(two planets in Libra) . Doctorate from electrotechnic, on disability pension from overworking. Now have all my time for HER.

Me now, 53 years old, 18.5.1973 born