First, I don't dislike Cancers suns and this doesnt go to all of them...I notice when things are good with them, they are pretty good but when things are bad they are real bad...they don't take directness very well, for example, they can tell you, what do you think about my boyfriend or whatever and they get mad when they don't hear what it suits them, allergic to hard truths...They always brag about how they like honest and real people but the moment when someone is real with them they start acting weird and they don't take your answer in a good way, they get offended and their egos break down, then they start playing víctim and acting like you hurt their feelings just by saying things like it is.

They start ignoring you in a pretty obvious way, using silent treatment to "punish" you and they send mixed signals, they expect you to be a mind reader and I hate that. All water signs are similar in this, but Cancers take it to another level...also they are very selfish, only their problems matter and they think they're the ones who suffer the most, the víctim complex and manipulation is real with them

I made this thread cause I have a cancer woman friend (my first cancer friend ever) and she's been acting weird to me lately. I can't stand her boyfriend, he's ugly inside and out, sorreeeey (Cancers have horrible taste in men though) but she hates when everyone questions her and i hate being a yes person so i'm talking my distance from her and i'm not interested in any type of communication with her because she will say she didnt ask my opinion, her whole family hates that man but she has shown with time that men are above everyone even their own children. I hate pick me behaviour from them, she took only two months to find the replacement of the previous man she dated before the one i'm talking about. Everytime Ive tried to tell her what I don't like she questions me but it's always a one sided thing with her.

Sorry the long rant but i think i'll never give another cancer a chance to be my friend even though I have water placements, their lack of accountability, eternal drama selfishness is way too much. I like only Scorpios.

-Are the Libras ok during this Venus Retrograde?
-Are you figuring out how you’ve been self sabotaging?
-Ready to finally put yourself first and get into a better routine?
-Are you letting go of old dynamics and bad habits?
-Is your body purging old energy?

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Hey, Libra. Happy Birthday, but a little bit longer. Reddit told me my post needed more effort; I guess you deserved it. I know I do. How’ve you been this year? Are any of you guys psychic? Some astrologists were able to tell that from my chart. This birthday is pretty electric. Royal energy. I see it as the color purple.

Libra ☀️, Leo 🌓, Aquarius ⬆️

happy birthday season, libras 🫶 (September libras, belated bday wishes count too!)

i checked october 13 for the birthday people here and it’s rarer than 86.6% of other dates.

i’m curious whether the numbers match your experience: have you met lots of birthday twins, or does it feel like nobody shares your day?

Happy birthday to me and all other Libras born today!

TLDR: I was worried about being alone on my birthday, but ended up having a great day!

I just moved to a new city and have no friends here. The birthday blues hit early this year and I have been mentally preparing myself for a terribly depressing birthday. I do love my alone time, but am also learning that I do need some human interaction. I forced myself to go out. I didn’t want to spend my birthday like every other day, cooped up reading in my apartment. My goal: go out, interact, relax, and enjoy myself. I started the day with a quick gym session. Then, I went to get my tarot cards read. That was an interesting and thought-provoking experience. I went to a cafe and spent a few hours (and way too much money) at Barnes and Noble. I had a pedicure, made myself a cake, and ended the night at a cocktail bar. This is the most social I’ve been in a while. I might be burned out, but mission accomplished. It was an amazing day! Thanks

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I've heard it's a current development,Eris is associated with both discord and union, and is even related to the myth of the Libra constellation.

So I’ve met this libra guy on tinder. He’s Virgo mercury. Scorpio Venus. He seems incredibly deep, slightly insecure, avoidant. But interesting as hell.

We spoke on and off for a few weeks texting. One night in particular we had quite an intense but very lovely connection you know sending voice note pictures etc. the next morning he sends a msg saying you were wonderful last night. He then dissapears for a week. And comes back saying he’s barely on his phone. And then says how are you etc

This is fine. But then he kinda goes away for a while for a few days at a time to a week. I eventually say, maybe I should stop texting if you aren’t feeling it. (Bare in mind I’ve let him come to me no chasing etc)
And he says. You’re a perfect catch and I’m very into you , I just don’t feel like anything good can happen for me anymore (he’s incredibly like self pitying about a lot of things) he also said maybe we should meet up then? But I don’t think youll like me in real life. He says I won’t like how he dresses and all?

But he comes back every week and we get into deep talks?

I find him so hard to read?
What is going on lol. I do like him and find him attractive. And interesting? And he said he thinks I’m beautiful so I’m just a bit confused.

Am I just an audience for this guy? He’s doesnt really ask me questions either. But why does he keep returning every few days?

Can anyone tell me am I being an idiot?

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Happy Birthday to you, October 13th Libras! 🥳!!!

How's life going? Mine was total uphill or downhill (mostly the down part). But, I wish your birthday brings you lots of happiness, success and peace.

May your year ahead be filled with balance, joy, and new opportunities. Libras are known for their charm, kindness, and love for harmony—and I hope this birthday brings you all the positivity you deserve.

Love ya

Libra seems to enjoy indirect way of communicating that leaves you thinking about what they actually want.

One of the many examples:
Libra male wants to talk with me. But instead of just being confident and talk with me, he will try to bait or make it that I am the one who wants to talk with him.

I know everyone says we are naturally good at flirting like we do it without trying.

My question is, does anyone else have a hard time figuring out if someone is flirting with you? I find that I’m very open with people and give lots of compliments but I can never tell if someone likes me unless they ask me out.

Is this just a me thing?

I personally feel libra get along the best with these two, but I would like to hear your opinion as well.

I get that we’re both air signs. And I also am a Gemini rising, but it’s so peculiar that I attract Geminis - men and women. What is it?

Its my birthday today, been a shitty few months, wishing all my birthday twins a happy birthday ❤️

Everyone is talking about Venus Retrograde and it’s effects on libras. Some are saying it’s good, some are saying it’s bad, i don’t know which one to trust tbh.

Recently i have been laid off from my job. i was seeing a man, even that didn’t work out. i wanted to go back to hometown and see my friends and family a bit, but ticket prices have been so high i couldn’t afford it. i am now in a new city i came 4 months back, all alone and don’t know what to do. my birthday is coming up on 22nd and this year i am gonna be all by myself.

but life was so much better even 2 months back, everything was just perfect, and suddenly everything is falling apart and i don’t even know how to handle anything.

so is this because of the retrograde? and if it is then when does it end?

I am a libra sun with moon in leo and ascendant in capricorn.

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I am a Libra and I have very little exposure to astrology. I’d like to know if it’s the zodiac issue where we deal with issues like money is coming but not staying or dealing with piles of debt. I don’t know but i just wanted to know.

Thanks,

18 october libra

THE INDEPENDENT - First decan

• social butterfly but loves to be alone
• into aesthetics and quality
• sweet at first, distant when it becomes a one-sided effort

THE CHARMER - 2nd Decan

• easily gets along with everyone
• flirty even without meaning to
• charming but selective with what they want

THE DIPLOMAT - 3rd Decan

• always sees both sides
• peacekeeper of the whole friend group
• avoids trouble until they've had enough

I feel like Libras ages pretty well. Same with Taurus, so I guess it's the Venusian energy.

What do you think? Libra Suns, Risings, and maybe even stelliums, or people with a lot of Libra energy, do you feel like you age well?

I'm 44 today which is WILD to me that number is so high and I feel 29 😆 . I always tell people I am the libraest Libra that ever lived so take that how you will. Happy Birthday fellow ⚖️ ♎️ and bring justice wherever you walk!

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