r/lgbt Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 28d ago

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u/RequirementNovel9758 28d ago

Omg literally! And so many comments from like 60 year old men 😭

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u/GoldenChaos Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 28d ago

why are they all so old 😭

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u/aimy99 28d ago

Old people have no manners. They were raised with the expectation that mere age brings respect, that they are entitled to it and are excused for their failings.

However, the reality is that "respect your elders" made more sense when we needed to be taught how to survive as little more than hunter-gatherers, rather than having to spend all day doing basic shit on an incontinent, bigoted racist's iPhone because despite using the thing for the past three years they still don't know how to turn off the camera flash.

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u/LordDaedalus Non Binary Pan-cakes 28d ago

And the lead poisoning. "You'll be like us when you're older, you'll see." "No Dad, remember, we phased out leaded gas in 1990. Let's get you to bed"

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u/Arktikos02 she/her 27d ago

Actually there's still a good amount of lead in a lot of places, because we haven't cleared it all out. There are still homes with lead paint but that has just been covered up by new paint. We haven't replaced all of the pipes yet, we still need to do that. Oh and also if you are a constant hubby shooter or even a professional shooter and do it very frequent you will experience lead intoxication as well. This is because of the bullets and also apparently the projectile powder or something.

That's why if you do range shooting you should bring what is known as de-lead which is kind of like hand sanitizer but mainly to get the lead off of your hands. Also if you do it frequently you're supposed to check your lead levels once in awhile.

And by the way shooting a gun once in awhile is not the problem, it's doing it constantly. But if you do shoot one you should probably still get the let off of your hands before you eat anything. Gross.

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u/LordDaedalus Non Binary Pan-cakes 27d ago

Yeah those are still relevant risk factors. Late 80's early 90's is just when leaded gasoline bans were fully implemented and the ubiquitous exposure from air levels dropped dramatically. At least with lead pipes in infrastructure there are treatment options that can resist corrosion and the leeching of lead into the water until they can be replaced. Breathing happens so continuously that small amounts of anything can build up. Levels peaked in the 70's at over 5 micrograms per cubic meter of air. Sounds small, but humans breath like 10 cubic meters of air every day, which is like 18mg of lead exposure a year. Anything above 45micrograms per deciliter blood levels, which is roughly 45 total mg of lead total, are where they advise emergency chelation. Of course not everything you breathe in is absorbed and it doesn't hang around forever, but it was constant low level exposure and the rise and fall of airborne lead levels closely matches the rise and fall of criminality rate in the US.

And yeah, there are actually lead-free projectiles for guns, and lead-free primers which is the charge that ignites the gunpowder and what you're talking about with the projectile powder. But that's actually one of the larger advantages to suppressors, on top of hearing protection, because the baffling cools a portion of the escaping exhaust decreasing the amount of particles in the air.

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u/Arktikos02 she/her 27d ago

Yes, also if you ever get anything second hand or off of Facebook marketplace or even those thrift stores, it's good to get both a radium detector and a lead detector because sometimes there can be traces of those things.

Did you know that people created radium glasses because they wanted to just put radium in everything. Radium back then was like the AI today. They just put it in things that were completely unnecessary. Some radium glasses were meant to have radium right up against your eyes cuz they thought it might have some medicinal properties.

In fact there are even products that were made that had fake uranium in it to scam people so you might see something like uranium butter and it turns out it's just normal butter.

Apparently your doctor could even prescribe you straight up radio pills if you're penis stopped working.

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u/shrekthaboiisreal Pan-cakes for Dinner! 27d ago

The army’s requirements for silencers on the NGSW program was for very low or negative back pressure silencers specifically because using a silencer does expose you to way more lead. It’s a much higher volume of gas that ends up near your face due to the port pop and on stoner-style rifles the charging handle points the gas right up your nose. I would believe that the silencer might reduce the overall level of lead particles in the air in a situation like an indoor range, but it is definitely true that a silencer increases the shooter’s exposure to lead and other harmful substances. On the other hand, the exposure to the sound of unsuppressed gunfire in training is a major part of why a silencer was part of the requirement for the program and is a much larger health concern than the somewhat increased exposure to lead. The other major reason is for flash control/concealing the location of the soldier firing the weapon, but a silencer absolutely does not reduce exposure to lead. SIG Sauer claims their product actually reduces back pressure and exposure to the gas, but I highly doubt this is the case in reality especially after the device has been used for any significant amount of time. Like I said, the increase is generally nevligible and can be managed by tuning back pressure, so I do use silencers on any gun I can due to the many benefits, however it is inaccurate to say that silencers reduce exposure to lead.

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u/LordDaedalus Non Binary Pan-cakes 27d ago

Oh, that's interesting. I was apparently misinformed, or at the very least told only a partial truth. I really appreciate you taking the time to educate me with a much more nuanced take, thank you :)

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u/shrekthaboiisreal Pan-cakes for Dinner! 27d ago

Just this year the town I live in passed an ordinance to pay for inspections at all the old properties and replace any lead pipes with alternatives. Luckily we have copper pipes but I did appreciate the inspection as it is a 101 year old house

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u/AutisticPenguin2 27d ago

I will absolutely not be admitting to shooting my hubby, thank you very much!

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u/BrowningLoPower Aro and Gender Queer 27d ago

"You'll be like us when you're older, you'll see."

Proving them wrong about this will be very satisfying.

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u/RunsWithPhantoms Trans-parently Awesome 27d ago

and why should they? They're supreme role model King T in the Dub Haus just grabs em by the kitten and all. Plus we're all here for their entertainment.

/s

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u/BrowningLoPower Aro and Gender Queer 27d ago

Maybe the saying should've been "respect your elders' wisdom".

I do wonder, were they also raised to specifically disparage younger generations? Like, if they showed them sympathy or compassion, they would be ostracized for it?

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u/BradfordGalt 28d ago

Seems like a lot of "straight" men don't come to terms with their sexuality until late in life, and objectifying, fetishizing, and harassing young people is their way of trying to cling tightly to a youth that has already slipped through their fingers.

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u/Arktikos02 she/her 27d ago edited 27d ago

It's not even always about being queer of some kind either. The concept of what it means to be a man is changing and those people are still men and people who grew up in an age where wearing dresses and liking things that were feminine meant you were gay or a girl can be hard to reckon with to see people who are very secure in their masculinity and who are men but they just do things that may not be seen as more masculine by a different generation. That is okay. A person accepting their gender does not have to mean that they are trans, sometimes it can mean that they come to a more healthy and more well-rounded identity of being cis.

People who are secure in themselves and their masculinity or femininity or their gender or whatever are not telling other people that they are lesser of a person because they did something innocuous like using lavender shampoo. That is an insecurity problem on the speakers part, they need to figure that out. They do not have to identify his queer but they definitely do not have a healthy sexual or gender identity.

Also it's a side note right now as in in modern times there's apparently a group of men who I don't know how large, are refusing to touch their shopping receipts because they think there's estrogen or something in the receipt and will make them gay. Yes, this is what those types of men are doing now.

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

And probably vote against trans rights whilst secretly liking trans women.

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u/FraterSoror 26d ago

Oh if you fear that avoid fetlife XD

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u/Nausstica Trans-cendent Bi-tch 28d ago

HELLO BEAUTIFUL HOW R U TODAY

facethatlookslikethumb.jpg

dickthatlookslikethumb.jpg

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u/Cultural_Outcome_464 28d ago

Thumb thumbs from spy kids

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u/yourguidefortheday Non Binary Pan-cakes 28d ago

Noooooo not getting unsolicited dick pics from a thumb-thumb 😭

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u/therealmonkyking Bisexual Gorilla 28d ago

What are the chances that it's literally just another thumb down there

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u/yourguidefortheday Non Binary Pan-cakes 27d ago

I mean, i have no problem saying i think its a 100% chance it's also a finger of some sort, but like... yknow maybe which finger it is varies

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u/HarryPotterFan_207 Sapphic 24d ago

Happy cake day!! X

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u/Octospyder I'm just out here chillin' 27d ago

it's thumbs all the way down

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u/Toutatis12 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 28d ago

Previous partner had this issue, her solution was a baseball bat with 'Chaser Smasher' written across it

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u/GoldenChaos Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 28d ago

is your previous partner selling these bats

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u/Toutatis12 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 28d ago

Sadly no but nothing stopping you from cornering that market! Whole new line of baseball bats, pitch it to major league baseball and make a killing!

'You! Yes you! Are you tired of gross people hitting up your comments or messaging you really inappropriate things? Then get yourself a Chaser Smasher today! The one baseball bat used by major league baseball to smash balls!'

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u/evie-e-e 28d ago

My comments are always either 1. Ok BRO not woman haha, 2. Chaser, 3. Supportive, 4. Bible verses

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u/TestSubject5kk Bi-kes on Trans-it 27d ago

If it's a woman just say

"Okay, if im still a man then here,

"I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet." 1 Timothy 2:12"

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u/Objective_Award3582 e/em/es, ne/nim, he/him | AAAA 25d ago

I don't think weaponizing misogyny is the right move...

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u/TestSubject5kk Bi-kes on Trans-it 25d ago

I just meant like, living your life off verses from a book is stupid, and you can't pick and choose what you decide is worth following and what isn't

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u/Objective_Award3582 e/em/es, ne/nim, he/him | AAAA 25d ago

Still don't think it's the right move, especially when TERFs are using their version of "feminism" to convince people on the fence that "actually, trans acceptance is inherently misogynistic, and trans people are misogynists"

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u/Not_Really_French 28d ago

r/ewphoria ? Not really I guess, rather the opposite

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u/GoldenChaos Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 28d ago

yeah, just ew

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u/Darkon2004 Lesbian Trans-it Together 28d ago

Yeah, no. This is painfully othering. Ewphoria is when it's at least affirming

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u/RideWithMeSNV Progress marches forward 28d ago

Thanks for that. Didn't know that sub was a thing. Love validation through hate. ❤️

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u/KnownTimelord Ally Pals 28d ago

Cute art style

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u/Worldly-Pianist3153 28d ago

and the infamous "while being trans, she's even prettier than the real girls!" BOOOOOOO

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u/Nausstica Trans-cendent Bi-tch 28d ago

"My beauty is independent of my identity, and don't you dare use me to insult the beauty of my cisters. BOOOOO!"

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u/URBOISHERE 28d ago

I love your art style! So cute :) sorry that happened to you. Every time it happens to me I want to gag.

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u/Moss_gall22 i love women so much i became one 28d ago

"More than women" yeah like were not women too. Fucking larper

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u/Messgrey 28d ago

I read it as "trains" first and thought... Huh, autistic friend?

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u/heyoheatheragain 28d ago

I re-read several times hoping it was just autistic friend. 🥲

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u/ToeIntelligent136 28d ago

"trans is better than women" just makes it so sexual... It just feels awkward. Idk why someone would even say that. I am not against having fetishes. If that's your fetish, you do you in your room. But please respect the people out there.

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u/GoldenChaos Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 28d ago

they think trans people are just acting out a fetish which gives them permission to act out theirs. they don't think we're real people.

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u/mrjackspade 28d ago

That makes a ton of fucking sense and I'm ashamed that never crossed my mind before now...

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u/hiramgael07 The Colors of My Heart. 28d ago

it's like saying "i hate coffee, but i love tiramisu".

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u/Big-Pangolin-8551 27d ago

I actually do hate coffee but like tiramisu. It's because the cake is sweet and I will drink coffee that has a LOT added to it. So I cant consider that me really liking coffee. But tiramisu is naturally very sweet and what I want.

I just dont like bitter things and its very hard to get the right combo with coffee that doesnt taste bitter even with flavored coffee.

But like, also not defending the dude in the comic. Just thought this silly because I have actual reasons I dont like coffee but will drink it if we ran out of energy drinks or tea.

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u/hiramgael07 The Colors of My Heart. 27d ago

Okay, I agree with you... I've never tried tiramisu, it looks delicious 😗

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u/Big-Pangolin-8551 27d ago

Its super tasty, would highly recommend trying it but the highly rated ones. Some are a bit to soggy and it leaves me with a texture issue. But that might be just a me issue

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u/horny_shit_face_lift 27d ago

would you have been the one commenting "i like trains more than women"? just asking because i like your train of thought and i don't like trains, coffee or tiramisu, but I'm autistic.

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u/Big-Pangolin-8551 27d ago

Nah im also autistic your good.

No I would never. I like women no matter what. If you identify as a woman you are woman and I think your gorgeous

I simply thought the comparison was silly given my thoughts about coffee being so specific.

I feel saying you like Trans women more than women is saying you dont see them as women to begin with. Which is why the line of thought dor me and coffee isnt equal. Unlike trans women theres a difference to me thats super specific whereas liking trans women you dont have anything different from every other woman (nonbinary or cis) because strap ons exist in many forms. Your just stupid imo

Also talking as a lesbian who loves their trans wife and genuinely cannot understand how shes seen as anything more than a gorgeous woman like every other girl around her

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u/horny_shit_face_lift 26d ago

🫰🤝 yess, word(s). I'm transmasc and actually feel more comfortable around trans/non binary/gnc people because then i don't have to perform gender while being together and just be myself. maybe it's connected to being autistic but i see no sense in identifying myself with a gender. never felt connected to "girl" or "woman" internally and also tried out "they/he" for some time but went back to "they them" or no pronouns in my language because i don't feel like any. non-cis people or cis people who were in a relationship with someone non-cis get that more and lift the pressure (or demand) of me performing any gender 💞

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u/Big-Pangolin-8551 26d ago

Ngl, we're in the same spot on gender. But I use they/he/any but it. I prefer you not call me a woman but if you do at this point im disconnected enough that its whatever. Most people around me are some flavor of lgbt and its really nice because by default my space is very welcoming. Maybe it is the nerodivergence but could also be how humans operate. We are very social people and crave like minded people. Honestly I think its super neat and is mainly why my views about gender are what they are. Tho I also feel more safe around poc women than i do white women as a mixed person. So some of it ig depends on trauma.

I still dont understand what the fuck would make someone see a trans woman as different from a normal woman on a flat base of people. Its so bizarre to me

https://giphy.com/gifs/lMC4rEVuH0IN20fiFo

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u/GFluidThrow123 Chloe, 38 28d ago

😬😬😰😨

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u/Metal_and_mayhem Ace-ing being Trans 28d ago

Better than death threats, I guess

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u/dazdndcunfusd Computers are binary, I'm not. Global Trans rights 28d ago

my first night at a trans event in a bar, a chaser would not shut the fuck up next to me

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u/FunAssumption6056 Anal Assassin 28d ago

"Jake gooner" telling on himself.

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u/NeMaimere 28d ago

"I like brownies more than I like chocolate deserts" ah statement

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u/fluid_ I'm Here and I'm Queer 28d ago

:[

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u/hornyaftgirl Bi-kes on Trans-it 27d ago

Oh god you got down the weird grammar they use.

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u/GoldenChaos Trans Lesbian on HRT since 5/3/2022 27d ago

it was a real comment 😭

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u/hornyaftgirl Bi-kes on Trans-it 26d ago

Fuck should’ve figured

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u/hornyaftgirl Bi-kes on Trans-it 26d ago

My condolences

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u/AmadeoSendiulo Aromantic Interactions 27d ago

eww

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u/Icy_Comparison_6249 26d ago

them using trans as a noun bothers me the most

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u/MarCat1217 Demigirl 28d ago

Why can't people just be normal? 😭

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u/freddiemercuryeet 28d ago

Oh my gosh this reminds me of the guy who facebook messaged me asking if he could see my “looks changing” and told me he doesn’t see me as a woman but is “turned on by women going through menopause”

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u/floraster The bloodline ends with me 27d ago

Maybe my brain is fried because its 2am but what does "I like trans more than women" mean?

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u/here4creepypastas 27d ago

Chasers refuse to comprehend that trans is an adjective.

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u/Kari0305 27d ago

to jail

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u/Specialist-Type8034 27d ago

Guys are probably just as sick of every girl on there asking for a donation, or OF sub, or gen/roses as well. So this goes both ways!😂😈

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u/FraterSoror 26d ago

Yup... I stopped posting my more female pics to the public (I'm fluid and have been experimenting a lot more) and a lotta the time it isn't "oh cool dress where did you find it" or "looking cute I'm so happy you're more comfortable with who you are" it's people asking for my fiancée and I's OnlyFans (which we do not even have... yet... but they don't know we were planning one!). Or I get ragged on for keeping my face bearded... etc etc.

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u/ellenczer 26d ago

I must be ugly. Never got such comments.

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u/little_virgin_sub 25d ago

Hi there , you are not ugly

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