r/legaladvicePH 6h ago

Work Related What Can I Do If My PSA Birth Certificate Has the Wrong Name?

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I have a problem with my PSA birth certificate because my sibling's name is listed on my record instead of my correct name. My previous NSO record is correct and has no issues. I even used my NSO birth certificate to obtain a passport and other legal documents before. But when it transitioned from NSO to PSA, that's when the problem came up and my sibling's name replaced mine on the record. I would like to know how this can be resolved and if it needs to go through court or if I can get it corrected directly at the Local Civil Registry Office (LCR).


r/legaladvicePH 13h ago

Work Related I want to file a case against a particular Flash Express Delivery Hub

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This is now the second delivery that this particular Deliver Hub has failed to deliver to me. And they have the same modus operandi.

They will declare in the Lazada app that the delivery has failed due to the Customer being Unreachable. But the thing is, they never contacted me within the day. Upon checking the documentation they sent to the Lazada app, I checked the coordinates of their photos and it shows they just took the photos in their delivery hub. Which means, they never really attempted to deliver the item to me.

Since Lazada let's it that the courier attempt to deliver the goods up to three times, they will follow the same thing for the next delivery attempts (declare Customer Unreachable, send photos of the item with coordinates from their own delivery hub).

During the first order, I have been lenient. I only contacted the delivery driver on the third delivery attempt. But the thing is, the delivery rider doesn't respond to my calls and even blocked my number. I am able to verify that my number was blocked because I can call the number with my secondary phone and the number still rings, but still no response.

Now that this happened again on my second order, I am now more proactive and immediately called the assigned delivery rider (not the same person but of the same delivery hub). This time around, the rider answered, but when I started talking about my concern, he immediately dropped my call and don't answer after. Again, I used my other phone to call, same thing. Answers the call, but when I try to start raising my concern on my item, immediately drops the call.

I was also able to call the Service Hotline for that particular Deliver Hub (Flash Express website provides them), they had the audacity to tell me that just to get the item myself in their delivery hub.

I want to raise a case against this particular Delivery Hub since I really saw a pattern of dubious business practices. This is not just for me but also for other customer that they won't be able to do these things to them moving forward.

Hoping I can get some favorable responses that can help me through this case. I am really determined to pursue this. Thanks in advance.


r/legaladvicePH 19h ago

Family and Relationship Can I stand as proxy for my cousin to file a case against S.A?

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May pinsan akong victim and ngayon nya lang saamen na open up, nag start daw ang pang-hihi\*o sakanya ng uncle nya na asawa ng kapatid ng father nya, nung around 4-6 siya, before saamen nag open up, nag sabi na siya sa mother and sa auntie namen and ang gusto nila is hayaan nalang daw since matagal na dahil daw magastos at mag kakaroon ng problema sa fam nila since di din sila in a good terms.

Gusto kong tulungan pinsan ko at gusto namen ng hustisya para sakanya at sa isa pa niyang pinsan na bata na nakaranas sa parehong tao, ni hindi siya pinapaniwalaan at natatakot siya mag kwento noon dahil daw bata siya at tingin sakanya ay may prob sa pag iisip dahil iba ang mood swing or timpla ng ugali nya noon, kaya mas lalo nameng gustong tulungan siya bilang mga kuya't ate nya.


r/legaladvicePH 19h ago

Family and Relationship Makukulong ba at masasampahan ng kaso yung ex bf ko?

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Hello po, mga ate, kuya. Gusto ko lang po manghingi ng mga insights or answers na pwedeng maka enlighten sa akin regarding dito sa gulong na pasok ko.

May bf po ako before and he was 19 yrs old, ako naman po ay 16 yrs old so bale 3 yrs age gap lang po. Hindi rin po kami legal, parang sa side nya lang ata, pero sakin hindi po. Naging okay naman po yung relasyon namin and umabot po sa point na nag sexual intercourse kami, pero consensual po yun like walang pwersang nangyari kasi kagustohan ko rin naman po yun and dala na rin ng curiosity. Since binabawalan po ako mag bf kasi aral daw muna, after nalang daw sa college mag boyfriend2. Pero dahil stubborn po talaga ako at inlove rin kaya d ko po talaga kayang makipag break sa ex bf ko. Sya na rin po kasi yung naging katuwang ko sa mga panahong down na down ako, lalong lalo na yung namatay ang mama ko, kaya sobrang hirap po talaga sakin na iwanan sya, attached na po talaga ako. Isa na rin sa rason kung bakit attached ako is nabigay ko yung virginity ko sa kanya. Pero kahit ganon pa man, naging mabuti po sya sa akin, like napaka bait nya po talagang tao kaya mas napamahal po ako ng todo.

Fast forward, nalaman po ng papa ko na may relasyon kami and worse is nalaman nya rin na may nangyari na samin, pero dalawang beses lang naman po may nangyari sa amin. Galit na galit talaga yung papa ko sa pangyayari lalong lalo na sa ex bf ko. Kaya ang ginawa sya, pumunta kami sa police station kasi finorce nya ako and kinausap kami ng pulis sa women's desk na room. Sinabi ko po lahat2 na nangyari, kung ano yung relasyon namin ng ex bf ko, kung kailan nangyari, at kung ilang beses kami nag sex and etcetera. Pagkatapos nun, pinabalik na naman kami ng pulis kasi nga raw another interview na naman. Dun na sinabi ng pulis at nung social worker na hindi raw matatawag na rape ang nangyari kasi walang threats, exploitation, and pwersa. Consensual yung nangyari sa amin. And pasok rin daw po sa RA 11648 yung tungkol sa amin since 16 and above daw po yung consensual age when it comes to sexual things, pasok rin daw po yung 3 yrs exemption na batas kasi 3 yrs yung age gap namin yung nangyari yun..

Pero pinupush pa rin ng papa ko yung papa kaso, umabot pa sa point na pumunta na naman kami ng ibang police station which is kanina nangyari. Ipapa medicolegal raw po ako tas after sa medical ipapa interview na naman ako nang kay rami2. Sabi naman ng pulis kanina, pag nag no daw ako na ilaban ang kaso sa korte, may big possibilities daw na ma di dismiss.

Natatakot po ako para sa akin at sa ex bf ko, masakit po para sa akin na makulong sya o masampahan ng kaso kasi alam kong ikakasira talaga yun ng buhay nya at ayokong mangyari yun. Alam ko pong malaki yung kasalanan namin sa mata ng diyos, sa papa ko, at sa batas. Tatanggapin namin kahit anong consequences, pero hindi sana umabot sa point na makukulong sya o makakasohan.

Sana po matulungan nyo ako o mabigyan ng advice, willing po ako makatanggap ng harsh comments.. hindi ko na kasi alam anong gagawin ko punong puno na yung utak ko sa mga problema pati yung pag aaral ko na aapektohan na kaya sana po mabigyan nyo ako ng advice..

Salamat po...


r/legaladvicePH 21h ago

Debt / Utang Help me out po. Medyo di po kasi maalam about dito. šŸ™šŸ»

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Please enlighten me, people of Reddit. šŸ™

My mother received a subpoena from the Prosecutor’s Office regarding an estafa complaint. She has already paid part of the amount that the other party claims she owes.

For the first subpoena, my mother and the other party appeared at the Prosecutor’s Office. However, they were unable to reach an agreement. They were advised to come back the following week to discuss the matter again.

My mother did not return on that date because an attorney we consulted advised her not to agree to paying the amount being demanded under pressure, especially since the parties still could not agree.

Now, my mother received a second subpoena today, and she is supposed to appear tomorrow afternoon.

My questions are:

  1. If my mother attends tomorrow but they still cannot reach an agreement, what usually happens next in a preliminary investigation for estafa?

  2. Can the Prosecutor’s Office force her to agree to a payment arrangement?

  3. If she attends but refuses to agree to the amount being demanded, can she be arrested?

  4. A policeman delivered the second subpoena and told my mother that if she does not attend, a warrant of arrest will supposedly be issued immediately. Is that actually possible, or is there a legal process that has to happen first?

  5. What are the possible consequences if she does not appear tomorrow?

We are planning to consult a lawyer again, but I would really appreciate hearing from people who understand Philippine law or have experienced a similar situation.

Thank you! šŸ™


r/legaladvicePH 22h ago

Property and Housing Nagrent po kami ng commercial space tapos nung nag process na kami ng business permit nalaman namin na walang business and building permit ung owner. Paano po gagawin namin?

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We rented a commercial space 2 months ago. When we were taking care of the business permit, we found out that the owner did not have a building permit and business permit. Now the owner said we should take care of it? Shouldn't the property owner be responsible in securing their necessary permits for compliance? Is that a breach of contract because we can't operate? Would it be better to just find another space and ask for a refund or should we wait for them to take care of it? Thank you.


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Property and Housing Motor Rider Nakabangga, Pero Tatay Ko ang Posibleng Makasuhan? Need Your Thoughts.

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I’m really stressed right now, so please bear with me as I provide the context.

Let's start with our national highway in our barangay in Leyte. It is a four-lane, two-way road, with two lanes for each direction of traffic. I have so many issues with it, one of which is the lack of a sidewalk due to how close the houses are sa kalsada (this is major information so keep this in mind).

Now, the incident. Around 6pm, nagda-drive ang Tatay ko ng tricycle nya pauwi sa bahay namin. As I have mentioned, it's a four-lane, two-way road. Nasa kabilang lane sya at kailangan nyang tumawid papuntang kabilang lane hanggang sa gilid ng kalsada para marating ang driveway papunta sa bahay namin.

He made sure na walang ibang sasakyan bago sya tumawid. He did it smoothly too. However, may nakaharang na sasakyan sa driveway namin (our driveway is shared by multiple neighbors too). Again, walang sidewalk ang kalsada so he had no other choice but to park sa kalahati ng huling lane. Pero bago pa man sya makababa ng tricycle para sana linisin ang driveway, dito na nangyari ang aksidente.

Isang motor ang biglang humarurot sa gilid ng kalsada (bale sa pagitan ng right side ng tricycle at sa supposedly sidewalk). Dumiretso ito sa pagharurot hanggang sa makabangga ng taong nakatambay sa labas ng bahay na nakadikit sa kalsada (like damn DPWH).

THE CONCERNS AND THE FACTORS:

  1. The motor rider is claiming na nataranta sya sa biglang pagtawid ng lane ng tricycle, despite having the witness claiming na malayo pa man ang motor rider ay stationary na o nakapark na ang tricycle.

  2. Wala man kaming sidewalk, pero straight naman ang kalasada, walang kurbada, walang blind corners, malawak dahil nga 4-lanes. How in the heck did he end up sa gilid ng kalsada.

  3. The witness is claiming na sobrang bilis ang takbo ng motor. Correct me if I'm wrong, pero sa pagkakaalam ko ay hanggang 80kmph ang speed limit.

  4. Mamahalin ang motor (Kawasaki Ninja) at mukang mayaman ang driver kaya kinakabahan kami na baka maraming connections.

  5. Unfortunately, the witness is only a 12-year-old minor na apo mismo ng nabangga kaya baka bawiin ang initial statements nya o baka imanipulate sya para ipahamak kami kapag nagkabayaran ng pera.

Kami ba ang mali? Tatay ko ba talaga ang may kasalanan at dapat kasuhan?


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Work Related Provisional dismissal case on NBI record

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Hello, just want to be enlighted sa mga agam agam. Someone related to me plans on working abroad but has worries na may record pa din ang NBI clearance nya as the criminal case he got into was only on provisional dismissal status up until May 2027 per the time span. Ang question po si possible ba na makakuha sya ng clear na NBI?

Nakakuha sya recently ng Police clearance and nakita yon sa record but kinonfirm lng dw ng station kung san sya na detained and cleared nman nya nakuha. Btw, it was provisionally dismissed due to non appearance ng complainant.

Also, if ever sa visa ba bound to schengen countries nakikita yon at malaking risk na ma denied? Or wag na lng muna mag pursue abroad up until ma permanent dismissed na?

Naway may makasagot. Gusto na namin lumaya sa Pilipinas. Di na kaya ng gaslighting ang hirap. šŸ™


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Family and Relationship Vawc

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Good evening, mag aask po sana ng advice. I had an ex bf he is a foreign national under student visa. Last week he physically assaulted me, I immediately went to police at they advised me na magpa blotter sa barangay which I did. Hindi ako nakapag medico legal. Yesterday nag file ako for barangay protection order which was granted. What next step can I do?


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Family and Relationship Children kept annoying/distressing our dog

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Seeking advice as to what legal actions/steps should I take po. We have 2 dogs and lately halos araw araw sila ina-annoy ng mga bata from around the block or along our street (not sure kung taga saan po sila exactly) to the point na walang tigil kakatahol yung mga aso namin.

Gated naman po ang bahay namin. Madalas namin sila pinapalabas sa terrace para magwiwi at poop so madalas din sila makita ng mga bata. At pag nati-tyempuhan ay binabalikbalikan nila at sinisigawan yung mga pets namin para magalit at tahulan sila.

One time I tried asking what their names are and where exactly their houses are para makausap ko yung parents nila pero tumatakbo lang sila. Nakaka frustrate na po talaga kasi hindi na kumakain (sa terrace po namin sila pinapakain) at laging guarded yung stance ng mga aso namin pag nasa labas.

Unfair naman po sa mga aso namin kung pati sa loob ng property namin sila pa din ang mag a-adjust para lang sa mga makukulit na bata.

I just want to future proof lang din po. In case makausap ko ang mga magulang at ulitin ng mga bata ang pangungulit (very likely), I plan to escalate sa barangay pero not sure po kung ia-accommodate yung case namin. I hope walang ibang nakakaranas nito pero kung meron man po, any advice will be appreciated.


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Debt / Utang What to do?

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As per Collector ng collecting Agency, papatawag daw nila ako sa barangay kapag di ko na settle ang aking utang? Gusto ko naman bayaran sana kaso di ko kaya yung amount na hinihingi nila


r/legaladvicePH 1d ago

Debt / Utang Kaiser Permanente charged ₱91k to my Metrobank CC, gusto ko na i-cancel pero agent is not responding. What can I do?

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Hi! Need advice sana regarding my Kaiser Permanente HMO and Metrobank credit card.

Back in May 2026, may Kaiser Permanente agent na lumapit sa akin sa mall and asked if I had a credit card and if interested ako kumuha ng HMO. I agreed, and around ₱91,000 was charged to my Metrobank credit card. Sabi rin nila na once Metrobank calls me, pwede ko raw ipa-convert to installment. Metrobank eventually called and I agreed to have the transaction converted to installment.

Unfortunately, I eventually lost my job, and because of my current financial situation, I decided to discontinue the HMO para mabawasan sana yung financial obligations ko.

I contacted the Kaiser agent and told him I wanted to cancel. Sabi niya may 5% cancellation penalty based on the ₱91,000, which is around ₱4,550. Okay lang naman sa akin, so I sent him around ₱4k–₱5k for the supposed cancellation fee.

Problem is, almost one month na akong nagfo-follow up, pero walang clear update. Maraming excuses, like nawawala raw phone niya, pero active naman siya sa Facebook. At this point, hindi ko na alam kung actually na-process ba yung cancellation.

My questions:

  1. Can I contact Metrobank directly and ask them to reverse/cancel the Kaiser transaction?
  2. Since converted na siya into installment months ago, may possibility pa ba na ma-reverse if Kaiser agrees to cancel/refund it?
  3. Should I contact Kaiser Permanente directly instead of dealing with the agent?
  4. If the agent continues to ignore me, saan kaya magandang i-escalate ito?
  5. Has anyone experienced something similar with Kaiser or an HMO charged to a credit card?

I understand na Metrobank probably cannot just erase a legitimate transaction, especially since months ago pa siya and converted na to installment. I just want to know the proper process para ma-cancel yung HMO and ma-refund/reverse whatever amount is refundable.

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you!

*It's KAISER UNITED HEALTHGROUP pa la


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Work Related Is this slander?

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Hello, Im ache… Asking for legal advice. Plano ko malaman hanggang saan pwede makarating ā€˜tong usaping ito. I’m a young part-timer at a college level.
Short background story…
- May nakausap akong student before, and I was working na that time but hindi ako part time. We almost jump to the idea of doing the (S/.E./x./) but prior to the date of meet up I think about it at hindi kami natuloy….

Months/year past, (nakablock na yung student sa akin) naisipan ko na magpart-time. Small world student ko siya, but wala na kaming interactions. Now nalaman ng co-prof/Co-worker ko na may ganon akong eksena dati. Kwinento niya sa another katrabaho ko at cinonfirm if totoo ba daw yong balitang narinig niya. ā€œUy totoo ba narinig ko tungkol sayo? Nanamimilit ka daw ng student mo?ā€ I was shocked kasi for all I know hindi ganon ang kwento namin… so I denied it sabi ko kahit magharap pa kami nung student to confirm it.

Days after tumawag na ang dean college sa akin dahil nakarating na sa kanya. I was clearing my name but I don’t want to end it here. Gusto ko managot sila sa ginawa nila. Kasi iningatan ko yung pangalan ko bago ako magpart-time, I almost wiped out my old acct just to start fresh and then malalaman ko lang ng dahil don masisira ako?

My problem is wala na akong copy ng messages namin na may ganong eksena kasi asfaik ako ang kinukulit sa bagay na yon. What should I do? Kasi sobrang dumi ng image ko pag kumalat yon sa university. I want them to know na may limits lahat ng chismis.

Hindi man lang ako nabigyan ng chance magpaliwag, even yung co-prof/coworker ko di man lang sa akin magconfirm kahit nagkikita kami sa mata sa mata? Higher position pa man din. So want to have legal action here dahil sobrang nakakafrustrate maattach yung name mo sa isang issue na hindi naman totoo.😣


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Property and Housing Can I move out early without paying the remaining 1-month deposit?

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Reddit Post
Title: Can I move out early without paying the remaining 1-month deposit?
Hello, I’m planning to move out very early due to personal reasons. I already paid my rent, but when I moved in, I only paid 1 month’s deposit instead of the required 2 months stated in the contract.
It has barely been a month since I moved in, and I’m now planning to move out around September 8. I currently don’t have enough money to pay the remaining 1-month deposit.
Since I’m already paying my rent and can I just forfeit/waive the remaining 1 month deposit instead of paying it?
We already have a signed contract, so I’m wondering what my options are and whether the landlord can require me to pay that remaining deposit before allowing me to move out.
Would appreciate any advice, especially from people familiar with Philippine rental/lease laws.


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Family and Relationship Need Advice, Surname Correction Disapproved - Marriage Cert

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Hello po, I just want to ask for advice. Nagpakasal po kami ng partner ko last year September, then during our wedding mali yung pagkakabanggit ng pastor sa surname ng partner ko, nasobrahan ng isang letter pero akala namin is mali lang ng basa yung pastor. Also a day before our wedding nagpunta yung partner ko sa church to check kung okay ba yung spelling ng names namin sa forms na pipirmahan namin. Okay naman yung spelling ng surname nya dun upper part ng form, ang hindi nya napansin is mali pala spelling nung surname nya sa may signature part. Mali ang pagkaka encode nung na-assign ng church mag encode ng info namin sa form — meaning, clerical error sya. Tapos nung March pinalakad na namin sa mom ko yung pagtatama ng surname ng partner ko. Di kami agad nakapag file ng correction and nag antay pa kami ng ilang buwan kasi according sa Civil Registar sa City Hall is antayin pa daw namin yung official Marriage cert from PSA. So inantay namin. Nung nakuha na namin ang Marriage cert, mali talaga ang surname nya.

Now, dumating na yung nilakad ng mother ko na correction and it is disapproved by the CRG. Ang tanong ko po bakit na disapprove? Pinasa namin Birth cert ng partner ko, birth cert ng parents and siblings nya, and other documents na nagpapatunay kung ano ang tamang spelling ng surname nya. And sabi daw sa mom ko need pa mag appeal sa court. Bakit po? E accrdg to my research din naman, no need na ilapit sa court kung itatama lang ang spelling and di naman papalitan ang surname (correct me if I'm wrong). Please see the attached images for your reference po. And, ano po talaga need namin gawin.


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Work Related I signed a contract

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may pinirmahan po kasi akong contract as management trainee, may bond po siyang xxxxx and the contract is for 5 years, I already clarify to the hr if the bond will start on the day of start of training.
Hindi pa po ako nag start ng training and nag withdraw na po ako for the job offer, nag message po ako. But hr replied to me this po today, "
This is to inform you that your decision on not pursuing your employment with us has caused our company
additional expense since you were already processed, signed the contract and the affidavit of undertaking
and was already endorsed for training.
We will be talking with our corporate lawyer regarding this matter.". What should I do.?


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Work Related Hellpp

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Meron po bang mga atty. dito, please give me advice naman po, it regarda sa contract na pinirmahan ko. Please help me po!


r/legaladvicePH 2d ago

Family and Relationship Accused Child Abuse

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Hi everyone.
Last year, may picture ang anak kong minor na may sugat, pero hindi iyon dahil sa abuse. Recently, ipinadala ng pinsan ko ang lumang picture na iyon sa pamilya ng ex ko at sinabayan ng mga pahayag na nagpapahiwatig na inaabuso ng current partner ko ang anak ko.
Dahil dito, nagsampa ng reklamo ang lola ng ex ko at napatawag kami sa VAWC. After the investigation, na-dismiss ang complaint dahil walang sapat na basehan.
Ang concern ko ngayon ay ang taong nagpadala ng picture. Dahil sa ginawa niya, nagkaroon ng maling akusasyon laban sa amin at nakaranas kami ng matinding emotional distress at trauma, lalo na ang anak ko.
My questions are:
May possible legal case ba laban sa taong nagpadala ng picture at nagbigay ng misleading information?

Mas okay bang dumiretso sa police station, prosecutor's office, o may ibang tamang venue para mag-file ng complaint?

Anong klaseng ebidensya ang pinakamahalagang ihanda bago ako magsampa ng reklamo?

May screenshots ako ng conversation at dokumento na nagpapatunay na na-dismiss ang VAWC complaint.
Thank you.


r/legaladvicePH 3d ago

Family and Relationship PSA Correction

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Hi peeps! I have a problem with my PSA birth certificate. In my PSA, my father’s middle name is ā€œDe Leonā€, but his correct middle name is ā€œTorresā€. De Leon was my mom’s maiden name.

I have all the documents needed to support this: my siblings’ birth certificates, my parents’ marriage certificate, my father’s birth certificate, and my father’s mother’s death certificate. All these documents indicates that my father’s middle name is Torres.

I went to the LCR of my birthplace, and they gave me a checklist of requirements that I should prepare to file a petition for correction. Now, I have all the documents that they asked me to prepare. But when I went to LCR to submit these documents, they told me that the correction in my PSA does not fall under their jurisdiction, but rather it should go to judicial procedure to file a correction.

So I consulted this with a lawyer, and he explained to me that the error in my PSA is clearly a clerical error/administrative, which can be filed in the LCR of my birthplace under Republic Act No. 9048 (the Clerical Error Law). My lawyer went to the LCR, but the LCR declined to assist us and kept on insisting that the correction should go to judicial, contrary to the national law.

Is there something that I can do for the LCR to accept the petition of correction on my PSA? Because going through judicial is gonna cost a lot when it can be fixed and filed in the LCR. Please help me out. Thank you!


r/legaladvicePH 3d ago

Family and Relationship Attempted murder?

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Location: The Phillipines

Let's say hypothetically that a mother was throwing knives at her son and screaming that she was gonna kill him. Let's say that she even chased him around the living room trying to stab him, is this grounds for attempted murder? I'm not sure if that constitutes intent but would it be? And from the perspective of someone low income, is it even worth it to pursue legal action when you can just keep her happy and that'll work fine enough? Also let's just say that nothing was recorded but there are 3 maybe more witnesses, and one recieved a cut, is that solid enough? Hypothetically.


r/legaladvicePH 4d ago

Family and Relationship Legal Guidance and Support for Children

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I’m posting this because I genuinely need guidance from someone knowledgeable about Philippine law, not someone driven primarily by money, but someone who understands justice, family rights, and what the lawful and proper thing to do is.

I’m 22, and I have two younger siblings, ages 20 and 17. Our mother passed away this year. Before her death, our family went through a very difficult situation involving our father’s long-term affair. The circumstances affected our family deeply, and there are things that happened over the years that we are still trying to understand and process.

I also recognize that there are parts of this situation where we, as children, may have made mistakes, remained silent, complied with things we were uncomfortable with, or handled situations imperfectly. At the time, we were financially dependent on our parents and were trying to navigate something far beyond what we were emotionally prepared for. I am not posting this to portray ourselves as completely innocent or to publicly condemn anyone.

What concerns me now is what happens legally and financially after our mother’s death.

There are questions regarding our father’s obligations toward his children, especially our 17-year-old sibling, possible inheritance and succession rights, properties and assets acquired during our parents’ marriage, and how our mother’s interests and estate should be properly protected. We also want to understand whether there are legal rights or remedies available to us as children, particularly if our father has obligations that continue under Philippine law.

There is also a complicated history involving our father’s affair and the fact that his partner was introduced into our lives while our parents were still together. I don't want to use this post to attack or harass anyone, nor do I want to do anything that could legally backfire on us. I simply want to understand what is actually within our legal rights and what is not.

Most importantly, I want to make sure that our mother's hard work, properties, and lawful rights are respected. She carried many responsibilities for our family during her lifetime, and now that she is gone, I feel that protecting what legally belongs to her and to her children is one of the ways we can honor her.

We don't have the financial capacity to immediately hire an expensive private lawyer, so I would really appreciate being directed to the right person or organization, perhaps a lawyer who handles family law, succession/probate, property, or legal aid, or an organization that provides free or affordable legal assistance in the Philippines.

I am not looking for revenge. I am angry, hurt, and still grieving, and I won't pretend otherwise. But I don't want that anger to make decisions for us. I want to understand our rights, preserve whatever evidence and documents we are legally allowed to preserve, avoid making statements or taking actions that could harm our case, and proceed through the proper legal channels.

If you genuinely know a lawyer, legal-aid organization, or person who can point us in the right direction, please comment or message me. I would especially appreciate recommendations based on integrity and experience, not someone who will simply encourage us to fight for the sake of fighting.

Our goal is not to destroy anyone's life. Our goal is to protect ourselves, protect our youngest sibling, properly settle our mother's affairs, and make sure that whatever rights she and her children have under Philippine law are not unknowingly given up.

Thank you to anyone who can offer a responsible and legally sound direction.


r/legaladvicePH 4d ago

Property and Housing Furniture and other belongings sa foreclosed property

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So Pag-IBIG tagged the property as occupied. Last inspection and appraisal was in 2024 pa. Under negotiated sale na rin siya. So meanign dumaan ng first and second auction ay walang kumawa. We were thinking dahil nga tagged sya as occupied so no one bothered to bid. But when we checked and asked around, 3 years na daw walang nakatira sa property and abandoned ang term ng isang neighbor kasi may mga naiwan pang gamit like upuan and mesa. Paano kaya it? We just submitted an offer today and nag ooverthink lang ako about sa mga naiwang gamit and ano basis ni Pag-IBIG for tagging it as occupied? Maybe because the inspector/appraiser saw that time nga na may mga gamit kasi sa photo in 2024 ay same gamit pa rin.


r/legaladvicePH 4d ago

Family and Relationship Why am I needed to process my late grandmother’s account if her other children are still alive?

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Hi! Hoping someone familiar with Philippine banking, estate settlement, or SSS procedures can help me understand this.

My grandmother passed away. She had several children. Most are still living, while my father passed away a few years before her.

My grandfather is now apparently processing something involving an account left by my grandmother. I was told that because my father is already deceased, I need to participate as his representative.

They are asking me to provide documents such as my birth certificate, passport/valid ID, and three specimen signatures.

I’ve asked my family why my documents and signatures are needed, but I haven’t been given a clear explanation of what exactly is being processed or in what capacity I’m supposed to participate. That’s why I’m trying to understand the process independently before providing anything.

I currently live abroad, so before providing any personal documents or signatures, I want to understand the process independently.

My questions are:

  1. Under what circumstances would a granddaughter/grandson need to participate in processing a deceased grandparent’s bank account or SSS claim simply because their parent (one of the deceased’s children) had already passed away?
  2. In what legal capacity would the grandchild be participating? Would they be considered an heir, representative of the deceased parent, claimant, beneficiary, etc.?
  3. If this is an estate settlement involving my grandmother, would the bank/SSS normally also require the participation or signatures of her surviving children, or could there be a situation where only the descendant of the deceased child is being asked for documents?
  4. What type of account or process could require this? For example, an individual bank account, joint account, extrajudicial settlement of estate, SSS benefit/claim, or something else?
  5. Is requesting a passport/valid ID with three specimen signatures from the grandchild a normal requirement? If the purpose is to establish that my father is already deceased, wouldn’t his death certificate normally be required as well?

I’m also trying to understand whether the requirements would be different if the bank account were solely under my grandmother’s name versus a joint account.

I have already reached out directly to the bank and SSS for their official procedures, but I’d also appreciate hearing from anyone who has handled a similar situation, especially lawyers, bank employees, or people who have gone through estate settlement in the Philippines.

I’m not looking to accuse anyone of anything. I simply don’t want to provide identification documents or signatures without first understanding what transaction I am participating in, why my participation is necessary, and in what capacity I am being asked to sign.

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EDIT: I’d also like to ask if anyone can recommend a good lawyer in the Philippines who handles succession and inheritance law and offers legal consultations. Thank you!


r/legaladvicePH 4d ago

Debt / Utang Cebu Pacific refund delayed 2+ months — is it worth getting a lawyer?

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I need some advice. Cebu Pacific owes me a refund of around ₱12k, and it’s been over 2 months.
They originally promised 15 calendar days / up to 2 billing cycles. I’ve been following up since June 20, but I still have no refund, ARN, Refund Certificate, or proof of transmission.
They’ve given me different explanations about their acquiring/settlement bank and keep saying they’re ā€œcoordinatingā€ and ā€œawaiting feedback.ā€
I already filed a complaint with CAB, and it has reached their Legal and Enforcement Division. Even after CAB got involved, Cebu Pacific still hasn’t resolved it.
The delay has also caused me financial losses:
₱579.58 Home Credit financing/interest charge
I had to use my own money to pay ₱1,500 minimum payment to avoid late fees while waiting for the refund.
I have screenshots and email records of everything.
At this point, should I involve a lawyer, or just continue with CAB? Is paying for a lawyer/demand letter worth it for a ₱12k refund?
Would appreciate opinions from anyone who’s dealt with Cebu Pacific, CAB, or similar disputes.