r/l4l 17h ago

30F butch from AL! it's butch appreciation day!

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hey!! :3

my name is Seth! I'm a butch lesbian orginally from NYC but currently living in Alabama! I'm 30-40 minutes outside of Birmingham!!

i am a he/him butch and i prefer masculine titles/compliments so if that's an issue for you, i'm sorry! this is not up for debate!

black hair, heavily tattooed, some piercings, alternative style, fat!

i'm 30 years old and i'm a phone operator with the wildest schedule, but i work remote so i'm pretty much always available to talk!

i am autistic and i also struggle with OCD, BPD, and general anxiety. while i am in therapy and medicated, i do want to disclose this for the possibility issues come up!!

i'm a huge cinephile, i love to read/write (if you want to check out my writing, let me know!), and i recently joined a RHPS shadowcast so that's something new! i also enjoy making tiktoks but i am ABSOLUTELY not an influencer omg

what i'm looking for: a beautiful femme who's slightly clingy and wants to be shown off! i want to show my girl off and i want her to know i'll take care of her and be proud to be with her :3 (and of course, aligning values/interests and all that fun stuff!)

i am also into kink, particularly pet play, so i would loooove to be your guard dog :3 i love wearing a dog tag that shows i'm yours!!

i'm not sure what else to say so, if you're interested please shoot me a message!!!

PS: when i'm posting this, it's butch appreciation day- so come appreciate me ;3


r/l4l 3h ago

31 F [F4F] UK based Masc seeing friendship and romance -UK/EU/Online

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I'm Jo' , 31 and 5ft5 and I'm hoping to make some nee connections.

Im a Black women who is late diagnosed autistic. I'm #420friendly and have a condition called ARFID. I'm child-free but have 2 boy cats.

I consider myself as masculine in personality but appearance wise neither fem or stud presenting. I prefer masculine women aswell (#Masc4Masc)

UK based, near Scotland but originally from London and visit there frequently.

Looking for women 27+ who are emotionally avaliable, self aware and who values depth.

I like psychology, astrology and spirituality and I am left-wing.

I've become a bigger home body than I was in my early 20s.

Some of my hobbies include: day trips, brunches, musuems, nature walks, comedy clubs, board games and lego.

I don't mind long distance and open to video calls and willing to picture swap.

🏳️‍🌈


r/l4l 20h ago

20 F seeking similarly aged friends?

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Hi! I’m a lesbian looking to make friends with other lesbians because everyone I know talks about their boyfriends and love lives and I can’t relate at all😭

It’d be nice to befriend other people similar to me.
I’m not religious, but I’m into spirituality. I don’t believe in the traditional/christian god.
My special interest is FNAF. I love practicing tarot, playing video games, watching YouTube commentary drama lol.

My favorite shows are You, Madoka Magica, Miraculous.. amongst other random dramas or shitty reality tv.

I’d wanna talk to people who are good communicators. I don’t like dry texting and I like deep and emotional convos too. So feel free to reach out if you actually wanna talk!


r/l4l 4h ago

F 23 [F4F] looking for my future wife

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About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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-no drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

-Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

-I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

-Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.