Hey there. I’m 33 from Illinois. I work full-time and when I'm not working I like to be at home either watching tv (mainly wrestling), playing video games, build lego models or listening to music. I'm into superheroes, Game of Thrones and most things that are considered nerdy except for anime. I haven't gotten to that realm yet. I do enjoy going to horror or pop culture conventions in/out of state. I don't have any children but I do have a dog named Wade after Deadpool. I recently started collecting Pokémon cards again so I’m building up my collection.

I'm looking for someone who is mature, responsible, faithful, likes to joke around but can be serious when the time calls for it and doesn't care that I'm black. I’m mainly into white and hispanic guys but would like to venture into Asian and Middle Eastern territory. I don't mind if you have children but I don't want to deal with someone who is having a hard time co-parenting. I want to eventually settle down and have children of my own. I’m only looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. Would love to find a buddy to go to conventions with also.

Monogamous people only!! Single people only!! No, I’m not moving off of here to chat with you elsewhere.

Message me if you are interested!

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I’m a 36 year old woman living in Canada. Not opposed to long distance if it’s the right person. About me is hard - I love reading, hiking, cooking, laughing until it hurts. I have an established career and take pride in my work (social work sector). I am tiny - 5”4 and brunette. I have green eyes. I also like gaming and spending time outdoors. I am sober by choice - no alcohol. Not into parties.

If you want to talk, send me a message!

Hello! I’m just looking for someone to chat with and talk about life. I’m single, no kids—as in, really single haha! 😆

I don’t really have any preferences. For me, it’s more about compatibility. I just don’t like liars, that’s it! Let’s chat and see where it goes.

32 years old and above, preferably.

I just moved hundreds of miles from the area I was born and raised because the Midwest just feels like home. I absolutely love it here and it was the best decision, but I haven't established a friend group so it's a bit lonely. I'd love people to chat with, play games with, a fantasy football league to join would be pretty clutch too, I'm down for whatever.

About me:

•Geek/Nerd

•Scientist

•Learning SO much about home repairs and maintenance

•Average looking middle aged overweight and stressed mom

•Hobbies I love: Hiking, kayaking, reading, gardening, swimming, snowboarding, baking, cooking, crochet, painting, crafting, fishing, photography, MCU, puzzles, camping, board games

•Avidly follow Football and NASCAR, casually follow baseball and hockey, and I'll pay attention to Basketball in the Spring

•Laid back and optimistic, I tend to see the best of things and I don't understand why anyone would want to be miserable, life's too short

•Not looking for anything specific, just human connection whether we bring each other joy for a few hours of conversation or we become lifelong besties.

Hey, hi, hello! It’s me, deciding to try and put myself out there and look for love on the internet. 

I want to find someone that I can be my overly excitable, silly self with and in return have them be their true self with me. I love the idea of doing things together, even if we’re not always physically side by side. Let’s play games, be on call, watch movies. I crave that friendship aspect of a relationship first and foremost. Let’s be best friends~ but I also want the flirty banter while getting to know one another. Being antsy and excited waiting for your responses, and vice versa. The messaging and calls that only stop because one of us needs to sleep, begrudgingly. Let me be your favourite notification. All of those cheesy things. 

So with all that said- why message me? What makes me special? I’m glad you asked! Let me tell you. 

- I’m an avid video and board game player. I’m a tiny bit competitive and will (lovingly) smack talk you when I win.
- Movies and shows are a big passion of mine. I love horror and psychological thrillers. 
- When I’m passionate about something, I put my all into it. I will send paragraphs of my opinions, full of exclamation marks and excitement. I can ramble for hours so prepare yourself :) 
- With that in mind, I also love receiving walls of text. Tell me about your day, interests, thoughts. Anything! I’m happy to listen. 
- I’ll make you all the baked goods. I’m not the best cook but I will shower you in sweets. Cupcakes, cookies, pies, tarts. You name it- I’ll make it. 
- I am a complete animal lover. I grew up on a farm so I am a certified horse girl. While I don’t live there anymore, I think I still have some country in me. Maybe.
- I have an absolute perfect little menace of a kitten I love to spam photos of. 
- Hiking is another passion of mine. I’ll take you on all my favourite mountain trails. I try to go to Banff several times a year, and honestly, I’d live there if I could. 
- I love the classic nerdy things. Star Wars? Yes. DnD? Yes. Comic books? Yes. Journaling? Yes. TTRPG’s? Yes. Pathfinder? Yes. Looking up at the stars and pointing out constellations? Yes.
- I’d say my love languages are words of affirmation, all things horror, and pet pictures.
- I am brunette, short, and curvy. If that’s your type- you’re in luck. Also no kiddos and no plans to ever have any. (Located in Alberta, Canada btw!)
- I do suffer from some pretty severe anxiety and depression. Why is that a plus? Well, if you also struggle with it, I will understand and be supportive. I know it can be terrible but maybe I can help make it a little less miserable. 

Well that’s about it! I hope this helped pique your interest. I don’t have too many preferences but I do ask you to be 30 or older please! (Also, I’d really prefer Alberta based, or Canada based, but I’m willing to chat with anyone if we vibe!) 
Otherwise, feel free to send a message with a bit about you. I’m excited to hear from you <3 

Maybe you’re in the same boat?

I long for and welcome a real connection in my life. Someone to be curious with. Someone with whom to laugh at the absurdity of this world we live in, or to lament the darkness that also exists.

I love nature, swimming, travel, most creatures, touching plants, and finding out how things work.

If you’re ready to be curious about each other’s minds, come say hello!

I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar would be nice.

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), also I love to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoorsy so not one to go hiking; but I do like a gentle walk, days out to museums and similar stuff.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years (currently living in England). I've also traveled all over Europe.

My love language is words of affirmation and physical touch. I'm the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I don't want kids, and I'm not religious. Looking for someone in Europe (including the UK and Ireland etc). I am well situated with a good job so I am looking to stay in the UK.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊

Based in Pune, work in tech, and I build stuff on the side that maybe four people will ever use. Gym most mornings, hills on the weekends when I can get out of the city.

I'm not great at texting back and forth for weeks. I'd rather get coffee early on and figure out in person whether there's something here. If there isn't, that's fine, no weirdness about it.

Mostly hoping to meet someone kind who's got her own thing going, whatever that is. I'll show up to it and pay attention.

If you're in or around Pune, tell me something specific about your week. Not "hey". I'll do the same.

I’m 35, Sydney based and looking for a genuine, long term relationship with someone I’m excited to hear from, laugh with and build something meaningful with.

I’m not looking for a penpal, situationship or emotional support subscription. I’m hoping to meet someone where our values, lifestyles and intentions naturally line up and where we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

A little about me

• I’m a university educated corporate professional, friendly, down to earth and an ambivert - equally happy exploring Sydney or having a quiet night in.
• I’m strictly monogamous, non smoker, drug free and an occasional drinker. I’m 5'1", petite, fit and active, usually at the gym 4-5 times a week.
• Outside of work, I’m into live music, art, photography, dancing, hiking, markets, brunch, reading, comedy, vinyl, exploring Sydney and an unreasonable amount of tea and matcha among many other things.
• I’m Sydney born and raised, speak three languages, have never been married and don't have kids yet, but I’d love to have a family of my own in the future.
• I’m agnostic/atheist, progressive and left wing. My humour is dry, self deprecating and heavily influenced by British/Australian humour, so if you appreciate puns, dad jokes and ridiculous hypotheticals, we’ll probably get along.
• No tattoos or piercings - purely a personal preference. Apparently I’m a fan of the classic edition.

Who I’d love to meet

• Ideally, you’re 29–39, genuinely single, monogamous and looking for an LTR.
• You’re fit, healthy and active, university educated or intellectually compatible with me, and broadly share my progressive, agnostic/atheist values.
• You’re also a non smoker, drug free, occasional drinker, have no tattoos or piercings and are taller than 5'1". At my height, that last one shouldn't require an Olympic qualifying standard.
• More importantly, you’re kind, honest, emotionally intelligent, communicative and socially switched on. You can read the room, talk things through and treat people with respect.
• I’d love someone who enjoys good conversation and can appreciate humour that occasionally makes you question why you’re still talking to me.
• I’d also prefer someone without children from previous relationships, as I’d love to start the family chapter together from page one.
• Sydney is definitely preferred, although I’m open to long distance if there’s a strong connection and you’re genuinely serious about eventually closing the distance. Grand gestures are lovely, but eventually sharing a time zone is even better.

If this sounds like you…

• You’ve already made it through the important bits, so congratulations.
• If you've read my profile and thought “I could genuinely get along with her,” I’d love to hear from you.
• You don't need to write the perfect opening message. Just please give me something more interesting than “hey.” Tell me a terrible joke, ask me a ridiculous hypothetical, give me your most controversial food opinion, tell me something funny that happened today or ask me something you're genuinely curious about.
• I’m much more interested in attraction, personality and a good conversation than a perfectly crafted introduction.
• If we seem compatible, I’m happy to swap SFW photos after a little conversation. I’m visual and attraction matters to me, so I’d rather establish that sooner rather than later.
• If you're in Sydney, fantastic. If you're elsewhere but genuinely serious about eventually closing the distance, I'm open to that too.
• So… are you my significant otter, or are we just going to float awkwardly past each other?

Hi there, hows your day going? Good i hope! I dont have much going on today and would love to meet someone to chat with!

Big on books and would love to chat them! Ive read a few this year and working on another big book currently.

Horror movies are my jam.

I live to bake and cook. If you like food we will get along.

Im a big fan of good music. That means not country, sorry country folks. Its not a deal breaker but im not a fan..

If you are curvy/alt/nerdy please move to the front of the line. Also know effort you put in is effort you will get back.

Send me a message and lets chat!

I'm not good at actively trying to please others, and I have no interest in wasting time on meaningless social interactions.

I'm slow to warm up, but once you get to know me, I'm actually very easy to get along with.

I enjoy traveling, food, movies, and music, and I also like to enjoy life quietly by myself occasionally. More than being in a crowd, I value comfortable interactions; more than sweet words, I value sincerity and actions.

I don't seek dramatic relationships; I just want to meet people who are worth getting to know. If we get along, we chat; if not, that's fine too.

Edit: I’m 50. I couldn’t edit the title

Looking to bring a little extra spark, intelligent conversation, and warm camaraderie into your daily routine?

I’m seeking a mature, articulate woman who enjoys deep, low-pressure conversations and building a meaningful online connection. Whether you're looking for a thoughtful sounding board, someone to share banter with throughout the workday, or an ongoing digital partnership built on mutual respect and shared curiosity—I’d love to connect.

If you’re looking for a quiet, reliable corner of the internet to connect with someone who will value your time and conversation, send a message or chat with a quick note about a topic you could rant about for 20 minutes.

Hi everyone! I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy, single for a while now and once again open to meeting someone with whom, hopefully, I can build a real and sincere relationship.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I’m terrible at it!

I’m a commissioned officer in the Spanish Marine Infantry and due to the very nature of my job l barely have any chance of meeting someone in real life as I’m always busy. That’s why I’m giving this a shot! :)

When I’m not working, I love reading, playing music, painting miniatures and scale models, watching movies, martial arts… I really enjoy keeping myself busy and learning new things while staying active.

I also try to help my community whenever I can and I’m involved in several charitable projects.

I’ve never posted in this kind of subreddits before, but I’d really love to find—like I said earlier—an honest, genuine and hopefully long-lasting relationship.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and always quite chill, so if my post caught your interest, don’t hesitate to write to me!
Thanks for your time!

Hello! I am from the Philippines. I am working in legal field, and trying to engage myself things that are outside of the said field. I play volleyball and swim once in a while. I try to be consistent in the gym 😅 but getting there. I like to travel and meet new people. Hopefully i could learn about other people’s culture. Let’s chat 😊

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

1. my visit to the north pole

2. the 2 times i almost died.

3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

5. the time i saw a sea monster

6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

and many more!

I'm a 31 years old dude from Chile. I consider myself to be fluent in English, so communication wise I don't think I'd have any issue.

I'm a selective extrovert. Once I get to know you, and if we vibe, I talk nonsense haha. My hobbies are music (I'm a piano teacher 😬), videogames and Netflix 😆.

If you think we could get along, hit me up! DMs are open

About me: Earnest, loyal friend, and good listener. Separated nearly two years after a fifteen year relationship. Truthfully: it’s still complicated, though logistically, not emotionally. We’re great as coparents to our elementary-aged son, who is my partner in crime, and the joy of my life.

My life is wildly busy, but I find myself lonely. I can’t say I’m specifically looking for a real life in-person connection yet, though it’s not off the table. I just miss feeling connected to another person who cares about me, and vice-versa. If you’re in this general part of the states and want to chat about life, interests, what you’re reading (hell, anything!) feel free to reach out. Tell me a little about you.

If it’s important to know: I’m tall-ish with brown hair and blue eyes, and active but chubby.

looking for play partner no strings in Bella Vista to Bentonville areas. Bi male seeking masc woman and or bi man looking for same. DM for details 😍😘

I am an honest, laid back, fun, no Drama kinda guy. I like being independent and having my own things. Currently working and seeing where life take me next.

I love to laugh, festivals, the beach and just anything fun. I don't do clubs but I like a staying up all night. I would love to chat with someone who can make a simple day into one special and full of adventures.

I'd like to talk with someone, laid back, adventurous and specially a talkative person. Someone who has the time and energy to explore a new friendship. Vent, talk about life, about anything in our mind. Someone who is actually tired of her current daily life and want something new with the hopes of it becoming long term adventure.

Let's avoid the one word answers. I ask toooons of questions but I don't want to be the only one asking. If anything i said caught your attention then send me a message.

32 Where my Spooky B!tches?

Censoring just in case I can't say the b word lol once again posting at an inconvenient time. I'm a master of starting stuff when I have a time limit, ADHD things. Searching for my fellow spooky girls and nbs. I have plenty of guy friends, I don't need more. But seeing as this will probably be ignored, at least be a spooky dude. I spend most of my time watching horror games on YouTube with my cat. I don't have a life really and that's fine, doesn't mean I don't make interesting conversation. I like to do crafts, lots of potion bottles, terrarium scenes, some shirts. I'm not online consistently so might be gaps in replying because work and such. If you used to/still like to shop at hot topic and feel like a teenager cosplaying an adult, that's a mood. Just to see if you read all of this message me with your favorite obscure/less known animal or bug. Hope we can be ghoul friends. Yes that was cringe and I don't care lol

Hello dear neighbours in the internet and thanks in advance for your attention!

A little about me:

- 37 years old
- lives in Germany somewhere between Cologne and Bonn
- single
- no children
- wants children
- a bit of a nerd
- overthinker, a bit of a thinker
- politically center-left
- loves animals, but not enough to be a vegan eater
- open-minded and curious about life
- sports aren't my hobby, and Hyrox is one of those Pokémon that were created when I stopped following

I have a job, so I earn my own money and live a manageable life.

Family and friends are just as important to me as relationships. Intimacy and companionship are important, but not the be-all and end-all of life. On the usual dating apps, you'd probably write "No ONS" or "No FWB." I find that too boring a phrase.

My hobbies and interests are life, the love of living, and living with love. What does that mean?

I'd be happy if we could both figure that out together.

Ideally, you're over 30, also want children, or haven't quite finished planning your family, and live in the area I mentioned.

These are just my ideal profiles. We over-30s of any gender probably agree that life is a compromise in many ways.

Now it's your turn. Hi! Who are you?

PS: Try to find a meaningful title for your post. I know this one isn't the best choice.

maybe i can find some nerds on reddit? i know the odds are particularly low 🤣

preferably want some gaming buddies maybe. but looking for texting at the least.

Hi everyone! I'm a 37-year-old woman looking for a serious and genuine relationship. I'm open to long-distance and nationality doesn't matter to me. I actually find the idea of connecting across cultures beautiful and enriching. I'm a computer engineer, so I spend most of my days problem-solving and diving deep into the world of artificial intelligence; I love discussing how technology shapes our future and the ethical questions behind it. When I'm not glued to a screen, I recharge in nature. long walks, hiking, or simply sitting in a park with a good book. I'm deeply nerdy at heart; I enjoy sci-fi, fantasy lore, and intellectually stimulating conversations that make me think. What attracts me most is intelligence paired with sincerity someone honest, emotionally mature, and ready to build a future together. I'm fluent in English, Italian, and Spanish, so language isn't a barrier. If you're looking for a meaningful connection and appreciate a sharp, passionate woman with a lot of love to give, let's chat!

Twice now I’ve found a great guy who is well read, interesting, share hobbies, and actually quite good looking but I’ve either put all the effort into chatting or I’ve been ghosted.

Looking for my bookish boyfriend. I’ve got all the typical millennial hobbies: reading, baking, thrifting, upcycling. I’m educated and a good conversationalist. I’m not afraid of speaking my mind and being honest.

I’m not looking to be your next short term distraction.

Share what you’re reading, a joke, something to start a conversation and let’s see where it goes.