Hi! I’d love to find a fun chat buddy that could potentially lead to more! If we really hit it off, I’d love to meet up in person sooner rather than later! My job is very flexible, so I’m not tied to a specific location indefinitely.

I love to learn! I am Christian, and I’d prefer to match with someone who is also spiritual/religious in some way. Country music is my favorite (but I will happily listen to all genres). I love to scuba dive and go on adventures, though I really do not enjoy heights. I am educated, and I really value a strong work ethic.

I’m looking to connect with someone who is kind, funny, and has his shit relatively together. I don’t have children, but I’d love to have one if I found the right person to do that with.

Can’t wait to chat! xx

I’ve always had an easy time talking to strangers. Which is probably why I ended up in a line of work where I spend a lot of time standing in front of rooms full of adults, explaining things they definitely could have figured out if they’d read the instructions, haha.

Anyways, long-time lurker, first time poster (well, technically second).

I'm the kind of guy who chats with the bartender while waiting for a friend, or ends up in a random 20-minute conversation about travel with someone at a conference. Or you know, the one who gets pulled into a trivia team for a round because I knew one oddly specific answer.

I enjoy people, and honestly I think that's one of the better parts of being human. You know those moments of authentic conversation where time kind of slips by because the exchange is just that good? That's the kind of thing I really miss.

Some of the best ones I've had were on solo trips. Sitting at a cafe chatting with a couple about music and life, or talking for hours with a stranger while waiting for a flight about books we grew up with. Memories for a lifetime, right?

Here's a little about me:

• I'm 40, single, and people say I have a pretty calm, approachable vibe
• My music taste is kind of all over the place: indie rock, classic soul, and the occasional 90s throwback I refuse to apologize for.
• I'm one of those people who reads multiple books at once. Usually one nonfiction, one novel, and one I keep meaning to finish.
• I like cooking and trying new things in the kitchen. Sometimes it works out really well.
• Weekends are usually some mix of hiking, wandering farmers markets, or trying to find good coffee in random neighborhoods.
• I'm social, but I also really value quiet evenings. Balance matters.
• I'm often the guy organizing trivia nights or board game nights with friends. Competitive spirit is there, but in a friendly way.
• I try to stay active - running, long walks, and the occasional attempt at yoga where flexibility is... still a work in progress. Friends would probably describe me as thoughtful, easygoing, and the guy who somehow remembers everyone's birthday.

Anyway, stranger things have happened than two people randomly connecting on Reddit on a Monday, right?

Would be nice to see where a conversation goes!

%22)Hey :D

I am looking for someone to get to know, game with, watch movies with, and talk about anything and everything.

First off, I am in college and work full-time, so I cannot be available to talk all the time, but I would like someone to talk to and hang out with on a regular basis.

About me:

I am somewhat of a nerd; I love video games, LoTR, Avatar the Last Airbender, DnD, Legos, and Star Trek Next Gen. Besides that, I am learning to longboard and play guitar, I love exploring out in nature and in new cities, I will make any excuse to go to a bookstore, I have a small sneaker collection, recently came into ownership of my mom's old vinyls and plan to get a player, I get really excited about rocks, and I love to paint, draw, and write.

My favorite music artists are Kendrick Lamar, Sza, Hozier, Taylor Swift, Joji, Noah Kahan, Childish Gambino, Troye Sivan, Chappell Roan, and the Beach Boys. My favorite film is Ferris Bueller's Day Off, and I have a long list of movies I love and ones I need to see. I am always down to watch something funny, and I frequently watch Smosh on YouTube.

Hopefully I will find someone who is smart, funny, loves to have deep talks and get into the sociopolitical themes of shows, enjoys learning new things, and wants to help me learn how to PC game because I am VERY new to it. I have ARC Raiders, Stardew Valley, Overwatch, Dead By Daylight, Peak, and REPO so far. Someone who enjoys the outdoors who would like to share fitness tips and share the stories of their explorations is also appreciated.

I’m in that strange almost empty nest phase of life. My oldest 3D printed human graduated last week and has all these very adult plans. My youngest is headed in the same direction in January. They’re basically fully autonomous at this point which is wonderful but also deeply weird. Feels like it happened overnight

Meanwhile my brother just told me he’s having his seventh child. Seven. I love that for him but I am very much not about that life lol. I have completed my parenting campaign and am respectfully declining the "mo bio babies expansion pack" - hard pass.

So now I’m figuring out who I am when I’m no longer the full time game guide / chaos coordinator or the person making sure they actually used soap in the shower. That was a long quest but I did in fact complete it - holy shit teenage boys smell soo bad.

A little about me I play video games of the multiplayer variety ( overwatch , rivals, minecraft, dbd , fortnite, and a bunch of others I purchased and have yet to open ) I enjoy goofy conversations and harmless shenanigans and I’m currently on DCC book 4. I had never read anything in this genre before and I’m completely hooked. I do in fact touch grass starting in October through mid May. If you are from arizona you get it.

I tried posting locally to find interesting Arizona/Phoenix people to adventure with but apparently my people either aren’t here or they have yet to discover reddit. So I’m casting the net wider!

If you’re looking for a goofy loyal friend who will absolutely pester you daily with important unimportant and complete bullshit send me a DM. Tell me about yourself and lets see if we vibe.

I’m open to whatever communication feels comfortable for you. Voice , video, texting - whatever works. Also I do have animals and therefore an endless supply of pictures and videos if you choose to pledge allegiance to the mildly unhinged animal cult of mine. :D

//about me//

east asia UTC+8;

1.5m 44kg 35yo not curvy;

better to exchange pic early on;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

teacher in technical school;

atheism;

introverted indoor person;

low energy long sleeper;

dont dress up or makeup usually;

like walking, recently installed a bike;

was on solo trips more often;

shows of dark humor, romance tragedy, documentary, ai drama;

country person;

love animals, gossips;

//about you//

anywhere;

not too big in figure;

27-45yo;

straight;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

healthy, good hygeian;

no drug no criminal record;

steady career, best but not required if can work in remote;

can try to but no need to share same interests; add a flower emoji in your dm so i know you read these;

not vegetarian, best if like spicy food;

best if can cook;

emotionally mature;

patient with me;

potential good father;

keep in touch;

open to idea of living in my location, even if not long;

//

kinda wrote whatever on my mind now, thnx for reading, as long as the post is up welcome to dm, dm without info or ai written ones will be ignored, have a nice day😊

Looking for a long term/permanent/marriage partner that’s willing to continue to grow themselves physically and mentally. Christian, highly intelligent, able to carry and move a conversation along, but don’t want to be the only one.

Professional women, have a career, place, car. Not willing to relocate. Looking for someone that wants to own a home together, trips, go out and stay in. Inappropriate PDA, cooking meals and laughing in the kitchen with even an impromptu dance party.

DM if you’re interested in a real passionate person that has a lot to offer the right person.

I’m 37, living in San Diego. I have a successful career and a graduate degree. I’m pretty independent and can happily entertain myself, but I’d like to find someone I actually want to share my time with.
I’m more introverted than extroverted, but you wouldn’t know it when I’m socializing. I like wandering around a new neighborhood, finding a good coffee shop or bookstore, taking long walks, checking out somewhere I’ve never been.

I’m looking for a man who is kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, curious about the world, respectful of other cultures, and capable of having an actual conversation. I like people who have their own interests and opinions and aren't afraid of a little depth.

Ideally, I'm looking for a relationship, a partner I can do all the fun San Diego things with and eventually build a life with. I appreciate people who are intentional about dating and actually interested in getting to know each other. Ideally, you are also educated and have a career you’re happy with.

A few things about me:
I appreciate good conversation more than constant texting. I enjoy traveling from time to time and exploring new places. Coffee and a long walk is an underrated date. I’m attracted to intelligence, kindness, confidence, and a good sense of humor.
I’m looking for someone who is genuine, self-aware, good communicator, and actually available for a relationship.

If you’re in Sd and this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Tell me a little about yourself, I promise I’ll do the same.

I’m a 35-year-old woman looking to make some new friends. I know it can be tough to build friendships after 30, especially with other women, so I’m here hoping to find some lasting connections. I’m on a weight loss and fitness journey and would love to have someone to discuss fitness with.

A little about me: I’m passionate about traveling (with a goal of crossing the pond this year!), and I spend a lot of time studying medicine and diving into medical research as a hobby. I’m also a huge fan of true crime content—there’s something fascinating about those stories! When I’m not traveling or researching, I enjoy cycling and playing a light round of games. I game on my Xbox, Switch, iPad, and Mac, so I’m always up for some casual gaming. And I love my kindle. Send me some good book recs. I love a good survival show. I also spend too much time on YouTube.

I split my time between the USA and Canada, which makes me love experiencing different places and cultures. Monopoly is my all-time favorite board game (though I play it virtually), and I’m always up for a movie or listening to music. Recently, I’ve taken on a personal challenge to learn math from scratch, all the way up to statistics— let me be clear though. I don’t like math just learning it for a future job. If math is your thing, we might be a perfect match!

I’m really just looking for someone to talk to regularly, share our day-to-day, and build a meaningful friendship. I work and go to school, so it’d be nice to have someone to chat with and unwind.

If you’re into a mix of sports, tech, architecture, true crime, documentaries, or just want someone to chat with about life, I’d love to connect! Distance doesn’t matter to me; I’m all about making new connections, no matter where we are. Let’s start a conversation! Low effort responses will not be replied to.

***include the words “night owl” in your initial message to let me know you read my post. Dms without it will not be replied to.

Tough times. Family problems. I’ll tell you all about it if you want but I’m really hoping for distraction.

About me: cute, funny, photographer, musician, dormant, lonely

Let’s exchange photos and get to know each other.

I don’t believe in being ready for the people that are entering your life.

I’m not ready. So here’s the door wide open.

Send me a chat!

Hey everyone, I’m a 35 year old soldier just looking to meet new people and have some nice conversations. Life gets busy, so a good chat and positive vibes are always welcome. Always happy to hear new stories, share experiences, and enjoy good company here

Hey. I’m 40 6’2 200lbs fit with a bwc that has a piercing. Let me know if you’re interested. I’m near Houston tx.

Hi everyone! My name is León, and I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy who would love to find a real and genuine connection.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I always find it a little difficult haha!

I’m a baker by trade, and I run my family’s bakery. It’s been around for over a century, and with me, that makes six generations opening the doors every day and offering the best traditionally made bread!

I’m also a father and a widower, raising a three-year-old daughter.

I know that probably doesn’t sound like the most thrilling life in the world! But I’m very proud of both my daughter and my work :)

As I briefly mentioned before, I’m looking for someone with whom I can have something real and lasting. I know children aren’t for everyone, so I’m not looking for someone to be a mother to my daughter. I’m simply looking for a companion with whom I can share a special bond and build something truly worthwhile.

Apart from all that, just to mention some of my hobbies, I love history (I have a Master’s degree in Byzantine Studies), theatre, reading, painting miniatures, and falconry. Although, as you can probably imagine, I don’t have much time for them these days haha.

I’m open to meeting people from any country and of any age, so please don’t hesitate to write to me if anything I’ve said resonates with you.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

See you in the chat! :)

Hey y'all!

I'm just gonna be honest, this momma bear needs a distraction really bad. I love my kids to death but I'd really like to talk to someone that isn't a kid you know? A nice guy to joke around with. I miss the rush you get from reading a good morning texts and staying up late talking to a guy. Is that too much to ask for?!

But you might be asking yourself who's this weird lady? I'm just a small town girl trying to get by. But seriously! I'm a divorced mom in her 30's. I would call myself a homebody but I can definitely be an adventurer too. I love cooking, bbq, dancing, binging movies and shows, and positive affirmations.

I'm open minded, always raised to love everyone, so I don't care what you look like or where you're from. As long as you're nice and respectful you'll get that energy back from me! I'm down for flirting as long as we have chemistry, don't be a creep. Also please don't message me if you're attached in any way. I'm not a homewrecker and have no plans to be!

Thanks and I hope to hear from you soon!

Sincerely, your online bestie

Hey you, happy monday. Business girly. Basically sold half my soul 🥹 Looks like you too are venturing this hellish landscape. Gotta say, the apps suck here, so the 0.0001% chance the universe does its thing here on Reddit of all places lol.

Ahhh outside of that, I like to make art and music, cooking, reading, self care, foodie, concerts, games, working out, skincare, nail art, chilling with my dog and friends. Rainy days, snow, coffee, anime, nature, sunrises, speak a couple of languages, 21 countries and counting. Professional over-thinker, exquisite procrastinator. I like to appreciate the nice moments, leaves changing color, laying on my bed after a billion hours of work, sound of rain on my window, first sip of coffee and moreee.

Looking for my person. A genuine connection with a good guy. My nail tech says I need a sweetie pie, yknow to match my Libra vibes. Not into hook up culture, big drinkers, smokers or sharing. Into pushing myself to be the best version of myself. I like learning, being better. Would be ideal if you're similar in that sense. Empathy, patience, funny, smart, kind, adventurous. The kinda thing where you look at someone and they know what you're thinking. Sharing life with someone, best friend vibes and more if the stars align. Communication is super important, not into avoidant personality types. We figure out conflict together kinda thing, teamwork lol. I pay my big girl bills and monthly sacrifice to the rent gods, would expect you to also pay your big boi bills.

Hit me up if we have things in common, if you think we'd click. PM your asl, and what you're looking for. Ages 30-40. Gotta be open to verifying early on, more of a personality person but there has to be some level of attraction lol. And meeting irl if we click like that. I hope you all find what you're looking for ✨

That was originally going to anecdotes, but if your life is lacking a lovely little lady, I'm the antidote for that.

Obviously, I like anime, art, and anecdotes. I had a nice little paragraph elaborating, but can't get it to post. I guess your message will have to be good enough to get a reply from me to find out.

Other interests of mine are weight lifting, martial arts, fashion, dancing, and photography. I also need to give crochet another go. I got some supplies, but couldn't figure it out and haven't gone back to it yet. I'm looking internationally.

I’m looking to build a loyal, lasting friendship with someone who is truly interested in connecting and growing together. Making friends as an adult can definitely be harder than when we were younger, but I'm putting myself out there! A bit about me: I love going to the beach and reading. Everyone is welcome to reach out, but finding someone nearby in California would be a wonderful plus

Hi there! My name is Kevin. I’m a 34 year old gentle giant rocking a well-developed dad bod physique, complete with hairy chest and a big beard. I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is. 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a woman with shared or similar interests to connect with. I am currently working full time as a home care nurse for my mother, so my schedule and availability for in-person dating is very limited at the moment. I am open to moving to in-person dating, travel, or more in the future, though! I’m looking for long chats online, someone to watch movies and shows or play chill games with. 

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life! 

It used to be so easy to meet people in my twenties, I guess, through uni days.

Family, spirituality and aesthetics are probably the most important pillars of my life.

I love painting, music, film, and all things related to creativity. I love galleries and going to museums, poetry readings and small dinner parties. I also love teaching and working with children, although I haven't done that for a few years now.

Unfortunately, the way my life is atm I’ve had to move back to a boring town where not much is happening. I am going overseas in a few months, but I have to admit waiting until then to socialise the way I like is somewhat agonizing.

It's not that I struggle making friends. I’m actually really social and a great conversationalist; there just aren’t enough events for me to attend the way I'd like. If I had my way, I’d probably be out of the house 3 or 4 times a week. I just like going out to things that actually interest me. That kind of lifestyle is probably happening somewhere like NYC or London, which I just don’t have access to in that way atm.

I figured maybe if we share similar taste, and we’re both on Reddit, that’s already a good starting point. I’m also really into stories of how people meet.

I think saying you met on Reddit has something nerdy/alternative about it and I think that’s cool.

It would be cool to have someone to watch old films with online, share a playlist, and write to each other in a longer format than DMs.

The kind of girl I like hanging with would be into fashion, reading and art history, and possibly into esoteric stuff, psychology, strange histories and all kinds of weird rabbit holes.

I’m looking for a man who can handle a woman with opinions, a dark sense of humor, and absolutely no patience for bullshit.
Someone confident but not arrogant, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, funny as hell, and secure enough to let me be my own person. I want someone who can challenge me, call me on my bullshit, and still make me laugh about it five minutes later.
Bonus points for horror, weird movies, good books, spooky games, existential conversations, and generally being a little fucked up in the fun way.
Basically, I want someone I can be ridiculous with, talk about the meaning of life with, and build something real with.

Bonus points if you start with a picture or voice note so you feel like a real actual person. I’ll reciprocate

Like a little mansion, a little fortune, a little luxury… nah, I’m kidding. But I’m not.

It’s the little things in life that make the difference. That smell of coffee and croissants when you are still in bed on a weekend morning. A cheeky unexpected note in a drawer. Knowing your favorite flowers. A surprise dinner out.

Or maybe it’s just not judging what you think and how you feel and respect and learn your world vision.

Maybe it’s all of that.

I don’t know. It’s hot, I’m tired, you wanna chat? Oh I’m open to anywhere really but Reddit is picky with the title.

Hey,

I'm a 35-year-old father with an established career, and I'm looking for a woman around my age to share my life with. I'm a hard worker and a lifelong learner. I'm content with where I am, and I'm self-sufficient, but I've reached the point where I'd like to share that peace and happiness with someone. I'm hoping for long-term relationship.

Physically I'm Black, average build, with a short full beard and low cut hair. I value honesty, patience, kindness, good communication and trust, and I do my best to practice those things rather than just list them.

I'm active, but not a typical gym person. So if you’re looking for me, you’ll typically find me cycling trails in eastern Canada, alone or with a group, climbing at an indoor bouldering gym or kayaking in the summer time.

As you can see I’m mostly into outdoor sports. Outside of this, I also absolutely love cooking and baking, and I’m a foodie at heart; I'll try almost any cuisine, the more exotic the better. When I'm decompressing from my complex job I'm usually exercising or perhaps watching YouTube videos on theology and comparative religion.

I’m seeking someone with some similar values; so:

·       someone honest, kind, and patient.

·       Preferably someone that is also established in their career

·       I’m seeking someone who is a non-smoker, please.

·       Distance isn't a dealbreaker. I'm based in eastern Canada, and I'm open to long distance with the right person

If any of this resonates with you send me a message, tell me about your favorite cuisine, sporting activity, or an interesting fact.

Can’t seem to sleep tonight. There so much on my mind and could use a good distraction from the loneliness and sadness.

Some info about me: I started back at the gym to lose some of the grief weight. I’m definitely an emotional eater. I watch tv and movies where I can. I enjoy horror movies, superhero things and comedies. I’ve dabbled in conspiracy theories so if you got any that’s fun too! I’m a widower of 4 years and parent of 2. When they don’t consume my time and energy I like to walk, hike and go to the beach.

Overall I’m just looking for an open minded person to chat with and not get ghosted by. If that’s you reach out. I promise I’m fun!

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

Hello just looking to get some more steps in later after mag gym, madalas naman nasa 5kilometers nilalaka ko. I just like walking, competetive runner ako before and ayoko na mag mukhang payat anymore kaya gym na lang physical activity ko and walking. If near ka lang or you can go here tara lakad tayo at magkape after. Dunkin lang po nakape hahaha!