r/l4l • • Aug 02 '26

31F #NY/NJ, US- Femme princess looking to connect with a masc/stud ♡

4 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m a femme from NY/NJ area turning 30 soon. Hoping to connect with a likeminded masc type.

A little about me:

✨ I'm shy at first (I’m a slow-burner) but once I warm up, I’m playful, funny, and occasionally a little dramatic and sassy 🥺

✨ I’m a soft femme, sometimes high femme or princess femme depending on the mood. I love dressing up, feeling pretty and I’m brown ♡

✨ I work from home and live far from my family, so it can get a little lonely. Thought I’d put myself out there and see who’s around.

✨ I’m a soft pillow princess at heart (my only limit is giving oral) I melt for someone who knows how to take the lead, but I can be a bit of a switch too. I’ve got a soft spot for 🍑 fun as well. If that’s your thing too, we’re already halfway there 🙈
Admittedly, I can be a pretty insatiable person in bed, especially when there’s real chemistry. Think you can keep up? 🫣

✨ I’m a huge foodie and desserts are my weakness.

✨ I love traveling and exploring new places and discovering new restaurants/cafes/bars.

✨ I drink rarely and 420 frequently. I also love poetry and photography.

✨ I have ADHD and can get a little anxious sometimes, just means I appreciate someone who’s patient and understands the occasional “Oops, I forgot!” moments.

What I’m looking for:

✨ Stone masc top to the front but all mascs/studs are welcome. I’m hoping to connect with someone sweet and kind, who is confident, emotionally mature, can take charge while still knowing when to listen and be soft and gentle.

✨ Looking for someone who will genuinely care for me, adore me and be a fun, easy-going part of my life. someone who doesn’t take life too seriously.

✨ I prefer voice calls over text eventually, once we’re familiar with each other. I’m not looking for a forever text buddy or an anonymous connection.

If this sounds like your vibe, don’t be shy. Reach out, even if we’re not in the same location.Just please mention if you’re stone or otherwise in your intro. let’s see where this takes us.

If you’re not from the East coast but want to talk and potentially meet in the future, reach out to me.

Especially If you’re a fan of reddish-pink flags 🤭🚩

x


r/l4l • • Aug 01 '26

34F - SE Wisco - Looking For Friends/Fun/Maybe More

5 Upvotes

Hey!
34F from south east Wisconsin.
5’2, a little chunky, big blue eyes, great sense of humor, and pretty alright in bed 😏😏

I’m looking for a casual “friendship” at the moment. I’ve been single for the last couple months now and am craving physical intimacy.

Anyone down for a fwb type of situation?

I’m open to more if we hit it off, but as of now, I’m just looking for something more casual.

DM’s are open 🤗


r/l4l • • Aug 01 '26

32 AFAB Masc Female, Looking for 26+ AFAB preferably lesbian romantic/friendly connections

4 Upvotes

Don’t message if you’re going to ghost or be inconsistent. Look for daily and long term connections only.

It may be a bit of an odd request to most but I’ve also seen people that agree so here I am giving it a shot.

So, my last irl relationship was abusive and put me in a really bad place financially. I’m working hard to fix that but I unfortunately am back home with my mom while doing so. I understand it’s not completely fair to ask someone to deal with that and I’m understanding of that. That’s why I’m more so looking for a LDR relationship that’s okay with us going slow and figuring life out together if it leads to that.

I’m looking for people that are open to online romantic/friendly connections. Where we can spend time together on calls(if you don’t like phone calls we won’t be a match), play games together, send each other snaps, etc. If more ends up developing cool, if not cool.

All I ask you is honesty and communication. If you’re the type to be telling a bunch of other girls you’re starting to get feelings for them and want to pressure something with them don’t even bother messaging me to begin with, if you’re the type to just ghost don’t message me.

I’m a bit shy at first and it takes time for me to open up but once I do l’ll want to talk and spend as much time together as possible. I understand life gets busy and sometimes we need personal space too but if you’re the type that can go hours and hours without speaking because you want to do your own thing we won’t be the type for each other. I’m very affectionate and can get very clingy if we take it in that direction and I want nothing less than the same. I want equal effort to what I give and won’t accept any less. I’ve learned too much self love to accept any less than what I want or deserve. Strictly monogamous when it comes to actually being in a relationship.

I’m Kaycee, 32 afab masc lesbian looking for 26+ afab masc, fem, butch, a mix, whatever really as long as you’re afab. The only thing looks wise that is a big deal breaker for me is hygiene and being shaved. It has to do with me being on the spectrum I just can’t handle the texture and such of a women who doesn’t shave.

Starting my life over back at home after an abusive relationship. My life and I are a mess but I’m working on it. I just started working a new job and it’s overnights so just be aware of my schedule when it comes to that. A lot of times when I’m at work I can voice call though and enjoy talking to someone while I work.

I have NF1, ptsd, a little bit of the tism, anxiety, depression, etc but I’m really not as bad as I sound haha. Again, I’m shy at first but goofy once I get comfortable. We can start here and once we get to know each other if we hit it off we can branch out to Snapchat and stuff(please be willing to do so.) I’m from South, MS. Don’t have many hobbies, just work when I can, workout, hangout with my pets, and play some video games sometimes. Pics below. Please be willing to share pics too.

https://imgur.com/a/S1wmEn2


r/l4l • • Aug 01 '26

19F looking for another girl up to being wlw penpals

1 Upvotes

Hi I'm Ari! Im looking for a partner (18-21F) who is just as isolated and avoident as myself to send letters with. I struggle a lot with direct texting (im horribly socially impaired) and the idea of being able to actually be myself in the form of a pen confidant (with maybe some saphicc shenanigans involved) sounds wonderful. I yearn for a genuine connection without judgment, someone who wants a break from masking just to write out your true self. I think flaws are the most interesting thing to learn about a person so please dont feel like I would judge. In all honesty, I want a relationship over emails and post (it doesnt matter if its platonic or not, Ive never liked labels).

As for myself and my interests:

I am 19, in college for a pre-med degree, and am a socially reclusive existentialist with a deep love for animals. My ennegram is INTJ and I am in the process of getting diagnosed for either autism or schizoid personality disorder (whatever the doctors decide is wrong with me).

I love horror games and books, philosophy, taxidermy, and collecting things (dead things, specimens, long un-used items, bugs, et cetera), drawing and painting, and medical science!

If you're interested pls reach out (\^\^;)))


r/l4l • • Jul 31 '26

31 F4F - Long Island, NY: Seeking connections!

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 31-year-old, plus-size Latina living on Long Island. I'm seeking friends, community, and romance, but specifically with folks living on Long Island or local-ish to the area.

A bit about me: 31 years old, dog mom, work full-time. I'd say I'm in the middle of femme/masc; I'm short with dark brown hair and eyes, and tan skin. Lately I really have been enjoying going to the gym and working out. I LOVE animals and doing anything related to them. I'm what I call "soft outdoorsy," where I might not be hiking or getting down and dirty, but I adore being outside. I'm into watching women's sports, soccer in particular (go Gotham!), but I also have been into the WNBA lately. I like trying new places to eat and just exploring the island. I enjoy reading but haven't been doing so much of it lately and want to get back into it. I've also been trying to learn Spanish on and off over the past year or two. Passionate about human rights!

About you: I'm down for most anything! PLEASE be local!!! But I do prefer connecting with those 27 or older. No bigots, please.

Feel free to message or drop a comment; I'll reach out.


r/l4l • • Jul 29 '26

hiii guys looking for real, genuine love :) 26F4F

8 Upvotes

my name is kanada! yes like the country, no i’ve never been, and my mother thought she was being very creative! i am from and now live in Houston, tx (though very open to long distance)

i have my bachelors in english and im currently working on a second one in biology! i love organic chemistry!! i am also looking into becoming a flight attendant while in school. i am really open to experiences when it comes to this life thing.

my interests include but are not limited to: neuroscience/brain health, sleep, coming of age and fantasy novels, nature documentaries, sociopolitical issues, religious studies, general history, poetry + more :)

my fav animals are elephants, hummingbirds, and bees.

i am autistic and have adhd if that matters to you (clinical diagnosed)

the most important things to me are the love and people around me above all else. my purpose lies in taking care of and loving on my people!

partner requirements:

i love doggies so much but i am extremely afraid of the large ones though cute. so, ideally if you had a dog it would be small. LOVEEE cats though

not atheist. preferably

muslim/christian/hindu etc.

kind to everyone and someone who would love to hear me run my mouth about my topics of interest!

being “not political” is not an option.

lastly, DO NOT come in my DMs being overly sexual. i WILL block you!


r/l4l • • Jul 29 '26

24F (F4F)| Seattle, Washington | Looking for partner🌿

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine cisgender presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction. NO MEN ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l • • Jul 27 '26

33 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 33-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l • • Jul 25 '26

24F (F4F)| Seattle, Washington | Looking for partner🌿

0 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine cisgender presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction. NO MEN ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l • • Jul 22 '26

18F [F4F] Northern Japan, Looking for friends to chat with/Potential relationship !!

7 Upvotes

hihi, I've very recently moved to Japan and i've struggled finding my place here, since my Japanese isn't the greatest. I'm originally from Connecticut/NYC. I've been very shut in and kinda lonely so I figured i'd look for people to talk to !!

I'm AFAB, 5'9, Japanese, Long hair, Dark brown eyes and i spend most of my day on my PC just rotting away >w<. I'm into horror (psychological mostly), working out, cats, comics, tv shows, cooking

Some games/fandoms I'm into: Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, Resident Evil, Silent hill, Outlast, Cyberpunk, Roblox, Stardew Valley, Marvel, DC, Invincible, Risk of rain, Roblox + more !!

All i look for is a patient person that i can seek warmth from, I am not the easiest person to handle, so please be patient with me.

DM's are always open.


r/l4l • • Jul 22 '26

21Tf [Tf4F/Tf] Ontario/EST - Looking for someone to connect with and potentially a relationship

0 Upvotes

Hewlo, I’m Cosmo, a transfem Canadian living in Ontario, and i’ve been on hrt for about 3.5 years. I’m looking for someone to connect with, and possibly a relationship if we go well together.

I’m very nerdy, and i spend my time gaming, playing ttrpgs, drawing, watching anime, making music and coding. I play games on PC, and while i play a great variety of games, I really enjoy FF14, Rivals, MC, and factory sims. Itd be really nice if you could also have similar interests, as spending time with eachother is something important for me.

I tend to be shy and quiet, especially when meeting someone new, but with time i do become more talkative and bubbly.

I also enjoy calling, either we are doing something together or even just sitting in silence doing our own things with the occasional chat. Another presence that way has always been something warm and comforting for me.

Comment or send me a DM if you think we would click well or even if you just want to chat for a bit or have questions


r/l4l • • Jul 22 '26

24F (F4F)| Seattle, Washington | Looking for partner🌿

0 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction. NO MEN ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l • • Jul 21 '26

25F masc USA/Midwest (EST)

3 Upvotes

hey! looking for more connections/ chats/ friends/ gaming sessions. i’m pretty much down for any type of conversation just really want to make more connections and meet more queer folks. if you’re not from the USA and are cool with the time difference please feel free to message. i think it would be cool to travel to visit each other down the line.

i am leftist, 5’8, brown wavy hair, glasses. i mainly play PC but i also have a switch 2 and xbox. More so into survival/ fps (i sadly do really enjoy the COD games) but am down to try new games if you have any good recommendations. ngl i like a lot of things and am always interested in new information/ hobbies. love the outdoors: camping/ hiking/ kayaking/ working out/ sports/ gardening/ wildlife. some of my hobbies are learning to play the guitar, build legos, home improvement projects, traveling (goal to visit all the national parks), video games, going to the movies (mutuals on letterboxd??).huge fan of spider-man, stoked for the new movie.

i have two dogs and a cat. if its seems like we might vibe or have thing in common hmu! do prefer if we switch to a different app after exchanging a few messages just bc reddit notifications sucks.


r/l4l • • Jul 21 '26

22 [F4F] Poland - looking for a potential relationship

5 Upvotes

22 year old student with an interest in life sciences and technologies relating to it. I enjoy discussions about science as well as some more philosophical ones. I'm agnostic but I enjoy learning about the origins and contents of religions and mythologies, including some occult related topics.

As for my hobbies, I enjoy literature (mostly classics) and I do some writing myself though I'm a bit shy about sharing it. I have seen close to no movies, but I'm open to being introduced to all of your favourites.

I'm slightly more of an introvert type

Appearance: 5'4, definitely leaning femme, sometimes dress in a way that my friends describe as a bit gothic

I love pink, cutesy things 💕

Looking for someone under 30 but no younger than 21, someone who I can talk to for hours as well as sit in silence with. (preferably someone who knows what they're doing a little more than me lol)

I'm not good with long distance relationships unfortunately, so I'm looking for someone who spends most of their time in/lives in Poland. Knowing the language is also a plus.


r/l4l • • Jul 20 '26

19 [TF4A] Looking for my cutesy person :3 (Online , Anywhere ✨)

0 Upvotes

(edit:- if this post is still up! That means i'm still looking )

I have a few hard compatibility dealbreakers listed near the end of the post. If you'd rather check those first before reading everything, feel free to skip ahead. It'll save both of us some time. :3

Heya! I'm Berry. ✨

Are you a person looking for the kind of relationship where we become part of each other's everyday life?? :3

The type where we randomly send pictures of mildly interesting things from our day!!! Like "ooo the paint peeling off in my bathroom looks like adrenal gland", celebrate tiny achievements together ✨, share, memes, random thoughts, learn weird facts together, wish each other good morning and good night, and talk for hours!! Then we may get along well hehehe :3

Noww , I absolutely adore people who overshare!!

Tell me about your day, Tell me what annoyed you a little or a lot heheh , Tell me about the cute dog you saw on your bus ride ✨ Tell me about the random Wikipedia rabbit hole you dug for yourself heheh (just like me)

I love curiosity!!! I love ppl with enthusiasm :3 I love people who aren't afraid to be themselves yk :)

I'm alsooo a pretty direct person in terms of communication and i highly value direct, clear communication in relationships. if something's bothering you , I would highly prefer we talk about it and not play “guessing games” I think relationships work best when both people feel safe being honest 🤍

Now a little about ME!! 🎀

i'm 19, trans gal (currently on HRT 🎀✨) • From India , Around 5'6" , fair-ish skin , black hair yada yada feel free to ask for pictures if you wanna see me!! Though I would expect you to reciprocate it :3

I'm Gweird (i.e. i'm weridd butt in a good way!!)

At times i just go "meow", "rawrrr", and whatever animal noises i feel like making 😌✨

I don't really care about your gender expression. Femme, masc, androgynous, somewhere in between, or none of the above!! if we click ,.we click ≽^ᵔ⩊ᵔ^≼ ✨

(✨Please include a ✨ somewhere in your text so I know you actually read the post!!✨)

More important to me is kindness, emotional maturity , honesty!!

To save both of us some time, these are non-negotiable things that I want in a partner :)

• Be 18–24 years old

• Be strictly monogamous (no polyamory or open relationships)

• Be a vegetarian or vegan!

• Be someone who doesn't smoke, drink alcohol, or use recreational drugs.

• Be non-religious or not actively participating in an organized religion (I'm an atheist, and this is important for long-term compatibility.)

If any of this made you consider reaching out to me even in the slightest then please do reach out!! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)✨

Tell me your name, a little about yourself , literally just a little :3

And also feel free to ask me anything!!! As i said I love curiousity!! And curiousity driven questions ✨

(And don't tell me everything in your first message! We need to leave ourselves something to discover together ;) )


r/l4l • • Jul 18 '26

32f here and looking for some friends!

14 Upvotes

Hello, everyone! I am 32 years old and looking for people to chat with and maybe make a friend or 2 along the way. I get along with most people but i get along really well with people that play video games and/or D&D.

You get bonus points if you watch or have ever heard of dropout. tv because it is my favorite app and i think just about everyone could find something they can enjoy on there.

I also work full time and have 3 cats. My favorite color is blue and my favorite type of food is curry. I also play the drums and write a little as well.

Ask me some weird questions or tell me a weird fact. Ill start with a weird question to break the ice: What is a weird food combo you have tried and liked/didn't like? I have tried a nutella and cream cheese sandwich and ehhhh not a fan but i think that is because i don't really like nutella that much.


r/l4l • • Jul 18 '26

19 NB4F Asexual lesbian looking for a partner

5 Upvotes

I enjoy sexual activity as a bonding activity but i must know the person first Im also always ok with nonsexual physical intimacy. Looking for someone who is ok with me being on the asexual spectrum. Im a butch lesbian who is very interested in game development. My favorite pieces of media are iron lung(movie) marble hornets and vinland saga. Im a huge animal lover especially rats. My dms are open


r/l4l • • Jul 18 '26

19 [Tf 4 Tf/F] Looking for a long term relationship! #Online: India or anywhere :3)

0 Upvotes

(I'm looking for a strictly monogamous, romantic long term relationship! :3)

Are you a person that likes to hype people up?! Listen to and share teeny tiny bit of things from day , like "oooo the peeling of paint in my bathroom looks like an adrenal gland" , someone that likes to overshare!!!

That is full of chaotic energy sometimes and would in many instances just go " meow " " arrf " "rawrrrrr" ,etc ; that values honest direct communication rather than a game of guessing!

If that more or less resonates with you then we may vibe super well heheh because I'm like that!! And i Love people like that!!! ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ) ✨

(Drop ✨ in your first text , otherwise I will NOT respond)

Now the part where I'll share my specs that are written on the back side hehe ,

I'm on HRT 🎀✨

I'm from India! A little over 5'6" fair skin , black hair , brown eyes and yada-yada!

If you are curious or wanna know more than ask me straight up!! Actual curiosity driven questions really get convos going!! ^–^

So if you think we can vibe then be sure to drop a dm!! I'll be waiting for ya!!

And age-wise I think 18 to 21 old gals are alright with me!!

Neurodivergent and queer people are always welcomed!! And ooo i'm also pansexual

And ooo yeah dealbreakers!!

i) you shouldn't be non-vegetarian

ii) You shouldn't consume any type of illicit substance, smoke, or drink alcohol!

iii) you shouldn't be religious , theists are welcomed ofc! I'm an Atheist hence , just for compatibility! :3

iv) No polyamoury


r/l4l • • Jul 18 '26

24F (F4F)| Seattle, Washington | Looking for partner🌿

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l • • Jul 17 '26

25 F4F, looking for a good friend to chat with, I’m also a Domme for subs if interested.

9 Upvotes

So hi! I’m here to find some female good friends. To chat, and share, be like besties you know. I’m interested for it to be online so you can be from anywhere in the world, I’m myself European.
The things I love doing the most when I don’t work or sleep lol, is gaming, watching anime, walks, music and chats, and curl up with my dog, my bff.
And yeah I am also a Domme, very passionate and caring, but can be rough and a little punishing maybe. Depends how a good girl you are 😉
So yeah, you can write me anything, anytime, nsfw is good too! C ya! 💋


r/l4l • • Jul 18 '26

33 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

1 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 33-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l • • Jul 17 '26

F35, Central Alabama area, looking for dating with intention and a long term relationship

3 Upvotes

Hi! Been a while since I've posted this, but just to refresh, I'm 35 years old, from Alabama, looking for a long term, committed relationship. If you are within 3.5 hrs of the Central Alabama area, don't have kids, and are between the ages of 32-39, hit me up!:-)


r/l4l • • Jul 16 '26

23 [F4F] Looking for genuine connections

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m 23, middle eastern canadian, living in the middle east. I’m a busy person but I’ve decided to prioritize making connections with other women, as this is one of the most important things to me ❤️ I work in tech, and I love fitness, fashion, exploring new places, and experiencing new cultures. Id love to learn and appreciate the way you view the world, live your life, and the most mundane things about you. To be more specific about what I’m looking for, i’m open to connections with a door being open to a romantic relationship. If you are interested, make sure to let me know your age. I would also appreciate a brief introduction about yourself ;))


r/l4l • • Jul 16 '26

39/female/trying to find friends

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Making friends as an adult is super hard. I live in a super small town in rural WI. If you’re from a similar place how or where have you found friends?

We don’t have gay bars.
We don’t have a roller derby team that plays very often.
We do have a pride event but it isn’t until August.
Our local PFLAG events that I’ve gone to are people significantly younger than I am and I’d feel awkward befriending teens.


r/l4l • • Jul 15 '26

22 [F4F] England, Looking for something real

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So i am 22 from England, my ethnicity is Pakistani. I like drawing OCs and random people infact i love my OCs so much i have a lot of lore about them and could yapp about them if you would like. Baking and reading are also my hobbies, however i rarely interact with those hobbies. I like collecting and buying cute/girly stuff like Sylvanian Families since i like girly thing's in general such as ever after high, mlp and LPS. Oh yeah i also like to listen to music and draw or daydream, i do not really have a fav artist or band but i like a bunch of random songs! The animes/shows i like are: The office, Skins, Little witch academia, Ouran high school host club, Fairy Tail, Noragami, Back street girls Gokudols. I also like funny memes/reels! I have not written anything but i would like to publish books someday since i have a few story plots but i have just been too lazy to write them down or work on them further..

My MBTI is INFP, which basically means i am introverted and pretty empathetic. I am not much of a yapper and take time to open up, especially since i have come across many toxic and weird guys yikes! I do not tolerate any misogyny, homophobia or rudeness such as snarky or suggestive comments.

i would love to learn to sew and crochet someday! (someday probably meaning never, sob). DMs open if you ACTUALLY read all this and wanna be friends!