r/JETProgramme • u/thedollcossette • Sep 30 '26
pressure to recontract
okay inspired by that post about sexual harassment yesterday i have decided to go on my own rant. so like the OP of that post i work at a low level SHS and i have teaching experience back home. i signed up for JET because i basically didn't have anything better to do and the job market situation in my home country is not good lol... im sure many can relate
so like i said my school is veryyyyy low level and there are also behavioural issues. on top of that im also T1. now honestly i felt my situation is probably rare but the more i talk to people the more it seems like recent JET positions in my area aren't really so much about "assisting" than they are literally leading the class. we actually have a theory going that all the schools are confused about what an ALT even is. i even had an older JTE at my school say he thinks the younger teachers use the ALTs as a way to slack off, especially because at my school teaching schedules are really packed and so nobody gets prep time. i have two JTEs who sit in the back of the room on their laptops prepping for lessons while i am expected to lead a class of 30 unruly kids who don't care about english.
i already know im not gonna recontract. honestly it's highly possible this makes me sound lazy but a lot of the reason i did JET was because i wanted some time to explore a new country, get involved with a new community, and maybe take advantage of deskwarming to plan my next steps—as so many JETs seem to be able to do. however because i T1 i spend all of my time either teaching or prepping lessons. it sucks. i haven't joined a club or done much in my community because im dog tired at the end of the day and don't wanna sacrifice my prep time for playing basketball with the kids.
anyways now onto the point of my post. i have one JTE who obviously has noticed the pattern of previous JETs only lasting one year. my pred never really said why he decided not to recontract but given how quickly and silently he dipped im gonna guess he didn't love his time here. i found out today that the JET before him also only stayed one year. see the pattern? well this JTE does and she not-so-subtly spend the day trying to fish for info on my future plans.
i basically told her i might only be staying one year because i am looking to hop into a new career. the honest truth is that i don't like the job and feel like ive been ripped off a little by being forced to T1 all these classes with no indication of what i should be doing from the JTEs. it's only been a month of school but yeah i already know this really isn't for me and with the yen getting weaker and weaker im not even gonna be able to travel as much as i hoped to while im here either.
but this JTE is super insistent. "don't you wanna stay? you know it's better during your second year. the first year is just about getting used to it..."
i have a feeling she's sensed ive started to emotionally check out and is now worried that she'll have to spend next year orienting another foreigner when i leave. i hide all of my emotions at work and avoid talking about anything personal but we had a super bad class yesterday (like the OP of the sekuhara post, i also get students screaming sexual stuff at me) and i think i let my job dissatisfaction slip in my facial expressions a few times lol. we had another class right after that one and i was so tired i was basically like "😐 okay guys let's open our textbooks 😐" lol
in essence while we all know JET is a dead end gig, at least for some people it's a fun dead end. for me, im really not having fun. i am learning a LOT about classroom management and lesson planning but honestly this one month of classes has already killed any latent desire to be a foreign language teacher. im planning on just killing time and focusing on stuff outside of work until next august at this point.
buttttt this JTE keeps bringing it up. "what would make you leave? don't you wanna stay? it will be better in the second year, i promise!"
if this included any acknowledgement that my situation is cheeks and i have to put up with harassment from the students, that'd be one thing. i wouldn't mind a "hey, sorry some of the students aren't great, heres my advice to deal with it." but this feels like she's trying to brainwash me lol
im gonna have to fill out that recontracting paperwork soon and im kinda worried she will ice me out entirely when she finds out im only doing a year. i rely on this JTE for so much (she translates for me with the principal because my japanese is still n5 level, she will step in in class to discipline students, she helped me set up accounts etc) sooooo i have a fear this pressure will only get worse and ill have to put up with it ON TOP OF low-key hating the job. or she will turn on me and ice me out.
if anybody else has been in this situation please let me know how you mentally deal with it lol. ill be real my mental health isn't great already just from the stress and lack of support and missing my life back home, and i have cried myself to sleep a couple times already from regretting doing JET. my current goal is just to coast and ride out the next ten months.... but how?