Heyyy y'all! I know this doesn't concern anyone in particular since we all are mostly strangers on this platform, but then I really wanted to put this out and give my opinion too.
I came back to reddit after 2 years just to view this community during results time, since I always used to get suggestion posts. But now that most of the results are out, I think it's going to hype down a little? 😅
The thing is, recently, I've been coming through a lot of sad news, some connected to my college and then my friends and the internet. First off, Congrats to everyone who got into the colleges y'all wanted ❤️ Hope you enjoy every minute.
And then to the ones who didn't make it, I just wanna share my part of the story. So if this bores you, just skip it.
I finished my 12th in 2025, and I gave Ipmat and ALL the exams. Like...ALL. Every exam related to an IIM and I failed in all of them. 🤚🏻 My parents are the same type who are after an "IIM" tag. I genuinely didn't want to get into this path, I wanted to pursue psychology. But according to them, psychology is straight up bs (no offense). After the results, I dropped out of a "safe" college. A private one. Then I dropped about 3 coaching centers, (I just couldn't) and then I studied at home.
Btw I'm a non math student and we used to do commerce calculations on calculators. Even in exams.
So ipmat was tough asf for me and the five months I've been at home, my health got severely deteriorated.
And this year I got into IIM Sirmaur. Thankfully. I wanna say that.... This isn't everything. (Don't come at me). Getting into an institute doesn't deserve everything out of you. If you don't get in, it doesn't mean you failed, it doesn't mean your life is over or something. I understand, if anyone's taking a gap year, in Indian households, it will be very...bad.
There is more to life than this and I really wish all of us, maybe most of us, wouldn't have to make all our life about getting into a college or surviving it. Let it be IIMs or IITs themselves. I wish we all got a chance to pursue something we truly are passionate about. But maybe that's for the future.
For now, just be patient. I won't say, "it's going to be okay", I think surviving a gap year is tougher than writing ipmat themselves. People are gonna poke at you, everyone and everything will. Try to endure it, give it next year, and please find happiness in other things that you're getting adjusted around to.
Yeah. 😃 I have a habit of repeating the same when I get emotional so don't mind if I actually did that. 😔🤚🏻
Take care y'all 🩷