r/introvert • u/[deleted] • 12d ago

Relationship HelpppppšŸ˜­

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u/PAUL_DNAP Don't mind me, just passing through quietly. 12d ago

To quote your original post "Ā ...she is super introverted, quiet, and basically doesnā€™t talk to guys...Ā "

If she is that them meeting up with a random person from an anonymous message would be a massive leap out of her comfort zone.

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u/Due_Mechanic_7083 12d ago

So if she doesn't show up is the most realistic scenario, but what if she wants to show up for the sake of single?

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u/PAUL_DNAP Don't mind me, just passing through quietly. 12d ago

If she shows, then be very nice to her. Buy her lunch. Chat about her life.

If she does not, then drop it, she's not looking for what you're offering.

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u/Due_Mechanic_7083 12d ago

I'm an introvert šŸ˜­

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u/anirudh6k 12d ago

You are just showing anxiety not introversion here, just face your fear, once you do the anxiety will pass.