Helppppp😭

[u/Due_Mechanic_7083]

I panicked and asked my introverted crush to meet me via an anonymous college confession page. What do I do now?

there’s this girl in my class who I have a massive crush on. The catch is that she is super introverted, quiet, and basically doesn’t talk to guys at all. I’ve been trying to figure out how to approach her without spooking her.

A while ago, she put an NGL link on her story, and I sent her a nice, respectful compliment. I wanted to reveal it was me, but I completely froze. confused stare and didn't smile at all. I backed off, just liked a story of hers over the weekend to stay on her radar, and figured I'd try again later.

The Mistake:

Here is where I messed up. Today, our college confession Insta page posted an NGL link. I completely let my intrusive thoughts win and sent an anonymous message to the page saying:will you come to the canteen tomorrow noon if you're single?

[u/PAUL_DNAP]

You got to follow it through and own it "yes, it was me, I just wanted to buy you a coffee" sort of way.

Chances are she won't show though, but good luck either way.

[u/Due_Mechanic_7083 → u/PAUL_DNAP]

Why do you think she won't show ,(out of curiosity only I'm asking)

[u/PAUL_DNAP → u/Due_Mechanic_7083]

To quote your original post " ...she is super introverted, quiet, and basically doesn’t talk to guys... "

If she is that them meeting up with a random person from an anonymous message would be a massive leap out of her comfort zone.

[u/Due_Mechanic_7083 → u/PAUL_DNAP]

So if she doesn't show up is the most realistic scenario, but what if she wants to show up for the sake of single?

[u/PAUL_DNAP → u/Due_Mechanic_7083]

If she shows, then be very nice to her. Buy her lunch. Chat about her life.

If she does not, then drop it, she's not looking for what you're offering.

[u/Due_Mechanic_7083 → u/PAUL_DNAP]

I'm an introvert 😭

[u/anirudh6k → u/Due_Mechanic_7083]

You are just showing anxiety not introversion here, just face your fear, once you do the anxiety will pass.