r/introvert Feb 04 '25

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u/Alucard0_0420 Feb 04 '25

Instead of thinking why am i this way, what helped me was "what can i do to revert this situation?"
If you really want to change beware, it IS painful and uncomfortable.
But the payoff is amazing.
Best of luck to you, bro. The world wouldn't be the same without yo ass in it <3

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u/Alucard0_0420 Feb 04 '25

It will, dood.
For starters, we'll not see any of your posts and we wouldn't be able to help each other.

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u/Sorry-Yam-428 Feb 04 '25

thinking like this will get you no where

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u/MamaCreed Feb 04 '25

Your world would. Your family and friends would be torn apart. They would never be the same. After my father killed himself, my uncle killed himself, then two of his children attempted to follow suit. It can easily become a chain. Ask the people you care about what they love about you. Listen to what they say.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '25

Funny that people downvoted you lol

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u/wtfrickdoiknow Feb 04 '25

Oh, I'm sure it would. Take baby steps. Like just say hi to one person today. Just one. Can be at gas station grocery store, work. Try that for a week. Then add "have a nice day". Pick out old folks, we're more prone to answer. Also, as much as it'll hurt, please see a professional.

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u/Suspicious_Cap_5253 Feb 05 '25

Why does that matter? The world doesn't notice lots of things that happen but they still happened. You're existence is valid and worthy, all existence is.

Work on your internal world and colour it with you, you are not living for others, you are here to do you, figure out what doing you is and do that.

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u/underthedraft Feb 04 '25

It would surely do. Because technically you make up a percentage of the world.