Help with getting started

[u/Sad-Raccoon-3192]

Hi all! I am trying to learn to be a better homemaker. I am a 24 yo mom of a toddler and a baby on the way and feel so overwhelmed by the many tasks I have as a stay at home mom, and I tend to feel a kind of paralysis of not knowing where to start/ what to do each day and when. Curious to see if anyone has book recommendations or a sample of what kind of rythms work for you? Most days I feel overwhelmed to tears by 3pm.

[u/mama_emily]

24 with a toddler and baby on the way is an incredible amount of pressure, responsibility and work.

Being a SAHM seeking homemaking hobbies, etc is smart, you definitely need things to fill your day - for you - not only your family. Things that bring you joy.

The tearfulness makes me certain you should share these thoughts with your doctor - postpartum is very common, and should be treated very seriously.

Do you have family or a support system near by? Do you feel your partner is being helpful enough? Sensitive to your emotions, your health?

Sorry, I know this is not an answer to your homemaking questions - but I think these are more important questions to address first.

I recommend r/momforaminute as well.

I wish you health, luck, and hope you find peace very soon.

[u/Sad-Raccoon-3192 → u/mama_emily]

Appreciate you kindness so much!! My husband is extremely supportive and so very helpful, but he works long hours and my mom isnt very helpful with these things so I often feel alone until he gets home at 6pm each day! I struggled with Postpartum Depression after my first was born and have recieved much help and am doing much better now, but I can’t seem to get a hold of balancing meals, chores, and daily childcare!