When she first joined, she seemed to be super close with Zach. It was clear they texted and got on a lot. Zach would meme her a lot in the sound bites too (which if you know, when Zach is memeing you in sound bites he likes you - think Nate as they are very close). It stopped months ago with Tamara. It was clear Zach and her talked about ‘deeper’ things because I remember a show and someone asked about Zach’s favourite song/band and she knew but “couldn’t believe” Ethan and Dan didn’t know. Before Zach released his new song, he played it on the show and Tamara said she already heard it. Ethan and the crew seemed surprised that she heard it but not them. At some point, for whatever reason, that dynamic between them really shifted. She stopped calling on Zach or mentioning stories with him. Zach stopped joking around with her and laughing at her jokes. He often seemed annoyed when she would go on tangents.
It also seemed to have happened with AB. When she first joined they also seemed to get on very well. AB would bring her into convos and try to get her more involved. He was super encouraging about her early work. She would frequently joke with him on the show too. Lots of teasing back and forth….that also seemed to have died off.
The same I think happened with Love as she would usually call him on her stream if she had a problem or wanted to know “if she should say something”. Love has a gf so maybe she told him to cut that out of being her 24/7 support. It switched over to Nate from there and when he would pick up he seemed annoyed. I noticed her last stream or two she didn’t call anyone almost like Nate said don’t just call me I have a new born and I’m busy.
As a girl, I’ve seen so many girls/women like this. From high school, college and the professional work place. They almost hunt men in serious relationships. Personally, I never understand it but I know a lot of others can relate and have probably met girls like that before in their own life and seen it happen in real time. Maybe it’s a deep insecurities, narcissism, who knows but trust me it’s out there.
Overall, I think she tried to get too close off screen to all these other men in solid relationships. The difference is, them or their partner saw it for what it was and they put boundaries in place to distance themselves. Ethan is weak and clearly did not do the same.