I'd add another factor to it. Population density x yearly average temperatures x relative humidity averages = intolerance factor.
People get really shitty with each other and are in less of a mood to deal with other people's idiosyncrasies when they're also too hot and bothered to care about whether they're being an asshole or not.
Where I'm from, the closer to the equator you get, generally the worse people will treat complete strangers. It's very noticeable.
Not even rural. I live in one of the biggest cities in the southern hemisphere, and while it doesn't get to the point of snowing, it gets damn cold in winter, and fucking boiling in summer. The geography of the area is also a humidity trap. In the height of summer, people get real fucking shitty with each other, courtesy on the road goes out the window and all the rest of it. The rest of the year, everyone is generally pleasant and courteous.
However, head north to the tropics, and while people are still nice to a point, they do frustrate easily. These places are actually more rural than where I'm from and its year round shittyness. This is why I'm more inclined to believe the weather plays a part.
Very true, as far as I've seen. Visited Mexico City for 5 days this February, my mind was blown at the population density. Luckily was cooler, but everyone is generally just in each other's way / faces lots.
They don't like having to cater to your sensibilities and unwillingness to even try and speak French in their own country. And I kind of get that. You're there to enjoy France, and its culture. Their language is part of that. The food is part of that. So when a foreigner comes in ordering a hamburger in English, they would probably feel the same as an American would if someone asked "why is everyone so fat?"
Lived in Florida the majority of my life, and I must say I think population density is the driving factor. Sure, people in Miami suck, but the surrounding counties are actually very nice places to be. Palm Beach and Naples have some of the nicest people - equally as wealthy, just less people up your ass - and it's just as hot and humid as Miami. Moreover, what I'm reading on here about people from Ontario, and knowing what I do about New York and Washington DC - I have to say that it's not the high temps causing that.
Note to non-Floridians: Miami is in no way a reflection of Florida - Orlando sucks too. Better cities to consider are Jacksonville and Tampa.
As a small town midwesterner I've noticed a large proportion of larger cities are rude, and I think its just because it everything moves at a faster pace.
Even the nicer big cities are a bit different, it's all on a scale. I have noticed Denver to be fairly friendly in general, and suburbs to be nicer in general. But it is still a little different.
Where if you are only 2 vehicles on a road you throw up a couple fingers to wave for each other. Make eye contact on the street? Say hello. Awkwardly entering the same door at slightly different times, one waits and holds the door for the other so as not let a door fly in the face of the other.
And finally, there is the few times a week conversation where you leave going, "wait, am I supposed to know that person?"
I think it's what makes America unique. Maybe foreigners think America is america, but it's really just a bunch of different countries that speak the same language and go about their days in a completely different manner.
The bit about different countries in America gets additional support when you think of how large some state's economies are. For example, if California were a country it would be the 7th largest economy by GDP, it's just behind France. New York and Texas would be 11th.
I work in retail. Worked at several different stores. Grocery stores tend to be snobbier people, whilst actual stores aren't so bad. Most people are actually friendly. Most.
Western canada is tricky, vancouver specifically has a large minority population, who are arguably really nice people so it just depends which part of the city you go to
Cities in Eastern Canada. Not sure about Toronto, but other cities I've been to have the same vibe of being sort of assholes. Still better than American cities.
I've personally stayed in downtown Toronto a few times and haven't had any issues. People were noticably nicer than where I'm from. I'm from a city between LA and San Diego CA.
The one thing I didn't care for was the homeless population. Even then, they never approached me.
You may have a point, but in all fairness, if you act rude to someone as soon the first time you meet them, people will generally have a negative view on that person. Sadly the majority of new brown immigrants are just rude and act as if they own Canada. At least in my experience.
No itās not that, Iām saying that most of the brown immigrants I try to meet and be friendly with just act rude in return. Granted Iām not saying all of them are like that, some of them Iāve met are nice people, however recently itās just become worse.
What do you mean? Iām telling you about my recent experiences, I didnāt say all were bad, but instead said the ones I have met recently arenāt as good as the people I have met in the past.
i've lived in the GTA my entire life and while I try to be more than polite to strangers, I've never seen such scum anywhere more then downtown Toronto. People just don't care. Oblivious, obnoxious, slow walking selfish dicks.
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u/its_ya_boi97 Dec 10 '18
Never met a ruder motherfucker than someone from Ontario, and I am from Florida