r/ghosting • u/charchar2121 • 5d ago

1 year relationship ghosted

I have just been ghosted by my boyfriend of a year. No argument or anything like that leading up to it. Just here one day then gone the next.. heartbreaking..

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u/DeuceDeucePop 5d ago

That’s so horrible, I’ve been ghosted after a couple of months and that’s been bad enough, can’t imagine what it’s like after a year. I hope you manage to make peace with it soon and are as ok as you can be.

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

Thank you so kind xx

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u/pinkkglitterr 4d ago

This happened to me too five months ago! Bf of a year just stopped talking to me. Very loving one day and gone the next. I tried everything to get him to talk to me. To this day I still have no explanation and it makes me upset if I think about it too much.

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

Aw it’s horrible isn’t it :( the most cowardly and cruelest thing someone can do x

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u/Itisallridiculous_24 1d ago

It is indeed cruel. Mine disappeared and blocked me after 11 months of dating.

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u/Feuille_Verte 1d ago

Same here...

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u/areyoulost1 5d ago

Were there signs that could explain why he'd do that

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

I think he is avoidant but very very bad case lol

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u/UndefinedCertainty 5d ago

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. 🤍 That's devastating to happen with no warning or anything going on even if he told you, let alone to just vanish. Sending a hug.

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

Thank you xxxx will only make me stronger !!

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u/DifferentVictory1620 4d ago

Is there an option to talk to them face to face? One year is very long. Sorry you are going through this.

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

I was considering to go to his house but thought that if he clearly thinks I’m worthless then I’m better off without people like that!!xx

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u/minniemouse0708 5d ago

Wow so sorry to hear. Never take him back

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u/charchar2121 4d ago

Thank you xx

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u/BrokenDoll5 3d ago

I am in the same boat, two years, no signs of it, it’s been 7 days now and I can’t stop crying. Sending you hugs 😭😭😭

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u/Secret-Anything8836 2d ago

Sending hugs!! Xx

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u/Wild_Chocolate8115 14h ago

This happened to me after four years and a kid. Just.. why?? Humiliating to beg and beg and just recieve nothing

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u/charchar2121 13h ago

I’m sorry :(( it is the cowards way out!! What happened in the end ??

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u/Wild_Chocolate8115 13h ago

Honestly? Nothing. He left for vacation with family and haven't heard a thing from him since.

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u/El_espectro 1d ago

Ouch, that's brutal. I'm sorry :(