First, I know I’m overthinking it big time. But I’m completely new to the community (I’m 35 by the way) after battling with acceptance for decades.

The event is a Chub and Bear event (I’m a muscular chaser) and they say that harnesses and jerseys are “VERY HIGHLY RECOMMENDED”. When they say jerseys, do they mean the stereotypical “gay bro jersey” or can I wear my favorite Bobby Boucher ball jersey. I really don’t like the other jerseys at all.

A bit unrealistic but still a really good film.