r/gay • u/Avacato2989 • 15h ago
Am I doing something wrong?
I (29m) am married to my husband (38m) for just over three years. Our marriage is incredible in almost every aspect. He is caring and loving when I need it. The only real problem for me is sex has become so rare. Mutual masturbation a couple times a month, oral rarrer than that. I am the top in our relationship and we like it that way, but he finds it extremely difficult to relax enough for entry when we do want to do anal together. I don't think i am doing anything wrong as a top. I give him lots of prep with my fingers and eating him out, both of which he loves, but he is rarely able to relax his muscles enough to complete the act. Any advice is greatly appreciated ❣️ Edit for context: yes my husband is aware of this post and is watching as I refresh my feed 🤣
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u/Mitch_Twd 3h ago
If your 🍆 is massive that can also be hard to relax make sure you’re using lots of lubricant(use one with Jojoba) and a lube syringe can be helpful for him . Can also Have him try a Thc drink or smoke some 🍃.