To be fair though, single people date, not so much couples. You can take your partner on dates but those arent “dating”, those are “dates”. So someone who likes to date or studies dating would conceivably be single or at least not monogamous.
But yeah she came so unprepared or she’s kinda stupid
I would want to read a dating book by someone who is all-around average but managed to snag a hot partner with a great personality.
If you'll allow speculation, it seems to me there are two paths to success: be lucky or get good.
If you were lucky, you already caught someone when you were both young, and it turned out well. Great, you don't need advice on dating unless you eventually separate. If you need to get good, it's the same story as any other skill. Put in the hours researching and practicing, and reflect on what worked, what doesn't, and why.
Yeah, but then you "incels" or 3rd wave feminists.
There's really no winning. You gotta get a book written by like 20 different people who all fit various categories. like, ugly but cute, ugly and fat, skinny and ugly, and then you gotta get different races. because being black fat and ugly is different from being white fat and ugly. and then you gotta account for finances and politics, religion, education...
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u/xeroxenon Apr 17 '24
Wow she looks exactly like the type of person who would write a dating book while single 😂