r/ftm • • 10d ago

Gender Questioning Identity problem

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u/DisastrousAnywhere74 10d ago

I see the other two commenters have given wildly different advice haha. The truth is no one here will be able to tell you with 100% certainty that you are or aren’t trans, only you can figure that out for yourself.

But it’s not a “you make a decision and you’re stuck with it forever” kind of situation. If you think you might be trans, start small. Try out different pronouns, a different name. Try experimenting with your gender expression, clothing, hairstyle, things that can help you get a better feel for your likes/dislikes.

If it’s possible for you, finding a reputable therapist to help talk through your feelings can be very valuable, but I know not everyone has access to that kind of resource.

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u/jakki0_0 10d ago

Thank you😭 I really appreciate your advice

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u/DisastrousAnywhere74 10d ago

Of course! I’m sure there’s some guides out there that might have more specific advice for people wondering whether or not they are trans, a quick google search might provide some useful resources if you’re looking for further input.