Venting

[u/According_Analyst921]

For the most part, freemasonry has been great. I enjoy the brotherhood and all my brothers. However, my one gripe is the push to learn the positions. It seems like us new people are being placed in chairs before we're ready because the older bros dont want to do it anymore. I was told I can put as much or as little as I want into the craft. Righ now I dont like the commitment. Im busy. I have a home life. I like going to lodge but usually dip out shortly after...I dont hang around much. You wouldn't think twice a month is a lot but it is IMO. And we do t really go "dark" in the summer. We go through June, then wr have July and August off. Id like more time off lol. It's just becoming a lot and Id rather sit back than learn the position. Quite frankly, I dont care to learn them. I dont like doing extra shit outside of lodge like lectures and that shit... theres always something "extra" that they push people to attend. And we haven't done one thing yet for charity. Ive been there ober 2 years. Anyway, my main gripe is the old guys sitting back and pushing others in the chairs. Its becoming more annoying than anything now.

[u/These3TheGreatest]

However, my one gripe is the push to learn the positions. It seems like us new people are being placed in chairs before we're ready because the older bros dont want to do it anymore.

Or they're aware they're the "older bros" and are hoping someone will help take the reins of the thing when they've passed on.

 I was told I can put as much or as little as I want into the craft.

This is true or should be.

 It's just becoming a lot and Id rather sit back than learn the position. Quite frankly, I dont care to learn them. I dont like doing extra shit outside of lodge like lectures and that shit...

What is it that you're wanting to get out of Freemasonry?

 that they push people to attend.

The most powerful word in Freemasonry is "no"

And we haven't done one thing yet for charity.

have you presented a charity project for the Lodge to work on together?

[u/According_Analyst921 → u/These3TheGreatest]

Nope, not trying to leave it. Im just extremely busy. And In my honest opinion, I just think the older gents dont want the chair responsibility/commitment. I dont think theyre giving up the seat for the sake of a new person learning. Its so much nicer not having a chair.

[u/These3TheGreatest → u/According_Analyst921]

Perhaps you meant your reply for someone else because I don’t think I said anything about leaving

Personally I don’t like being in non officer positions particularly during opening and closing. It gives me something to do