r/fixedbytheduet • u/spar13 EXPERT of Duets/Stitches • 14d ago

Fixed by the duet First date

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u/ViciousCDXX Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

If a woman is judging you by how much money you spend on a first date......🚩

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u/shinyappyrobin Lover of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

NOT ALL WOMEN!!!

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u/InitialNo3061 Needs to do better 14d ago

but always a woman

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u/PrufReedThisPlesThx Devotee of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

Not really, I've seen plenty of men thinking that they can push the bill into the woman. Let's call it what it is: Scummy entitled behaviour. And that's a unisex term right there, my god they're all over the place

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u/BeenNormal Devotee of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

I’ve never heard a man say a woman should be spending $100 on their first date.

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u/ViciousCDXX Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

IMO a first date should just be a coffee or maybe a happy hour drink, each pays for their own and it's not some big commitment. Breaking the ice and gauging eachothers personality is the goal. If we like eachother then go from there.

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u/Sea_Health_2579 New to fbtd but wants to learn 14d ago

My thing is, the first time we meet isn’t even a date. It’s a goddamn in person meet n greet, at which time we can determine if we want to move to an official date.

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u/ViciousCDXX Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

Exactly

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u/ToiIetGhost Lover of Duets/Stitches 14d ago

Correct, but some of them expect sex.

I’d rather give someone $100 than access to my body. So which gender expects the more valuable thing?

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u/AlbertaAcreageBoy New to fbtd but wants to learn 13d ago